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2023.06.03 06:47 ElleKats tourism advice
hi! i’m coming to thailand (bangkok, pattaya) in july, and had a few questions for the residents.
-is halal food common there? i really want to eat local food from roadside stalls and small restaurants, so i’m hoping they’re halal. please do recommend restaurants! i’ve also been wanting to try conveyor belt sushi; would i be able to find that there or nah? -which are the best beaches with not too much rush? -what’s the weather like in july? -what things are there to do for family (including a teenager and 11y/o)? -what spots are must-visits? same with food! -which places are good to buy stuff for cheap, but good quality? i’ve heard there are replicas of big brands sold there, so where should i look?
thank you so much in advance 🫶🏼
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-is halal food common there? i really want to eat local food from roadside stalls and small restaurants, so i’m hoping they’re halal. please do recommend restaurants! i’ve also been wanting to try conveyor belt sushi; would i be able to find that there or nah? -which are the best beaches with not too much rush? -what’s the weather like in july? -what things are there to do for family (including a teenager and 11y/o)? -what spots are must-visits? same with food! -which places are good to buy stuff for cheap, but good quality? i’ve heard there are replicas of big brands sold there, so where should i look?
thank you so much in advance 🫶🏼
2023.06.03 06:42 10mo3 Mcdonald price increase
I just went to get lunch from mcdonald and found out that they increased the price of double cheese burger meal from $7.00 to $7.50. I know rising costs and inflation but to raise it by 50 cents is kind of crazy.
Not sure if it's 50 cent increase for all items but probably not gonna eat at mcdonald as much anymore considering it's not even cheap when it's a god damn fast food place
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Not sure if it's 50 cent increase for all items but probably not gonna eat at mcdonald as much anymore considering it's not even cheap when it's a god damn fast food place
2023.06.03 06:42 bartriviaguy1989 Please level with me...how much am I looking at if I want to RENT a townhouse on Hamilton Mountain??
I'm really looking for advice and honest answers here, because I'm really struggling with my current situation. Been living in apartments for awhile, and I can't take it anymore because of one simple thing: shared walls and impact noise. It's gotten to the point where it's affecting me so bad that my mental health has taken a huge dive. I'm constantly in fight-or-flight panic mode, just waiting for that next loud thud or bang...all because one of my neighbors dropped a paper clip, or closed a door. I dread coming home from work and trying to relax at the end of the night. When i'm out with friends, I go into daydream mode and miss out on parts of conversation because i'm DREADING coming home again. I've started having horrible thoughts about 'ending it all", because of it. This is after years of making amazing progress in the right direction from previous mental struggles.
This is where i'm at right now, and i'm just being as upfront as possible with everybody.
And before people start saying the obvious: yes, I know there will always be noise...even in houses. It's not "noise" per se, that bothers me. Traffic noise, children screaming, dogs barking, even lawnmowers going....none of that gets to me even REMOTELY close to how sudden loud amplified sounds from my walls and ceiling are affecting me.
I'm currently paying 1650 for a two bedroom with my sister (we split the costs on everything), but can afford anything up to 3,000 per month if that's what it will take to get away from this and live more comfortably. I would gladly work 40 ADDITIONAL hours per week just to get away from this situation.
Can anyone help me on where to direct my search? Or give me a ballpark on what townhouse rentals are going for in the Hamilton Mountain region?
Please and thank you!!
submitted by bartriviaguy1989 to Hamilton [link] [comments]
This is where i'm at right now, and i'm just being as upfront as possible with everybody.
And before people start saying the obvious: yes, I know there will always be noise...even in houses. It's not "noise" per se, that bothers me. Traffic noise, children screaming, dogs barking, even lawnmowers going....none of that gets to me even REMOTELY close to how sudden loud amplified sounds from my walls and ceiling are affecting me.
I'm currently paying 1650 for a two bedroom with my sister (we split the costs on everything), but can afford anything up to 3,000 per month if that's what it will take to get away from this and live more comfortably. I would gladly work 40 ADDITIONAL hours per week just to get away from this situation.
Can anyone help me on where to direct my search? Or give me a ballpark on what townhouse rentals are going for in the Hamilton Mountain region?
Please and thank you!!
2023.06.03 06:42 chuu-o3o anyone understand special con?
hello everyone
i recently was admitted to the hospital for a day because of a viral infection that has been affecting me for ~2 weeks now. i have an upcoming exam and some people are suggesting i apply for special con but i have some concerns/questions i was wondering if anyone can help answer.
other Qs:
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i recently was admitted to the hospital for a day because of a viral infection that has been affecting me for ~2 weeks now. i have an upcoming exam and some people are suggesting i apply for special con but i have some concerns/questions i was wondering if anyone can help answer.
- is a viral infection enough to get approved special con? i was given a medical cert already but apparently there's a usyd version of paperwork that needs to be filled out?
other Qs:
- should i apply before the exam or after the exam? so should i sit the original exam or not?
- around what time would the new replacement exam date be? -- the reason why i want to sit the exam is because i'm not sure i can sit the new date if it is rescheduled (not from sydney - i've booked a flight home at the end of the exam block so if it's any later... i'll be unable to make it and is that an automatic fail?)
- if i do better on the original exam than the replacement exam - do they take the highest mark or is it the replacement paper mark they keep?
- if i think i did decent on the original exam, can i cancel/remove my special con application?
- is it true the replacement exam is so much harder than the original?
2023.06.03 06:41 Seeker_90 I need help with how to navigate through these issues.
Hi, I am here to represent some of the aspects of the dysfunctional family of my parents. I have made peace with the past but there have been a few recent events with each family member that are bothering me lately. I am working on myself, reminding myself that although some of it is affecting me now, it does not really matter. Its the logical mind though which needs convincing. What should I do here? Any help is appreciated 1. My Elder Sister (her and I have an age gap of almost 2 years):There was an incident that happened when we were teens, affecting her and me both. I lost my connection with friends little by little. Life became a mess really. She chose to bring this up and how it affected her, (years later) when she introduced me to her - to be fiancee - FOR THE FIRST TIME, trying to pick up a fight then and there. She was 28F (in2020) at the time. I am not sure what she expected out of it and why she did that. When I brought incidences on how she had literally been an asshole to me all her life, she tried to justify herself looking at him as if the only person there purer than the purest water on earth was her. (Really?) I did not storm out or anything like that but handled it like a more mature person than her. It really made me think later though on how far she could go to paint a picture about me to someone who was going to be a part of the family. It also made me realize that I was right to think that she and mum had many conversations belittling me (which was obvious infront but not it was obvious behind my back too), My mother is a narcissist btw. She asked me one time this year if I wanted to stay at her house for a week since she and her now husband would be out there would be no one at home, I said okay. Now when I was leaving her house, since the door had automatic lock, I did not do the manual lock (from outside). I was on my way to the airport when she showed her disapproval on this. So I went back, but there was a malfunction on the door, it was not opening at all for me to even lock it. She was literally screaming on the phone over the video call. I could see my parents sitting behind in the video call, watching this whole ordeal, I tried opening this giant door, slamming myself to it but it did not budge. I eventually had to take help of the neighbour. He was a physically bigger person than me. And he too had trouble opening the door but with effort, he pushed it open. I was then able to lock the door automatically +manually.Later I noticed I had big blood clots (three) covering my right thigh, the side from which I was slamming myself on to the door. Even when she visits home, she tries to degrade my choices, my weight, anything related to me. I told her I like myself and how I do things.There was one time, when during our conversation she asked me what I wanted to eat (for the first time). I said no, she insisted. When I told her and it was a pretty cheap order, her reaction and the entire demeanor changed. She booked the order but was so agitated, didn't continue the call and I never said yes to any of her questions after. 2. Father : I took a break from my corporate career in 2021 to pursue a career in government. I asked my father if he was okay with me being at home to prepare. Initially, he said okay but it was clear later on that he really did not care on if I had my own space to prepare or the privacy. And no I don't have a room, I sleep in the drawing room on a deewan (bed) right infront of the main door. He watches TV all day and couldn't care less on what is happening elsewhere in the house.To cope with this and the guests, relatives and visits of my siblings (both elder sissy and brother), I started studying at night.In the morning, he could hardly care on how loud he is moving things around, arranging utensils or so. I am trying to get a job again to get my own place. I don't know how I managed this long at home with such things. 3. Brother : He is so self - righteous.Initially, he and I shared rooms. And he was always on the phone. One time I asked him to go to the balcony and talk or the other room and he said it was not convenient for him. I told him I am preparing for my government exam and what do you know? It turns into an altercation. My mother asked me to leave the room, being all about solutions. When I told her it's impacting my preparation and I have to give the exam, she said ' everyday is an exam' (seriously?) I cried a lot that day after I settled in my father's room.To make it seem like she was trying to help me, she asked my father to let me study for 2 hours each day. (Really? 2 hours?),which was not okay by him. He loves his TV and so.Oh well. He never apologized and still, till date, never apologizes even when he is in the wrong. He does apologize to my sister. It's all about the money she earns now. Because he often makes note of it and always looks at her salary. So I think that way, he is inclined to say sorry to her. He did not say sorry to her too before she was earning well. 4. My Mother: I think the person I had most issues with throughout my life is my mother. I love her for the being that resides in her but I oh so fucking hate her for how she treats me directly/ indirectly. She projects her limitations on me, always remarking 'oh you can't do that'.She has always wanted me to be less than my sister. How do I know this? She oftens pointed out in a derogatory way whenever I did well in life. I was the first in this family to get a well paid job and she was not happy about it, at all. When I was in the process of giving interview, I remember she remarked says 'That is, if you get this job, you will go there'. I was taken aback but I mean, what else did I expect. When I was earning well, these guys were all about me, asking me for gifts and things, which I was happy to oblige to. Now, she always ALWAYS like a speaker on the top of my head, speaks about how wonderful of a jobmy sister has, her salary, the new flat she is buying and how richlyand royally our new dog is living with her, something which he was not living like before, when he was living with her. About the government exams I am preparing for, she always talks about how less of a salary the posts have. I really don't have any idea about why she says these things. When I try to confront her, she takes it in a very defensive way and I'd not say anything to her at all. Now that my brother is in another city because of his job, she has taken the room.I had an interview yesterday and I asked her for the room (there is always someone coming and going in the drawing room) and the energy got so dull as if I was not entitled to it. How do you think would be the best way to navigate through these emotions and incidences?
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2023.06.03 06:41 Seeker_90 I need help with how to navigate through these issues.
Hi, I am here to represent some of the aspects of the dysfunctional family of my parents. I have made peace with the past but there have been a few recent events with each family member that are bothering me lately. I am working on myself, reminding myself that although some of it is affecting me now, it does not really matter. Its the logical mind though which needs convincing. What should I do here? Any help is appreciated 1. My Elder Sister (her and I have an age gap of almost 2 years):There was an incident that happened when we were teens, affecting her and me both. I lost my connection with friends little by little. Life became a mess really. She chose to bring this up and how it affected her, (years later) when she introduced me to her - to be fiancee - FOR THE FIRST TIME, trying to pick up a fight then and there. She was 28F (in2020) at the time. I am not sure what she expected out of it and why she did that. When I brought incidences on how she had literally been an asshole to me all her life, she tried to justify herself looking at him as if the only person there purer than the purest water on earth was her. (Really?) I did not storm out or anything like that but handled it like a more mature person than her. It really made me think later though on how far she could go to paint a picture about me to someone who was going to be a part of the family. It also made me realize that I was right to think that she and mum had many conversations belittling me (which was obvious infront but not it was obvious behind my back too), My mother is a narcissist btw. She asked me one time this year if I wanted to stay at her house for a week since she and her now husband would be out there would be no one at home, I said okay. Now when I was leaving her house, since the door had automatic lock, I did not do the manual lock (from outside). I was on my way to the airport when she showed her disapproval on this. So I went back, but there was a malfunction on the door, it was not opening at all for me to even lock it. She was literally screaming on the phone over the video call. I could see my parents sitting behind in the video call, watching this whole ordeal, I tried opening this giant door, slamming myself to it but it did not budge. I eventually had to take help of the neighbour. He was a physically bigger person than me. And he too had trouble opening the door but with effort, he pushed it open. I was then able to lock the door automatically +manually.Later I noticed I had big blood clots (three) covering my right thigh, the side from which I was slamming myself on to the door. Even when she visits home, she tries to degrade my choices, my weight, anything related to me. I told her I like myself and how I do things.There was one time, when during our conversation she asked me what I wanted to eat (for the first time). I said no, she insisted. When I told her and it was a pretty cheap order, her reaction and the entire demeanor changed. She booked the order but was so agitated, didn't continue the call and I never said yes to any of her questions after. 2. Father : I took a break from my corporate career in 2021 to pursue a career in government. I asked my father if he was okay with me being at home to prepare. Initially, he said okay but it was clear later on that he really did not care on if I had my own space to prepare or the privacy. And no I don't have a room, I sleep in the drawing room on a deewan (bed) right infront of the main door. He watches TV all day and couldn't care less on what is happening elsewhere in the house.To cope with this and the guests, relatives and visits of my siblings (both elder sissy and brother), I started studying at night.In the morning, he could hardly care on how loud he is moving things around, arranging utensils or so. I am trying to get a job again to get my own place. I don't know how I managed this long at home with such things. 3. Brother : He is so self - righteous.Initially, he and I shared rooms. And he was always on the phone. One time I asked him to go to the balcony and talk or the other room and he said it was not convenient for him. I told him I am preparing for my government exam and what do you know? It turns into an altercation. My mother asked me to leave the room, being all about solutions. When I told her it's impacting my preparation and I have to give the exam, she said ' everyday is an exam' (seriously?) I cried a lot that day after I settled in my father's room.To make it seem like she was trying to help me, she asked my father to let me study for 2 hours each day. (Really? 2 hours?),which was not okay by him. He loves his TV and so.Oh well. He never apologized and still, till date, never apologizes even when he is in the wrong. He does apologize to my sister. It's all about the money she earns now. Because he often makes note of it and always looks at her salary. So I think that way, he is inclined to say sorry to her. He did not say sorry to her too before she was earning well. 4. My Mother: I think the person I had most issues with throughout my life is my mother. I love her for the being that resides in her but I oh so fucking hate her for how she treats me directly/ indirectly. She projects her limitations on me, always remarking 'oh you can't do that'.She has always wanted me to be less than my sister. How do I know this? She oftens pointed out in a derogatory way whenever I did well in life. I was the first in this family to get a well paid job and she was not happy about it, at all. When I was in the process of giving interview, I remember she remarked says 'That is, if you get this job, you will go there'. I was taken aback but I mean, what else did I expect. When I was earning well, these guys were all about me, asking me for gifts and things, which I was happy to oblige to. Now, she always ALWAYS like a speaker on the top of my head, speaks about how wonderful of a jobmy sister has, her salary, the new flat she is buying and how richlyand royally our new dog is living with her, something which he was not living like before, when he was living with her. About the government exams I am preparing for, she always talks about how less of a salary the posts have. I really don't have any idea about why she says these things. When I try to confront her, she takes it in a very defensive way and I'd not say anything to her at all. Now that my brother is in another city because of his job, she has taken the room.I had an interview yesterday and I asked her for the room (there is always someone coming and going in the drawing room) and the energy got so dull as if I was not entitled to it. How do you think would be the best way to navigate through these emotions and incidences?
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2023.06.03 06:41 GooGooGaJoob_9 What would it take to move across the country?
My (32F) husband (38M) was just offered a job in Texas and we live in WI. We’ve been together for 9 years and married for 6. We have a 5 mo old and live a little under an hour from my parents. His parents live on the east coast. I’m self employed and work from home.
The job offer isn’t life changing money but a “2 level step in pay” which is a 10% raise for him. They cover relocation. It’s the job he’s been wanting and ultimately has been working towards. He was asked to apply by his bosses boss. It could take 3-4 years minimum to have the chance to go for this job again.
It could be a fun new chapter. Our son is young enough that it wouldn’t disrupt school or friendships. It doesn’t have to be a forever thing. I’ve never lived far away from home. It’s only a 2.5 hour flight. Our friends are growing up and not getting together like we used to.
What kind of money would you need to up and start over?
For those of you that moved in your 30s to a new state.. are you glad you did? How do you get over leaving close friends? Support system? I’ve never been more torn on what to do. Start the new chapter or stay with what’s comfortable where there’s support and less stress?
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The job offer isn’t life changing money but a “2 level step in pay” which is a 10% raise for him. They cover relocation. It’s the job he’s been wanting and ultimately has been working towards. He was asked to apply by his bosses boss. It could take 3-4 years minimum to have the chance to go for this job again.
It could be a fun new chapter. Our son is young enough that it wouldn’t disrupt school or friendships. It doesn’t have to be a forever thing. I’ve never lived far away from home. It’s only a 2.5 hour flight. Our friends are growing up and not getting together like we used to.
What kind of money would you need to up and start over?
For those of you that moved in your 30s to a new state.. are you glad you did? How do you get over leaving close friends? Support system? I’ve never been more torn on what to do. Start the new chapter or stay with what’s comfortable where there’s support and less stress?
2023.06.03 06:40 Specialist_Agency_52 Delayed flight by 18hrs
Las April 9, we had a flight with Frontier from Chicago-Las Vegas at 12:48PM. Frontier initially delayed the flight by 1hr and then delayed again by another 2hrs and finally delayed it by 18hrs which meant the flight is scheduled to depart the next day. Frontier agents gave us the option for a refund via their WhatsApp which we immediately did and the agent on WhatsApps processed and confirmed the refund without issues.
Suddenly, when we followed up for the refund after 2 weeks, we were informed that we are not entitled for a refund because we were a no-show to our flight which was obviously a big lie.
Already filed a dispute with my bank and sent screenshots of the whatsapp agent processing our refund. Has anyone ever encountered this? Do you think the bank will accept my dispute?
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Suddenly, when we followed up for the refund after 2 weeks, we were informed that we are not entitled for a refund because we were a no-show to our flight which was obviously a big lie.
Already filed a dispute with my bank and sent screenshots of the whatsapp agent processing our refund. Has anyone ever encountered this? Do you think the bank will accept my dispute?
2023.06.03 06:35 Possible-Win-4804 Where to start
I met a guy flying a badass drone. Long story short I tried to purchase it with no luck. Months go by and he gets in a bind I guess and sells it to me real cheap. Suspiciously cheap. So I got it. I have flown it yet. After studying stuff I learned I have a flysky nirvana radio and I came across beta flight. I guess I need to identify the flight controller to get started. How can I do that?
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2023.06.03 06:32 Seeker_90 I need help with how to navigate through these issues.
Hi, I am here to represent some of the aspects of the dysfunctional family of my parents. I have made peace with the past but there have been a few recent events with each family member that are bothering me lately. I am working on myself, reminding myself that although some of it is affecting me now, it does not really matter. Its the logical mind though which needs convincing. What should I do here? Any help is appreciated
She asked me one time this year if I wanted to stay at her house for a week since she and her now husband would be out there would be no one at home, I said okay. Now when I was leaving her house, since the door had automatic lock, I did not do the manual lock (from outside). I was on my way to the airport when she showed her disapproval on this. So I went back, but there was a malfunction on the door, it was not opening at all for me to even lock it. She was literally screaming on the phone over the video call. I could see my parents sitting behind in the video call, watching this whole ordeal, I tried opening this giant door, slamming myself to it but it did not budge. I eventually had to take help of the neighbour. He was a bigger person than me. And he too had trouble opening the door but with effort, he pushed it open. I was then able to lock the door automatically +manually.Later I noticed I had big blood clots (three) covering my right thigh, the side from which I was slamming myself on to the door.
Even when she visits home, she tries to degrade my choices, my weight, anything related to me. I told her I like myself and how I do things.There was one time, when during our conversation she asked me what I wanted to eat (for the first time). I said no, she insisted. When I told her and it was a pretty cheap order, her reaction and the entire demeanor changed. She booked the order but was so agitated, didn't continue the call and I never said yes to any of her questions after.
He never apologized and still, till date, never apologizes even when he is in the wrong. He does apologize to my sister. It's all about the money she earns now. Because he often makes note of it and always looks at her salary. So I think that way, he is inclined to say sorry to her. He did not say sorry to her too before she was earning well.
I was the first in this family to get a well paid job and she was not happy about it, at all. When I was in the process of giving interview, I remember she remarked says 'That is, if you get this job, you will go there'. I was taken aback but I mean, what else did I expect.
When I was earning well, these guys were all about me, asking me for gifts and things, which I was happy to oblige to.
Now, she always ALWAYS like a speaker on the top of my head, speaks about how wonderful of a jobmy sister has, her salary, the new flat she is buying and how richlyand royally our new dog is living with her, something which he was not living like before, when he was living with her.
About the government exams I am preparing for, she always talks about how less of a salary the posts have. I really don't have any idea about why she says these things. When I try to confront her, she takes it in a very defensive way and I'd not say anything to her at all.
Now that my brother is in another city because of his job, she has taken the room.I had an interview yesterday and I asked her for the room (there is always someone coming and going in the drawing room) and the energy got so dull as if I was not entitled to it.
How do you think would be the best way to navigate through these emotions and incidences?
submitted by Seeker_90 to FamilyIssues [link] [comments]
- My Elder Sister (her and I have an age gap of almost 2 years):There was an incident that happened when we were teens, affecting her and me both. I lost my connection with friends little by little. Life became a mess really. She chose to bring this up and how it affected her, (years later) when she introduced me to her - to be fiancee - FOR THE FIRST TIME, trying to pick up a fight then and there. She was 28F (in2020) at the time. I am not sure what she expected out of it and why she did that. When I brought incidences on how she had literally been an asshole to me all her life, she tried to justify herself looking at him as if the only person there purer than the purest water on earth was her. (Really?) I did not storm out or anything like that but handled it like a more mature person than her.
She asked me one time this year if I wanted to stay at her house for a week since she and her now husband would be out there would be no one at home, I said okay. Now when I was leaving her house, since the door had automatic lock, I did not do the manual lock (from outside). I was on my way to the airport when she showed her disapproval on this. So I went back, but there was a malfunction on the door, it was not opening at all for me to even lock it. She was literally screaming on the phone over the video call. I could see my parents sitting behind in the video call, watching this whole ordeal, I tried opening this giant door, slamming myself to it but it did not budge. I eventually had to take help of the neighbour. He was a bigger person than me. And he too had trouble opening the door but with effort, he pushed it open. I was then able to lock the door automatically +manually.Later I noticed I had big blood clots (three) covering my right thigh, the side from which I was slamming myself on to the door.
Even when she visits home, she tries to degrade my choices, my weight, anything related to me. I told her I like myself and how I do things.There was one time, when during our conversation she asked me what I wanted to eat (for the first time). I said no, she insisted. When I told her and it was a pretty cheap order, her reaction and the entire demeanor changed. She booked the order but was so agitated, didn't continue the call and I never said yes to any of her questions after.
- Father : I took a break from my corporate career in 2021 to pursue a career in government. I asked my father if he was okay with me being at home to prepare. Initially, he said okay but it was clear later on that he really did not care on if I had my own space to prepare or the privacy. And no I don't have a room, I sleep in the drawing room on a deewan.
- Brother : He is so self - righteous.Initially, he and I shared rooms. And he was always on the phone. One time I asked him to go to the balcony and talk or the other room and he said it was not convenient for him. I told him I am preparing for my government exam and what do you know? It turns into an altercation. My mother asked me to leave the room, being all about solutions. When I told her it's impacting my preparation and I have to give the exam, she said ' everyday is an exam' (seriously?)
He never apologized and still, till date, never apologizes even when he is in the wrong. He does apologize to my sister. It's all about the money she earns now. Because he often makes note of it and always looks at her salary. So I think that way, he is inclined to say sorry to her. He did not say sorry to her too before she was earning well.
- My Mother: I think the person I had most issues with throughout my life is my mother. I love her for the being that resides in her but I oh so fucking hate her for how she treats me directly/ indirectly.
I was the first in this family to get a well paid job and she was not happy about it, at all. When I was in the process of giving interview, I remember she remarked says 'That is, if you get this job, you will go there'. I was taken aback but I mean, what else did I expect.
When I was earning well, these guys were all about me, asking me for gifts and things, which I was happy to oblige to.
Now, she always ALWAYS like a speaker on the top of my head, speaks about how wonderful of a jobmy sister has, her salary, the new flat she is buying and how richlyand royally our new dog is living with her, something which he was not living like before, when he was living with her.
About the government exams I am preparing for, she always talks about how less of a salary the posts have. I really don't have any idea about why she says these things. When I try to confront her, she takes it in a very defensive way and I'd not say anything to her at all.
Now that my brother is in another city because of his job, she has taken the room.I had an interview yesterday and I asked her for the room (there is always someone coming and going in the drawing room) and the energy got so dull as if I was not entitled to it.
How do you think would be the best way to navigate through these emotions and incidences?
2023.06.03 06:27 LucyAriaRose WIBTA if I didn’t get my sister a wedding gift?
I am not the Original Poster. That is u/EarthClassic230. He posted in AmItheAsshole
Mood Spoiler: Okay-ish? Still... the audacity
Original Post: May 25, 2023
Ok so I (25M) am a wedding planner so when my sister (32F) announced she was getting married, most of our family, her included, assumed I’d help plan it for her. I initially didn’t really want to as ger wedding is right in the middle of busy season so I’d miss out on gigs that would pay but then I decided that she’s my sister and this would be a good wedding gift and would just help with the wedding stress.
She was so happy when I agreed and we started going over her plans and themes, I found some venues and we went to look at them, I took care of all of the catering so all she had to do was taste test and pick, I was also able to use my connections to get her special deals and stuff like that.
At first it was pretty smooth but as time went on it just got more and more stressful. She wouldn’t communicate with anyone and almost got her photographer to quit (I had to convince him to stay), she’d constantly change her mind on things and then get mad they were changed as I should of known she was just being indecisive and that I should have stuck with the first option.
While I was setting up the registry she told me I could have first dibs on what gift I was getting her, I looked at her confused and said that my help planning was my gift. She then said that a lot of family helped out and they are still getting gifts. I told her that other family members helped move furniture or lend me their car to pick up supplies, I was doing most of the work and was missing out on actually getting paid helping her.
She said she’s greatful for my help but that this wouldn’t really constitute a gift unless I was paying for things like her dress or the venue. And she said it didn’t matter when I brought up that my connections have literally saved her thousands when you add them up.
She’s now calling me cheap and is getting our family involved. I don’t know what she told them (they won’t tell me) but they keep saying how selfish I am to make my sister’s big day all about me.
If I could afford it I wouldn’t mind getting her something, but the cheapest thing in the registry is almost $200 and I’m not well off, plus my loss of income I can’t afford something like that rn. I want to support her but I don’t think I’m gonna get her a gift, WIBTA if I didn’t?
OOP is voted NTA
Update Post: May 27, 2023 (2 days later)
I took some of your advice but didnt go as extreme as I think some of you were hoping I would, sorry but I can be of a people pleaser and I dont want to ruin what is supposed to be a happy moment in her life.
I put together a list of everything I had done, including all the discounts I had gotten her, I'm not sure if she knew they were discounts as I didnt say they were discounts, I was saying things like “I have been able to get you a quote of x amount from y for z”. Aswell as stating what I would normally charge for a wedding this sized. I then texted her to ask if we could get some lunch and talk.
When she arrived I showed her the list and explained that I'm not asking her to pay this but I wanted her to see how much I'm helping her and how much money I am losing by doing her wedding instead of taking on a client who would pay. At first she was shocked at the amount and accused me of lying to try and make her feel bad, I was able to show her bills from other weddings I had done before and a quick Google search showed that my prices are pretty average, she had never looked up any wedding planner or their rates bc she assumed I was always gonna do it.
She said she thought it wasnt that much as I didnt seem to be well off, I told her that while it does pay well I cant take on crazy amounts of clients since I need to give quality service and that I might not always get clients all year, plus I have a few medical expenses that can take out a large chunk.
She said I still must have some money saved up, I said I do but that I would be having to use it to cover my bills and stuff since my income is taking a hit due to taking on her wedding, after a while of insisting that some of the items on her registry arnt that expensive she relented, I wouldn't have to get her anything since I had gotten her enough discounts to qualify as a gift and that she was grateful for my help and services.
Honestly, I didnt know how much this was stressing me until that relief washed over me, I was thankful that this was over and we could continue with planning her wedding. I asked her to clear things up with our family as they wont talk to me about it, she agreed and sent a group text explaining that the gift incident was just a misunderstanding and that we had talked it out and cleared things up.
For those who are saying that her registry seems very expensive, her new husband, his family friends, and alot of her friend are very wealthy, and she makes sure our parents and other close family are taken care of so she kinds has become disconnected from people with “normal” financial status like me. There are alot of things on the list like designer handbags, clothes, shopping sprees, dinners, and even a car and second home on there. The cheaper items are some simple jewelry she liked.
She paid for my part of the lunch as an apology and since I'm struggling and things are all good now I think, thanks, everyone. Marked as ongoing in case we get any info on the wedding
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Mood Spoiler: Okay-ish? Still... the audacity
Original Post: May 25, 2023
Ok so I (25M) am a wedding planner so when my sister (32F) announced she was getting married, most of our family, her included, assumed I’d help plan it for her. I initially didn’t really want to as ger wedding is right in the middle of busy season so I’d miss out on gigs that would pay but then I decided that she’s my sister and this would be a good wedding gift and would just help with the wedding stress.
She was so happy when I agreed and we started going over her plans and themes, I found some venues and we went to look at them, I took care of all of the catering so all she had to do was taste test and pick, I was also able to use my connections to get her special deals and stuff like that.
At first it was pretty smooth but as time went on it just got more and more stressful. She wouldn’t communicate with anyone and almost got her photographer to quit (I had to convince him to stay), she’d constantly change her mind on things and then get mad they were changed as I should of known she was just being indecisive and that I should have stuck with the first option.
While I was setting up the registry she told me I could have first dibs on what gift I was getting her, I looked at her confused and said that my help planning was my gift. She then said that a lot of family helped out and they are still getting gifts. I told her that other family members helped move furniture or lend me their car to pick up supplies, I was doing most of the work and was missing out on actually getting paid helping her.
She said she’s greatful for my help but that this wouldn’t really constitute a gift unless I was paying for things like her dress or the venue. And she said it didn’t matter when I brought up that my connections have literally saved her thousands when you add them up.
She’s now calling me cheap and is getting our family involved. I don’t know what she told them (they won’t tell me) but they keep saying how selfish I am to make my sister’s big day all about me.
If I could afford it I wouldn’t mind getting her something, but the cheapest thing in the registry is almost $200 and I’m not well off, plus my loss of income I can’t afford something like that rn. I want to support her but I don’t think I’m gonna get her a gift, WIBTA if I didn’t?
OOP is voted NTA
Update Post: May 27, 2023 (2 days later)
I took some of your advice but didnt go as extreme as I think some of you were hoping I would, sorry but I can be of a people pleaser and I dont want to ruin what is supposed to be a happy moment in her life.
I put together a list of everything I had done, including all the discounts I had gotten her, I'm not sure if she knew they were discounts as I didnt say they were discounts, I was saying things like “I have been able to get you a quote of x amount from y for z”. Aswell as stating what I would normally charge for a wedding this sized. I then texted her to ask if we could get some lunch and talk.
When she arrived I showed her the list and explained that I'm not asking her to pay this but I wanted her to see how much I'm helping her and how much money I am losing by doing her wedding instead of taking on a client who would pay. At first she was shocked at the amount and accused me of lying to try and make her feel bad, I was able to show her bills from other weddings I had done before and a quick Google search showed that my prices are pretty average, she had never looked up any wedding planner or their rates bc she assumed I was always gonna do it.
She said she thought it wasnt that much as I didnt seem to be well off, I told her that while it does pay well I cant take on crazy amounts of clients since I need to give quality service and that I might not always get clients all year, plus I have a few medical expenses that can take out a large chunk.
She said I still must have some money saved up, I said I do but that I would be having to use it to cover my bills and stuff since my income is taking a hit due to taking on her wedding, after a while of insisting that some of the items on her registry arnt that expensive she relented, I wouldn't have to get her anything since I had gotten her enough discounts to qualify as a gift and that she was grateful for my help and services.
Honestly, I didnt know how much this was stressing me until that relief washed over me, I was thankful that this was over and we could continue with planning her wedding. I asked her to clear things up with our family as they wont talk to me about it, she agreed and sent a group text explaining that the gift incident was just a misunderstanding and that we had talked it out and cleared things up.
For those who are saying that her registry seems very expensive, her new husband, his family friends, and alot of her friend are very wealthy, and she makes sure our parents and other close family are taken care of so she kinds has become disconnected from people with “normal” financial status like me. There are alot of things on the list like designer handbags, clothes, shopping sprees, dinners, and even a car and second home on there. The cheaper items are some simple jewelry she liked.
She paid for my part of the lunch as an apology and since I'm struggling and things are all good now I think, thanks, everyone. Marked as ongoing in case we get any info on the wedding
2023.06.03 06:27 thr0waway-sooriginal My BF is angry at me any time I'm not giving him all my attention... is this normal?
This is a throwaway because my partner knows my real reddit, and I don't want them seeing this.... as I am falling to reddit right now because we are fighting. Also.... sorry it's so long.
For context: I am 27 F, and my partner is 33 M. We have been together for almost 7 years total, of which almost all of it was NOT long distance - 3ish years together and we actually got engaged (2018), but then we ended up breaking up in 2019. We were both mentally unwell and our relationship had gotten very toxic. I broke up with him. Fast forward, during peak covid we started chatting and hanging out again, and eventually got back together, though we aren't engaged again. Despite being broken up for about 10 months, during all of our relationship it was not LD, and we actually lived together for basically all of it.
Now, we are new to having a LDR. I moved away for work in April of this year. It has been just barely over 6 weeks since I have moved. I am pretty far away from him, in that it's not very easy or cheap to jump a plane and see each other whenever we want. However, I thought that we were doing good with out communication/staying in contact, but he has been fighting with me the past few days and saying otherwise. I have so many texts that I want to show someone because I am honestly unsure if this is very healthy the way he is speaking to me, but idk. I won't show them now, and just want to get some general advice: what do you guys expect to be a normal and fair amount of communication?
For us, we text all day every day. Without fail, that is something we are always doing. We keep each other updated, send photos from our day (food, selfies, etc.) and just make sure to check in and keep in touch. Aside from that, we talk on the phone just whenever it strikes throughout the week (I'd say in the 6 weeks I've been here, probably averaging on 2 times a week), we have played games online together maybe like 3 or 4 times and we have had sexy times I think 2 or 3 times. And for the last 2-3 weeks we have been watching at least one episode (if not two or three) of a show almost every night (save a night here or there when one of us has plans), while on the phone together at the same time.
I personally do not think that we aren't in enough contact with each other. I feel that we are having a good amount, if not even a lot, of contact and communication with each other. We never go a day without at least texting, and are often doing more than that anyway. And.... it has only been 6 weeks. However, he is angry with me and is saying that I am not giving him enough of my time, and that I am constantly putting him on the back burner or making him feel like a third wheel.
To just give more context - I just moved. 6 weeks ago. After living in my hometown and no where else, I have just moved to a new and very, very different area, with literally no one that I know. I was working remotely from summer 2022 until I moved this spring, so I have also been transitioning from working a fully at-home job (of which he was also WFH 60% of the time) to now being in a new city, needing to commute to and from work, and now working fully in office every day. It has been a HUGE adjustment for me, not only just the move (which is a big fucking thing) but also the transition to working fully in office is a big one. My days are automatically shorter, my energy is more spent. And the amount of time we used to spend together is not realistic now because before, that time was us both working from home.
So, aside from that, I am also in a new city and I am trying to make friends and get to know people, which obviously is going to take up some of my free time. Usually I only end up making plans on the weekends (and my bf and talk throughout the week too). However, he has expressed to me that he feels like I am not putting in enough effort for our relationship, and that I am essentially choosing other people over him. When I first moved, I accidentally double-booked myself a couple times, and it resulted in our plans either getting pushed back or moved to the next day. I totally understand that and take full responsibility for messing up my schedule that way. However, lately he has been getting upset if my plans run late and then cut into our potential time together. For example, this weekend we didn't make any actual plans for anything specific. We both had parties to go to on Saturday night, but that was it. On Friday I was not in a great mood (had a really long and emotionally exhausting week at work) and he was gaming with his brother online, so I had some me time. Saturday we had our respective parties, and then Sunday I had plans in the evening with some friends, but was free otherwise. We agreed to watch some of out show after my plans. My plans ran about 1.5 hours later than I thought they would (it was a pre-planned event, I had no control over the timing) and when I got home he really ripped into me and said that I was basically putting my friends above him because I was running late. Even though we still had time to watch 2 or 3 episodes before bed, he fought with me about basically tossing him aside and just texted me angrily about it until bed time.
I really didn't think I did anything wrong - we made our plans knowing that I already had previously ones. I kept him updated about the timing throughout the evening and let him know that I was running late. But when I got home he just totally slammed me with these texts about how I constantly push him aside and pick my "new life" over him all the time and that he feels like I don't care or love him or want him because of this. I'm just so at a loss for what to think and feel about this. Because I honestly really thought that we were doing well - like, we are in pretty near constant communication. But any time I have plans that aren't with him, suddenly I hate him and am ignoring him for my new life.... Like, it's only been 6 weeks and I feel like the way he's acting just isn't fair. But maybe I'm wrong. Any thoughts?
TLDR: My LDR boyfriends is upset when I have plans that don't involved him/if my other plans affect ours. We are in near constant communication with each other, and it has been 6 weeks since we went LDR.
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For context: I am 27 F, and my partner is 33 M. We have been together for almost 7 years total, of which almost all of it was NOT long distance - 3ish years together and we actually got engaged (2018), but then we ended up breaking up in 2019. We were both mentally unwell and our relationship had gotten very toxic. I broke up with him. Fast forward, during peak covid we started chatting and hanging out again, and eventually got back together, though we aren't engaged again. Despite being broken up for about 10 months, during all of our relationship it was not LD, and we actually lived together for basically all of it.
Now, we are new to having a LDR. I moved away for work in April of this year. It has been just barely over 6 weeks since I have moved. I am pretty far away from him, in that it's not very easy or cheap to jump a plane and see each other whenever we want. However, I thought that we were doing good with out communication/staying in contact, but he has been fighting with me the past few days and saying otherwise. I have so many texts that I want to show someone because I am honestly unsure if this is very healthy the way he is speaking to me, but idk. I won't show them now, and just want to get some general advice: what do you guys expect to be a normal and fair amount of communication?
For us, we text all day every day. Without fail, that is something we are always doing. We keep each other updated, send photos from our day (food, selfies, etc.) and just make sure to check in and keep in touch. Aside from that, we talk on the phone just whenever it strikes throughout the week (I'd say in the 6 weeks I've been here, probably averaging on 2 times a week), we have played games online together maybe like 3 or 4 times and we have had sexy times I think 2 or 3 times. And for the last 2-3 weeks we have been watching at least one episode (if not two or three) of a show almost every night (save a night here or there when one of us has plans), while on the phone together at the same time.
I personally do not think that we aren't in enough contact with each other. I feel that we are having a good amount, if not even a lot, of contact and communication with each other. We never go a day without at least texting, and are often doing more than that anyway. And.... it has only been 6 weeks. However, he is angry with me and is saying that I am not giving him enough of my time, and that I am constantly putting him on the back burner or making him feel like a third wheel.
To just give more context - I just moved. 6 weeks ago. After living in my hometown and no where else, I have just moved to a new and very, very different area, with literally no one that I know. I was working remotely from summer 2022 until I moved this spring, so I have also been transitioning from working a fully at-home job (of which he was also WFH 60% of the time) to now being in a new city, needing to commute to and from work, and now working fully in office every day. It has been a HUGE adjustment for me, not only just the move (which is a big fucking thing) but also the transition to working fully in office is a big one. My days are automatically shorter, my energy is more spent. And the amount of time we used to spend together is not realistic now because before, that time was us both working from home.
So, aside from that, I am also in a new city and I am trying to make friends and get to know people, which obviously is going to take up some of my free time. Usually I only end up making plans on the weekends (and my bf and talk throughout the week too). However, he has expressed to me that he feels like I am not putting in enough effort for our relationship, and that I am essentially choosing other people over him. When I first moved, I accidentally double-booked myself a couple times, and it resulted in our plans either getting pushed back or moved to the next day. I totally understand that and take full responsibility for messing up my schedule that way. However, lately he has been getting upset if my plans run late and then cut into our potential time together. For example, this weekend we didn't make any actual plans for anything specific. We both had parties to go to on Saturday night, but that was it. On Friday I was not in a great mood (had a really long and emotionally exhausting week at work) and he was gaming with his brother online, so I had some me time. Saturday we had our respective parties, and then Sunday I had plans in the evening with some friends, but was free otherwise. We agreed to watch some of out show after my plans. My plans ran about 1.5 hours later than I thought they would (it was a pre-planned event, I had no control over the timing) and when I got home he really ripped into me and said that I was basically putting my friends above him because I was running late. Even though we still had time to watch 2 or 3 episodes before bed, he fought with me about basically tossing him aside and just texted me angrily about it until bed time.
I really didn't think I did anything wrong - we made our plans knowing that I already had previously ones. I kept him updated about the timing throughout the evening and let him know that I was running late. But when I got home he just totally slammed me with these texts about how I constantly push him aside and pick my "new life" over him all the time and that he feels like I don't care or love him or want him because of this. I'm just so at a loss for what to think and feel about this. Because I honestly really thought that we were doing well - like, we are in pretty near constant communication. But any time I have plans that aren't with him, suddenly I hate him and am ignoring him for my new life.... Like, it's only been 6 weeks and I feel like the way he's acting just isn't fair. But maybe I'm wrong. Any thoughts?
TLDR: My LDR boyfriends is upset when I have plans that don't involved him/if my other plans affect ours. We are in near constant communication with each other, and it has been 6 weeks since we went LDR.
2023.06.03 06:26 thr0waway-sooriginal My BF is angry at me any time I'm not giving him all my attention... is this normal?
This is a throwaway because my partner knows my real reddit, and I don't want them seeing this.... as I am falling to reddit right now because we are fighting. Also.... sorry it's so long.
For context: I am 27 F, and my partner is 33 M. We have been together for almost 7 years total, of which almost all of it was NOT long distance - 3ish years together and we actually got engaged (2018), but then we ended up breaking up in 2019. We were both mentally unwell and our relationship had gotten very toxic. I broke up with him. Fast forward, during peak covid we started chatting and hanging out again, and eventually got back together, though we aren't engaged again. Despite being broken up for about 10 months, during all of our relationship it was not LD, and we actually lived together for basically all of it.
Now, we are new to having a LDR. I moved away for work in April of this year. It has been just barely over 6 weeks since I have moved. I am pretty far away from him, in that it's not very easy or cheap to jump a plane and see each other whenever we want. However, I thought that we were doing good with out communication/staying in contact, but he has been fighting with me the past few days and saying otherwise. I have so many texts that I want to show someone because I am honestly unsure if this is very healthy the way he is speaking to me, but idk. I won't show them now, and just want to get some general advice: what do you guys expect to be a normal and fair amount of communication?
For us, we text all day every day. Without fail, that is something we are always doing. We keep each other updated, send photos from our day (food, selfies, etc.) and just make sure to check in and keep in touch. Aside from that, we talk on the phone just whenever it strikes throughout the week (I'd say in the 6 weeks I've been here, probably averaging on 2 times a week), we have played games online together maybe like 3 or 4 times and we have had sexy times I think 2 or 3 times. And for the last 2-3 weeks we have been watching at least one episode (if not two or three) of a show almost every night (save a night here or there when one of us has plans), while on the phone together at the same time.
I personally do not think that we aren't in enough contact with each other. I feel that we are having a good amount, if not even a lot, of contact and communication with each other. We never go a day without at least texting, and are often doing more than that anyway. And.... it has only been 6 weeks. However, he is angry with me and is saying that I am not giving him enough of my time, and that I am constantly putting him on the back burner or making him feel like a third wheel.
To just give more context - I just moved. 6 weeks ago. After living in my hometown and no where else, I have just moved to a new and very, very different area, with literally no one that I know. I was working remotely from summer 2022 until I moved this spring, so I have also been transitioning from working a fully at-home job (of which he was also WFH 60% of the time) to now being in a new city, needing to commute to and from work, and now working fully in office every day. It has been a HUGE adjustment for me, not only just the move (which is a big fucking thing) but also the transition to working fully in office is a big one. My days are automatically shorter, my energy is more spent. And the amount of time we used to spend together is not realistic now because before, that time was us both working from home.
So, aside from that, I am also in a new city and I am trying to make friends and get to know people, which obviously is going to take up some of my free time. Usually I only end up making plans on the weekends (and my bf and talk throughout the week too). However, he has expressed to me that he feels like I am not putting in enough effort for our relationship, and that I am essentially choosing other people over him. When I first moved, I accidentally double-booked myself a couple times, and it resulted in our plans either getting pushed back or moved to the next day. I totally understand that and take full responsibility for messing up my schedule that way. However, lately he has been getting upset if my plans run late and then cut into our potential time together. For example, this weekend we didn't make any actual plans for anything specific. We both had parties to go to on Saturday night, but that was it. On Friday I was not in a great mood (had a really long and emotionally exhausting week at work) and he was gaming with his brother online, so I had some me time. Saturday we had our respective parties, and then Sunday I had plans in the evening with some friends, but was free otherwise. We agreed to watch some of out show after my plans. My plans ran about 1.5 hours later than I thought they would (it was a pre-planned event, I had no control over the timing) and when I got home he really ripped into me and said that I was basically putting my friends above him because I was running late. Even though we still had time to watch 2 or 3 episodes before bed, he fought with me about basically tossing him aside and just texted me angrily about it until bed time.
I really didn't think I did anything wrong - we made our plans knowing that I already had previously ones. I kept him updated about the timing throughout the evening and let him know that I was running late. But when I got home he just totally slammed me with these texts about how I constantly push him aside and pick my "new life" over him all the time and that he feels like I don't care or love him or want him because of this. I'm just so at a loss for what to think and feel about this. Because I honestly really thought that we were doing well - like, we are in pretty near constant communication. But any time I have plans that aren't with him, suddenly I hate him and am ignoring him for my new life.... Like, it's only been 6 weeks and I feel like the way he's acting just isn't fair. But maybe I'm wrong. Any thoughts?
TLDR: My LDR boyfriends is upset when I have plans that don't involved him/if my other plans affect ours. We are in near constant communication with each other, and it has been 6 weeks since we went LDR.
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For context: I am 27 F, and my partner is 33 M. We have been together for almost 7 years total, of which almost all of it was NOT long distance - 3ish years together and we actually got engaged (2018), but then we ended up breaking up in 2019. We were both mentally unwell and our relationship had gotten very toxic. I broke up with him. Fast forward, during peak covid we started chatting and hanging out again, and eventually got back together, though we aren't engaged again. Despite being broken up for about 10 months, during all of our relationship it was not LD, and we actually lived together for basically all of it.
Now, we are new to having a LDR. I moved away for work in April of this year. It has been just barely over 6 weeks since I have moved. I am pretty far away from him, in that it's not very easy or cheap to jump a plane and see each other whenever we want. However, I thought that we were doing good with out communication/staying in contact, but he has been fighting with me the past few days and saying otherwise. I have so many texts that I want to show someone because I am honestly unsure if this is very healthy the way he is speaking to me, but idk. I won't show them now, and just want to get some general advice: what do you guys expect to be a normal and fair amount of communication?
For us, we text all day every day. Without fail, that is something we are always doing. We keep each other updated, send photos from our day (food, selfies, etc.) and just make sure to check in and keep in touch. Aside from that, we talk on the phone just whenever it strikes throughout the week (I'd say in the 6 weeks I've been here, probably averaging on 2 times a week), we have played games online together maybe like 3 or 4 times and we have had sexy times I think 2 or 3 times. And for the last 2-3 weeks we have been watching at least one episode (if not two or three) of a show almost every night (save a night here or there when one of us has plans), while on the phone together at the same time.
I personally do not think that we aren't in enough contact with each other. I feel that we are having a good amount, if not even a lot, of contact and communication with each other. We never go a day without at least texting, and are often doing more than that anyway. And.... it has only been 6 weeks. However, he is angry with me and is saying that I am not giving him enough of my time, and that I am constantly putting him on the back burner or making him feel like a third wheel.
To just give more context - I just moved. 6 weeks ago. After living in my hometown and no where else, I have just moved to a new and very, very different area, with literally no one that I know. I was working remotely from summer 2022 until I moved this spring, so I have also been transitioning from working a fully at-home job (of which he was also WFH 60% of the time) to now being in a new city, needing to commute to and from work, and now working fully in office every day. It has been a HUGE adjustment for me, not only just the move (which is a big fucking thing) but also the transition to working fully in office is a big one. My days are automatically shorter, my energy is more spent. And the amount of time we used to spend together is not realistic now because before, that time was us both working from home.
So, aside from that, I am also in a new city and I am trying to make friends and get to know people, which obviously is going to take up some of my free time. Usually I only end up making plans on the weekends (and my bf and talk throughout the week too). However, he has expressed to me that he feels like I am not putting in enough effort for our relationship, and that I am essentially choosing other people over him. When I first moved, I accidentally double-booked myself a couple times, and it resulted in our plans either getting pushed back or moved to the next day. I totally understand that and take full responsibility for messing up my schedule that way. However, lately he has been getting upset if my plans run late and then cut into our potential time together. For example, this weekend we didn't make any actual plans for anything specific. We both had parties to go to on Saturday night, but that was it. On Friday I was not in a great mood (had a really long and emotionally exhausting week at work) and he was gaming with his brother online, so I had some me time. Saturday we had our respective parties, and then Sunday I had plans in the evening with some friends, but was free otherwise. We agreed to watch some of out show after my plans. My plans ran about 1.5 hours later than I thought they would (it was a pre-planned event, I had no control over the timing) and when I got home he really ripped into me and said that I was basically putting my friends above him because I was running late. Even though we still had time to watch 2 or 3 episodes before bed, he fought with me about basically tossing him aside and just texted me angrily about it until bed time.
I really didn't think I did anything wrong - we made our plans knowing that I already had previously ones. I kept him updated about the timing throughout the evening and let him know that I was running late. But when I got home he just totally slammed me with these texts about how I constantly push him aside and pick my "new life" over him all the time and that he feels like I don't care or love him or want him because of this. I'm just so at a loss for what to think and feel about this. Because I honestly really thought that we were doing well - like, we are in pretty near constant communication. But any time I have plans that aren't with him, suddenly I hate him and am ignoring him for my new life.... Like, it's only been 6 weeks and I feel like the way he's acting just isn't fair. But maybe I'm wrong. Any thoughts?
TLDR: My LDR boyfriends is upset when I have plans that don't involved him/if my other plans affect ours. We are in near constant communication with each other, and it has been 6 weeks since we went LDR.
2023.06.03 06:22 GooGooGaJoob_9 Are you happy you followed a job to another state?
My (32F) husband (38M) was just offered a job in Texas and we live in WI. We’ve been together for 9 years and married for 6. We have a 5 mo old and live a little under an hour from my parents. His parents live on the east coast. I’m self employed and work from home.
The job offer isn’t life changing money but a “2 level step in pay” which is a 10% raise for him. They cover relocation. It’s the job he’s been wanting and ultimately has been working towards. He was asked to apply by his bosses boss. It could take 3-4 years minimum to have the chance to go for this job again.
It could be a fun new chapter. Our son is young enough that it wouldn’t disrupt school or friendships. It doesn’t have to be a forever thing. I’ve never lived far away from home. It’s only a 2.5 hour flight. Our friends are growing up and not getting together like we used to.
What kind of money would you need to up and start over?
For those of you that moved in your 30s to a new state.. are you glad you did? How do you get over leaving close friends? Support system? I’ve never been more torn on what to do. Start the new chapter or stay with what’s comfortable where there’s support and less stress?
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The job offer isn’t life changing money but a “2 level step in pay” which is a 10% raise for him. They cover relocation. It’s the job he’s been wanting and ultimately has been working towards. He was asked to apply by his bosses boss. It could take 3-4 years minimum to have the chance to go for this job again.
It could be a fun new chapter. Our son is young enough that it wouldn’t disrupt school or friendships. It doesn’t have to be a forever thing. I’ve never lived far away from home. It’s only a 2.5 hour flight. Our friends are growing up and not getting together like we used to.
What kind of money would you need to up and start over?
For those of you that moved in your 30s to a new state.. are you glad you did? How do you get over leaving close friends? Support system? I’ve never been more torn on what to do. Start the new chapter or stay with what’s comfortable where there’s support and less stress?
2023.06.03 06:20 CanisDay Coming Out of BK....a RANT-PAGE
When we come out of BK, we need at least 2 things - not earth shattering realizations:
I am assuming we didn't get covid approvals, EUA and otherwise as FDA was reluctant to proceed with unrecognized company with fast track drugs during the epidemic. FDA went with the big boys: Pfzer, Moderna, J&J. I don't know....as I don't have any information from Sorrento or otherwise. Ji took a chance and tried to get an EUA and covid product approval. In hindsight analysis, where everyone is right, one can say Ji scattered resources, but if he had gotten an EUA, he would have be seen as a genius. Sorry if I am dredging up old news.....but if don't learn from the past, we are bound to repeat it.
I do realize that FDA will usually have the same educational backgrounds as people in big pharma and so it is not a stretch to see them end up there....but realizing that can create a perpetual conflict of interest or at the very least a "hmmm" moment!
I do believe a approval is coming really soon and we have a very valuable pipeline. A lot of effort is being made to beat us down and sell our assets on the cheap. Why would anybody care if our products were not good?
2) Shorting is addressed:
Is this even possible? There are alot of people making money off our backs and willing to put their greed before a company that could be potentially saving lives and easing pain and suffering. We are interested in making money too but we are doing something that builds Sorrento up.
BK might be a blessing in disguise as it lets a federal judge address this issue by empowering Sorrento/shareholder lawyers. If a federal judge realizes something is amiss - where are the SEC, FINRA or any other oversight agency? It is a wonder that any small startup ever survives in the stock market.
We can't come out of BK and have business as usual while shorts drive the price down without impunity. We finally have some teeth and it took BK to get us there!
When we come out of BK, hopefully we will get some answers, retrospectively, of what happened this year and the "what" and "why" in the sequence of events in that led to our eventual outcome. I think there was a plan in place before we went into BK and it's organic, evolving and responsive.
There are many wiser and more knowledgeable people than I on here - Please correct/update/add as you see fit. My motivation for writing is when we leave BK, I want SRNE to be up and running and not be shackled by the bottom feeders of the world.
Although It may sound like it, I am VERY OPTIMISTIC of our future!!!!
I am learning so much from you guys!!!!!!! - So Thank You!
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- An Approval:
I am assuming we didn't get covid approvals, EUA and otherwise as FDA was reluctant to proceed with unrecognized company with fast track drugs during the epidemic. FDA went with the big boys: Pfzer, Moderna, J&J. I don't know....as I don't have any information from Sorrento or otherwise. Ji took a chance and tried to get an EUA and covid product approval. In hindsight analysis, where everyone is right, one can say Ji scattered resources, but if he had gotten an EUA, he would have be seen as a genius. Sorry if I am dredging up old news.....but if don't learn from the past, we are bound to repeat it.
I do realize that FDA will usually have the same educational backgrounds as people in big pharma and so it is not a stretch to see them end up there....but realizing that can create a perpetual conflict of interest or at the very least a "hmmm" moment!
I do believe a approval is coming really soon and we have a very valuable pipeline. A lot of effort is being made to beat us down and sell our assets on the cheap. Why would anybody care if our products were not good?
2) Shorting is addressed:
Is this even possible? There are alot of people making money off our backs and willing to put their greed before a company that could be potentially saving lives and easing pain and suffering. We are interested in making money too but we are doing something that builds Sorrento up.
BK might be a blessing in disguise as it lets a federal judge address this issue by empowering Sorrento/shareholder lawyers. If a federal judge realizes something is amiss - where are the SEC, FINRA or any other oversight agency? It is a wonder that any small startup ever survives in the stock market.
We can't come out of BK and have business as usual while shorts drive the price down without impunity. We finally have some teeth and it took BK to get us there!
When we come out of BK, hopefully we will get some answers, retrospectively, of what happened this year and the "what" and "why" in the sequence of events in that led to our eventual outcome. I think there was a plan in place before we went into BK and it's organic, evolving and responsive.
There are many wiser and more knowledgeable people than I on here - Please correct/update/add as you see fit. My motivation for writing is when we leave BK, I want SRNE to be up and running and not be shackled by the bottom feeders of the world.
Although It may sound like it, I am VERY OPTIMISTIC of our future!!!!
I am learning so much from you guys!!!!!!! - So Thank You!
2023.06.03 06:20 jazzeriah Should I call customer service? Airline called police to meet plane after my 5 y/o turned up the volume on the iPhone a handful of times.
The flight attendant told us she had to wear headphones or turn the volume off. After my 5 y/o turned up the volume a bit a handful of times we took the phone away from her. Flight attendant then got a 2nd flight attendant who came over and handed us a written warning saying we MAY be violating federal law and the police had been called to meet us at the plane when we land. My 7 y/o then spent the rest of the flight terrorized that the police were coming for us.
Police met the plane and the flight crew had us disembark first. About six heavily armed officers escorted us up the gangway and into the airport. None of them could believe that the airline called them because my 5 y/o was using my iPhone with the volume on a handful of times before we took it away. They said we did nothing wrong. They said there would be no report. One of them told me that it was "insane" the airline even bothered them with this.
The whole thing was traumatic. Luckily the police were incredibly kind. We were also traveling with my 2 y/o, who I entertained the whole 5 hr flight. My kids didn't fight, they didn't yell. This went from zero to level 1,000 and the flight crew made it into an incredibly stressful situation and I'm wondering if I should call customer service over this.
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Police met the plane and the flight crew had us disembark first. About six heavily armed officers escorted us up the gangway and into the airport. None of them could believe that the airline called them because my 5 y/o was using my iPhone with the volume on a handful of times before we took it away. They said we did nothing wrong. They said there would be no report. One of them told me that it was "insane" the airline even bothered them with this.
The whole thing was traumatic. Luckily the police were incredibly kind. We were also traveling with my 2 y/o, who I entertained the whole 5 hr flight. My kids didn't fight, they didn't yell. This went from zero to level 1,000 and the flight crew made it into an incredibly stressful situation and I'm wondering if I should call customer service over this.
2023.06.03 06:19 Cygrace724 Tank clarity difference
 | Recently made a small rack in my basement of 10’s and three of the four have terrible clarity. All four are cheap Aqueons I got on sale and the far left in person is crystal clear and the rest are not great. Has anyone else had a noticeable difference in glass? The picture shows it a little but can’t capture it clearly, at first I thought I had a water problem when only running two but once I got the other two going I figured out it’s the glass. Any easy way to fix to stop me from going crazy every time I look at them? I was thinking a black background might even it out. Sorry for the very amateunewbie set up submitted by Cygrace724 to Aquariums [link] [comments] |
2023.06.03 06:19 Acceptable-Gas-1050 OUTLAND issues! READ
I log onto Outland and use play game in NINETIES! But have log in and NOT ORIGINAL MAP!! Owyn expo Luthius ERIK Apollo atropa all very unhelpful to new player. Item I need pay REAL MONEY to have and not gold and not cheap !? Community fun but list of things change:
PLAYER KILLERS too many and run TOGETHER
no safe place live no trammel?? It Ultima online
Mounts are horse or llama or Oscar big whop
Shelter iland only work till 70 or 80 I hit in a day! More time
Thief s r impossible 2 run from I HAVE INTERNET VERY VERY impossible still to catch
Arena suck
Faction require guild ?
Remove movement from scripts PLEASE this is ULTIMAAAA
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PLAYER KILLERS too many and run TOGETHER
no safe place live no trammel?? It Ultima online
Mounts are horse or llama or Oscar big whop
Shelter iland only work till 70 or 80 I hit in a day! More time
Thief s r impossible 2 run from I HAVE INTERNET VERY VERY impossible still to catch
Arena suck
Faction require guild ?
Remove movement from scripts PLEASE this is ULTIMAAAA
2023.06.03 06:16 H20FOSHO Just had these sun setter shades installed from sun protection of Florida. to block the rowdy west facing setting sun..I didn’t realize that those 3 walls would creating an outside room to chill in.
 | My fans blast better, the tv is easier to see. I can see 96% out but it’s 100% blocked from the other side. Each roller has unique remote channel so I can move 1 up and down independently, or all 3 go up and down together if needed. Cost $3k per roller. Not cheap. But The sun setter crew of 4 (all company employees) and Electrician employees work was 10/10 and totally worth the $9k. I have a 10 year warranty too. In Florida you get what you pay for. This is a lifestyle game changer. I want to give a shout out to Vinny, Shawn and frank. They said to me before the install: we will install this like it was our own house. Great work. If you live in south Florida contact these people sun protection of Florida. They do other shades too. We are ready for summer! submitted by H20FOSHO to pools [link] [comments] |
2023.06.03 06:15 RedRose_Belmont S1E6. Voyaging through strange seas of thought, alone.
Seeing Seng diving into the Sea of Time made me think of this poem:
Cambridge
By William Wordsworth (1770–1850) From “The Prelude”
It was a dreary morning when the wheels Rolled over a wide plain o’erhung with clouds,
And nothing cheered our way till first we saw
The long-roofed chapel of King’s College lift
Turrets and pinnacles in answering files,
Extended high above a dusky grove.
Advancing, we espied upon the road
A student clothed in gown and tasselled cap,
Striding along as if o’ertasked by Time,
Or covetous of exercise and air;
He passed,—nor was I master of my eyes
Till he was left an arrow’s flight behind.
As near and nearer to the spot we drew,
It seemed to suck us in with an eddy’s force.
Onward we drove beneath the castle; caught,
While crossing Magdalene Bridge, a glimpse of Cam;
And at the Hoop alighted, famous inn.
The Evangelist St. John my patron was:
Three Gothic courts are his, and in the first
Was my abiding-place, a nook obscure;
Right underneath, the college kitchens made
A humming sound less tunable than bees,
But hardly less industrious; with shrill notes
Of sharp command and scolding intermixed.
Near me hung Trinity’s loquacious clock,
Who never let the quarters, night or day,
Slip by him unproclaimed, and told the hours
Twice over with a male and female voice.
Her pealing organ was my neighbor too;
And from my pillow, looking forth by light
Of moon or favoring stars, I could behold
The antechapel where the statue stood
Of Newton, with his prism and silent face,
The marble index of a mind forever
Voyaging through strange seas of thought, alone.
All winter long, whenever free to choose,
Did I by night frequent the college groves
And tributary walks; the last, and oft
The only one, who had been lingering there
Through hours of silence, till the porter’s bell,
A punctual follower on the stroke of nine,
Rang, with its blunt, unceremonious voice,
Inexorable summons! Lofty elms,
Inviting shades of opportune recess,
Bestowed composure on a neighborhood
Unpeaceful in itself. A single tree,
With sinuous trunk, boughs exquisitely wreathed,
Grew there; an ash which winter for himself
Decked as in pride, and with outlandish grace:
Up from the ground, and almost to the top,
The trunk and every master branch were green
With clustering ivy, and the lightsome twigs
And outer spray profusely tipped with seeds
That hung in yellow tassels, while the air
Stirred them, not voiceless. Often have I stood
Foot-bound, uplooking at this lovely tree
Beneath a frosty moon. The hemisphere
Of magic fiction verse of mine perchance
May never tread; but scarcely Spenser’s self
Could have more tranquil visions in his youth,
Or could more bright appearance create
Of human forms with superhuman powers,
Than I beheld, loitering on calm, clear nights,
Alone, beneath this fairy work of earth
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Cambridge
By William Wordsworth (1770–1850) From “The Prelude”
It was a dreary morning when the wheels Rolled over a wide plain o’erhung with clouds,
And nothing cheered our way till first we saw
The long-roofed chapel of King’s College lift
Turrets and pinnacles in answering files,
Extended high above a dusky grove.
Advancing, we espied upon the road
A student clothed in gown and tasselled cap,
Striding along as if o’ertasked by Time,
Or covetous of exercise and air;
He passed,—nor was I master of my eyes
Till he was left an arrow’s flight behind.
As near and nearer to the spot we drew,
It seemed to suck us in with an eddy’s force.
Onward we drove beneath the castle; caught,
While crossing Magdalene Bridge, a glimpse of Cam;
And at the Hoop alighted, famous inn.
Three Gothic courts are his, and in the first
Was my abiding-place, a nook obscure;
Right underneath, the college kitchens made
A humming sound less tunable than bees,
But hardly less industrious; with shrill notes
Of sharp command and scolding intermixed.
Near me hung Trinity’s loquacious clock,
Who never let the quarters, night or day,
Slip by him unproclaimed, and told the hours
Twice over with a male and female voice.
Her pealing organ was my neighbor too;
And from my pillow, looking forth by light
Of moon or favoring stars, I could behold
The antechapel where the statue stood
Of Newton, with his prism and silent face,
The marble index of a mind forever
Voyaging through strange seas of thought, alone.
Did I by night frequent the college groves
And tributary walks; the last, and oft
The only one, who had been lingering there
Through hours of silence, till the porter’s bell,
A punctual follower on the stroke of nine,
Rang, with its blunt, unceremonious voice,
Inexorable summons! Lofty elms,
Inviting shades of opportune recess,
Bestowed composure on a neighborhood
Unpeaceful in itself. A single tree,
With sinuous trunk, boughs exquisitely wreathed,
Grew there; an ash which winter for himself
Decked as in pride, and with outlandish grace:
Up from the ground, and almost to the top,
The trunk and every master branch were green
With clustering ivy, and the lightsome twigs
And outer spray profusely tipped with seeds
That hung in yellow tassels, while the air
Stirred them, not voiceless. Often have I stood
Foot-bound, uplooking at this lovely tree
Beneath a frosty moon. The hemisphere
Of magic fiction verse of mine perchance
May never tread; but scarcely Spenser’s self
Could have more tranquil visions in his youth,
Or could more bright appearance create
Of human forms with superhuman powers,
Than I beheld, loitering on calm, clear nights,
Alone, beneath this fairy work of earth
2023.06.03 06:13 British_Tea_Company Respect: Cato Sicarius
Author's Note: Cato Sicarius is a sergeant during the events of "Blades of Damocles" and likely is wearing an inferior pattern of armor as well as being overall less experienced.
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Strength
- Crushes a T'au's ribcage Blades of Damocles
- Does a pull-up one-handed Blades of Damocles
- Breaks a shield-drone which just tanked a bolter shot Blades of Damocles
- Staggers a T'au warsuit with a jump pack boost Blades of Damocles
- Breaks a drone by kicking it Blades of Damocles
- Kills a Kroot by karate chopping its windpipe Blades of Damocles
- Rips a Kroot's head off Blades of Damocles
- Breaks a Kroot's spine by kicking it in the stomach Blades of Damocles
- Kills a Kroot warhound by punching it Blades of Damocles
- Kills a Kroot by headbutting it The Chapter's Due
Durability
- It takes a lucky shot from a fighter jet to kill a member of his squad, and two direct hits only damage his armor and knock him off course but do no significant damage beyond just causing aching which begins to fade in about a sentence Blades of Damocles
- Full speed impacts with the jump pack would 'only' shiver the bones. Still lands with the force to make large cracks in the ground without any mention of injury. Blades of Damocles.
- Takes no mentioned damage from a jolt that would have ripped a normal person's arm off Blades of Damocles
- Tanks a missile Blades of Damocles
- Kroot rifles and bayonets have no chance of penetrating Space Marine armor Blades of Damocles
- Tanks two missiles and is just angry Blades of Damocles
- Tanks a bolter shell and has tanked others in the past Blades of Damocles
- Tanks another one Blades of Damocles
- Tanks T'au weaponfire Blades of Damocles
- Is repeatedly shot by plasma bolts and only injured Blades of Damocles
- Is injured from a beating from another Space Marine that he actively does not resist Blades of Damocles
- A Kroot sword breaks on his chest The Chapter's Due
- Presumably is stabbed in the shoulder but doesn't seem to care The Chapter's Due
- Gets shot by a pistol that cratered in the faces of other space marines only forces him to a knee. The Chapter's Due
- Gets stabbed through the chest and uses it as a chance to grapple his opponent so they can be killed The Chapter's Due
Speed
- Dodges fighter jet gunfire Blades of Damocles
- At full sprint, Sicarius takes 10 foot long steps Blades of Damocles
- Speedblitzes a T'au before they can pull a trigger on another space marine Blades of Damocles
- Dodges plasma rifle fire Blades of Damocles
- Is the fastest member of his squad Blades of Damocles
- Changes a jump-pack mid-flight Blades of Damocles
- Dodges two homing missiles Blades of Damocles
- Scores an indirect hit on missiles mid-air Blades of Damocles
- Dodges a cannon shot Blades of Damocles
- Cuts off a faux Space Marine's hand, uses his body as a human shield, and then kicks a grenade away in the timespan it takes for the grenade to explode Blades of Damocles
Skill
- Began training in swordplay when he was old enough to grasp the weapon Space Marines Codex 8e
- Is a 'magnificently skilled' swordsman Ultramarines Supplement 8e
- Hits missiles mid-air with a gun Blades of Damocles
Senses
- Can vaguely make out an invisible enemy Blades of Damocles
Intelligence
- Refined lightning assaults to near-perfection Space Marines Codex 8e
- Can assess even the most 'chaotic' warzones at a glance Ultramarines Supplement 8e
Wargear
The Talassarian Tempest Blade is labelled as TTB.- TTB Never dulls due to its materials Ultramarines Supplement 8e
- TTB Slashes through a fighter jet's cockpit and its pilot Blades of Damocles
- TTB Stabs through a shield drone which was earlier seen tanking bolter rounds Blades of Damocles
- TTB Cuts off the head of a T'au warsuit Blades of Damocles
- TTB Cuts off an entire engine for a landing craft big enough to hold 50 people (demi-company Blades of Damocles
- TTB Chops off the entire wing of a bomber Blades of Damocles
- TTB Stabs through a T'au broadside Blades of Damocles
- Broadsides are pretty big Imperial Armor Vol 3
- TTB Stabs through both a Kroot and then a 'giant' Krootoid Blades of Damocles
- TTB Slices through two kroot warhounds Blades of Damocles
- TTB Chops through a faux Space Marine's hand Blades of Damocles
- TTB Stabs through a stealth suit Blades of Damocles
- TTB Cuts a Kroot from neck to hip The Chapter's Due
- TTB Kills foes 'by the dozen' The Chapter's Due
- TTB Chops through enemy Space Marines The Chapter's Due
- Plasma Pistol Hits a fighter jet at the nose, and creates an explosion big enough to kill the pilot Blades of Damocles
- Plasma Pistol Melts a hole inside a train tunnel big enough for him to fit through Blades of Damocles
- Plasma Pistol Melts a hole inside a train big enough for him to fit through Blades of Damocles
- Plasma Pistol Blasts a hole through a train's roof Blades of Damocles
- Plasma Pistol Blasts an engine off a transport big enough to carry 50 people and blows up a drone Blades of Damocles
- Plasma Pistol Blinds another Space Marine and singes his hair just by firing NEAR him Blades of Damocles
- Plasma Pistol Blasts off half the torso of a cloned human Blades of Damocles
- Plasma Pistol Burns missiles to the point of non-use by just flying near Blades of Damocles
- Plasma Pistol Blasts the limb off a Ghostkeel Blades of Damocles
- Plasma Pistol Blasts through a Kroot's head and then an entire tree trunk Blades of Damocles
- Plasma Pistol Blows off the head of a faux Space Marine Blades of Damocles
- TTB + Plasma Pistol Cuts + Shoots through a T'au Warsuit Blades of Damocles
- Jump Pack Shoots like a 'bullet' out of a city Blades of Damocles
- Jump Pack Exerts enough force to where it diverts the direction of a bomber into another bomber Blades of Damocles
Misc
- Acid spit goes through vegetation Blades of Damocles
- Acid spit burns through a roof Blades of Damocles
2023.06.03 06:12 Patient_Weakness3866 Did tom greens character in Freddy got fingered (who I guess is named freddy, lol) have autism?
I know this is a pretty crass thing to ask but he honestly seems like pretty accurate representation in that movie, and this is coming from someone with autism so you can't say that is some cheap insult either. idk
edit: I just realized freddy refers to another character so he wasn't named freddy and I sound like an idiot for thinking that, oh well.
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edit: I just realized freddy refers to another character so he wasn't named freddy and I sound like an idiot for thinking that, oh well.