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2023.06.03 21:00 Available_Fun1455 Dealing with depression when chronically ill?
What practical steps besides therapy and medication do you manage to take despite the obstacles that chronic illness puts in your way?
So I had quite a major health setback recently which has resolved itself (sort of) but had a hugely negative impact on my mental health. Just when all this is kicking off my therapist suddenly announced they were going on a four month sabbatical. Nice.
Anyway, I take anti-depressants and I'm considering asking my psychiatrist to adjust the dose or give me something else as they don't seem to be helping much anymore. Now all of us in the chronic illness club know that there's more to getting better than taking pills (sigh). That said, it seems impossible for me to do the lifestyle improvements depression sufferers are told to.
Physical exercise means improved mood. I get it but besides the ten minute walk to school and back with my child and some light yoga stretches, there's not much I can do.
Have a strong support network and try to avoid self-isolation. What do I say to this one? AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA! When my recent chronic illness setback started I really resented not being able to go out and see friends. And fyi we're talking walk to the cafe opposite my house and do some light crochet while chatting not wild nights with excessive alcohol consumption and podium dancing.
Seriously, most of my friends seem to keep in touch with WhatsApp texting not real conversations. I struggle spending much time on screen so I generally leave voice messages for my close friends who live far away which is cool because then they leave their own mini podcasts in return. I feel lonely though (( live alone and have custody of my daughter every other week) and I know it's exacerbating my symptoms but I'm not sure how to 'build community' when I feel like this.
So what am asking is what practical steps besides therapy and medication do you manage to take despite the obstacles that chronic illness puts in your way?
I generally manage to cook nutritious food for myself most of the time despite everything but I am TERRIBLE with overeating comfort (i.e sugary) foods. Any tips for avoiding this?
Anyway, this is probably too long already and I can feel the nasty old brain fog kicking in so I'll sign off here. Any practical suggestions/shared experiences welcome :)
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So I had quite a major health setback recently which has resolved itself (sort of) but had a hugely negative impact on my mental health. Just when all this is kicking off my therapist suddenly announced they were going on a four month sabbatical. Nice.
Anyway, I take anti-depressants and I'm considering asking my psychiatrist to adjust the dose or give me something else as they don't seem to be helping much anymore. Now all of us in the chronic illness club know that there's more to getting better than taking pills (sigh). That said, it seems impossible for me to do the lifestyle improvements depression sufferers are told to.
Physical exercise means improved mood. I get it but besides the ten minute walk to school and back with my child and some light yoga stretches, there's not much I can do.
Have a strong support network and try to avoid self-isolation. What do I say to this one? AHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA! When my recent chronic illness setback started I really resented not being able to go out and see friends. And fyi we're talking walk to the cafe opposite my house and do some light crochet while chatting not wild nights with excessive alcohol consumption and podium dancing.
Seriously, most of my friends seem to keep in touch with WhatsApp texting not real conversations. I struggle spending much time on screen so I generally leave voice messages for my close friends who live far away which is cool because then they leave their own mini podcasts in return. I feel lonely though (( live alone and have custody of my daughter every other week) and I know it's exacerbating my symptoms but I'm not sure how to 'build community' when I feel like this.
So what am asking is what practical steps besides therapy and medication do you manage to take despite the obstacles that chronic illness puts in your way?
I generally manage to cook nutritious food for myself most of the time despite everything but I am TERRIBLE with overeating comfort (i.e sugary) foods. Any tips for avoiding this?
Anyway, this is probably too long already and I can feel the nasty old brain fog kicking in so I'll sign off here. Any practical suggestions/shared experiences welcome :)
2023.06.03 20:59 silencerfoxtail Fear of succeeding with shifting instead of faillure
More of a ramble than a question but I need to get it off my chest and Im curious to see if people relate because I could use some advice or just knowing im not the only one.
So I've been scripting my own custom intended reality now and have been on this shifting journey for months now, I came a long way and made so much progress I've worked through most of my fears around shifting and spirituality, but now I have a massive fear of succeeding rather than failling.
I know it sounds dumb but I scripted I have a very loving and supportive family in my IR. Growing up in the reality I am born in I didnt really have that but now I realised I can literally shift and have the relationship with my parents and siblings I've always wanted and needed and it terrifies me. It is literally the only thing holding me back right now and it's much more difficult to work through than any other mindset issues ive had. Part of me feels like a life where I can chase my dreams and having a loving family is too good to be true, even though I know that's just the wounded inner child talking.
Everything I have been writing and scripting has suddenly become so real and that realisation can be very overwhelming. I'm excited to shift but also terrified at the same time.
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So I've been scripting my own custom intended reality now and have been on this shifting journey for months now, I came a long way and made so much progress I've worked through most of my fears around shifting and spirituality, but now I have a massive fear of succeeding rather than failling.
I know it sounds dumb but I scripted I have a very loving and supportive family in my IR. Growing up in the reality I am born in I didnt really have that but now I realised I can literally shift and have the relationship with my parents and siblings I've always wanted and needed and it terrifies me. It is literally the only thing holding me back right now and it's much more difficult to work through than any other mindset issues ive had. Part of me feels like a life where I can chase my dreams and having a loving family is too good to be true, even though I know that's just the wounded inner child talking.
Everything I have been writing and scripting has suddenly become so real and that realisation can be very overwhelming. I'm excited to shift but also terrified at the same time.
2023.06.03 20:57 Frequent_Low_1753 Do kids really serve any utility or purpose in the modern world? Our minds literally have to make us stupid and irrational just to continue the existence of our species
I don't mean to ask this to sound mean or to criticize parents (im a mom myself) but I've been having this thought for a long time now and I want to hear other people's opinions on this
Im really trying to find a concrete purpose or ways having a kid adds more benefit to a person's life in the modern world. You could make the argument that kids had purpose before industrial society, like if you lived on a farm it would be beneficial to have kids so you'd have more people around to help out. But most people, especially in 1st world countries don't live like this anymore.
In today's world kids are more of a liability than a utility and idc if saying that makes me come off as a narcissist or psycho or whatever. Too many peoples lives (including my own) have basically been ruined as a direct result of having kids, I've witnessed everything from moms fearing for their life because they're forced to keep in contact with a known abusive ex for the sake of child custody and not being able to move out of their shitty hometowns to where they want for better career opportunities to decent men barely being able to see their kids and being forced to give their junkie ex 25% of their earnings for "child support" that doesn't even support their child but their ex's drug habits. They can barely save money or improve their conditions because a good amount of their earnings are robbed from them every month despite being actively involved in their kids life. (I'm not entirely against child support and I think willing deadbeats should have to pay but not decent father's who see their kids as much as daddy government allows them to)
Some will say that kids can take care of you as you get older which isn't always true. When you live in a culture of individualistic neoliberalism you can't count on anyone for anything and every other word you hear is "nobody owes you shit" which to be fair, not everyone deserves to be helped in their old age.
One person tried to tell me they can do chores but let's be real kids these days aren't doing chores and just sit on their ass playing Fortnite, watching hentai and having no friends (speaking to you, gen Z)
It's crazy to think our bodies and minds had to create mechanisms to make us irrational and sensation seeking. If humans didn't have bouts of baby fever or a sex drive we wouldn't be here because logically we realize kids are a net negative
What about kids can be beneficial and fulfilling? I'd like to hear peoples thoughts on this
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Im really trying to find a concrete purpose or ways having a kid adds more benefit to a person's life in the modern world. You could make the argument that kids had purpose before industrial society, like if you lived on a farm it would be beneficial to have kids so you'd have more people around to help out. But most people, especially in 1st world countries don't live like this anymore.
In today's world kids are more of a liability than a utility and idc if saying that makes me come off as a narcissist or psycho or whatever. Too many peoples lives (including my own) have basically been ruined as a direct result of having kids, I've witnessed everything from moms fearing for their life because they're forced to keep in contact with a known abusive ex for the sake of child custody and not being able to move out of their shitty hometowns to where they want for better career opportunities to decent men barely being able to see their kids and being forced to give their junkie ex 25% of their earnings for "child support" that doesn't even support their child but their ex's drug habits. They can barely save money or improve their conditions because a good amount of their earnings are robbed from them every month despite being actively involved in their kids life. (I'm not entirely against child support and I think willing deadbeats should have to pay but not decent father's who see their kids as much as daddy government allows them to)
Some will say that kids can take care of you as you get older which isn't always true. When you live in a culture of individualistic neoliberalism you can't count on anyone for anything and every other word you hear is "nobody owes you shit" which to be fair, not everyone deserves to be helped in their old age.
One person tried to tell me they can do chores but let's be real kids these days aren't doing chores and just sit on their ass playing Fortnite, watching hentai and having no friends (speaking to you, gen Z)
It's crazy to think our bodies and minds had to create mechanisms to make us irrational and sensation seeking. If humans didn't have bouts of baby fever or a sex drive we wouldn't be here because logically we realize kids are a net negative
What about kids can be beneficial and fulfilling? I'd like to hear peoples thoughts on this
2023.06.03 20:56 FractionSoil How can I help build a local playerbase for this TCG?
This game is a ton of fun! I tried asking one local card shop if they've considered trying a one piece tournament/get together, but they said they don't support "fad games", magic the gathering only
Nothing wrong with magic of course, but I like this TCG more. I got some starter decks and thought about letting people try out the game for free to see if they like it. What do you usually do? Or do you have a decent playerbase in your area?
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Nothing wrong with magic of course, but I like this TCG more. I got some starter decks and thought about letting people try out the game for free to see if they like it. What do you usually do? Or do you have a decent playerbase in your area?
2023.06.03 20:55 LAPThrow987 Another angle about the biOLoGy BS from defensive addicts
So I'm sure nearly all of us have encountered some form of the "men need porn, it's just their biOLogY!!" excuse from defensive porn addicts, whether it be from your own partner or random chodes on the internet.
The thinking is: men have lots and lots of sperm that that can regenerate relatively quickly so it's in their evolutionary interest to fuck anything with a pulse in the interest of maximizing their chances at producing offspring.
Obviously, that's a very very oversimplified take and one that completely ignores humans' intelligence and complex emotions and sexuality, and even if there were some tiny kernel of truth in it, that still doesn't excuse lying and cheating behavior that hurts his partner. He's an adult man for fucks sake, not a feral dog.
But hey, if men can use lazy evo-psych babble to justify their addiction, then why can't women do the same in response to that addiction?
We have a limited number of eggs and pregnancy is extremely hard on our bodies. And raising a human child is difficult (especially in prehistoric times) and its chances of survival are increased with both parents looking after it. So obviously we can't afford to be with some loser who will knock is up and then leave us to go impregnate some other cave-hussy. Thus OUR biology demands monogamy and a secure emotional connection with our partner.
Obviously, that's a very lazy oversimplification as well! But hey, if men can play the evo psych-babble card to justify why we have to accept their cheating behavior, then why exactly can't women do the same to justify why they require monogamy?! Why do THEIR "biOLogiCaL nEeDs" get to steamroll over OURS?
Simple...because it's not actually about "biology", it's about misogyny and entitlement and Main Character Syndrome where men get to act out freely and we're just the dainty little NPCs that have to conform to their every whim.
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The thinking is: men have lots and lots of sperm that that can regenerate relatively quickly so it's in their evolutionary interest to fuck anything with a pulse in the interest of maximizing their chances at producing offspring.
Obviously, that's a very very oversimplified take and one that completely ignores humans' intelligence and complex emotions and sexuality, and even if there were some tiny kernel of truth in it, that still doesn't excuse lying and cheating behavior that hurts his partner. He's an adult man for fucks sake, not a feral dog.
But hey, if men can use lazy evo-psych babble to justify their addiction, then why can't women do the same in response to that addiction?
We have a limited number of eggs and pregnancy is extremely hard on our bodies. And raising a human child is difficult (especially in prehistoric times) and its chances of survival are increased with both parents looking after it. So obviously we can't afford to be with some loser who will knock is up and then leave us to go impregnate some other cave-hussy. Thus OUR biology demands monogamy and a secure emotional connection with our partner.
Obviously, that's a very lazy oversimplification as well! But hey, if men can play the evo psych-babble card to justify why we have to accept their cheating behavior, then why exactly can't women do the same to justify why they require monogamy?! Why do THEIR "biOLogiCaL nEeDs" get to steamroll over OURS?
Simple...because it's not actually about "biology", it's about misogyny and entitlement and Main Character Syndrome where men get to act out freely and we're just the dainty little NPCs that have to conform to their every whim.
2023.06.03 20:54 Opposite-Plantain308 Scarlet and violet
First time buying some packs since base set...yes I am old lol
Did I pack anything good? I found it exciting none the less
Yes I put them in sleeves regardless of their worth I liked them 😜
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Did I pack anything good? I found it exciting none the less
Yes I put them in sleeves regardless of their worth I liked them 😜
2023.06.03 20:54 RichieP3 Child’s mother wants to take her
My daughter is 8 years old and I haven’t been with the mother since she was about 2. I’ve had her 3 nights a weeks vs her 4 for as long as I can remember. A few years ago she said she wanted to move back home to Texas (about 10 hours from my current location) so I filed for a CO to stop her. It worked. Now recently she’s met some military guy who’s stationed a few hours away and she’s been doing the long distance thing. She’s known him for 8-12 months if I had to put my best estimate, and has met my daughter 5 times at most. She is now saying that she is getting married and he’s getting stationed in Georgia and she’s moving down there and wants to take my daughter the school year and I can have her the summers and holiday breaks. I’m outraged for the following reasons: 1. I’ll get to see my daughter 3 months outta the year? 2. She barely knows this guy 3. All of my daughters immediate family/friends are here (except a few people, but they’re not in Georgia either) on top of that taking her out of her current school which she’s been in since the beginning. 4. Even if the custody swapped and I had her during the school years, it’s not fair to my daughter to only see 1 parent for 3 months while they’re having to work the summer. 5. He’s military so I’m sure he can be stationed somewhere else in a year or two which is no life for a little one.
I’m sure I can think of a few more reasons, though those are the main ones. My current CO has me getting her the 3 nights vs her 4 although we changed the days/pickup times throughout the years and it does state we can’t move without the others permission if it disrupts parental rights. Georgia is 12 hours away from me. After disagreeing over text messages, she is saying she is gonna file relocation papers and have the courts decide. Which also sucks because a day or two before finding this out I got my first accepted offer on a house. I didn’t budget in full weeks of daycare if worse comes to worse which could cost thousands a month in the summer. I don’t currently pay Child support being it been pretty much half and half and we’ve been pretty civil her whole life. although I would gladly pay it if it means my daughter stays in my life year round. So now I don’t know if I go through with the purchase although that’s the least of my worries now. I know I need to talk to my lawyer. but my questions are what can I expect a court to rule a case with these circumstances. What are all possible outcomes? Does she have the right to do this? Any further advice is much appreciated.
Further information: as far as I know she doesn’t have a job lined up down there (I could be wrong). She also states they wanna buy a house down there which if he’s stationed there he could be moved again so idk how that works. She said she wants it to be mid September which is only a few months away, so to find a house and close seems a little unrealistic and plus it’s super quick just to uproot my daughters life like that. We also both live without parents although I’m in the paperwork stage for a house.
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I’m sure I can think of a few more reasons, though those are the main ones. My current CO has me getting her the 3 nights vs her 4 although we changed the days/pickup times throughout the years and it does state we can’t move without the others permission if it disrupts parental rights. Georgia is 12 hours away from me. After disagreeing over text messages, she is saying she is gonna file relocation papers and have the courts decide. Which also sucks because a day or two before finding this out I got my first accepted offer on a house. I didn’t budget in full weeks of daycare if worse comes to worse which could cost thousands a month in the summer. I don’t currently pay Child support being it been pretty much half and half and we’ve been pretty civil her whole life. although I would gladly pay it if it means my daughter stays in my life year round. So now I don’t know if I go through with the purchase although that’s the least of my worries now. I know I need to talk to my lawyer. but my questions are what can I expect a court to rule a case with these circumstances. What are all possible outcomes? Does she have the right to do this? Any further advice is much appreciated.
Further information: as far as I know she doesn’t have a job lined up down there (I could be wrong). She also states they wanna buy a house down there which if he’s stationed there he could be moved again so idk how that works. She said she wants it to be mid September which is only a few months away, so to find a house and close seems a little unrealistic and plus it’s super quick just to uproot my daughters life like that. We also both live without parents although I’m in the paperwork stage for a house.
2023.06.03 20:53 Akehito G2A no help from support - received a used key
Order ID: 92000072459552
I bought on 2 separate purchases 100 USD steam card key during the same day from same reseller: Gamersuniverse
when I used the second key I received an error that indicated the key was already used "The Steam Waller code you have entered has already been redeemed. Steam Support is unable to issue you a new code" I thought this was an error or something so i tried the other code (maybe i mixed them up somehow) but the other code error was "The Steam Wallet code you have entered has already been previously redeemed on your account" - so the first one worked correctly, and the second was used and not by my account. I created a conversation with the seller which asked me to provide all kind of unnecessary stuff like my purchase history and image of the error and ETC so i provided the image and then seller decided its not enough and i need to go to Steam Support in order to ask for the time which they key was used. In my opinion that is nonsense - why do I need to seek help in different support of different sites when I made my purchase on G2A? - I asked the seller to go figure it out and contact steam support if its public info - seller refused and didn't replay to me since.
eventually I contacted them myself during ticket to g2a and to my surprise they refused to give me date and time of key usage - because its private info of the person who used it (which was not me).
So in the mean time I tried to seek help from G2A ticket systems which were not familiar with those small details and errors meanings - so it took a while to make them understand. they told me I must try what the seller ask or it will not be possible to refund me - so as i said I asked Steam Support for the use date and time on that key and they refused to help me. after providing the info to G2A support - the wind has changed and they told me that without police report of my authority they will not help me and my money is gone - and its my issue.
I am looking for help which i was not given not by the seller and not by the G2A team.
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I bought on 2 separate purchases 100 USD steam card key during the same day from same reseller: Gamersuniverse
when I used the second key I received an error that indicated the key was already used "The Steam Waller code you have entered has already been redeemed. Steam Support is unable to issue you a new code" I thought this was an error or something so i tried the other code (maybe i mixed them up somehow) but the other code error was "The Steam Wallet code you have entered has already been previously redeemed on your account" - so the first one worked correctly, and the second was used and not by my account. I created a conversation with the seller which asked me to provide all kind of unnecessary stuff like my purchase history and image of the error and ETC so i provided the image and then seller decided its not enough and i need to go to Steam Support in order to ask for the time which they key was used. In my opinion that is nonsense - why do I need to seek help in different support of different sites when I made my purchase on G2A? - I asked the seller to go figure it out and contact steam support if its public info - seller refused and didn't replay to me since.
eventually I contacted them myself during ticket to g2a and to my surprise they refused to give me date and time of key usage - because its private info of the person who used it (which was not me).
So in the mean time I tried to seek help from G2A ticket systems which were not familiar with those small details and errors meanings - so it took a while to make them understand. they told me I must try what the seller ask or it will not be possible to refund me - so as i said I asked Steam Support for the use date and time on that key and they refused to help me. after providing the info to G2A support - the wind has changed and they told me that without police report of my authority they will not help me and my money is gone - and its my issue.
I am looking for help which i was not given not by the seller and not by the G2A team.
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2023.06.03 20:50 561taytay My post just got removed bc it’s “not Miami related” I can’t support a West Palm rapper in here ? Y’all some haters, west Palm Broward and Miami shit the same we all south Florida, stop the division.
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2023.06.03 20:50 raven_0_3 I'm isolating myself from the people I'd need the most right now.
For context: I (19) have a longer history of mental struggles and made lots of bad experience in life. As a child I always felt different and as I do not really belong anywhere. I already needed lots if time for myself did not socialize much and people around me always gave me the feeling that something is wrong with me like I'm acting weird or like I'm too sensitive or emotional in lots of situation. My mother often made me feel weird or silly and I made experiences with being excluded by people my age. On top I also got physical problems because of chronic illness which weren't diagnosed for a long time and got worse. Because all of my problems people implied that I'm a burden I also often got the feeling that it is my fault that I'm causing all this struggle and I began to think about myself as a bad person. I moved out of my mother's house at the age of 17 because the situation escalated and I became more careful with who I call my friends. The time I moved out I got lots of support from my teachers and friends who did not blame my for anything that went wrong because of my physical health and mental struggles and I learned to accept myself a little bit more and care about my needs. The last month things got worse again. One and a half year ago I needed to repeat the schoolyear so I got in a new class which was lager than my old one and I did not know anybody. I still had my friends who supported me but things got more complicated. Then half a year ago my health got worse again and there where a few incidents at school. Nothing I could have controled but it interrupted the lessons and I was told that it would distract my classmates from their graduation. I had severe difficulties to deal with the struggles my health caused me and the doctors did not really help me again even after I needed an ambulance. I was very desperate and felt left alone. The next month I also had my final exams and it was a real struggle. I got pretty negative thoughts again some of the worst one where like "it would be better for everyone if I would end everything" or "nobody truly likes me or will ever like me I do not even belong to this world". In this time a also felt ignored by one of my friends and talked to her later and she was really sorry about it. The reason was that she got into a relationship and had her whole attention there but because she seemed to be really sorry I wanted not to think about it too much. Right now I do not have regular school anymore because the exams are almost over so I'm only irregularly in school and have lots of time. I spend lots of this time alone and I can feel how the isolation damages me. Earlier I sometimes called friends when things got too bad and I needed someone to talk and mostly they where very supportive. Now I'm isolating myself more and more. I also struggle because I deal with a really difficult aspect of my past in therapy right now. It's about the relationship to my dad and that he was the most important person in my life but got me often in situations that where dangerous or caused me pain. But back to my friends: I have currently very negative thoughts about myself and the relation to other people. I thought that ot would be good for me to contact someone because I feel how being lonely affects my mental health. I got more struggle to sleep and my sensory issues got so bad that being at a place with more people is really hard to stand. I had sensory issues my whole life but right now I'm even much more sensitive because the stuff that goes on in my head already overwhelms me so everything around me is just way too much. The days I went to school the last weeks (to prepare for my exams or organize other stuff) I sometimes met some of my friends and they asked if I'm okay because I probably acted more weird than usual. I just told them that everything's alright because it would have been to much for me to talk honestly in this situation but of course I could barely deal with the situation. Even though loneliness affects me in a bad way I'm barely able to socialize. The bad thoughts taking over. I feel worthless and sometimes think that those people do not really like me and that I only get attention because they feels pity for me or they feel like they need to talk to me because of social convention. I started to feel bad by contacting them because I thought I might annoy them or wasting their time and that I'm not worth it to get any attention. I'm also often afraid of making them angry or upset with anything I do. I also know that some mental illness like depression or social anxiety can make you think in this way of yourself and other people even if there is no reason to think like that about the situation. I'm just very confused right now and do not know what I should do or think about that. I'm kind of hating myself for my weird behavior. I think that it could really help me to have more contact so I do not feel so lonely anymore but I also have all of this negative thoughts and feelings and even if they might not be appropriate they are there and I do not know what I can do against it.
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2023.06.03 20:49 biggy_sauce What destiny imagines the typical divorced dad is like
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2023.06.03 20:46 VoidedCrescent Garage Sale Finds
Some cool cards I found at a garage sale today. The seller let me take the cards free since I bought a pro controller off him.
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2023.06.03 20:46 StrangeDrop555 What happened?
This game has been getting worse and worse with every update. It’s really annoying! I’m complaining here because the customer support is completely incompetent. The game keeps changing but never gets better! It just becomes more and more like a card collector and simulator than a game. I just want to play a baseball game with good graphics that’s not rigged. I don’t want to collect virtual cards. I want to play baseball. Rank and club mode are automatic play! PVP and clutch hits mode are a joke! Career mode is not my team. Master league mode is rigged and is more productive to play quick play. There’s nothing left! Greed has killed this game! Next up “Rivals”???
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2023.06.03 20:43 WinterCoffee10 I support my parents financially. Are there any ways to save some money?
Hi all,
Bit of context: I'm in my late 20s in renting in HCOL. I make little less than 110k/yr. Last 1.5 years I've been supporting my parents (very low income) financially, approximately $1200/month. My parents are in their late 60s, still working full time, and they still have a mortgage. I've been supporting them with this money until they can pay off their mortgage (should be only ~3 more years - exciting!). They never asked me to support them, but they have sacrificed so much for me, and this is the least I could do to help them retire before 70. My financial support will likely decrease a lot once their mortgage is paid off.
Anyways, instead of giving them $1200 cash per month, are there any other ways I could save a couple dollars a month? I know this is probably insignificant but just want to maybe hear what others are doing. Today, I thought, what if I put all their expenses (eg, internet) on my credit card. This way, I can get cashback or points (since my parents don't have great credit cards). So, for example, I could give them $1050/month and then pay $150 of their internet bill while getting some cash back.
Would love to hear all your thoughts.
Thank you all!
Edit: If it matters, my income will increase significantly ~5 years, but I want to support my parents now before they get too old.
Edit 2: My parents are very frugal, and only spend on necessary items. In fact, all of my $1200 is going straight to the mortgage.
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Bit of context: I'm in my late 20s in renting in HCOL. I make little less than 110k/yr. Last 1.5 years I've been supporting my parents (very low income) financially, approximately $1200/month. My parents are in their late 60s, still working full time, and they still have a mortgage. I've been supporting them with this money until they can pay off their mortgage (should be only ~3 more years - exciting!). They never asked me to support them, but they have sacrificed so much for me, and this is the least I could do to help them retire before 70. My financial support will likely decrease a lot once their mortgage is paid off.
Anyways, instead of giving them $1200 cash per month, are there any other ways I could save a couple dollars a month? I know this is probably insignificant but just want to maybe hear what others are doing. Today, I thought, what if I put all their expenses (eg, internet) on my credit card. This way, I can get cashback or points (since my parents don't have great credit cards). So, for example, I could give them $1050/month and then pay $150 of their internet bill while getting some cash back.
Would love to hear all your thoughts.
Thank you all!
Edit: If it matters, my income will increase significantly ~5 years, but I want to support my parents now before they get too old.
Edit 2: My parents are very frugal, and only spend on necessary items. In fact, all of my $1200 is going straight to the mortgage.
2023.06.03 20:43 Esg876 Looking to get a high end gaming PC
1. What will you be doing with this PC? Be as specific as possible, and include specific games (ex: resolution, FPS, settings) or programs you will be using.Right now I mainly play single playecoop/VR games. CSGO, Dota 2, new starship troopers, Total War: Warhammer 3 and mainly beat saber for VR on valve index. I will be buying the next high end Valve VR headset when it comes out. Looking for something that can run 1440p at 165 hz for a few years, and be quiet.
2. What is your maximum PRE-TAX budget before rebates and shipping?Price isn't a huge issue, ~3-4k but I can allocate more budget for quality of life upgrades.
3. When do you plan on building/buying the PC? Note: beyond a week or two from today means any build you receive will be out of date when you want to buy.Looking to buy within 2 months or later this year if there is something worth waiting for. Ideally looking to see what is a good build right now and keep an eye on sales.
4. What, exactly, do you need included in the budget? (ex: toweOS/monitokeyboard/mouse/etc)ToweOS, I MIGHT want to buy a 4k 144+hz monitor but might be a few years away
5. If reusing any parts (including monitor(s)/keyboard/mouse/etc), what parts will you be reusing? How old are they? Brands and models are appreciated.Using old monitors/mouse/keyboard. Dell S2721DGF is main gaming monitor (1440p, 165hz), have an HP 27' conference monitor from work (75 hz) all less then a year old. 3rd monitor is an old Asus ProArt (6+ years). Might reuse my Samsung Evo 860 1tb as secondary storage. (~2 years)
6. Will you be overclocking (ex: CPU/GPU/RAM)? If yes, are you interested in overclocking right away, or down the line?Will overlock CPU, however might be down the line if I don't need to do it now
7. Are there any specific features or items you want/need in the build? (ex: SSD, Wi-Fi/Bluetooth, VR, VirtualLink, tensor cores, large amount of storage or a RAID setup, CUDA or OpenCL support, etc)Bluetooth, SSD, VR
8. Do you have any specific case preferences (ex: mITX/mATX/mid-towefull-tower sizes, styles, colours, window or not, LED lighting, etc.), or a particular color theme preference for the components?Want a quieter case that has good cooling, mid/full tower, usually prefer black, side panel window and LEDs are nice to have but not a big deal.
9. Do you need a copy of Windows included in the budget? Note: some post-secondary students can get Windows 10 for free.Yes
10. Will you be upgrading this PC in the future (ie: will you swap out better parts later on or will you build an entirely new tower later)? If so, when?Might upgrade GPU and storage in the future
11. Do you have a brand preference? (ex: AMD/Intel for CPUs, AMD/NVIDIA for video cards, etc)Prefer AMD if possible, but looking for the better parts right now
12. What are the specs of your old PC / laptop? Do you want to see if it can be upgraded instead? If so, paste its build from PCPartPicker here.Not really looking to reuse anything except the Evo 860
PCPartPicker Part List
| Type | Item | Price |
|---|---|---|
| CPU | Intel Core i7-4930K 3.4 GHz 6-Core Processor | $165.00 @ Amazon |
| CPU Cooler | Noctua NH-D15 82.5 CFM CPU Cooler | $109.95 @ Amazon |
| Motherboard | Asus Sabertooth X79 ATX LGA2011 Motherboard | - |
| Memory | Corsair Dominator Platinum 16 GB (2 x 8 GB) DDR3-1866 CL9 Memory | - |
| Storage | Samsung 840 Evo 500 GB 2.5" Solid State Drive | $352.99 @ Amazon |
| Storage | Samsung 860 Evo 1 TB 2.5" Solid State Drive | $118.00 @ Amazon |
| Storage | Western Digital Caviar Black 2 TB 3.5" 7200 RPM Internal Hard Drive | $119.98 @ Amazon |
| Video Card | XFX THICC III Pro Radeon RX 5600 XT 6 GB Video Card | - |
| Power Supply | SeaSonic FOCUS Plus 750 Gold 750 W 80+ Gold Certified Fully Modular ATX Power Supply | $143.99 @ Amazon |
| Monitor | Dell S2721DGF 27.0" 2560 x 1440 165 Hz Monitor | $449.99 @ Best Buy |
| Prices include shipping, taxes, rebates, and discounts | ||
| Total | $1459.90 | |
| Generated by PCPartPicker 2023-06-03 14:38 EDT-0400 |
13. Extra info or particulars:Want to do air cooling as I don't really want to risk liquid damaging parts. I have really liked Noctua cooling in the past and will likely want to stay with them.
Need a graphics card that can handle 3 monitors +VR. I would also like to put my LG 55 Inch TV as well, but I don't think any gaming cards have 5 ports so not a huge deal for the TV.
2023.06.03 20:41 kava1234 How to navigate husband going NC with his mother?
MIL and husband have had a tumultuous relationship his entire life. She was emotionally and physically abusive towards him. She had him when she was 17 and it seems never really has forgiven him for “stealing” her youth. She had plenty of family support both financially and childcare wise. She would drop him off constantly with relatives so she could leave for an undetermined amount of which she spent drinking, getting multiple DUIs when he was in elementary school. She then married an abusive man who treated my husband like an outsider in their own home. He witnessed constant physical abuse and screaming. Husband has lasting impacts from this.
When I met MIL she was always very outwardly nice to me and thought the world of me. As time went on, I aged and matured and was no longer available to be her drinking partner, our relationship diminished. She would get drunk at gatherings at our house and act like an asshole. When I would be short with her and visibly uncomfortable, she’d complain about me to anyone who’d listen in the next room over. Husband decided to start therapy a few months ago and realized he really needed to go NC with her. When he mentioned he’d started therapy she made it entirely about her. One night I woke up to something like 12 page long text messages from her in our group chat because he had blocked her. Claiming she’d done nothing wrong ever and that my husbands younger twin brothers had been through apparently way worse than husband so he had no reason to complain….yeah idk.
Onto the advice part….she’s never played a huge part in my children’s lives because they aren’t a priority to her. She’s angry about our decision not to post them on social media, something she did with all of her own kids while privately treating them like shit. She did not help at all with my baby shower even though my own mother had passed away several years prior and showed up late with bull shit gifts that weren’t even on the registry. After berating us for buying our own crib and “taking that gift away” from someone else who may have wanted to buy it (??????!!). She is not allowed to have the kids at her house because she’s negligent and the last time we stayed there, she had a cabinet full of medicine at toddler height with no cabinet door, no baby gate on the stairs, bannisters that are too far apart so that toddler could fall through, open containers of cleaning chemicals in her bathroom AGAIN with no door on the cabinet. Also fed toddler hotdogs that were not halved or quartered…then did not handle the feedback appropriately. She’s recently been pressing me to see the kids more recently since returning home from “rehab” in Florida. I allowed her to come see them at my house while husband was out of town. He was fully aware she was coming as he doesn’t know what the right thing to do is as far as her relationship with our kids. After seeing them once, she texted me asking to take them by herself from their daycare to a zoo an hour from our house in a different state. That was obviously a NO! She is now pressing to see them more frequently and to be honest I can’t stand being around her. Husband will have to leave the home to maintain NC if she comes over. It’s exhausting but I am scared of the backlash of me cutting her relationship off from our kids. Anyone been through something similar and can advise??
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When I met MIL she was always very outwardly nice to me and thought the world of me. As time went on, I aged and matured and was no longer available to be her drinking partner, our relationship diminished. She would get drunk at gatherings at our house and act like an asshole. When I would be short with her and visibly uncomfortable, she’d complain about me to anyone who’d listen in the next room over. Husband decided to start therapy a few months ago and realized he really needed to go NC with her. When he mentioned he’d started therapy she made it entirely about her. One night I woke up to something like 12 page long text messages from her in our group chat because he had blocked her. Claiming she’d done nothing wrong ever and that my husbands younger twin brothers had been through apparently way worse than husband so he had no reason to complain….yeah idk.
Onto the advice part….she’s never played a huge part in my children’s lives because they aren’t a priority to her. She’s angry about our decision not to post them on social media, something she did with all of her own kids while privately treating them like shit. She did not help at all with my baby shower even though my own mother had passed away several years prior and showed up late with bull shit gifts that weren’t even on the registry. After berating us for buying our own crib and “taking that gift away” from someone else who may have wanted to buy it (??????!!). She is not allowed to have the kids at her house because she’s negligent and the last time we stayed there, she had a cabinet full of medicine at toddler height with no cabinet door, no baby gate on the stairs, bannisters that are too far apart so that toddler could fall through, open containers of cleaning chemicals in her bathroom AGAIN with no door on the cabinet. Also fed toddler hotdogs that were not halved or quartered…then did not handle the feedback appropriately. She’s recently been pressing me to see the kids more recently since returning home from “rehab” in Florida. I allowed her to come see them at my house while husband was out of town. He was fully aware she was coming as he doesn’t know what the right thing to do is as far as her relationship with our kids. After seeing them once, she texted me asking to take them by herself from their daycare to a zoo an hour from our house in a different state. That was obviously a NO! She is now pressing to see them more frequently and to be honest I can’t stand being around her. Husband will have to leave the home to maintain NC if she comes over. It’s exhausting but I am scared of the backlash of me cutting her relationship off from our kids. Anyone been through something similar and can advise??
2023.06.03 20:40 Dryja123 [USA-PA] [H] Modded Switch OLED & Modded PS Vita 1000 White [W] PayPal
Modded Switch OLED - $550 Shipped w/ signature required
Vita 1000 White - $185 Shipped w/ signature required
Gallery of photos here: https://imgur.com/a/kAt6mzC
I don't have pictures of the HWFly install in that switch, but here's pictures from my Zelda OLED: https://imgur.com/a/PKKqhuM
Please do not PM me with Switch modding requests. I do not take commissions. Thanks.
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- Modded with HWFly v4
- No SD card included
- No software support will be provided from me
- The console is not banned
Vita 1000 White - $185 Shipped w/ signature required
- It's in immaculate condition (see photos)
- Modded with Henkaku
- SD to Vita included with 256gb Sandisk micro SD card
- No software support will be provided from me
- Comes with OEM charger
Gallery of photos here: https://imgur.com/a/kAt6mzC
I don't have pictures of the HWFly install in that switch, but here's pictures from my Zelda OLED: https://imgur.com/a/PKKqhuM
Please do not PM me with Switch modding requests. I do not take commissions. Thanks.
2023.06.03 20:39 Thisisacryforhelp26 AITA for not wanting to learn how to cook before moving out for uni?
So for context, I’m 17F, i just graduated and am soon moving out to another city for college. My mom is pretty angry at me for not wanting to learn how to cook. Fyi i know how to do everything else, i know how to sweep, mop, vacuum, wash and dry clothes (with machine AND hand), i know how to keep the house clean. The only thing that i don’t know is how to cook, and thats not even entirely true, i know how to make chai, coffee, different types of omelettes, rice, roti, tomato soup, garlic bread, french toast and different types of basic pasta. I know enough cooking to survive, I’ve signed up for cafeteria meals anyways, there arent any kitchens in the dorms.
Now the main part, my mom has ISSUES, shes possessive, obsessive and controlling. She just doesn’t want me to go, and she’s trying to stop me by hook or by crook. She also has anger issues, she starts yelling and cursing first thing in the morning and doesn’t stop until we go to bed at night. She also plays the victim card, ALL THE TIME. She thinks every issue i try to bring up is a jab/ blaming finger at her and her parenting.
Context, my family is pretty fucked up, dad’s an alcoholic ANGRY man with misogyny and sexism running in his veins, mom is a control freak with anger issues, both abusive asf, brother is a golden child with a superiority complex, basically treats me like I’m some idiot begger freeloading in his house.
My mom just LOVES to make me into some monster, she always complains to anyone who would listen, about how i do NOTHING in the house, how im lazy, how she has to call me a thousand times before i answer and climb down the stairs, how i make faces and arrogant expressions every time she tries telling me smth, how i have a hugeeeee attitude.
She tries guilt tripping me into doing everything she says by complaining about it to people i love, because she knows i wouldn’t want them to stop loving me.
Shes not exactly a bad mon all the time, she does a lot for me, she gets me whatever i want, she does love me, she does so much for me, spends so much effort and money on me.
But honestly the abuse, the beatings and yelling and getting blamed for everything and being treated inferior to my brother, it somehow overshadows all that she does for me.
So aita? For rebelling and arguing all the time and being a bad kid all round?
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Now the main part, my mom has ISSUES, shes possessive, obsessive and controlling. She just doesn’t want me to go, and she’s trying to stop me by hook or by crook. She also has anger issues, she starts yelling and cursing first thing in the morning and doesn’t stop until we go to bed at night. She also plays the victim card, ALL THE TIME. She thinks every issue i try to bring up is a jab/ blaming finger at her and her parenting.
Context, my family is pretty fucked up, dad’s an alcoholic ANGRY man with misogyny and sexism running in his veins, mom is a control freak with anger issues, both abusive asf, brother is a golden child with a superiority complex, basically treats me like I’m some idiot begger freeloading in his house.
My mom just LOVES to make me into some monster, she always complains to anyone who would listen, about how i do NOTHING in the house, how im lazy, how she has to call me a thousand times before i answer and climb down the stairs, how i make faces and arrogant expressions every time she tries telling me smth, how i have a hugeeeee attitude.
She tries guilt tripping me into doing everything she says by complaining about it to people i love, because she knows i wouldn’t want them to stop loving me.
Shes not exactly a bad mon all the time, she does a lot for me, she gets me whatever i want, she does love me, she does so much for me, spends so much effort and money on me.
But honestly the abuse, the beatings and yelling and getting blamed for everything and being treated inferior to my brother, it somehow overshadows all that she does for me.
So aita? For rebelling and arguing all the time and being a bad kid all round?
2023.06.03 20:38 birthdaycakeantrye Delaying to the bitter end
My ex and their lawyer are constantly dragging their feet. They refused to respond to the parenting agreement or the MSA, we finally had to go to trial due to lack of response. The trial date was a month ago, and the trial never happened because my ex agreed "just enough" in the conference. We couldn't finish in the time frame and all we have left is for them to approve the MSA drafted with all of the judge's reccomendations (or even respond to it so we can meet half way or go back to trial if they don't agree). Now we've had two hearings where he hasn't shown up and his lawyer says "we haven't heard from him, can we have more time" and the judge grants it. We have another hearing next week that I guess will be the same. The children's expense payments are often late so I contacted him this week to remind about the children's payments being over due, I'm quite broke from legal fees and need the payments as agreed upon in the court order. His response is that I am financially abusive to him, that I have caused all of the delays purposefully to abuse him, and that he won't let himself be abused by me anymore. I responded that we're waiting on his response to the MSA to finalize the divorce and that at the last two hearings they said that they couldn't reach him, I also gave him the information for the next hearing (which doesn't even need to happen if he will just reply- I have been, and am willing to agree to almost anything to finalize this divorce). He told me that he didn't like my tone and not to contact him about anything not related to the kids (he doesn't respond to child-related messages either). I expect that he's using this time to lower his support income even more (he was making triple my income, but now makes double my income after voluntarily quitting a large part of his income- the judge told him not to do it, but it was allowed anyway) I'm completely out of ideas and money, do we file a motion to go back to trial?
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2023.06.03 20:35 allie2action Arguing during pregnancy
What do I do. The father of my child is short tempered and has been only bringing me down. Every time I go to him for support he reacts like I'm burdening him and every time we hang out he brings a cloud of darkness with him. I understand he's going through a rough time with finding new work in a new town but I can't be stressed out and yelled at anymore. He burdens me with his stress and is awful to be around. He never puts my feelings first and every argument is like a negotiation for him to be nice. He usually comes around but not without a lot of work and stress on my part.
We just had a major argument because he came home from work early to do something nice by taking me to the farmers market, but in the car on the way there he was intense and stressful and severe and I asked him take me home instead because I'm doing my best to maintain my positivity and stay out of depression but it turned into a huge blowout. He won't take responsibility for his attitude and intensity and the effect it has on others. I was in a good mood before this but he acts like i was picking a fight and ultimately called me "too sensitive" and started screaming that I was a fucking psycho. We decided to end it there and then, he didn't want to take any responsibility and said he'd support the kid from afar but he can't do this. He begged me to let him send me away.
Now he's back and he doesn't want me to leave but he still has no idea how these ups and downs are negatively effecting my emotional well-being. I can't be responsible to negotiate kindness out of him anymore or explain to him in a way he understands that he is being difficult. He's just too intense. Yes our lives are stressful right now but should he have an ounce of awareness to at least TRY and put my feelings before his?
I feel so trapped. In his hometown we moved to with my money that's all gone now. I can't live out my life like this but we have pets and I can't be without them, and the nursery is ready and I just have no options. If I leave I have a hard road of rebuilding my life from nothing while being a single mother, and staying with family in New England that I don't see eye to eye with and don't really have the space for me or the funds to help. If I stay it's just more of the same. Gritting and bearing it punctuated with the occasional happy day or moment or memory where he wasn't being difficult.
I just don't know how I ended up with someone that finds it so difficult to be kind. 5 years together. What a fool I am
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We just had a major argument because he came home from work early to do something nice by taking me to the farmers market, but in the car on the way there he was intense and stressful and severe and I asked him take me home instead because I'm doing my best to maintain my positivity and stay out of depression but it turned into a huge blowout. He won't take responsibility for his attitude and intensity and the effect it has on others. I was in a good mood before this but he acts like i was picking a fight and ultimately called me "too sensitive" and started screaming that I was a fucking psycho. We decided to end it there and then, he didn't want to take any responsibility and said he'd support the kid from afar but he can't do this. He begged me to let him send me away.
Now he's back and he doesn't want me to leave but he still has no idea how these ups and downs are negatively effecting my emotional well-being. I can't be responsible to negotiate kindness out of him anymore or explain to him in a way he understands that he is being difficult. He's just too intense. Yes our lives are stressful right now but should he have an ounce of awareness to at least TRY and put my feelings before his?
I feel so trapped. In his hometown we moved to with my money that's all gone now. I can't live out my life like this but we have pets and I can't be without them, and the nursery is ready and I just have no options. If I leave I have a hard road of rebuilding my life from nothing while being a single mother, and staying with family in New England that I don't see eye to eye with and don't really have the space for me or the funds to help. If I stay it's just more of the same. Gritting and bearing it punctuated with the occasional happy day or moment or memory where he wasn't being difficult.
I just don't know how I ended up with someone that finds it so difficult to be kind. 5 years together. What a fool I am