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A community for discussion about the Apple TV family of devices. For discussion of all Apple TV+ content, please visit http://reddit.com/TVPlus.
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2008.01.25 04:43 r/Apple: Unofficial Apple Community

An unofficial community to discuss Apple devices and software, including news, rumors, opinions and analysis pertaining to the company located at One Apple Park Way.
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2011.10.01 00:29 tumbzilla place

Some have visited a canvas before. / A place where togetherness created more. / Now in numbers far greater, taking more space, / It falls upon you to create a better place.
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2023.05.28 17:31 SadSamus anyone ever bought from best deals remotes?

bought a 2001 Panasonic remote from them, got the tv from goodwill for cheap but didnt have the remote, so I looked up the manual and found the right remote, best deal remotes had one for a good price and I got a confirmation email my order had gone through and I'd be emailed again when its shipped.
I bought it over a week ago and still no shipment email, the shop app also says my order is only placed though I think shop is a bit funky. their website states orders take around 5 days to arrive after purchase, and I've emailed them twice, and also went through their customer service message section but have been met by silence
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2023.05.28 17:30 scrystal00 Scheduling

Hey everyone! I have a question regarding y'alls scheduling and store runnings. These include; SM= Store Managaer
How often does the SM edit it after it's been posted in the app.
Are training shifts meant to be added a week or less out to an already posted schedule often times on days off you have plans for already?
Is the schedule not considered finalized until the SM has a hard copy print-out in the back of the store even if it has existed posted in the app for upwards of a week?
Is it normal for the schedule to only be done a week out now, ie as of now I have the schedule for the week of 5/29 but nothing past that. And even then I've gotten used to our new SM (whose a transfer SM from another store) to add/delete/edit shifts as the days go by or if your unable to come in early per her "request".
To clarify policy we are allowed to use our sick time for mental health days and effectively they are used just the same where we'd call the store and make sure the shift on duty is aware as well as keeping the SM in the loop as well. As our SM has made one of our other Baristas come in as she conveyed to Barista that her other shifts that week would be jeopardized if she didn't come in that shift.
This is less me but more our Baristas that are minors but they have it so that they are unable to work more than 18/20 hours a week due to schooling/activites however SM will keep scheduling them for more than they can work ie 22-25 with the reasoning being "it's in your availability".
Has other SMs ever come in to help support the night shift if they are short handed? Ie there is just the shift, Barista amd another Barista who is under restriction via Sedgwick and can only work register and NOTHING else. From 4:30-close it was just the three of us as from what I later learned our SM "...meant to find coverage from another store but I forgot to" as the other 2 partner had called off earlier that week as it was their graduation ceremony that night.
Biggest reason I'm asking is I'm wanting to get advice from y'all first before I move ahead because I'm feeling like some of the stuff SM has done warrants a call to ethics but I might be too emotional to make the proper judgment. So thanks in advance!
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2023.05.28 17:28 bitesandbruises 34 [M4F] Maryland DC DMV MD VA - Looking for an ambitious, educated, nerdy lady for LTR!

About me:
I'm 34, 5'10, average build (turned into skinny build and now it's slowly becoming fit build), olive skin, hairy chest, bearded (sometimes longer, sometimes clean shaven, currently - trimmed), glasses, nerdy, and in my own opinion, quite cute and attractive!
Careeeducation wise - I'm educated - I have an undergrad and a graduate degree. I just got an offer to work at a big company and am really excited about it! I've also started my own little companies in the past, just some small ideas I try to work on and develop in my spare time. I can go on and on about career and my ventures into entrepreneurship, and will gladly talk at length about them if this stuff interests you! Have you ever started something/wanted to start something? Tell me about it!
Outside of work and entrepreneurship, I am a big media buff. Movies, music, video games, tv shows, books, I'll consume any media that's good. Being a big nerd, I tend to lean towards fantasy, and sci fi over most other genres, but I seriously love anything good (rom coms are my guilty pleasure). Currently watching: caught up with Succession just in time for the finale, and watching some new release movies on my list (Shazam 2, Antman 3, Sisu, The Whale, etc.). Currently reading: just finished Tress and The Emerald Sea! It was sooo good, I really enjoyed it. Currently playing: Some League of Legends, some Magic the Gathering Arena, I picked up the new Zelda game but haven't started it yet.
I build my own computers, I'm a big tech nerd, I'm into high fashion, cooking, exercise, hiking, I enjoy travelling, but I am definitely on the introverted side, and as much as going out on the town sounds nice, I usually prefer a quiet night in as I'm a homebody. I just finished a remodel too and my place is almoooooost all done. I am still missing a main fridge for now haha.
Though I describe myself as an introvert and homebody, I do love to go out and do things, they're just my second choice to staying home and chilling with warm drink (or chilled whisky), soft music, and a fire in the hearth. I can be happy in most any setting from a black tie event to just talk a walk in a park or something, though for more formal events I do prefer a big heads up.
Sexually, I'm into lots and can be quite kinky, but my kinks generally mirror my partner's. If it's something you're genuinely into, I'll be into it as well, no matter how tame or extreme it may seem. My only limits are permanent damage and other partners. I mention this early on because, while I think it's important to build up trust and comfort with someone before really diving into this topic, it's also important to me so I don't want to waste anyone's time if this is an incompatibility off the bat. So, since this is pretty important to me, I would like any future partners to either be fairly kinky, eagerly curious, or pretty experimental in the bedroom. We don't have to talk about details until we're both comfortable, but knowing very, very roughly where you fall is important to know.
I believe being open minded, both sexually and not, is an amazing quality, so I try to always be open minded and try most anything - food, sex, random experiences - at least twice before writing it off.
What I'm looking:
You know that question dating apps ask where it has you ask a friend to describe yourself? Well a friend and I once swapped descriptions for each other, and I have to say, his for me is spot on:
"Goal oriented and driven. Endearingly snobby. Board room outside - game hall inside."
It is me really close to a T. A good time to probably mention I am pretty bougie and snobby about things I enjoy/care about, but that's just me really. I like things to be the best they can, and I strive for the absolute best things and experiences in life. It's all about how I like to experience life, and I don't really care or shame others about how they want to live their life or experience things.
To that end, I've had a hard time finding a well educated woman, who is fun and easy going, leaning more towards type A, and also enjoys the finer things in life and seeks that sort of lifestyle. I've definitely lived very low in my life, and a few times very high, but usually my experiences are solidly in the middle. I am personally pushing myself for more, and to live a bigger life, and I want a partner that is very ambitious and wants those goals for herself (and her future partner) as well. Being a nerd isn't required but a huge bonus.
Side note, I'm always baffled to hear about really high achieving women that have a hard time dating because of insecurities of other guys, or some weird attempt to hold on to really outdated social norms. Those women sound so dreamy to someone like me!
I'm looking for something serious, and long term, though I don't like to put tons of pressure on things and enjoy a natural progression, so I prefer to move at a pace we're both comfortable with (however fast or slow that may be) - I really just want to get to know each other. That being said, if I'm into someone, I love to chat with them (I'm a big texter), and really just enjoy as much of their company as I can get.
The reason I'm posting to reddit is that, it's been very hard to find the kind of woman I think I can truly build something serious and long lasting with. I've been dating here and there over the past couple of years, and have yet to encounter someone who is good for me, and I, good for her.
In terms of distance, I prefer someone near me or someone already moving nearby (Washington, DC area), within a few months.
I'd love to say more, but this is already long enough! This should give you an idea of the kind of guy I am and what I'm looking for. I think about things a lot, I put a lot of effort into my work, my leisures, and my relationships. So, want to be part of a type A power couple in the streets, bites and bruises in the sheets with me?
Happy to chat on most any platform you prefer! Though I have a preference for discord. Thanks for reading this all, it means a lot! I hope to hear from you~~
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2023.05.28 17:27 Affectionate_Pride1 Apple Music LG TV App

So I have an LG Smart TV and I downloaded the Apple Music app on it. Does Apple Music REPLAY count the plays from there too, accumulated with my plays on my iphone, ipad and macbook?
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2023.05.28 17:25 DestroyerOvNarcs Vitiligo - get rid of those spots, carry on with life

Hi all, I've had Vitligo since I was 6 years old. I'm going to condense some wisdom down into an easy to read post so you can just get on with your life. I've spent most of my life researching vitiligo because mine was really noticeable, and I've functionally conquered at times in my life only to have it re-emerge and have to find some other way to handle it. I believe I've now come to the ultimate knowledge and can help others. And I put the knowledge out free because no doctor should be able to make a living charging people in a compromised position to not even fully heal most of them.
This is going to be a post with a lot of Truth in it. If you can't handle it, please keep scrolling. The Truth is of immense value to people because it will help them deal with the real situation and not a fuzzy, make believe world that they don't actually belong to, and then can't understand when things just aren't working out.
1) Vitiligo puts you in a compromised position in a lot of cases because it reduces your value in society. It is considered a flaw and therefore you will have a hard time in dating and sometimes jobs, friendships etc depending on what the vitiligo looks like and it's severity. Some people get lucky but for the most part, people with vitiligo get shunned because people have the instinct to not be around those that show signs of a disease. Although vitiligo isn't a contagious disease, it looks like one. In addition, the shapes it makes on the skin can be scary such as looking like a "skull face" on top of a real face, etc so kids can start crying etc if they see someone who looks like that, no matter how nice they are. It's a real mindfuck for the person who has it. It goes without saying that it's a barrier to dating as well.
2) Doctors are making a ton of money researching vitiligo but notice how they don't just simply put an end to the vitiligo. Why would they when their whole career is based off of it? If people just got rid of it and got on with their lives, that income source would end. So you go to the doctor and are mindfucked AGAIN when you are filled with hope that a treatment might work, and it never, never does. I've tried PUVA, topical steroids (a disaster, they made me get spider veins on my ankles worsening my situation), Eximer laser (did fill in one of the areas but then created dark spots as well), and a melanocyte transplant that failed and also created a new spot on my outer thigh from the "doner" area. Looking to Doctors to provide relief has been a fail. The new JAK inhibitors, "Ruxolitnib" has a ton of warnings on the package, such as "don't use if you've ever lived near the Ohio River because parasites that are infesting your body can overwhelm your immune system" - whaaaat? Ok Skippy. I've long ago learned not to use "new cures" that come out every decade or so.
3) there is ample evidence of what is actually going on but it's not in doctors best interest to connect the dots. But I have. I went through a period of sickness that required me to take 6 years off just working on my health. During that period, I pretty much figured it out. So read on.
4) 23andMe is now widely available. In 2016 I ordered mine and spit in a cup, mailed it off and got my printout of my genes. I uploaded the raw data to Prometheaus and found out that I have a Vitamin D Receptor Mutation or VDR mutation, mine is called VDR-TAQ. I didn't understand that AT FIRST. But I kept researching. Turns out that people with VDR-TAQ only make a little bit of Vitamin D from the Sun when they are out there, compared to normal people. They operate on low D for their whole lives. Vitamin D controls the skin's pigmentation as well as many other body processes like hair, nails, bones, teeth etc. Long ago, we used to spend from sunrise to sunset outside gaining vitamin D. Then we would have enough to last us through the Winter when there is no D available in the sunlight. But we are all inside now, making anyone with low D much worse. If D gets too low for a long enough time, it will affect some people's skin pigmentation, especially if they are under stress, using up nutrients at a high rate. I came from an abusive family of alcoholics and was under a lot of stress, so my Vitligo appeared very early, at age 6. It wasn't understood so I continued to suffer low D until I figured it out at 40+. My D had consistently been low whenever measured but I wasn't told how to bring it up and why I should.
5) Bringing up your Vitamin D level isn't easy or simple. D requires cofactors in order to raise the level if you're using pills. You have to take it with magnesium and B complex or else it won't absorb. Further complicating things is that all magnesiums are not equal, you have to take a "good one", not magnesium oxide which is a cheap version that can actually harm your body instead of helping. So I took mine with magnesium bisglycinate. Also I become sick from commercial versions of the B vitamins and have to order special "activated" B so I could even take a B complex. I use the Quicksilver activated B complex liquid and it's about $50 with shipping. Was it hard to figure these things out? Yes it was. But I wanted to get better, so I did it. At the end of the day, I spent 2 summers sunning 3 times a week in a private back yard, AND supplemented with D and it's cofactors especially in winter, and my level did go up but not all the way, so I ended up buying a Sperti vitamin D light that cost me about $400. This is not PUVA which for most people does not work. This is just a regular Vitamin D light that gives off UVB rays like the sun's. Using this light, I began to have productive winters where I didn't have Seasonal Affective Disorder and see real progress on my Vitiligo. I also use a cream directly on the spots that contains vitamin D and A called Infadolan that I order online, it's about $20 for 3 tubes.
6) Since I began raising my vitamin D level with supplementation, sunning and a SPERTI UVB sunlamp, my vitilgo has slowly gone away. But there are some areas that refuse to budge. My lower abdomen is one of them. I feel that this is because there is no dark hair on the area, and it's also the largest. It also gets the least sun. Areas that have hair repigment much easier that those that don't (the pigment cells live in the hair follicles) - also areas that get sun every single day like the face. It's well known that most people find the face much easier to repigment than other areas of the body. I feel that this is because the melanocytes there get stimulation with sunlight almost every day.
7) I've read that some people get vitligo in response to chemicals found in rubber - my most persistent spots are where I used to wear rubber next to my skin growing up such as the elastic in sandals or girl's underwear. I also used to wear a latex mini skirt in my teens and early 20s, and ended up with a band of depigmentation where the skirt rested against my lower abdomen. These are very stubborn areas to treat. My advice would be if someone has vitligo, stay away from rubber, latex etc. resting against their skin. It's not necessary. Also stay away from skin bleaching agents - I got more spots from using a skin lightening cream that I got from a beauty store to take care of dark areas that had developed in intimate areas. Don't use those creams.
8) to make it through life, I've had to use camoflages for my vitiligo. I have worked as a performer and needed to appear "normal". Often, people with vitiligo are beautiful and vibrant people who have amazing gifts. Ive found to my surprise that they are often in the entertainment industry (Michael Jackson, etc). What has worked in my particular case, is using non toxic spray tans and mousses - so far I've found that Sephora Sun and Loving Tan are 2 of the least toxic. Use the Yuka app to determine the toxicity of a product. Don't use really toxic stuff as body makeup, it can affect your health. In a small glass cup, I mix the 2 mousses together into a shade that approximates my skin tone, and let it melt in to a liquid in front of a fan or heater. I use a Q tip dipped in this liquid to coat the spot initially, then use a wet washcloth to blend the edges so that there isn't such a sharp contrast between the areas. After adding that layer, I then load the rest of the liquid into a small rechargable spray gun that you can find on Amazon for about $100. I spray the areas with the spray tan artfully and enhance my abs, bustline etc while I am at it and end up with a pretty good look that can fool most people. This coating lasts for a day or 2. It takes about 30-45 minutes to re-coat myself. I usually give myself a day or 2 rest between applications. But sometimes I have to do it back to back.
8) I'm still only 3 years into using the Sun and a UVB light as a treatment for vitiligo. I've seen great progress, but the most stubborn areas aren't gone. I did, however get rid of most of the areas. When I think about how miserable I was with the amount of vitiligo I had, I want to cry. I got it to where people don't stare at me in the street, on my own - and that is very exemplary. Areas that have almost no vitligo now - face, arms, hands, chest, upper stomach, shins, thighs, lower back. Areas i still have it - ankles, foot tops, underarms, private area, lower abdomen. There is a process called MicroArt that can tattoo over those areas. It's a form of permanent makeup. At the end of the day, I want it all gone and don't want to have to deal with it at all, so I may end up getting MicroArt over the areas that are remaining so I can stop with the spray tan and just be normal. The MicroArt isn't a 100% solution because it's a permanent makeup and can't change color with tanning like your normal pigment can, but I bet it could be a 90% solution, and that might have to be the best result for me in a timely manner. You could get a professional spray tan over the Microart in the summer so it would all match, or do it yourself. I don't want to have to pursue a cure for the rest of my life. Had my parents been aware that this was a low D gene and a low nutrition problem, maybe I could have been saved in childhood and never had to go through dating and all the rest with vitligo. But unfortunately, I was the one who had to put the time/effort into finding these things out as an adult and that took precious time. MicroArt is expensive just so you know. Maybe you can find a camoflage tattoo artist who could do a servicable/acceptable job who isn't Microart and who wouldn't charge as much - more and more are popping up across the country.
9) a noteworthy site is this woman, The Vit Pro, who figured some of these things out on her own, and had a lot of success in regaining her pigment. Again, it's someone who simply took the time to figure it out on her own. I think you will find more help from individuals like me and her than from the doctors, sadly. I have seen A FEW success stories where someone was healed by a doctor, but not many. And did they stay that way? This is her site - thevitpro dot com. Good luck!
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2023.05.28 17:24 pepecristo Momentum 3 refuse to charge

Just to clarify, I'm talking about the headset, not the TW3 earbuds.
They just won't charge. The green light will shine momentarily to indicate that a connection has been detected, but then it goes away and that's that.
I've tried with the original cable and a USB-A to C cable I have at home. I've tried connecting it to the multiple USB-A ports in my computer, the USB-A port in my keyboard, the USB-A in my monitor as well as directly to the wall using chargers.
Nothing works.
I have also, just in case it's just a yellow light in there failing, tried to keep them plugged in for a long period of time and seeing if the battery went up. Nope.
I've also re-set it to factory settings multiple times using the smart control app, but to no avail.
Went to check support help or documentation from Sennheiser, but nothing that could help me with this and, since my headset is out of warranty (it's 3 years old) I can't raise a support ticket with Sennheiser for help.

Does anyone know any way to fix this, or am I SOL and my 300€ headset just became e-waste?
Thanks in advance.
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2023.05.28 17:23 bitesandbruises 34 [M4F] Maryland DC DMV MD VA - Looking for an ambitious, educated, nerdy lady for LTR!

About me:
I'm 34, 5'10, average build (turned into skinny build and now it's slowly becoming fit build), olive skin, hairy chest, bearded (sometimes longer, sometimes clean shaven, currently - trimmed), glasses, nerdy, and in my own opinion, quite cute and attractive!
Careeeducation wise - I'm educated - I have an undergrad and a graduate degree. I just got an offer to work at a big company and am really excited about it! I've also started my own little companies in the past, just some small ideas I try to work on and develop in my spare time. I can go on and on about career and my ventures into entrepreneurship, and will gladly talk at length about them if this stuff interests you! Have you ever started something/wanted to start something? Tell me about it!
Outside of work and entrepreneurship, I am a big media buff. Movies, music, video games, tv shows, books, I'll consume any media that's good. Being a big nerd, I tend to lean towards fantasy, and sci fi over most other genres, but I seriously love anything good (rom coms are my guilty pleasure). Currently watching: caught up with Succession just in time for the finale, and watching some new release movies on my list (Shazam 2, Antman 3, Sisu, The Whale, etc.). Currently reading: just finished Tress and The Emerald Sea! It was sooo good, I really enjoyed it. Currently playing: Some League of Legends, some Magic the Gathering Arena, I picked up the new Zelda game but haven't started it yet.
I build my own computers, I'm a big tech nerd, I'm into high fashion, cooking, exercise, hiking, I enjoy travelling, but I am definitely on the introverted side, and as much as going out on the town sounds nice, I usually prefer a quiet night in as I'm a homebody. I just finished a remodel too and my place is almoooooost all done. I am still missing a main fridge for now haha.
Though I describe myself as an introvert and homebody, I do love to go out and do things, they're just my second choice to staying home and chilling with warm drink (or chilled whisky), soft music, and a fire in the hearth. I can be happy in most any setting from a black tie event to just talk a walk in a park or something, though for more formal events I do prefer a big heads up.
Sexually, I'm into lots and can be quite kinky, but my kinks generally mirror my partner's. If it's something you're genuinely into, I'll be into it as well, no matter how tame or extreme it may seem. My only limits are permanent damage and other partners. I mention this early on because, while I think it's important to build up trust and comfort with someone before really diving into this topic, it's also important to me so I don't want to waste anyone's time if this is an incompatibility off the bat. So, since this is pretty important to me, I would like any future partners to either be fairly kinky, eagerly curious, and pretty experimental in the bedroom. I don't care if you fall on the more dominant side, the more submissive side, something in-between, that matters less to me than the open mindedness and being open to experimentation. We don't have to talk about details until we're both comfortable, but knowing very, very roughly where you fall is important to know.
I believe being open minded, both sexually and not, is an amazing quality, so I try to always be open minded and try most anything - food, sex, random experiences - at least twice before writing it off.
What I'm looking:
You know that question dating apps ask where it has you ask a friend to describe yourself? Well a friend and I once swapped descriptions for each other, and I have to say, his for me is spot on:
"Goal oriented and driven. Endearingly snobby. Board room outside - game hall inside."
It is me really close to a T. A good time to probably mention I am pretty bougie and snobby about things I enjoy/care about, but that's just me really. I like things to be the best they can, and I strive for the absolute best things and experiences in life. It's all about how I like to experience life, and I don't really care or shame others about how they want to spend their money or experience life/things.
To that end, I've had a hard time finding a well educated woman, who is fun and easy going, leaning more towards type A, and also enjoys the finer things in life and seeks that sort of lifestyle. I've definitely lived very low in my life, and a few times very high, but usually my experiences are solidly in the middle. I am personally pushing myself for more, and to live a bigger life, and I want a partner that is very ambitious and wants those goals for herself (and her future partner) as well. Being a nerd isn't required but a huge bonus.
Side note, I'm always baffled to hear about really high achieving women that have a hard time dating because of insecurities of other guys, or some weird attempt to hold on to really outdated social norms. Those women sound so dreamy to someone like me!
I'm looking for something serious, and long term, though I don't like to put tons of pressure on things and enjoy a natural progression, so I prefer to move at a pace we're both comfortable with (however fast or slow that may be) - I really just want to get to know each other. That being said, if I'm into someone, I love to chat with them (I'm a big texter), and really just enjoy as much of their company as I can get.
The reason I'm posting to reddit is that, it's been very hard to find the kind of woman I think I can truly build something serious and long lasting with. I've been dating here and there over the past couple of years, and have yet to encounter someone who is good for me, and I, good for her.
In terms of distance, I prefer someone near me or someone already moving nearby (Washington, DC area), within a few months. And in terms of age, even though I know I'm on r4r30+, I'd prefer someone younger than me, so 33 and under.
I'd love to say more, but this is already long enough! This should give you an idea of the kind of guy I am and what I'm looking for. I think about things a lot, I put a lot of effort into my work, my leisures, and my relationships. So, want to be part of a type A power couple in the streets, bites and bruises in the sheets with me?
Happy to chat on most any platform you prefer! Thanks for reading this all, it means a lot! I hope to hear from you~~
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2023.05.28 17:16 throwraaara I confronted my gf about her shady phone behavior. M36, F28

We’ve been in a healthy relationship for a few years but for the last few weeks she suddenly became overly protective of her phone and began taking it with her everywhere around the house. Instead of setting on the counter she’ll put it in her pocket etc. check for notifications often. When the battery died she would sit next to it while charging. Sleep with it. Regularly take it into another room for a while and seemed really busy on it all the time. It was new and suspicious behavior. She’d say “oh I’m just scrolling” and lock the phone or close the app.
I said I wanted to talk her about something after work and when we met up, she knew it was about her obsessive phone usage right away. Said she would be more present and admitted it was rude and strange but that she got obsessed with a website with romance fiction and was embarrassed.
That doesn’t explain her being so protective and we’re both open minded and non judgmental about sexuality kinks and nerdy stuff. She wanted me to look through her phone but she could have come prepared. Ever since we talked she leaves her phone out and doesn’t look at it as much.
I only briefly looked at a message thread of this new friend of hers that she regularly texts but was curious to see if she deleted it which she didn’t. There were no shared pics in their chat even though a couple times she said she was taking/sending a selfie to this friend and another time she was sending a drawing to them. She has online friends on a couple apps and chat groups of people I don’t know so maybe there’s something there.
I went from totally trusting this person to being suspicious of everything. She’s acting like nothing happened. She wants to make this right but what can I do? How can I approach this? Am I just being paranoid or does this seem suspicious? My gut says she’s not giving me the whole story but the dilemma is if she’s telling the truth the relationship could still fall apart.
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2023.05.28 17:16 OfficialDampSquid If you're doing screen comps and don't have a VFX supervisor, here's some advice:

I'm a comp artists and I get a lot of screen comp shots, often from shows that don't have a VFX Supervisor, so I get a lot of variation in how they prepare them. Sometimes they try to do right by the comp artists, but often it can be more of a hindrance.
So here's some tips for what we, as comp artists, want in a screen comp:
For most standard screen comps, make sure the screen is off - black - reflections and all. Don't make it green, don't make it any colour, keep it off OR have it on with a completely black screen.
Avoid unwanted reflections like set lights, gear etc, but keep any natural reflections like set and/or talent. This way we can blend whatever it is we're comping with the screen, keeping the reflections that make it look integrated. If the shot is locked off, don't even worry about tracking markers.
If the shot is moving, place a small tracking marker in each corner and in the centre of the screen ON the screen. DO NOT PUT TRACKING MARKERS ON THE BEZELS! A tracking marker should be a small "+" or a small dot is fine, as long as it's sharp, and still highly visible with motion blur. Just grab a 50¢ sheet of small dot stickers, or use a small piece of camera tape.
Now if, and only if there will be talent obstructing the screen, like a lot, that's when you want the screen to be a keyable colour. Choose a colour that will likely represent what will be on the screen. For example, if you know you'll be putting a standard white article site on the screen, make it white. Green screen is not as magical as it's often portrayed to be, there is always rotoscoping involved anyway, so make sure the screen is a colour that matches what will be comped onto it, it makes our job much easier. And yes, you want our job to be easier, because it means more time spent making it look the best it can be. If there will be anything obstructing the screen make sure the tracking markers are visible the whole time, or at least for most of the time.
If someone is going to be typing a message on a phone, and it absolutely has to be comped in later. Please open their notes app and make them actually type what they should be typing. Have the screen brightness super low if the colours won't match the comp, otherwise if the screen is going to be relatively similar to the comped plate, just leave it as is, but still apply tracking markers either way. If we can keep the real keyboard and just comp what's above it, that's the best case scenario as there'd be minimal rotoscoping of thumbs etc. In this case, treat the screen above the keyboard as the screen and place the bottom corner markers above the keyboard.
Now this next piece of advice is what's going to get you the most accurate screen comp result most of the time: get a VFX supervisor if you can. As you can tell from my post, different scenarios will require different setups, even for little things like screen comps, and they will know what to do and when. If you can't get one, hopefully this post will be helpful and save some stress from some future comp artists.
Feel free to ask any questions in the comments or pose alternate solutions or flaws in my advice.
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2023.05.28 17:15 AutoModerator RepWeidianSneakers Member Guide and Rulebook: Read Upon Arrival and Before Posting!

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2023.05.28 17:12 OfficialDampSquid The correct way to prepare a screen comp:

I'm a VFX artists and I get a lot of screen comp shots, often from shows that don't have a VFX Supervisor, so I get a lot of variation in how they prepare them. Sometimes they try to do right by the comp artists, but often it can be more of a hindrance.
So here's some tips for what we, as comp artists, want in a screen comp:
For most standard screen comps, make sure the screen is off - black - reflections and all. Don't make it green, don't make it any colour, keep it off OR have it on with a completely black screen.
Avoid unwanted reflections like set lights, gear etc, but keep any natural reflections like set and/or talent. This way we can blend whatever it is we're comping with the screen, keeping the reflections that make it look integrated. If the shot is locked off, don't even worry about tracking markers.
If the shot is moving, place a small tracking marker in each corner and in the centre of the screen ON the screen. DO NOT PUT TRACKING MARKERS ON THE BEZELS! A tracking marker should be a small "+" or a small dot is fine, as long as it's sharp, and still highly visible with motion blur. Just grab a 50¢ sheet of small dot stickers, or use a small piece of camera tape.
Now if, and only if there will be talent obstructing the screen, like a lot, that's when you want the screen to be a keyable colour. Choose a colour that will likely represent what will be on the screen. For example, if you know you'll be putting a standard white article site on the screen, make it white. Green screen is not as magical as it's often portrayed to be, there is always rotoscoping involved anyway, so make sure the screen is a colour that matches what will be comped onto it, it makes our job much easier. And yes, you want our job to be easier, because it means more time spent making it look the best it can be. If there will be anything obstructing the screen make sure the tracking markers are visible the whole time, or at least for most of the time.
If someone is going to be typing a message on a phone, and it absolutely has to be comped in later. Please open their notes app and make them actually type what they should be typing. Have the screen brightness super low if the colours won't match the comp, otherwise if the screen is going to be relatively similar to the comped plate, just leave it as is, but still apply tracking markers either way. If we can keep the real keyboard and just comp what's above it, that's the best case scenario as there'd be minimal rotoscoping of thumbs etc. In this case, treat the screen above the keyboard as the screen and place the bottom corner markers above the keyboard.
Now this next piece of advice is what's going to get you the most accurate screen comp result most of the time: get a VFX supervisor if you can. As you can tell from my post, different scenarios will require different setups, even for little things like screen comps, and they will know what to do and when. If you can't get one, hopefully this post will be helpful and save some stress from some future comp artists.
Feel free to ask any questions in the comments or pose alternate solutions or flaws in my advice.
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2023.05.28 17:11 Resident-Mongoose682 I’m addicted to YouTube and I desperately need help quitting

Hi y’all!!
I’m so sorry this is really long but please give me a chance :)
I’m an 19 year old college student who started summer holiday officially 3 weeks ago. Ever since then, I’ve been taking a summer course. But, that’s the only responsibility I hold. I also had a job but that job is seasonal and only starts up again in August.
From the moment I wake up, I’m glued to YouTube. Nothing helps: I tried deleting the app, putting my phone in another room to wake up, etc. I live alone in an apartment and so I have nobody to give the phone too (no friends to hand it to either).
It’s been getting so bad that I spend all my day in bed on YouTube. I know it’s brainless activity but I also know I’m capable of so much more. I’ve always had good grades which is why I’m not studying harder for my summer course: I do well with maybe 20 min/day work .
I’m part of a football team here and I go to practices maybe 3-4 times per week. Other that than, I’m always on my phone. I genuinely think I can’t stand the silence.
I really need help as this addiction is ruining my life. I don’t eat sometimes, sometimes all I eat is candy. It’s THAT bad. I can’t spend a single minute without my phone.
What also sucks is that I need my phone to communicate with family who rely on me sometimes, so I cannot just lock it up.
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2023.05.28 17:11 PaulKersey6 Spam filter does nothing

Support is useless and does not reply (yes I have a premium account) for help. My main account is useless because it's constantly receiving spam so I had to remove the app from my phone. The emails get past the spam filter so I manually add them but they still get through. Guess I have to delete the account.
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2023.05.28 17:11 Accurate-Sign-8127 Cocomelon makes me very angry and anxious

My son loves cocomelon and he's 3. I understand that he's gonna have his likes but he literally watches nothing else except Doggyland by Snoop Dogg (WHICH I LOVE) but it's rare that he wants to. He does like the clean up song and the affirmation songs but he doesn't want to listen to anything else by Doggyland. He puts Cocomelon on the TV and the Google nest in his room so I'm getting a double dose of it. He has a tablet for learning time and I've restricted all video apps to prevent cocomelon from being on it, yet he somehow found some apps that cocomelon made and they play that annoying music. I'm going to lose my mind. Everytime I hear a song by those annoying voice actors, I just wanna rip my hair out and break all my technology. My brain literally compares the stupid show to nails on a chalk board and responds in the same way. I get angry and start having really bad anxiety. Idk why it triggers me so badly. I've tried so many other shows and YouTubers including Gracie's Corner (which I also love) but he has no interest in anything but that show. I don't have any issues with any other children's shows. Am I irrationally angry and anxious? My husband doesn't mind the show and says that how I'm feeling isn't normal. My son has played it for the last 3 weeks. I have to walk away and put my headphones on. He wants me to sit with him and watch it but I physically cannot. Any ideas on how to help with this response I'm having? Any ideas on how to get him to watch literally anything else? I'm at a loss at this point and I cannot take having these feelings and bodily responses because of the show.
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2023.05.28 17:11 rexyisthebest Scream and Halloween

In a deleted scene from Scream 4 Charlie mentions the movie Halloween Resurrection. In a Halloween H20 scene you can see Scream 2 on TV.
My brain is going to explode lol
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2023.05.28 17:11 meegles Help with TV show astronomy mystery

I'm a fan of the apple TV show Silo. Basic premise is 10,000 people live in an underground silo and have done so for at least 140 years. They don't know why or who built the silo because all their records and history were destroyed 140 years ago in a rebellion. They can go outside but anyone who does dies within minutes. They have a camera feed from the surface that shows desolate wasteland. They don't know what stars are but they can see them in the camera feed. Can anyone tell me where this image of stars in the night sky was taken (or whether it was even taken on Earth)?
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2023.05.28 17:09 subredditsummarybot Your /r/indieheads [FRESH] recap for the week of May 21 - May 27

Sunday, May 21 - Saturday, May 27

Fresh Albums

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227 19 comments [FRESH ALBUM] Arlo Parks - My Soft Machine
208 50 comments [👀] [FRESH ALBUM] AJJ - Disposable Everything [AM] [BC] [Dzr] [SC]
132 25 comments [👀] [FRESH ALBUM] Water From Your Eyes - Everyone's Crushed
100 12 comments [FRESH ALBUM] Kevin Morby - More Photographs (A Continuum)
93 2 comments [FRESH ALBUM] Radiator Hospital - Can't Make Any Promises [Sp] [AM] [Dzr]
 

Fresh Videos

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303 56 comments [FRESH VIDEO] Jeff Rosenstock - LIKED U BETTER [Sp] [BC] [Dzr] [SC]
293 37 comments [FRESH VIDEO] Squid - The Blades [Sp] [AM] [BC] [Dzr]
186 15 comments [FRESH VIDEO] Clark - Medicine (feat. Thom Yorke)
56 10 comments [FRESH VIDEO] Buck Meek - Haunted Mountain // Announces new album 'Haunted Mountain' out August 25th via 4AD
 

Fresh Performances

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137 10 comments [FRESH PERFORMANCE] King Gizzard - Gaia
51 1 comments [FRESH PERFORMANCE] The Murder Capital - Full Performance (Live on KEXP)
 

Fresh

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426 31 comments [FRESH] The Voidz - Prophecy of the Dragon
116 3 comments [FRESH] Sylvan Esso - Live at Electric Lady [YT]
105 17 comments [👀] [FRESH] Portugal. the Man - Summer of Luv (feat. Unknown Mortal Orchestra)
104 10 comments [FRESH] George Clanton - Justify Your Life
94 14 comments [FRESH] Tame Impala - Retina Show / Sidetrack Soundtrack (Unreleased 'Lonerism' Demos)
82 10 comments [FRESH ALBUM] Sparks - The Girl Is Crying in Her Latte [AM] [BC] [Dzr]
76 2 comments [👀] [FRESH ALBUM] Miya Folick - ROACH
64 4 comments [FRESH] Swans - Los Angeles: City of Death
52 12 comments [FRESH CHART] New Alternative 40 - May 28, 2023 - THE JAPANESE HOUSE advances to #1 with "Sunshine Baby" ARLO PARKS has the highest debut. CLARK, JUNGLE, FOO FIGHTERS, LITTLE DRAGON, and ROYAL BLOOD also debut in the top 20. CLARK, JUNIP, BUCK MEEK, and LIZA ANNE chart for the first time.
49 2 comments [FRESH EP] Dev Lemons - Delusional [AM] [Dzr]
 

Top 5 Other Posts

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883 28 comments 'Queen of rock 'n' roll' Tina Turner dies at 83
627 79 comments Japanese Breakfast announces open casting call to play her in 'Crying In H Mart’ movie
571 60 comments Tom Waits is “Writing Again,” Says His Music Agent
563 68 comments Black Midi announce one-off gig playing set of The Beatles covers
501 197 comments Oasis reunion being planned with 'four nights at iconic venue'
 
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2023.05.28 17:08 ObviouslyOblivious90 50 Shades of Platonic - Round 20

50 Shades of Platonic - Round 20
Hello, hello and Happy Sunday!
It's a beautiful day here in London and I hope it's similarly beautiful wherever you all may find yourself today. Another week has found its end, and that can only mean we are one week closer to the Coming Weeks.
In our last round, we had the Battle of the Barb or 'Barbception!' as Asgardian put it. It was mean of me, I know. (In all honesty, I think the meanest round of all is the next round so keep your eyes peeled for tomorrow or whatever day I manage to drag my tired soul into compliance and actually post the round.)
Despite a few grumbling protestations at how unfair the choice was, you did all manage to offer up a pretty resounding victor with Penelope! What A Companion! claiming 71.2% of the votes. In case you're confused as to which Barb it was, it's this one:
It is beauty. It is grace. It is still an oblivious face.
It turns out that, for a lot of you, this was the moment that got you hooked on Polin. That sounds like a nice thing and, maybe a year ago, I would've agreed. But these days, I'd view it as a curse. This was the poison apple. This was Orpheus looking back. This was the trap that you all fell through and now are stuck here with the rest of us waiting for the weeks that never come. Horrifying.
But hey, that's just me. You all didn't seem to mind too much:
'I’m ride or die for “Penelope! What a Companion!” and I don’t care who knows it. This is the Gaze that launched a thousand ships.'
'I am pretty sure that "what a barb" was the moment I became a fully fledged Polin shipper. It altered my brain chemistry, and I guess there's no escape now'
'I have to dance with the partner that brought me and that’s the very loaded extended eye contact of what a barb (aka choice numero dos)… it’s the whole reason I fell down the Polin rabbit hole. That right there, I said to myself, is ✨ chemistry ✨ and now I am caught in this never ending hellatus arguing about gazes. What a gaze what a ship what is my life.'
I am so sorry this happened to us. One day, we will be free.
Others described the gaze as 'Colin having a complete out of body experience as he loses himself in a 2 second haze of lust' and 'Colin’s brain [doing] a little short circuit as he thinks about the implication for Pen’s understanding of how a lady comes to be with child.'
As many of you know, the Barb scene was Newts' audition scene for Colin. Much like the Shondaland team, we were all falling over ourselves with appreciation for what Nic and Newts delivered:
'The tension is immaculate and the fact that Pen has to be the one to look away makes it even sweeter.'
'I legit think this is proof of their incredible chemistry on-screen, and taking into account it consists of "just a short dialogue and some stares" yet it's enough to get this subreddit going tells me we might emerge S3 with a few new unlocked kinks.'
'I feel legally obligated to choose “What a barb.” Not only is the extended staring just top notch, but it’s a little hint at how Colin will likely love and appreciate her snarky side once he discovers her true identity.'
We might've lost Platonic Lust to the might of What A Companion, but - as Trisky pointed out - let us not forget 'the fact that Colin didn’t observe their fussy host but rather Penelope observing their fussy host because it’s moments like these that it’s so easy to understand how naturally drawn to her he is. From looking over during the poetry reading to just watching her watch others to S2 and his increased approaching her instead of the other way around… he cannot help himself.'
And isn't that exactly what this game is about? Catching those tiny moments and clinging onto them for dear life. God knows there's nothing else for us to do. So let's move onto the next round, shall we?
_________
First up, and quite perfectly timed for the end of Philoise Week, everyone's favourite botanist is popping by to say hello:
When the earlier Barb gaze where Colin is caught watching over Pen whilst she is distracted by Trowbridge tea, Trisky once pointed out that 'Colin's interest in her observation is not about the observation itself but rather the fact that she’s the one who made it.' And what do we have here but exactly the same situation? Whilst Sir Phillip is busy discussing mastic trees and olive groves, Colin can't help but get lost in deep platonic admiration of his new bestie. This is true platonic love, you cannot convince me otherwise. This is the lightning bolt. The eyes meeting across a room. If you don't believe me, believe Newts: 'When you see him with Sir Phillip, and he gets into plants and all these boring specifics, I don't think he is bragging, I think he just finally feels validated. They really have an intimate moment geeking out together.' You hear that? An intimate moment. Who am I to disagree?
Going up against:
Roll up, roll up because the Purpose scene is back in town. What are best friends for if not for triggering life-altering moments where your entire world view shifts around you, leaving you breathlessly gazing at them as if they hold the secrets of the known universe between their hands? Let's be real, there are some outrageous gazes going on in this scene from both sides, and it was extremely difficult to narrow it down to a single frame. It's been a season and a half of agonising slow burn (and sometimes agonising arctic blast) but Colin *finally* has his magical breakthrough at the wedding as he realises Penelope might just happen to care for him (as a friend, ofc) and would never platonically forsake him (no one show him that S3 synopsis.) The pair fall into the longest gaze off in history, smiling and twinkling at one another for what I can only assume would've been an endless eternity had they not both been pulled out from their reveries by the cutting of the massive yellow foreshadowing cake. The path to this beautiful gaze has been long and arduous but don't worry folks: he's ~beginning~ to believe that now. *SCREAMS*

Botanist vs Purpose. Off you go. 🌱
Love,
Obvs x

View Poll
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2023.05.28 17:05 xfallenangelx95 27/F It's not easy to find someone to get along with because not all personalities match - I'm looking for someone to talk to on a daily basis - someone friendless, honest,kind and talkative & from Europe. I won't give up till I find who I'm looking for :)

Only Europe Please - short note - If you're not into reading or receiving long messages,don't read any further + Please If you don't want to read everything because of my post being too long for you & instead of reading It all - ..skip some parts - find another person to talk to.Let's respect each other and our free time. All people criticizing/making fun of me & other people - will permanently be blocked.Pretty much as people questioning my post and giving me unsolicited advice.I'm not here for any conflicts and I know I can't please everyone - I know I never will.. However It's me who should feel comfortable in my new potential friendship & obviously someone interested in being my friend - not the whole world which is why I don't need any advice from people who don't even want to be a part of my life. The amount of rude people on Reddit always criticizing others and making fun of them is unbelievably high but let me tell you something - NEVER let anyone make choices for you and criticize you only because you're different! Always fight for your dreams and never let anyone make you think you're worthless! It's your life and you're the one deciding what's best for you - If you want to judge me despite not even wanting to talk to me or give me avice better block me

Hello guys! 🙂 (read everything before you decide to send me a message) Please send me a message ONLY If you're in the same situation and If your expectations are the same as mine.I want to find like minded people from Europe (Why Europe? Read my post to find out) I'm looking for something permanent (remember - you can feel lonely even If you're surrounded by others - If there's no emotional bond) I'm fed up of meeting people who never make any time for me & only text me once or twice a week to ask me "what are you up to?" Out of boredom.I don't want to meet people asking others a million of questions like "what's your favorite movie?" Just to give you one word answer and ask you another question "and music? Your favorite song?" I'm looking for something "deeper" & different🙂What kind of friend would I like to find? Someone to talk to on a daily basis - Someone who needs It & wants It just as much as me

Do you ever feel like an option? Like a stranger to others despite knowing them for months or years & talking to them quite often? Like there's always something and someone more important than you and you just..don't fit in and no matter what you do - your effort is never appreciated?

What are my expectations? I would like to meet someone in a similar situation – why? Because I honestly feel like only a person with the same expectations and a similar outlook on life would get along with me & because I feel more comfortable talking to people like me..Friendless people who need a strong bond - people without friends and without partners..Don't get me wrong…Most people deserve to be happy and It's good to have friends but people who have friends or families in real life are usually more focused on them ( which is completely understandable) & have less time for others + I simply don't want to be replaced by anyone..I kind of envy people who can call others , true friends given I don't have an emotional bond with any of my acquaintances. Whenever I hear that others have friends I simply get sad because (believe it or not) If I had to choose between 20 people to talk to (Acquaintances) and one special person - I'd choose that one special person without any hesitation .

I also want to talk to others on a daily basis mainly because..I want to see someone’s effort & be someone's first choice - not another person to have random conversations with..Why I'd rather talk to people from my continent? Well..Mainly because I would like to see someone I'd get along with - In the far future - face to face :) + I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to receive a message - Especially given most people are always available on social media sites & keep their phones in a pocket.Once you receive & open my message - get back to me (If you're as serious as I am & really need a true friend) waiting 6 hours to receive a message is more than enough

I'm by no means criticising people who don't want to talk to others often / People who really are super busy & People who want to find someone to have non important conversations with - I'm aware that not everyone has the same expectations which is why everything you're reading now - is here for a reason.All I'm suggesting is - I don't want anything temporary and I don't want to be the one always giving more than receiving.Listen people - I used to ignore being..ignored by others..always being just an option to talk to during tough times or moments of boredom.I was too young to realize that I was never important enough for most people that were a part of my life I don't know who needs to hear this but..No one is too busy to make time for you! People make excuses to avoid others because they prioritize everything and (maybe) everyone..over them. It's true that most people really are busy - but It takes only a few seconds to start a conversation (If you're into short messages) and a few minutes (1-10/15) to type a long message Don't let anyone lie to you.

Truth is that most people either don't like you enough to make time for you or just simply - feel no need to talk to others often but are they too busy? No..You don't need to send me a message just to ask me and tell me "Do you really want to talk daily? I like long messages but I can't promise to contact you often" If you really are unsure please don't send me a message.I don't need more acquaintances aka people to talk to - occasionallyI'm not trying to sound rude - I just don't want to meet new people and get emotionally attached - only to end up being left alone after weeks or months of daily conversations.I'm sick of that never ending story and always meeting people who ghost me without a single word (even if everything seems to be ok) or people who "change priorities" over time & become like strangers…I don't want to go through this ever again.Let me tell you one thing – A true friend would never just give up on you for no reason :)It’s always possible to find someone to have a random conversation with – someone willing to send you one message once or twice a week..but..It’s almost impossible to find people willing to make time for you.

I’m not asking a busy person to make time for me by changing some plans! Absolutely not! I’m here to find someone who wants to talk daily (throughout the day or maybe even night) of one’s own will.Someone looking for the same kind of connection.Strong friendships are based on mutual support. One of the best things you can do for a friend in need, is just to be there for them when they want to talk.I often see posts from people who always say how friendless they are because they don't feel loved or appreciated by their "friends" remember! A true friend - someone who truly likes you or someone who wants to get to know you - will always find time for you. 🙂

I'm not really interested in small talk/short messages - I love long and meaningful conversations. It's so easy to find someone who loves abbreviations and questions like "How are you?" How was your day? Or what are you interested in? But so hard/almost impossible to find a person who knows how to keep a conversation going & show others some effort.Building and maintaining friendships takes time and effort.Never allow pursuits or possessions to become bigger priorities than your relations with other people.Close friendships are so important to us because they are so difficult to form + Having friends can help you feel as if you belong to something that brings purpose and connection to your life

• I do NOT respond to any „Hey,hmu” or „u want to talk” type of messages (super short messages or messages full of abbreviations – I literally can’t stand abbreviations and acronyms in text messages) ALL messages full of abbreviations will immediately be ignored.I also don't like it when people ignore everything I say in private messages just to focus on some question or? Start talking only about themselves.. I love conversations with people refering to every part of my messages - not just some question.

• No dirty messages PLEASE.I'm not looking for anyone to flirt with and I'm not looking for a partner either. No NSWF profiles..I always check people's profiles (Even comment history) - To avoid guys,trying to get inappropriate photos from adult women or? flirt with them & If your comment history is full of rude comments - you and I wouldn't get along! I can't stand people who judge other people and use vulgar words to describe them or? Make fun of them.Respect is very important

• If both (you and I) are from the same country (I live in a non-English speaking country ) - I want to communicate with you in our first language! No - Not because I don't understand English because as you see - I do. Why then? English is simply overrated and people don't appreciate other languages as much as they should. So.. If we're from the same country and you want to talk only in English (which is quite common on reddit) - Talk to someone else. I just simply don't want to talk to a person from the same country - in a foreign language as It's just something I don't understand even If all you want is to practice your english
• Please only adult people 18-36 age range (I'm 27)

• I don’t respond to messages I don’t find interesting even If they're long - If after receiving and reading your message I don't feel comfortable or think "I wouldn't get along with him/her" I simply do not respond (what I’m suggesting is that I don’t always respond to someone’s first or second message because..sometimes you just know If you’d get along with someone or not- I’d never ignore anyone after days or weeks of daily conversations though) just because I don’t want to do anything forcefully & because I don’t want to lead anyone on. I read all messages but I definitely don't respond to all of them! I want to make it clear because I don't want to be accused of not responding and not reading people's messages! - Some people don't message me back as well and even though It is a bit disappointing I'm ok with that! - as long as there's no emotional bond - I think it's ok to not respond to someone's first or second message If people think they wouldn't get along! I can't stand being ignored after days or weeks of daily conversation and seeing people changing priorities but that's something different - something I don't want to go through ever again for real If I'm really interested in someone's message - I respond within a matter of minutes - max 6 hours (If I'm in bed - just sleeping) you won't even hear from me "I'm too busy" because I know myself and If I really was too busy to make time for others - I wouldn't be here. I either want to talk to someone..or not.I don't want to pretend someone I'm not and always try to find some cheap excuses to avoid others. (unlike some people)

• Don’t ask me “Can you tell me something about yourself?” If you really want to get to know me - you can ask me questions :) I'm an open book.

• It would be better If you guys were into emojis - just like me - just to describe your emotions through text. Two emojis - 🙂 and 🙁 are completely enough I just don't like emotionless messages.I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea"as it sounds dismissively.

• I want to talk on reddit first (just to make sure If I'd get along with you ) before moving to Discord or some other app
• Time response matters to me a lot! It matters to me whether I get a message back after one hour,three hours,6 hours or..12 hours and even..after a couple of days..And If you're another person just looking for one day conversation and then? "Disappear" for some amount of time longer than one day to come back and apologize me for being busy - don't even leave me a message.I just want to be honest with you from the start.I'm interested only in daily conversations

Why can’t you see any of my interests listed down below? Because what really matters to me is..who you are (If you’re honest,talkative,understanding,caring and trustworthy – for example) just simply – It matters to me what you’re like! not what you like.Don’t get me wrong – you can tell me what your hobbies are but in my personal opinion,common interests are important mainly when you want to find a gaming buddy (for example) or If you want to meet someone to hang out with in real life and..go bowling for example.What most people seem to care about are other people's interests – I don’t. I get along with other people despite having completely different hobbies but I absolutely don’t get along with people way different than me (different expectations and outlook on life– way different sense of humor or personality traits – It’s just an example) It doesn't make ANY DIFFERENCE to me If you're a gamer or? Someone interested in photography! It doesn't make any difference - > as long as you're talkative and kind and If you also want to find someone willing to stay in your life..for good - But If you're into small talk and all you want is to...type and receive super short messages or If you're here only because you're bored and don't know what to do + If you're a very sarcastic person - I'm definitely not for you!I don't get along with overly sarcastic people turning everything into a joke. Friendships should be natural – not forced.

Both people wanting to be friends should feel comfortable and have something in common. No - not necessarily a similar taste in music or movies but something else..Most friendships don't fizzle out because of people not having the same hobbies but..because they just simply have different expectations when It comes to something important.I'm not here out of boredom and trust me - I'm not here to meet as many people as possible.I choose quality over quantity.I higly value myself and my time & Sometimes one person but a person who makes you feel comfortable and understood - is more than enough :) We ALL can choose what kind of people we’d like to talk to and maybe even become really good friends with and I? I don’t want anyone to be disappointed.We all have some expectations after all.I know that people don't have to talk everyday to be friends but I'm interested only in daily conversations with someone also interested in talking dailyIf you really need someone to talk to due to loneliness and If you have time to talk to me daily (throughout the day and maybe even night)I always make time for others.I'm literally always available.I could even stay up all night long only to talk to someone. I’m ready to commit but only If there’s some chemistry between me and someone else.I don’t do anything forcefully.

If you want to talk to me tell me your story - tell me why you're here, what kind of friend would you like to meet :) Et cetera.Such messages are way more interesting to me than...someone's long list of hobbies. I know! It's unusual on reddit but I don't make friends based on hobbies..I want to meet someone with the same mindset as mine to finally feel understood and get close to someone new.You can share your problems with me - I absolutely don't mind "complaining" as I've been through a lot in my life.What do people usually tell you when you tell them that's something's wrong? "Don't complain" or "Life's not over yet - one day you'll be happy" or "There are worse situations than yours" and..obviously "Find a therapist" Life's not a fairytale and sometimes things don't go as planned.Emotions shouldn't be bottled up.I'm sick of people always telling others "everything's gonna be ok" move on " & more..Trust me people - not everyone wants to hear "Just believe in yourself and everything's gonna be ok" Some people take it as reassurance. But others see it as false hope. Imagine being told that things will be okay, only for them to get worse..Do you guys know why telling someone "everything's gonna be ok" Is wrong? Because you can't see the future.

You can't guarantee others that one day they'll finally be happy + when It comes to social interactions - We're only responsible for ourselves - not for others & as you guys know people let us down quite often (sometimes even when there's no reason) so instead of telling people how they should move on,forget everything and be happy or asking them to find a therapist - be there for them! Always be willing to listen to them If you really like them or want to get to know them & don't suggest everyone in a tough situation to find a therapist because a therapist won't ever replace a true friend + It's quite normal to be disappointed If people always do something to hurt you.Sharing your hardships with other people in a very similar situation or exactly the same one - is VERY helpful If the other person understands you & wants to start all over by just letting it all out & feeling emotional support instead of always hearing some "positive quotes" or someone saying "Stop complaining let's talk about something else"Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. I appreciate sensitive people who always try to understand others.Empathy is everything

Our world needs more peace 🤗 I've seen a lot of rude comments on reddit.If you don't agree with me - OK but please don't criticize me + Not everyone is here to ask for advice.Listen people - I know how different my post is & I know It won't be easy for me to find what or rather who - I'm looking for BUT I always want to be myself instead of pretending someone I'm not and lying to others.I know It would be easier if (like others) I had less expectations but I I know what I want and honestly? If my post was different..I wouldn't be me.Even If I won't meet a person I'd get along with - that's ok! but don't give me any unsolicited advice because I wouldn't change for someone who doesn't even know me pretty much as I wouldn't want to change anyone else.I'm not trying to "fit in" and be like everyone else - just to get more attention.Accept me for who I am or let go - is my motto.I'm not here to argue with anyone and to make fun of others.

Please - If you're a completely different person than the described type of person I'm looking for (If you love abrreviations,If you don't need an emotional connection,If you're sarcastic and quiet) or If you simply disagree with my post - don't force yourself to send me a message.I want my new potential friendship,to be natural which is why I want you to contact me If your needs are the same - I don't want you to try to change yourself only to please me - Pretending to be someone you're not - is the worst.I know It's possible to find what I'm looking for as I had conversations with people looking for exactly the same thing and being nice to me - I want to believe in my luck again as I had it a few times on reddit - I've recently lost someone I thought could be a friend of mine (such a perfect match) and I'm sad but I want to finally be happy again & find someone always wanting to talk - sending me random pictures throughout the day - food pictures or pictures of some animals and what is the most important to me? To find people who value online friendships as much as they would value real life ones as there's another human being on the other side

No comments please.Only Private messages and chat requests.I don't really like public conversations and I also do not respond to comments so If you want to send me a message just do it without saying "You can DM me" + I'm online almost all the time and yes - I am very selective but If I had to choose between having another (new) acquaintance and being in the same situation as I currently am - I'd always choose second option.I don't need more people to talk to every now and then and any chit chat so please think twice before you decide to send me a message
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2023.05.28 17:05 rak1294 Why isn’t this guys profile showing up again? 😭

Hey y’all!
I just joined Hinge yesterday 😅
I’m in Dubai, where Hinge is not available on the UAE App Store - you need to have an App Store account from another country to be able to download it. I used my brothers US App Store account to download it and then logged back on my own UAE account after. This means I can’t get Hinge X or Hinge + (subscriptions can only be made from the App Store account that downloaded the app in the first place.)
So, I start browsing profiles and finish my 10 likes pretty quickly. I then come across what seems to be the loveliest profile I’ve seen and I realise I’ve run out of likes and I can’t get HingeX or +. I exit the app and move on with my day and hope that he will show up again when I have likes to expend. I come back on the app a few hours later as I have some messages to respond to and I notice his profile is no longer there. So I X a few people and he shows up again (second time). And I’m like damnit, still don’t have the likes!
Anyway, moving forward. Today is a new day. I decide to go narrow down the search to his age group and began browsing until he showed up. EXCEPT HE DIDN’T. Dubai is small, so within 20-30 mins, I already exhausted all the profiles and didn’t come across his. So I widened the search back to what it was when I initially saw his profile and still nothing. Despite exhausting everyone. Saw several repeats but never his profile.
I think he may have deleted his profile? What else could it be?
Would really appreciate some insight! Thank you in advance 🥰
EDIT: typo
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2023.05.28 17:05 xfallenangelx95 27/F seeking an emotional bond with emotionally mature and like minded people from Europe.I would love to meet someone talkative!Someone who wants to talk on a daily basis.It isn't easy to find a friend on reddit but I'm trying my best.I'm interested only in long term frienships.

Only Europe Please - short note - If you're not into reading or receiving long messages,don't read any further + Please If you don't want to read everything because of my post being too long for you & instead of reading It all - ..skip some parts - find another person to talk to.Let's respect each other and our free time. All people criticizing/making fun of me & other people - will permanently be blocked.Pretty much as people questioning my post and giving me unsolicited advice.I'm not here for any conflicts and I know I can't please everyone - I know I never will.. However It's me who should feel comfortable in my new potential friendship & obviously someone interested in being my friend - not the whole world which is why I don't need any advice from people who don't even want to be a part of my life. The amount of rude people on Reddit always criticizing others and making fun of them is unbelievably high but let me tell you something - NEVER let anyone make choices for you and criticize you only because you're different! Always fight for your dreams and never let anyone make you think you're worthless! It's your life and you're the one deciding what's best for you - If you want to judge me despite not even wanting to talk to me or give me avice better block me


Hello guys! 🙂 (read everything before you decide to send me a message) Please send me a message ONLY If you're in the same situation and If your expectations are the same as mine.I want to find like minded people from Europe (Why Europe? Read my post to find out) I'm looking for something permanent (remember - you can feel lonely even If you're surrounded by others - If there's no emotional bond) I'm fed up of meeting people who never make any time for me & only text me once or twice a week to ask me "what are you up to?" Out of boredom.I don't want to meet people asking others a million of questions like "what's your favorite movie?" Just to give you one word answer and ask you another question "and music? Your favorite song?" I'm looking for something "deeper" & different🙂What kind of friend would I like to find? Someone to talk to on a daily basis - Someone who needs It & wants It just as much as me


Do you ever feel like an option? Like a stranger to others despite knowing them for months or years & talking to them quite often? Like there's always something and someone more important than you and you just..don't fit in and no matter what you do - your effort is never appreciated?


What are my expectations? I would like to meet someone in a similar situation – why? Because I honestly feel like only a person with the same expectations and a similar outlook on life would get along with me & because I feel more comfortable talking to people like me..Friendless people who need a strong bond - people without friends and without partners..Don't get me wrong…Most people deserve to be happy and It's good to have friends but people who have friends or families in real life are usually more focused on them ( which is completely understandable) & have less time for others + I simply don't want to be replaced by anyone..I kind of envy people who can call others , true friends given I don't have an emotional bond with any of my acquaintances. Whenever I hear that others have friends I simply get sad because (believe it or not) If I had to choose between 20 people to talk to (Acquaintances) and one special person - I'd choose that one special person without any hesitation .


I also want to talk to others on a daily basis mainly because..I want to see someone’s effort & be someone's first choice - not another person to have random conversations with..Why I'd rather talk to people from my continent? Well..Mainly because I would like to see someone I'd get along with - In the far future - face to face :) + I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to receive a message - Especially given most people are always available on social media sites & keep their phones in a pocket.Once you receive & open my message - get back to me (If you're as serious as I am & really need a true friend) waiting 6 hours to receive a message is more than enough


I'm by no means criticising people who don't want to talk to others often / People who really are super busy & People who want to find someone to have non important conversations with - I'm aware that not everyone has the same expectations which is why everything you're reading now - is here for a reason.All I'm suggesting is - I don't want anything temporary and I don't want to be the one always giving more than receiving.Listen people - I used to ignore being..ignored by others..always being just an option to talk to during tough times or moments of boredom.I was too young to realize that I was never important enough for most people that were a part of my life I don't know who needs to hear this but..No one is too busy to make time for you! People make excuses to avoid others because they prioritize everything and (maybe) everyone..over them. It's true that most people really are busy - but It takes only a few seconds to start a conversation (If you're into short messages) and a few minutes (1-10/15) to type a long message Don't let anyone lie to you.


Truth is that most people either don't like you enough to make time for you or just simply - feel no need to talk to others often but are they too busy? No..You don't need to send me a message just to ask me and tell me "Do you really want to talk daily? I like long messages but I can't promise to contact you often" If you really are unsure please don't send me a message.I don't need more acquaintances aka people to talk to - occasionallyI'm not trying to sound rude - I just don't want to meet new people and get emotionally attached - only to end up being left alone after weeks or months of daily conversations.I'm sick of that never ending story and always meeting people who ghost me without a single word (even if everything seems to be ok) or people who "change priorities" over time & become like strangers…I don't want to go through this ever again.Let me tell you one thing – A true friend would never just give up on you for no reason :)It’s always possible to find someone to have a random conversation with – someone willing to send you one message once or twice a week..but..It’s almost impossible to find people willing to make time for you.


I’m not asking a busy person to make time for me by changing some plans! Absolutely not! I’m here to find someone who wants to talk daily (throughout the day or maybe even night) of one’s own will.Someone looking for the same kind of connection.Strong friendships are based on mutual support. One of the best things you can do for a friend in need, is just to be there for them when they want to talk.I often see posts from people who always say how friendless they are because they don't feel loved or appreciated by their "friends" remember! A true friend - someone who truly likes you or someone who wants to get to know you - will always find time for you. 🙂


I'm not really interested in small talk/short messages - I love long and meaningful conversations. It's so easy to find someone who loves abbreviations and questions like "How are you?" How was your day? Or what are you interested in? But so hard/almost impossible to find a person who knows how to keep a conversation going & show others some effort.Building and maintaining friendships takes time and effort.Never allow pursuits or possessions to become bigger priorities than your relations with other people.Close friendships are so important to us because they are so difficult to form + Having friends can help you feel as if you belong to something that brings purpose and connection to your life


• I do NOT respond to any „Hey,hmu” or „u want to talk” type of messages (super short messages or messages full of abbreviations – I literally can’t stand abbreviations and acronyms in text messages) ALL messages full of abbreviations will immediately be ignored.I also don't like it when people ignore everything I say in private messages just to focus on some question or? Start talking only about themselves.. I love conversations with people refering to every part of my messages - not just some question.


• No dirty messages PLEASE.I'm not looking for anyone to flirt with and I'm not looking for a partner either. No NSWF profiles..I always check people's profiles (Even comment history) - To avoid guys,trying to get inappropriate photos from adult women or? flirt with them & If your comment history is full of rude comments - you and I wouldn't get along! I can't stand people who judge other people and use vulgar words to describe them or? Make fun of them.Respect is very important


• If both (you and I) are from the same country (I live in a non-English speaking country ) - I want to communicate with you in our first language! No - Not because I don't understand English because as you see - I do. Why then? English is simply overrated and people don't appreciate other languages as much as they should. So.. If we're from the same country and you want to talk only in English (which is quite common on reddit) - Talk to someone else. I just simply don't want to talk to a person from the same country - in a foreign language as It's just something I don't understand even If all you want is to practice your english

• Please only adult people 18-36 age range (I'm 27)


• I don’t respond to messages I don’t find interesting even If they're long - If after receiving and reading your message I don't feel comfortable or think "I wouldn't get along with him/her" I simply do not respond (what I’m suggesting is that I don’t always respond to someone’s first or second message because..sometimes you just know If you’d get along with someone or not- I’d never ignore anyone after days or weeks of daily conversations though) just because I don’t want to do anything forcefully & because I don’t want to lead anyone on. I read all messages but I definitely don't respond to all of them! I want to make it clear because I don't want to be accused of not responding and not reading people's messages! - Some people don't message me back as well and even though It is a bit disappointing I'm ok with that! - as long as there's no emotional bond - I think it's ok to not respond to someone's first or second message If people think they wouldn't get along! I can't stand being ignored after days or weeks of daily conversation and seeing people changing priorities but that's something different - something I don't want to go through ever again for real If I'm really interested in someone's message - I respond within a matter of minutes - max 6 hours (If I'm in bed - just sleeping) you won't even hear from me "I'm too busy" because I know myself and If I really was too busy to make time for others - I wouldn't be here. I either want to talk to someone..or not.I don't want to pretend someone I'm not and always try to find some cheap excuses to avoid others. (unlike some people)


• Don’t ask me “Can you tell me something about yourself?” If you really want to get to know me - you can ask me questions :) I'm an open book.


• It would be better If you guys were into emojis - just like me - just to describe your emotions through text. Two emojis - 🙂 and 🙁 are completely enough I just don't like emotionless messages.I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea"as it sounds dismissively.

• I want to talk on reddit first (just to make sure If I'd get along with you ) before moving to Discord or some other app


• Time response matters to me a lot! It matters to me whether I get a message back after one hour,three hours,6 hours or..12 hours and even..after a couple of days..And If you're another person just looking for one day conversation and then? "Disappear" for some amount of time longer than one day to come back and apologize me for being busy - don't even leave me a message.I just want to be honest with you from the start.I'm interested only in daily conversations


Why can’t you see any of my interests listed down below? Because what really matters to me is..who you are (If you’re honest,talkative,understanding,caring and trustworthy – for example) just simply – It matters to me what you’re like! not what you like.Don’t get me wrong – you can tell me what your hobbies are but in my personal opinion,common interests are important mainly when you want to find a gaming buddy (for example) or If you want to meet someone to hang out with in real life and..go bowling for example.What most people seem to care about are other people's interests – I don’t. I get along with other people despite having completely different hobbies but I absolutely don’t get along with people way different than me (different expectations and outlook on life– way different sense of humor or personality traits – It’s just an example) It doesn't make ANY DIFFERENCE to me If you're a gamer or? Someone interested in photography! It doesn't make any difference - > as long as you're talkative and kind and If you also want to find someone willing to stay in your life..for good - But If you're into small talk and all you want is to...type and receive super short messages or If you're here only because you're bored and don't know what to do + If you're a very sarcastic person - I'm definitely not for you!I don't get along with overly sarcastic people turning everything into a joke. Friendships should be natural – not forced.


Both people wanting to be friends should feel comfortable and have something in common. No - not necessarily a similar taste in music or movies but something else..Most friendships don't fizzle out because of people not having the same hobbies but..because they just simply have different expectations when It comes to something important.I'm not here out of boredom and trust me - I'm not here to meet as many people as possible.I choose quality over quantity.I higly value myself and my time & Sometimes one person but a person who makes you feel comfortable and understood - is more than enough :) We ALL can choose what kind of people we’d like to talk to and maybe even become really good friends with and I? I don’t want anyone to be disappointed.We all have some expectations after all.I know that people don't have to talk everyday to be friends but I'm interested only in daily conversations with someone also interested in talking dailyIf you really need someone to talk to due to loneliness and If you have time to talk to me daily (throughout the day and maybe even night)I always make time for others.I'm literally always available.I could even stay up all night long only to talk to someone. I’m ready to commit but only If there’s some chemistry between me and someone else.I don’t do anything forcefully.


If you want to talk to me tell me your story - tell me why you're here, what kind of friend would you like to meet :) Et cetera.Such messages are way more interesting to me than...someone's long list of hobbies. I know! It's unusual on reddit but I don't make friends based on hobbies..I want to meet someone with the same mindset as mine to finally feel understood and get close to someone new.You can share your problems with me - I absolutely don't mind "complaining" as I've been through a lot in my life.What do people usually tell you when you tell them that's something's wrong? "Don't complain" or "Life's not over yet - one day you'll be happy" or "There are worse situations than yours" and..obviously "Find a therapist" Life's not a fairytale and sometimes things don't go as planned.Emotions shouldn't be bottled up.I'm sick of people always telling others "everything's gonna be ok" move on " & more..Trust me people - not everyone wants to hear "Just believe in yourself and everything's gonna be ok" Some people take it as reassurance. But others see it as false hope. Imagine being told that things will be okay, only for them to get worse..Do you guys know why telling someone "everything's gonna be ok" Is wrong? Because you can't see the future.


You can't guarantee others that one day they'll finally be happy + when It comes to social interactions - We're only responsible for ourselves - not for others & as you guys know people let us down quite often (sometimes even when there's no reason) so instead of telling people how they should move on,forget everything and be happy or asking them to find a therapist - be there for them! Always be willing to listen to them If you really like them or want to get to know them & don't suggest everyone in a tough situation to find a therapist because a therapist won't ever replace a true friend + It's quite normal to be disappointed If people always do something to hurt you.Sharing your hardships with other people in a very similar situation or exactly the same one - is VERY helpful If the other person understands you & wants to start all over by just letting it all out & feeling emotional support instead of always hearing some "positive quotes" or someone saying "Stop complaining let's talk about something else"Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. I appreciate sensitive people who always try to understand others.Empathy is everything


Our world needs more peace 🤗 I've seen a lot of rude comments on reddit.If you don't agree with me - OK but please don't criticize me + Not everyone is here to ask for advice.Listen people - I know how different my post is & I know It won't be easy for me to find what or rather who - I'm looking for BUT I always want to be myself instead of pretending someone I'm not and lying to others.I know It would be easier if (like others) I had less expectations but I I know what I want and honestly? If my post was different..I wouldn't be me.Even If I won't meet a person I'd get along with - that's ok! but don't give me any unsolicited advice because I wouldn't change for someone who doesn't even know me pretty much as I wouldn't want to change anyone else.I'm not trying to "fit in" and be like everyone else - just to get more attention.Accept me for who I am or let go - is my motto.I'm not here to argue with anyone and to make fun of others.


Please - If you're a completely different person than the described type of person I'm looking for (If you love abrreviations,If you don't need an emotional connection,If you're sarcastic and quiet) or If you simply disagree with my post - don't force yourself to send me a message.I want my new potential friendship,to be natural which is why I want you to contact me If your needs are the same - I don't want you to try to change yourself only to please me - Pretending to be someone you're not - is the worst.I know It's possible to find what I'm looking for as I had conversations with people looking for exactly the same thing and being nice to me - I want to believe in my luck again as I had it a few times on reddit - I've recently lost someone I thought could be a friend of mine (such a perfect match) and I'm sad but I want to finally be happy again & find someone always wanting to talk - sending me random pictures throughout the day - food pictures or pictures of some animals and what is the most important to me? To find people who value online friendships as much as they would value real life ones as there's another human being on the other side


No comments please.Only Private messages and chat requests.I don't really like public conversations and I also do not respond to comments so If you want to send me a message just do it without saying "You can DM me" + I'm online almost all the time and yes - I am very selective but If I had to choose between having another (new) acquaintance and being in the same situation as I currently am - I'd always choose second option.I don't need more people to talk to every now and then and any chit chat so please think twice before you decide to send me a message
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