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2023.06.07 01:46 junkjarcs How can I stop thinking that money isn't everything?

Hello everyone,
I don't know if I should tell my story because I will get alot of down votes for sure as everyone will think either I'm paid to say this or lying or etc...
well to keep my story short First I'm posting from anonymous reddit account
I was doing online gambling as it was huge promoted on twitch before it gets banned, I won money "The casinos do that to get you hooked" in the beginning then lost that money and lost more money with it over time
Then after 1 year of leaving gambling I ran into a post here on reddit And Yes the post is way too old but I'm very experienced also on so many stuff like multi accounting etc.. and not to leave traces I was able to do a scheme which led me to win around 70k$ In 1 Year, and I was able to double that money gambling "Not from the first time I gambled many times and was losing then doing the scheme again to go up then go gamble again and losing and so on 4 times doing the same mistake"
I remember when I ran up to 140k$ I had no goals at all like I wanted more money but for what I don't know, till I started gambling and stopped being lazy to keep doing the scheme as my brain shut down so many stuff and the scheme takes alot of steps/patience/self control many stuff but doing that for a year has destroyed my brain for multiple of stuff I became compulsive and not controlling myself anymore and I wanted to keep gambling, even though if I tried to do the same scheme again I just do it and risk and end up losing.
I lost most of the profit with time I tried to stop myself so many times but I couldn't I relapsed many times, and of course I didn't work for 6 months because I took that scheme as a way to make a living "biggest mistake of my life" I work as a freelancer so that is a huge issue.
I attended GA online meetings came clear to my family and talked to many friends after losing most of the profit almost all of it yes left with a very low amount of the profit that makes the time spent is means you didn't win anything. GA Meetings and my friends and family helped alot because the addiction is so hard to quit.
My problem isn't gambling anymore I mean yes it is I'm still trying to recover but my question is about another thing, my problem in the past I used to open bloomberg website and look at the top 500 billionaires "I'm not rich and not from a rich family" and I always dreamed to be there of course gambling never a way to do it to there I know I was stupid enough to join gambling in the first place even if I knew a way to make money from it but i ended up doing it for a very long time which made me addicted and losing control of doing what I'm doing and gambling "imagine doing a scheme involve gambling for 1 year trying to control yourself daily you will know what i mean"
I look now to the to billionaires and I remember years ago I always have positive thoughts I always searched about business and even spent more hours to work daily some days 20 hours a day yes. but now when I look at the top billionaires It is so much negative feeling wen I'm at the bottom now and I'm 30 Years old and keep thinking about the money that I blew away.
I know all of these are the side effects of gambling I would never want to go back to there again, gambling controlled me even I remember when I was up money I was never happy, I was happy for a moment but when I spent a very long time thinking about it, It never made me happy, I had less money before gambling saved and I was so much happy,
My biggest problem is I always think money is EVERYTHING and I need someone to convince me it isn't I have enough money to make me live but I don't know why I'm a greedy person like my brain doesn't even convert my thoughts and tell me why shouldn't you be a millionaire first before becoming a billionaire and I'm like nope I wanna be a billionaire which leads to an ego problems with myself and then keep saying money is everything
Has anyone ever been in the same situation like ever?
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2023.06.07 01:45 horriblethinker How would you handle a boss who doesn't understand your work issues?

I accepted this position as an assistant auditor for my state 3 months ago. Lots of things need to be remembered and you have to be able to work on your own without asking a lot of questions. I thought I'd do okay but I feel like I'm failing. Let me explain why. It might be long but I need to explain why I have an issue.
Twelve years ago I had brain surgery. Two large parts were removed and it took away nearly everything I had learned. I had short and long term memory issues, speech, mobility, sensory issues. I was granted disability and was told by doctors I'd never be able to work or live alone again. I saw that as a challenge.
Fast forward eight years. I went to college starting in the lowest levels of classes. Elementary algebra, pre- English. I had only taken accounting because someone told me I would never be able to do it. I graduated with my MBA last August. I had worked for 3 years in Accounts Payable and it just didn't challenge me enough. I had always wanted to do Auditing so when the position opened up I jumped in and landed it. I was told 5 minutes after my interview that I was hired. I was excited. It's been twelve years since my surgery and I'm proud at where I am in life.
It's been 3 months and I've been trying hard but there is a lot to remember and research. I was told that it would take at least a year for me to be able to do much without needing help so it's expected to have questions. I just ask too many. There are 2 people who explain things to me and they are nice and I get it. My main person to help me is not great at explaining and I just get more confused.
When I get confused, my brain does not work well. That's when I start struggling with memory and say the wrong things. I can't think very well and I fail. And then I hear from my manager, "I've already told you this 2 or 3 times! I don't know what else to do with you."
Those are just words but I'm hearing this with every conversation now and my anxiety is through the roof making things worse. She's a nice person but not good at explaining things. I'm supposed to ask her when she's available before asking anyone else, so I can't just skip her. I understand I'm the one struggling in this situation but I'm doing well when the others help me. I don't want to quit but I'm about there. I know I will like this when I can figure out how to handle this situation without saying the wrong thing.
What would you do? Should I just give up? There is a lot to remember and I still struggle in that area. Nothing is ever the same in Auditing so nothing is ever the same. I really like doing the work when I learn it.
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2023.06.07 01:45 jvlianwashere How was Tsukasa able to make an army?

I just finished season 1 episode 17. I was wondering how Tsukasa was able to resurrect so many people. Didn’t Senku say the only reason he was able to be revived was because he was thinking the whole time? So is everyone else who was able to be revived also thinking the whole time?
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2023.06.07 01:45 Meowski1 For the folks struggling to eat

Hello folks,
Before starting medication, I was overweight and I was in the process of losing weight. I was seeing my dietitian and she suggested mindful eating instead of overwhelming myself with calorie counting.
Fast forward 8 weeks or so, I am struggling to eat. For example today, all I could handle was a few pork dumplings, a chicken omelette & a large banana. According to my fitness pal it’s not enough calories, but as always please be kind to yourself. If that’s all you can manage, that’s all you can manage.
So for the folks struggling to eat, I highly suggest being calorie dense. So nuts, fruit & nut mixes, avocados, nut butters, bananas, apples - berries are good but mix them with something, otherwise it’s overwhelming to think how many berries you need to consume to get 200kcal in, or dry fruit. Full fat yogurts or dairy stuff is very good to have too.
Calorie dense helps to sustain whatever weight you are at. Of course include protein, I know people suggest lean protein, but juicy fatty protein is also helpful in moderation, more flavour too.
Smoothies, protein shakes, juices are all great if you don’t feel like chewing.
An odd cookie, chocolate bar etc is fine as well, gotta get them calories in.
Being calorie dense means you can eat smaller portions and still absorb the nutrients you need to keep yourself going.
Please look after yourself, be kind to yourself and don’t beat yourself up for not eating enough.
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2023.06.07 01:45 NoCookieForYouu Do you have to understand the story as someone new to diablo?

Please don´t post any spoilers in the comments. I´m only at act 1 but .. man I got so many questions.
I try to keep this as spoiler free as possible but .. what the hell is going on? like.. Who is Inarius? And ok, I roughly understood who Lilith is, but Rathma is introduced and while I have no clue who that guy is except Lilith says in a cutscene "Its my child" .. I look up Rathmas wiki cause I really want to know the story behind it and its fucking Lilith and Inarius child? Like .. isn´t that the angle dude I meet casually in some ruins who didn´t give a fuck that Lilith was awaken? That´s like a star wars "I´m your daddy" plot twist and I have the feeling it fully gets lost. Grabs the key and.. why does she even want to open hell? like isn´t there Inarius captured or does she want to free him cause their lovers?
Ok.. so.. the game does not really throw information at you or context or am I missing something big time? Are there any ingame books or things I have to follow or read to understand how that story happened?
I´m literally only in act 1 so please no major story spoilers in case everything is coming together but man .. I´m so confused. I´m so absolutely confused and hopefully *prays* its coming together somehow. Just tell me if
Vigor my man gets murdered .. gives me an item for Neyrelle and when I give it to her she is like "yeah, was a good guy, anyway lets move on" .. bro.. guy died in some sort of modern Iron maiden robot helping me to defeat.. who ever that boss was.
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2023.06.07 01:44 oklove869 I regret having sex with my dad

I regret having sex with my dad
I regret having sex with my dad...
I had sex with my dad for years and regret it.
Okay so it sounds disgusting how could you do something like that but remember I was the child he was the adult...
So I had a normal childhood I have brothers but ìm the only girl. Growing up I was a daddies girl my dad was and is my hero. I loved this man so much I grew up in a normal household mum and dad and being the only girl I was spoiled had my own bedroom while my brothers were cramped in one bedroom. I was my daddies princess. Looking back i had a idealic childhood I was happy content I can't find any red flags and my dad never perved on me or did anything sexual which makes this all the more confusing...
My mum and dad had a loving relationship but when I became a teenager they started to fight a lot and I mean a lot my dad would get kicked out of his marital bed and end up sleeping in my ròom as their was no space in the boys bedroom he got kicked out so much he ended up putting a bed in my room... my mum fed up tried to kick my dad out the house but I wasn't having it told her if he leaves I'm leaving with him. My mum then said I'm going to my parents if u love your dad so much stay with him im taking the boys I was like fine I'm staying and when she left thats when it started.
I was now home alone with my dad everyday he would pick me up from school everyday at night we'd watch films and cuddle some weekends we'd go movies or restaurants I'm a a daddies girl and I was having a blast then one night he was tickling me and I ended up sitting on his lap and I felt something hard I'm so naive I didn't understand at the time but my dad started kissing me and it wasn't a normal kiss I love my dad so I kissed him right back then he started taking my clothes of and sucking on my tits I was so turned on
He was my first sexual experience he turned me on kissing me and sucking on my nipples. He slowly took of my jeans then worked on my knickers I'm now laying naked on the sofa. He spread my vagina open while still sucking on my nipples and slowly penetrated me. I said daddy it really hurts stop and he said it's only the first time and u will enjoy it more later on. He spread my vagina open and started penetrating me again and I said daddy it hurts and just rammed his dick in me so quick I screamed in pain yet pleasurable he started pumping his dick in and out I was a bit sore. I didn't moan but was breathing heavy. In my mind I was in shock I just could not believe my dad was having sex with me i was thinking omg omg. While I was just thinking my dad finished I got up went to the toilet to wash the blood and ran to bed. I think i was crying when my dad walked in my room and said I'm just checking on my princess and I told him I was upset I had sex with my dad what if ppl find out. My dad told me it was our secret and that nobody will ever find out I was relieved about that and he told me we had a extra special relationship my daddy held me all night long till the morning and I felt happy safe and loved my dad knows how to comfort me. In the morning he woke up with a hard dick and i sucked his dick like it was a babies bottle and I let him fuck me legs wide open moaning in his ear. And that is how i started having sex with my dad. My dad eventually moved out got a divorce and I moved in with him we continued our relationship I felt good I was sleeping with someone that loved me my father going to school and getting sex everyday. I became his wife almost my dad had no girlfriends only me he knew how jealous I got over him and kept our relationship just me and him it was like that for years. I skipped some details like the time mom caught me and dad. Long story short she called police I denied everything dad denied everything and we said she was angry about the divorce and is just using me to destroy his life police closed the case. It's fair to say my mom hates me. My dad taught me how to give good anal blòwjob different positions my dad taught me everything I know. I must admit I got into masturbating at a young age so my dad fucking me was like welp don't need to masturbate anymore.. felt good I enjoyed it. My dad said my vagina is beautiful he loves watching his dick go in and out and making his lil baby moan and I love to moan and call him daddy during sex. I'm always moaning daddy I love u so much during sex..we did this for years but I'm older now going to college and want to experience boys my own age
Now that you've heard my story you would think I have no emotional problems. I tried to research incest and it's all about emotional trauma which I don't have my dad is quite loving actually I do have some stress just not to the extreme were I want to commit suicide I just walk around with a heavy dose of regret everyday. It's like I'm mourning my fathers death eventhough he is alive. He was my superhero but now he may aswell be dead I feel that I have no father. And I never will the man that is supposed to me my father had sex with me for years. I developed a distrust of men I don't believe in fairy tales and I never want kids quite frankly men are quite disgusting. I know everything my father did to me so i dont believe men when they say they wouldn't sleep with their daughters causing me not to want kids or trust men Eventhough I was enjoying myself I wish I never did it that way I would still have a father. There are no happy endings when it comes to incest.
My mother hates me and my father I'm lost I really want my daddy back but that's all destroyed. I moaned daddy in his ears so many times hes just not my dad.
I would not advice it this destroys lives my mum hates me and developed a drinking problem I think I caused her to spiral out of control and I feel guilt....
And I feel like I have no father and I feel regret. I want to fix my relationship with my father but I don't know how...
I spend many years being his girlfriend in private and daughter in public that I feel that he's only a dad when people are around when we are alone doesn't matter what we are doing it always ends in sex...
I want to fix my relationship with my dad I know he will always listen to me but I feel like I lost my superhero ...
My mother never wanted to fix our relationship she makes me really jealous because they really loved each other and I lost my virginity to him hes mine.
Eventhough I want to have a normal relationship with my dad I will never allow my mum to touch him I'd rather he get a girlfriend if he's going to break my heart.
That's another reason I hate my dad why am I jealous over my dad not normal we shouldn't have had sex I wish we had a normal relationship...I wish I had a father...
Do incest situations ever go back to normal..
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2023.06.07 01:44 thedallah How can you tell what edition this card is?

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2023.06.07 01:44 Daisy_996 SOS, I think my dads cheating on my mom ..

I F (21), have recently been putting clues together my dads cheating, now back story my parents Dad 66 Mom 61 have been married for 20 something years. There marriage hasn’t always been sunshine or rainbows but yet again what marriage is, but I shall say I have told my mom sometimes if you wanna get a divorce I’ll support you cause my dad can be an asshole anyways. My dad has always thought my has been cheating/ cheated but my mother never has I’m always around my mom I’m basically with her 24/7 helping her around the house and taking care of my brother. So my mother is 100% innocent she wouldn’t have any time to do anything foolish, moving on today my dad asked to see me and I came down stairs and he asked he could borrow money 20$ max I was like of course and I was trying to ask him what the money was for . He kept dodging the question and I gave up because I thought to myself I’ll see no what it is when the charge goes to my account, 30 minutes go by and I go to look and I don’t what I was gonna fine so I was prepared for this but I wasn’t at the time same time. I open my app and I look and the app is some private dating app/ hook up app and I checked it 100 times to make a sure I was reading it right and I was. Now I’m in this position and I don’t know how to tell my mom I wanna support her in this cause I Believe my mom deserves better she 1000 does and I just know this will absolutely kill her. I’m now sitting here trying to figure out how to break this news to her. For my dad tho I’m so surprised his first wife had cheated on him multiple times and he swore he would never do this to anyone else. But at the same time I don’t know if I should tell my dad first and ask him about it or if I should just tell my mom so this way she can handle it the way she wants too..
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2023.06.07 01:44 Strict_Bus_8130 Fire by country?

I moved from Eastern Europe to the US.
Since life is so cheap in Eastern Europe (and Asia, South America etc), I could obviously already retire there with a 4% rule and whatnot.
I was curious if there is a tracker where you would input your net worth/monthly cash flow and it would show you how many countries you can retire in based on some criteria like average salary there times X?
For example average salary in country X is $10,000 a year and your goal is 2X average. So at $20,000 a year this country works.
This software would track average salary by country, cost of living there, etc. You could track the fact that now you can retire in 50 countries, in a year in 70, in 2 years in 82, and so on.
Has anyone created something like this by chance?
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2023.06.07 01:44 HastenDownTheWind Always have a notification badge but mercari won’t fix it…

Always have a notification badge but mercari won’t fix it…
Anyone else have this issue, surely can’t just be me? I reached out 1-2 months ago and they said it’s an issue…they still haven’t fixed it and it’s annoying to continually see the little red bubble on the app and website.
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2023.06.07 01:44 TheShadowOfUmbreon Therapy for children?

I remember that when I was 9-13 I attended a therapist, first for reintegration therapy (which did nothing) and then did CBT with the same therapist. In the 4 years I was with her, nothing changed. In fact, I became suicidal, started self harm and developed a eating disorder. The therapist in question didn't have children and took a liking to me, which tells a lot. She did therapy with adults and children and had all the needed qualifications and still seemed to help herself more than she was helping me.
My question is, do you believe that children can truly understand if a therapist is or not good, and how can therapy abuse be limited with children?
Most adults realise if a therapist has crossed the line with what they said and can spot a bad therapist, but how can children avoid being damaged by the advice of a bad therapist?
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2023.06.07 01:44 Old_Technician9725 Assassin’s Creed: Mirage is forging the best kind of remake

Assassin’s Creed: Mirage is forging the best kind of remake
Assassin’s Creed:
At one time, there were rumours abound that the upcoming Assassin’s Creed: Mirage would lead directly to (or be packaged with) a full-blown ground-up remake of the original game. It’s easy to see how this idea gained traction – Mirage has been sold to us from the start as something of a back-to-basics reset for the series that harkens back to the original game’s city-based gameplay and is set in the same “global region”.
So, it might seem like a no-brainer. The assets made to recreate 9th century Baghdad could surely be repurposed into a facsimile of 12th century Damascus. It makes sense, if you don’t get hung up on the fact that the two places are roughly as far apart in space and time as modern-day Paris and, er, Cromwellian Liverpool. In any case, Ubisoft staffers seemed keen to pour cold water on that prospect last year. Perhaps the project was shelved. Or, perhaps, Assassin’s Creed: Mirage is enough of a remake in itself that a separate, more explicit project is considered unnecessary.
The thing about video game remakes, right, is that they’re great for onboarding newcomers, but they’re not necessarily that interesting for veteran fans. Take the recent ground-up PS5 remake of The Last of Us, for example. It offered a fresh and modern interpretation of the original story and was well-placed to induct new audiences – some from the TV show, some who were simply too young to have gotten into it ten years ago – into the fandom of the world’s most discussed-to-death 7/10.
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2023.06.07 01:43 denso1982 Concerns about your fight for privacy.

I would need someone from the mozilla team to explain how is this "protecting my privacy"
Taken from:
In this Privacy Notice, we explain what data Firefox shares and point you to settings to share even less. We also adhere to the practices outlined in the Mozilla privacy policy for how we receive, handle and share information we collect from Firefox. Firefox by default shares data to: Improve performance and stability for users everywhere {: #health-report }
Interaction data: Firefox sends data about your interactions with Firefox to us (such as number of open tabs and windows; number of webpages visited; number and type of installed Firefox Add-ons; and session length) and Firefox features offered by Mozilla or our partners (such as interaction with Firefox search features and search partner referrals).
Technical data: Firefox sends data about your Firefox version and language; device operating system and hardware configuration; memory, basic information about crashes and errors; outcome of automated processes like updates, safebrowsing, and activation to us. When Firefox sends data to us, your IP address is temporarily collected as part of our server logs.
You can perform searches directly from several places in Firefox, including the Awesome Bar, Search Bar, or on a New Tab. We receive data about how you engage with search in Firefox and the number of searches you request from our search partners.
Location data: When you first use Firefox, it uses your IP address to set your default search provider based on your country. Learn more.
Search queries: Firefox by default sends search queries to your search provider to help you discover common phrases other people have searched for and improve your search experience if your selected search provider supports search suggestions. Learn more, including how to disable this feature. Links to our default search providers are: Google Microsoft (Bing)
If you enable "Improve the Firefox Suggest Experience," we and our partners may also receive your search queries. Learn more below.
Location data: Firefox uses your IP address to suggest relevant content based on your country and state.
Technical & Interaction data: Firefox sends us data such as the position, size and placement of content we suggest, as well as basic data about your interactions with content. This includes the number of times content is displayed or clicked.
Pocket Recommendations: We recommend content to you based on your browsing history, language, and country location. The process of deciding which stories you should see based on your browsing history happens locally in your copy of Firefox, and neither Mozilla nor Pocket receives a copy of your browsing history. To help you see relevant Pocket Recommendations based on your location, Firefox shares your language and country location with Pocket.
Mozilla and Pocket receive aggregated data about the recommendations you see and click. We also share aggregated data about the sponsored content you see and click with our third-party ad platform Adzerk so advertisers can see how many people click on their articles. This aggregated data does not identify you personally. (*yes, sure.. I add*)
Top Sites: When you click on a Sponsored Top Sites tile on New Tab, we share your country, region, county (if you're in the US), the tile you clicked, and the time you clicked with AdMarketplace (a third-party referral platform) to verify you navigated to the website. Firefox does not share your IP address or any other information that could be used to identify you.
Add-on and Feature Recommendations: We recommend Add-ons in two places: the Manage Your Extensions Page (about:addons) and the Awesome Bar, where you search or type in URLs. We may also recommend Firefox Features in the Awesome Bar. We base the recommendations in about:addons on a cookie. We base the recommendations in the Awesome Bar on your interaction with Firefox. Mozilla does not receive your browser history. The process happens locally in your own computer’s copy of Firefox. Learn More about Awesome Bar recommendations or Extensions Page recommendations.
This is all by default when a user installs this VERY popular browser, being it popular mostly because its "privacy" claims. Can anyone from mozilla come here and explain how is that mozilla claims "we believe that privacy is fundamental to a healthy internet." ? and then proceed to tell me that I can "share even less" ?
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2023.06.07 01:43 Pirelli_Hard Is there a way to see how many project cards I have in hand and the total number allowed?

I couldn’t find an indicator on the main screen, but perhaps i’m missing something. I would find it greatly helpful for ease of play. It’s tiring to repeatedly count number of project cards later in the game. Does this feature already exist?
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2023.06.07 01:43 honestly_i_dont_even Should we move even if it means living paycheck to paycheck temporarily?

Hey all! I posted something similar in adulting but figured I'd try my luck here. I'll put a TLDR at the end and try to clean up the format from my last post.
My girlfriend (mid 20's) and I (late 20's) live in California and we've been struggling recently. We live with her family in a multigenerational home because we're completely out priced in the area where studio apartments start at $2500 a month not including utilities, pet fees, any associated miscellaneous fees. We just can't afford to live here anymore, even with dual income at $105k/year combined.
We were debating moving back to my home state, where renting an entire 3 bedroom house would be half the cost of a studio here, and I can afford it on my own single income. We could maybe even buy a house in the future if all goes well, but we could never own a house here unless we won the lottery. If we move, I can retain my job but she can't retain hers due to license differences in California vs. Pennsylvania so she'll be out of work temporarily until she either finds someone to make an exception or a different field of work. She wants to move and is adamant on it, but I just feel like something doesn't sit well with me.
I moved a ton by myself over the years across the entire United States, but I was single. I now feel a responsibility to ensuring we don't make a mistake. I'm worried if we move, she could get homesick, or worst case, depressed. I'm worried it could take her months to find a replacement job, and I don't want her to feel guilty for me carrying the household financially but I definitely won't be able to put any money back in the interim. I have a savings of $15,000 that I'd use towards the move, but because I'm keeping my job and she'd be out of hers, I don't know if it's even fair to ask her to chip in what little money she does have towards anything. I also know she could never contribute as much as me in the move because she doesn't have much of a savings. I don't think it'll cost more than $4,000 to get us a place + setup + minimal furnishing to get started, and I don't mind losing that money to the move either.
I really need some insight and advice on how we should approach this. When I moved before, I cannonballed myself and didn't care if I went broke, but I can't let that happen in this case. I just feel responsible for her emotions in this case to ensure we can have an actual household together, versus being miserable where we currently are.
Has anyone moved across the country with their SO? How'd it work out for you? Is it okay to live paycheck to paycheck temporarily if it means having a better life overall?
TL;DR: We want to move and can't afford to stay in California. I have a savings, she doesn't, and I'm worried about being financially responsible for two people instead of just myself. Any advice?
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2023.06.07 01:43 Raixfer_ struggling with hand and pick position

I'm a beginner and after 2 years of acoustic guitar (just simple strumming and familiarity with chords) I moved to electric guitars, but I'm having a lot of trouble with learning the correct use of picks and how to hold them in any situation (fast and slow pace), and speed picking) , and how to hold the rest of my and upon the strings to avoid contact; Whenever I search on youtube i find so many videos with different tips and techniques that I don't know who should I follow.
Is there a sort of universal rule of hand and pick position? I would really appreciate some help and indication for some exercises too
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2023.06.07 01:43 noobelectricHO I have two zoned central air, but A/C turns on and off only for one zone, other zone works fine?

Not sure if this is expected behavior for zoned central air conditioning, but I have two zones (one zone is first floor and basement, other zone is second floor only). Whenever the first floor or both zones are on, the condenser runs the normal cooling cycles of up to 15 or so minutes without issue. However, when I run the zone for the second floor alone, the condenser shuts off every 7 minutes, stays off for about a minute, then turns back on for another 7 minutes. It repeats this until the target temperature is met. The blower still runs during this time when the condenser shuts off. Whenever the first floor zone calls for A/C, the condenser runs just fine, and goes beyond 7 minutes without stopping. The air is cold for both zones when the condenser is running.
I tried changing the batteries on the thermostats which didn’t do anything. I swapped the thermostat for the good zone with the bad zone, but this resulted in a much shorter cycle for the second floor zone, where it shut off every 4.5 minutes and stayed off for 2 minutes.
The wiring behind the thermostat for the bad zone looks slightly different than the one for the good zone. Could this be the culprit? I also noticed that the wiring on the control board for open/close have opposite colors for each zone. Not sure if they’re supposed to be matching colors or not.
Any ideas as to why only one zone is doing this short cycling is much appreciated.
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2023.06.07 01:43 MysticHentron Eratigena atrica egg sac

Eratigena atrica egg sac
So I can’t find any answer online so I thought this was the best place to ask for help, but first I’ll add some context. On May 12th I noticed my female Giant House Spider (E. atrica) built an egg sac. She has been in my care for a few weeks shy of a year and has not been exposed to any male company while in my care. When I got her, she was still good sized but I could tell she could still grow. She’s molted 2 times since I’ve had her and this is the first time she’s made an egg sac.
Since I got her, I’ve moved to a state in which her species wouldn’t naturally survive in due to the low temperatures. I’m wondering if these could be dud egg sacs since she hasn’t seen a male recently, but I’m also wondering why she had so many clutches? So with all that, I guess my questions are:
  1. How many times can the genus Eratigena molt even after maturing?
  2. How long can a female of the genus Eratigena store sperm for future egg sacs?
  3. What is the right temperature for the eggs to grow and hatch?
  4. If the eggs are fertile, how long until the slings actually look like tiny spiders?
If anyone needs additional context I can reply to comments.
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2023.06.07 01:43 ReasonableBaker4913 how can you organize thoughts?

Hi, i’m a 17 year old girl, who has a lot on her mind.
I think a lot like any person, but like A LOT a lot. To the point where I can’t sleep just because i have to keep thinking. Not necessarily bad stuff, just stuff i like thinking about.
Now, there are many things i want to think about, but i can’t do it all at once. Writing my thoughts down doesn’t help either because it takes a long time and by the time i’m done writing down one thought i’ve already forgotten and i waste another 10 minutes trying to remember what i was thinking about.
Also there are many things a want to do and writing those things down does help.
I’ve also tried meditating to clear my head, but then i keep thinking about spirituality and the universe which is even more complicated and makes my head even more full. How can I organize my thoughts?
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2023.06.07 01:43 lone_wolf819 Manufacturer’s Cup Pick Advice

Manufacturer’s Cup Pick Advice
Hey! So, I still haven’t picked a brand for the cup. I didn’t want the OP like Nissan or Toyota, so I tried some laps with other GT3 cars at Interlagos and it went down to 4: McLaren, Jaguar, Hyundai and Porsche. I’ve tried only the gr3 cars, I don’t know anything about the group 4 ones, so if you know some stuff about them I’d like to know, thanks. Among these 4 tho I’m pretty sure Porsche is the faster car. I have no experience at all with the other 3 cars and that could be the reason why I go 6/7 tens faster with Porsche. But since I wanted to try new things I picked them too. I like the 650s a lot, it’s so stable but I think lacks a lot in terms of traction speed. Hyundai Genesis seems pretty good despite being maybe too chunky and with a bit of understeer. F Type it’s fine but maybe isn’t that good around slow speed corners. That’s what I learned, at least. But please, if you’ve been racing with these cars please tell me more. I’m A S and even tho I just want to have fun I don’t wanna be 1s slower than the rest of the grid, but at the same time I’d love to try a new car.
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2023.06.07 01:43 cosmogyralchat Depression and memory loss

Hi, so I was recently diagnosed with cptsd. However, before this diagnosis, I have a history of dealing with depression for around 7 years. I’m doing better now and working on my recovery, but I now notice how much my memory has been affected. It makes me feel so bad about myself. I have so many gaps on how I remember all of these recent years. I sometimes forget for brief minutes things I have always known like my phone number or id. It’s hard for me to keep track of important things at my job.
Anyone else experiences this?
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