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2010.06.05 06:13 murderous_rage The middle of Okanagan Lake
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2023.06.08 06:24 Full_Science1503 I'm about to do it
Standing on the second floor balcony of my house and going to jump off onto the concrete driveway below. I hate my life everyone and everything. FUCK the world and everyone in it
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2023.06.08 06:23 whirlpool4 Events for Fri 6/9 - Sun 6/11
** Fri 6/9 *\
* Fri 4 - 7:30 PM Food Truck Friday
Rio Rancho Regional Chamber of Commerce, 4201 Crestview Dr. SE, Rio Rancho We welcome attendees of all ages to gather together and enjoy great food and music Fri 5 - 7 PM Exhibit Opening: Colors That Speak Words
Indian Pueblo Cultural Center, 2401 12th St. NW Join us in celebration of the visual arts, poetry, and calligraphy. "Colors That Speak Words" is a collaborative installation between two writers and two visual artists with words, poetry, and visual arts and speaks to how this combination of mediums can be done in a cyclical way. The artists, Dr. Anthony Fleg, Mallery Quetawki (Zuni), Blythe Mariano (Diné), and Chilán Mustain, worked together to create an installation in motion, and the vision they bring to this space is from a contemporary perspective on how Native art is presented. This is an innovative view for visitors to see that Native art is changing and adjusting to the times. The artists will be present at the exhibit opening to read poetry and talk about this installation. Admission is free; please enter through South Entrance. Light refreshments will be served. This exhibit will be on display through October 15 Fri 5 - 10 PM Car Show & Concert!
EXPO NM Home of the New Mexico State Fair, 300 San Pedro Dr. NE Friday night fever Vol 2! CAR SHOW & AWARDs, RAP CONCERT, VENDORS, FOOD TRUCKS, GAMES, ROCK CLIMBING WALL. All Makes and Models welcome. FREE GENERAL ADMISSION. $7 Parking, $10 Car Show judging and awards (only if you want to register and compete) Event brought to you by Expo NM and Desert Sun Event Productions. Car show brought to you by Sins events and NM Lowrider Arte Fri 6 PM Rugby is a Drag (Show)!
Sidewinders Bar and Grill, 4200 Central Ave SE Get out your dancing cleats and trade in that eye black for eye liner! The very popular Rugby is a Drag (show!) and fundraiser, normally held earlier in the year, has moved to June 9th and Pride weekend in 2023! This year's event will be hosted by Miss Sidewinders 2023 Seliah Deleon and Le Femme Magnifique 2017 and fellow rugger SCRUMtious Cox! This year's show is returning to Sidewinders and, as in year's past, will benefit our friends at Casa Q
, which provides safe living for LGBTQ+ youth through housing, services and advocacy. This year's event will also feature participation from members of Elevated Roller Derby, NM United and more! (tickets) Fri 7 PM Movies in the Park - Puss in Boots: The Last Wish
Athena Park, 778 Athena Ave, Bernalillo
MOVIES IN THE PARK is back this SUMMER! We will feature a different movie at our local parks every FRIDAY night in June. Movies will begin at sundown and we will serve popcorn for free! Bring your lawn chairs, blankets, and beverages. All movies are FREE! In the case of inclement weather, movies will be cancelled Fri 8 PM - 12 AM Pride Dance Party
505 Spirits, 105 Harvard Dr. SE DANCE WITH US TO CELEBRATE PRIDE UNDER THE STARS @ PRIDE ON THE PATIO! DJ Baby D & DJ Rebel (Rori the Rebel) will drop your favorite hits - Get your dance on and show of your Pride with your best Pride outfit &/or Pride colors! Try our special cocktail: Prickly Pear Pride Punch, plus other great drinks and delicious food! Come early for dinner before you dance, daNCE, DANCE!!! Delicious Value Menu Items: $2.95 - NEW Sliders! (beef & veg) $1.95 - local blue corn dog pops (minis) $5.95 waffle fries & full sized blue corn dogs (veg or beef) Plus our flaky meat & veg hand pies, chunky chicken salad, mushroom pate & more! 21 & over Free Entry! Fri 9 PM Albuquerque Pride Afterparty
Historic Lobo Theater, 3013 Central Ave NE Starring Headliner: Malaysia Babydoll Foxx, DJ: Justin Cristofer, HOST: Vanessa Patricks, MEET THE QUEENS! Avery Martini, Imani Martini, Nova Martini, Kardio Karbdashian, Divyne Intervention. Private Early Entrance Meet N Greet begins at 8:15 p.m. entrance with Meet N Greet starting 8:30 p.m. Champagne Provided (tickets) Fri 9 PM Fierce Pride: Kandy Muse
Effex, 420 Central Ave SW Special guest from RPDR All Stars S13 and AS8, LA, CA, Meet and Greet 10:30 PM, doors 9p, show 11:30p Lounge: DJ Chris de Jesus Patio: DJ Aquattro Side Effex: DJ Mitch Fri 9:30 PM Salsa under the Stars After Party
JUNO, 1501 1st St. NW DJ Pedro, one of Albuquerque’s most loved DJ’s (DJ Pedro, DJ Tony, SoloVino, DJ Louie, DJ Darly + Eli Mix) mixing your favorite dance mix of Salsa, Bachata, Merengue and more! This is one of Albuquerque’s favorite after party summer outdoor events and will begin June 9th following the opening of Son Como Son kicking off the Salsa under the Stars at the Albuquerque Museum followed by the after party at Juno. Free entry to Juno with your stamp from the museum Fri 10:30 PM Twilight Zone: The Movie - 40th Anniversary Screening! One Night Only!
The Guild Cinema, 3405 Central Ave NE Check out the trailer
. Dir. Joe Dante, Steven Spielberg, John Landis & George Miller - 1983 - 102m - NO MATINEES. DOOR PRIZES COURTESY OF BUBONICON 54! Based on the popular television series, this film is a collection of four frightening tales of the supernatural, each by a different director--Joe Dante, Steven Spielberg, John Landis, and George Miller! The film opens with Dan Aykroyd and Albert Brooks as two hapless road-trippers who tell scary stories to pass the time. The four segments that follow include some updated re-creations of classic Twilight Zone episodes. In the first, racist Bill Connor (Vic Morrow) is transformed into a Jew in World War II. Next, Mr. Bloom (Scatman Crothers) comes to a retirement home to teach the residents that they are only as young as they feel. In the third, teacher Helen Foley (Kathleen Quinlan) meets Antony (Jeremy Licht), a boy who is not what he seems. In the final segment, panicky plane passenger John Valentine (John Lithgow) sees gremlins attacking his flight ** Sat 6/10 *\
* Sat 8 AM - 2 PM NMHRS Garage Sale
7903 Robin Ave NE Hosted by the New Mexico House Rabbit Society. All sales go into our vet fund so that we can continue to provide medical care to rabbits in need. This is a multi-family garage sale so there will be lots to browse through Sat 8 AM - 10 PM All The Things: Craft Cocktail & Mixer Launch
Tractor Brewing Company, 118 Tulane Dr. SE The next evolution in the craft cocktail experience is here and officially launch in Nob Hill for Pride! What is All The Things? Well, let me tell you. Imagine 100% fresh cold pressed juice, pure cane sugar, and Troubled Minds spirits all in one 1L bottle ready to pour over ice! That's right you can purchase these ready made bottle cocktails now at ANY of our locations! We have: Margarita with Tequila, Paloma with Tequila, Kentucky Mule with Bourbon, Ginger Lemonade with Vodka, Limeade with Vodka & Bloody Mary with Vodka! Grab you one to go for $16! We will be using mixers of these behind our bars so you can get a first hand taste! And offering non alcoholic lavender, ginger, and classic lemonades for you to sip on! These truly are All The Things in one bottle! Sat 9 AM - 12 PM Family, Fit, Fun Fest
Tiguex Park, 1800 Mountain Rd. NW Join us for the Girl Scouts of New Mexico Trails 2nd annual Family, Fit, Fun Fest. Bring your whole family to this free, all-ages event to learn about keeping fit and healthy - mentally, physically, and emotionally. Learn new skills and discover ways to keep your mind and body healthy and active, as you visit interactive booths led by community partners. Booths will include hands-on activities like games, puzzles, and brain teasers, as well as interactive lessons in martial arts, dance, mindfulness, and more. Booths will also include information on youth classes, clubs, and teams, as well as opportunities to meet local healthcare providers and learn more about mental health, nutrition, eye care, and dental care for your whole family. Climb to the top of a rock wall, make your way through an obstacle course, try the football toss or the baseball toss, shoot a hockey puck, or score a goal at interactive stations around the event! Meet and take photos with local sports teams and/or mascots and stop by Menchie's Froyo Mobile for a sweet treat. Girl Scout Members can participate in a special event scavenger hunt when they pre-purchase
the 2023 GSNMT Family, Fit, Fun Fest patch Sat 10 AM SOCH PRIDE '23
Albuquerque Social Club, 4021 Central Ave NE Come show your PRIDE at the ONLY place to be SOCHial! We are taking over the parking lot for a FREE ALL AGES event. We have multile bands, musicians and perfromers ready to give a PRIDE you wont forget. Food Truck, Vendors, Face Painting, Car Show, Games, Country Dancing and many other fun events! Sat 10 - 11 AM Yoga with Kelsi
Poulin Marketplace mezzanine, 8600 Pan American Fwy NE Enjoy guided yoga, from local yoga instructor, Kelsi! This will be a fun flow for all levels of yoga practice. $10 per person Sat 10 AM - 12 PM Play Day For A Cause
Kiddie Academy of Paradise Hills, 4590 Paradise Blvd. NW Join us for Play Day for a Cause! This free event has great games and fun activities for your kids while supporting Family Promise, the leading national nonprofit addressing family homelessness. Family Promise started in 1986 as local outreach in a single community and now has more than 200 Affiliates in 43 states. Since their founding, volunteers have helped more than a million family members in need. With a focus on empowering families and children, Kiddie Academy Educational Child Care and Family Promise are working together to give every child what they deserve: a chance to succeed. The event is free and open to the public. Donations are appreciated, but not required to attend Sat 10 AM - 4 PM Foundational Wellness Grand Opening Party
Los Ranchos Bakery, 6920 4th St. NW, Los Ranchos
Celebrate our grand opening event by stopping by the B Side of Los Ranchos Bakery! Herbal tea blends, door prizes, free raffle, information on classes and events, and more! Win a free reiki session, teas, discounts on classes, or discounts on nutritional therapy! I will be teaching numerous classes at the bakery this summer. Some topics: How to make Herbal Vinegar Tinctures (aceta), Hormone Health, Healthy Habits for Life, Improve Your Digestion, Prioritizing Meal Prep, Blood Sugar Regulation, and my RESTART Program! You don’t want to miss out! Some of these classes will be free! So come on down and get some coffee and goodies from the bakery, then visit me next door and see what we’ve been up to Sat 10 AM - 5 PM Pride Day Celebration!
Quirky Used Books and More, 120 Jefferson NE Book sales, vendor pop ups, food truck, art, music, and more! Sat 10:30 AM - 12 PM Wellness Schedule
Casa Rondeña Winery, 733 Chavez Rd. NW, Los Ranchos
Open to people of all skill levels, Wellness + Wine is a one-hour, outdoor practice, followed by a glass of wine or Sangria, and an invitation to stay and relax on the grounds of the beautiful Casa Rondeña Winery. This experience is $25, and includes glass of wine. Discounts apply for winery members. Reservations are required to participate Sat 11 AM - 4 PM Papa Bear Market
Boxing Bear Brewing, 10200 Corrales Rd. NW We couldn’t forget about our PAPA BEARS! Dads deserve some love and appreciation too! Spend the day celebrating Papa at our taproom. As always this FREE event will include local vendors, food trucks, photo booth, live music, paint your own pint, and, of course, BEER! (click link for full list of vendors) Sat 11 AM - 5 PM June Used Book Sale
Main Library, 501 Copper Ave NW Join us for the monthly book sale. There will be a variety of fiction, non-fiction, children and adults books, videos, DVDs, CDs, comic books, maps, and more available. Free for Members - $2 for Non-Members Free to all after noon. All Sales are held in the Lower Level, Main Library, Validated parking is available on 5th and Copper, kitty-corner to the library. The Friends of the Public Library is a non-profit organization. All proceeds go to supporting the Public Library of Albuquerque & Bernalillo County library programs Sat 12 - 5 PM Summer Luau - Adoptables, Swag, Brews, and more!
Lizard Tail Brewing Industrial, 3351 Columbia Dr. NE Hosted by Pitties and Kitties of New Mexico. We will have some PKR Tees, some PKR Pride gear, and best of all - our adoptabulls! Our booth will have a small auction set up… the prize being Tattoo Certificates with an ABQ tattoo artist! There will be a car show, other vendors, as well as water activities. Hope to see y’all there! Sat 1 - 3 PM Family Field Day!
Montgomery Park, Hosted by ABQ Family Chiropractic. A celebration of all the families who trust us with their care, and an opportunity for families who are considering our office to get to know our team in a fun, low-stakes environment. Food and family-friendly activities will be provided Sat 1 - 4 PM Zouk with Jaime Arôxa!
Alley Kats Tap Company, 222 Truman St. NE We will continue building on, and reviewing everything we have learned with Jamie Arôxa and Kiri Chapman thus far. We will continue to work on Zouk basics and building on the basics including connection and timing, musicality, lateral with variations, Yo-yo, viradinha, cambre, body, rolls, body, isolations, weight transfers, counterbalance, elástico, convergence & divergence, Wi-Fi, head, movement, styling, head movement, varying turns, and Chicote. Classes will be progressive and will be adjusted to the level of each class. Drop in anytime * All levels welcome * No partner needed * Cash preferred - can also accept Venmo and Cash App to $UWDstudios Sat 1:30 - 4 PM Father's Day Tee
Cabezon Park, 2307 Cabezon Blvd. SE, Rio Rancho
Celebrate Father's Day with a round of miniature golf or two! Tee-off with dad at our Annual Father's Day "Tee". Enjoy some snacks, and an Arnold Palmer while making a craft with dad. Prizes awarded for the top 3 teams in miniature golf! Each child and parent must register individually. NO DROP-INS. Please contact the Cabezon Community Center at 505-892-4499 for more info Sat 4 - 5 PM East Coast Swing Group Class
Enchantment Dancing, 337 San Pedro Dr. NE Welcome to our Bronze American East Coast Swing Class! Whether you are a newbie stepping on to the dance floor for the first time or a seasoned professional wanting to brush up on basics, as well as anyone in-between, this class is for you! East Coast Swing is an exciting, up-beat dance that is endlessly versatile! No partner necessary, and dropping in is fine! Class cost is only $10, and a punch card for 6 classes is $50 Sat 6 - 10 PM Baddie Fest
OT Circus, 709 Central Ave NW let's all have a fun summer night. Fairy Julz (crystals and more to raise your energy) will be at @ otcircus. Market, Music, Dance Performers, Crystal Pop Up Booth, Henna, Woman Vendors. Tag and invite your favorite baddies Sat 6 - 11 PM Heights Summerfest
North Domingo Baca Park, Celebrate warm weather and outdoor fun at a free community gathering during an Albuquerque Summerfest. This free concert series features local businesses with handcrafted products in The Shops, food trucks with freshly made cuisine in the Food Court, libations created by breweries, wineries and distilleries in The Cantina, entertainment by local talent, and a production by a national headliner all at a City park (click here for more info: live music, food trucks, kids' activities, drinks, vendors, parking) Sat 7 PM Dancing Queens
Sunshine Theater, 120 Central Ave SW Throw out your calendar! Buy a new calendar! Mark June 10th as the first and ONLY date in your calendar! Pride weekend, all the dancing queens are descending on the Sunshine Theater for the night of all nights. Juicee Früt presents Dancing Queens! Featuring performances by Red Light Cameras, ABBAquerque, Galaxy, Juicee Früt, Drag Performances from CoCo Caliente & Mr. Rusty Nutz, Forbidden Früt Market, & more! (tickets) Sat 7 PM Death On The Beach: A Metalcore Beach Party
Launchpad, 618 Central Ave SW Join us for a night filled with beach-going shenanigans and some of the best metalcore bands Albuquerque has to offer. Swimwear, flip flops, sunscreen and lais ENCOURAGED! Come out and rage with us, and let's make this a night to remember! Presale tickets are $10 and are available through any band. Just send them a message! Online tickets through Holdmyticket will be available soon. Inhuman Hands, EYE, Secure The Void, One Last Summer Sat 9 PM Temple of Sound Presents Starry Night
Juno, 1501 1st St. NW This event will feature our guest DJ Chris Losack! He's a longtime DJ who primarily spins house and techno but also has roots in industrial and dark music. He will be showing his dark side this time out! Join us for another spectacular event! Sparkly or night sky attire encouraged but not required! 21+ / No cover Sat 9 PM Pride 2023
Effex, 420 Central Ave SW Spunjy Hicks Lounge: Malik Patio: DJ Chris de Jesus Side Effex: Xblyssid Sat 10:30 PM Late Nite Comedy Jam
The Guild Cinema, 3405 Central Ave NE Ristra Comedy and Chuck Parker Comedy present a stellar lineup of standup comedians! This month's headliner: Josh Fournier Featuring Chuck Parker & Sara Anne Myers and your host Alex Benton ** Sun 6/11 *\
* Sun 8 AM - 2 PM Hot Rods for Hunger Car Show and Poker Run
2801 Eubank Blvd NE Yes, our amazing car show fundraiser is happening again, thanks to Bell’s Brewery and the Mopar Most Wanted car club. This year, for early registration, we are having a Kickstart happy hour with Bells Brewery at O’Niell’s Heights location on Juan Tabo. Join us and register your car. All makes and models are welcome. Come out and see some of the coolest cars in Albuquerque. There will be raffles, food trucks, lots of awards for the cars, and a food drive for the Storehouse food pantry. Enter the Poker Run, the Car Show, or both today! Sun 10 AM Rocketman
Historic Lobo Theater, 3013 Central Ave NE THE HISTORIC LOBO THEATER along with Albuquerque Film & Music Experience is excited to bring Rocketman to the big screen! Showing Starts at 11:30 am Tickets
are ONLY $10 for General Admission Come Early Brunch Starts at 10 am Full Buffet Available for only $21 The ticket price is for entry to the movie only. Pajama brunch and a movie. Exclusive Brunch Menu! Made to order pancakes, mimosas and more. 10% off if you come in your pajamas Sun 10 AM - 2 PM STEAM DAY
Rail Yards Market, 777 1st St. SW Science, Technology, Engineering, Art, and Math (STEAM) all put New Mexico on the Map as a unique place. Standing for over one hundred years, the historic Rail Yards of Albuquerque stand as an ode to a period of extreme innovation for the Rio Grande basin area. Albuquerque literally rose and became what it is around the Rail Yards, and railroad era that brought so much innovation. In these industrial cathedrals, we hum with innovation again.. Activating the space for community use, the Rail Yards Market is non-profit (certified 501c3), bringing together small businesses in agriculture, food, and artisan manufacturing on a local scale. Our STEAM stands for Sustainable, Traditional, Educational and Artistic Modalities. In this area we host interactive demonstrations. Mini-Makers Unite! Learn about what makes a laser light up, a 3D printer build, and so much more! Bring out your tech, geek, and inquisitive minds to the Rail Yards Market and visit makers from Quelab. Free for all! Everyone is welcome! EBT doubled with Double-Up-Food-Bucks, ADA Accessible, Senior and WIC programs welcome, Fresh & local produce, Breakfast & lunch prepared food options, 120+ local food, healing, and art businesses, Parking & restrooms, FREE :: LOCAL :: FAMILY FRIENDLY :: PET FRIENDLY Sun 10:30 - 11:30 AM Mindful Movement - Yoga in the Park
Academy Hills Park, 9709 Layton Ave NE Meet us on the southwest side of the park, just southwest of the playground, under the large trees. Looks for the Aumies sign! Bring your mat, block, strap and water! Sun 2 - 4 PM Lumberyard Jazz Trio
Sawmill Market, 1909 Bellamah Ave NW The Lumberyard Jazz Trio is back to bring exciting jazz melodies to Sawmill Market. They use an interchanging group of New Mexican instrumentalists who have traveled nationwide to perform, lead by saxophonist Sean Johnson Sun 3 PM Pride Tea Dance on the Patio
Effex, 420 Central Ave SW 3 - 6 PM: DJ Mike Demarco 6 - 9 PM: DJ Spunjy Hicks Featuring performances by Avery Martini, Jessica K. Daniels, Imani Martini Sun 4 - 7 PM Music on the Patio: Squash Blossom Boys
Canteen Brewhouse, 2381 Aztec Rd NE Based in Albuquerque, The Squash Blossom Boys have played southwestern stages for over ten years. With beginnings as a garage band, they have explored a variety of musical genres including rock, jazz, reggae and more to find the hard driving, high lonesome sound of Bluegrass music. The current central players include Dustin Orbesen (Dobro, Mandolin, Vocals), Kit Murray (Banjo, Vocals), Kyle Malone (Guitar), Peter Lisignoli (Bass) Sun 5 - 8 PM Mack 'n Cheese Sunday Variety Show
Juno, 1501 1st St. NW Variety show with Mack 'n Cheese (Indy Hip Hop), Cali Shaw (Americana), Basilaris Trio (Jazz), Sol de la Noche, Melissa Prada (spoken word) Monthly variety show with Mack 'n Cheese (Indy Hip Hop), Cali Shaw (Americana), Basilaris Trio (Jazz), Sol de la Noche, Melissa Prada (spoken word), vendors. Family-friendly (if your kids already know the F-word). Food available for purchase. On the patio, weather permitting, or in the Gallery Sun 7 - 10 PM S.O.S - Salsa On Sunday Dance Social
505 Spirits, 105 Harvard Dr. SE Salsa On Sunday Dance Social *With guest DJ's *Latin Dance Performances *The Occasional LIVE Music Performance *And Always... Social Dancing! salsa timba bachata merengue *What is it about a Social* The essence of a Social is for the dance community to get together and dance. Socials offer a relaxed night of dancing. Socials continue to draw dance enthusiasts who get lost in their salsa “addiction” by dancing and enjoying the music. Socials offer something for every level of dancer at any age. Bands and DJs have more freedom to play sets which appeal to the dance-centric crowd. It's about the music. It's about the dance. If you want to have an alternative to the club, are underage, or simply want to get in some good dancing - check out a Social, you might be surprised at how much fun you have Sun 7:30 PM Brit Floyd
Revel ABQ, 4720 Alexander Blvd. NE Brit Floyd returns to the stage in 2023 to perform a brand-new production celebrating 50 years of the ground-breaking and iconic musical masterpiece The Dark Side of the Moon. The show will feature classic tracks from the album such as Time, Money, Us and Them and The Great Gig in the Sky. The 2 and a half hours plus set list will also include other highlights from Pink Floyd’s magnificent catalogue of albums, including tracks from The Wall, Wish You Were Here, Animals, The Division Bell, Medal and much more (tickets)
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2023.06.08 06:23 Werewomble Missing inheritance + living with parent
My mother died young and left me her money in a trustee.
Sometime during university I believe my Dad helped himself to the remainder (about $80,000 is in my head but I could be completely misremembering) to buy his partner out of a mortgage during a divorce.
When I asked about it he went on a shouting rant and was completely incoherent. I never signed anything. I was a legal adult at the time. He was not in the will at all and that money was definitely left to me.
What little I remember was him saying he had a right to my mothers' money which is an odd take. They had been divorced a decade at the time of her death and had no involvement beyond sharing bringing up my brother and I.
I suspect I should own part of this house / the mortgage was paid off with money stolen from me.
We are usually on good terms and I have no intention of starting a family fued, I'll have half of it when Dad passes away.
Today he went on another screaming rant (seems to happen annually in winter when I ask him to close the doors! :) Could be worse!) because I asked him to wait until I'm out of the toilet to have a conversation :)
Apparently he owns the toilet :) And he is threatening to kick me out of the house for asking him to wait til I come out. Yep. As family conflict goes I am incredibly lucky. But it does make me think.
So. I am not about to hire a lawyer and destroy my family. He is 78 now and forgetting things, he is obviously jealous that I Work From Home and it comes out in temper tantrums.
It did make me think about that money, though...
I've sent a request to Perpetual Trustees (that's all I know them as, I used to transfer to Commonwealth Bank account that is long gone, no idea how Dad accessed it) to see if I had an account with them. Eventually I'd like to establish my ID and ask for a transaction history.
Is there anything like the ATO superannuation registry for wills to confirm this?
Has anyone broached this with a relative before? He'll start shouting immediately.
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2023.06.08 06:23 Inevitable_Wolf_1933 **This just in** 🗞️ sewer is nvr gonna *find* her live from when Lindsey got her 💵 back bc then ppl will know sewer LIED bc Lindsey NEVER asked 4 her 💵 back!!!! And what does it matter sewer didn’t pay her back- her dumb ass mods did. I don’t even like Lindsey but the truth is the truth.
Sewer is also nvr gonna find the subway sammiches live bc then every1 will know her WHOLE fuxxin story was a LIE! Psst Siwa we already know. The story abt her not being able 2 get groceries bc she lived in the mountains. Bitch u were & still r in TX where the Walmart is 7 miles from ur house- the same Walmart that subway is in!!! Siwa u shld be thanking Lindsey bc of her Siwa & her ONE kid was able 2 eat. Lindsey provided 4 ur daughter bc YOU COULDN’T!!!!
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2023.06.08 06:21 hereforagoodtimeboo I love my friends but I’m so tired of having them at the same time.
When I was younger I didn’t have a lot of friends and especially not any that I hung out with or talked to much after school. I was very content and happy with that. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve grown closer to people and have built friendships over time but lately I’m finding that I wish I never did. These friends aren’t terrible people but I just wish they’d understand my need for A LOT of alone time. My family too, both friends and family don’t seem to grasp that I don’t want to leave the comfort of my home to go out all the time or spend the night at their place. But then I feel guilty because a couple friends in particular have been going through a tough time so they ask if I’ll spend time with them and since I care about them so much I do it anyway but I hate it because even though I may be enjoying myself some I still want to be in my own space and house at the end of the day. I just hate having to feel like this I wish I just stayed a loner. Idk if I’m the only one who feels like this but I’m just exhausted and worn thin.
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2023.06.08 06:20 spicedmilkduds Organizations that will relocate/ take care of stray pups of 6 months
There are 7 dogs on a tiny patch of my street now, and since it is a dead end with not much space the dogs poop inside and in front of our houses and bark all night. The pups are about 6 months old and as they get older there would not be much space for them . We had a few people who wanted to take and care for the pups when they were younger but my dumbass neighbor did not allow it. The mother gives birth twice a year but this is the first time we have had 5 pups survive and not taken away.
They are all well fed as we live in a pg area and everyone puts excess rice/ a few girls put treats and biscuits everyday. The dogs apart from this keep bringing in dead rats and cats that are rotting and make a mess on our street lol. The previous pups dies due to infections from eating these corpses, and I'm afraid that the same might happen this time too.
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2023.06.08 06:20 paper--peaches Final Update: Senior Dog covered in foxtails
Thank you again to everyone who has commented and given heartfelt advice on my precious posts regarding my boyfriend’s 15 year old dog who came back from a stay at BF’s sister’s house covered in foxtails.
I was able to get him into a vet and to an experienced groomer. The groomer was incredibly kind, thoughtful, gentle and patient with Senior Dog. We thought we’d have to shave him which can be detrimental to huskies, but the groomer was able to avoid that by spending (another) four hours using a high powered blow dryer to part his fur section by section to find and remove the additional foxtails. He is confident that he got 99% of them out - even one between Senior Dog’s toes that the vet had missed.
So many comments suggested that I ditch my boyfriend and keep the dog. I did not blame my boyfriend for his sister’s actions. I do, however, blame my BF for the way he handled the situation and the lack of gratitude on his part. I’m not saying he should have brought home flowers or anything, and he did say thank you - but the fact that he expects me to put out these fires every time because I don’t have a career that I’ve invested years into & he does is really grossing me out. Additionally he insisted that he didn’t know, but how could he not have known …? He dropped Senior Dog off. He didn’t constitute this as an emergency situation and if it were up to him he would have waited until the weekend when he has time off. He thinks I am overprotective of both of my dogs and overreact when something seems off about their health. My dogs are my children and I would literally sell my organs on the dark web if it meant saving them.
So (most of) you will be happy to know that I am reconsidering the relationship. Unfortunately I cannot take Senior Dog - BF would never let that happen and I’m not comfortable opening myself up to potential legal trouble, etc. I don’t necessarily want to leave SD in his care though and so I have a lot to think about.
To end this on a positive note, Senior Dog got a big dinner of (plain) rotisserie chicken, sweet potatoes, a chunk of leftover steak, and fish oil for being so brave today.
Thank you again to everyone who commented and for the outpouring of compassion and support. I appreciate everyone who took the time to give advice or share some kindness. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
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2023.06.08 06:20 cheeriolord How do I get accepted without ECs?
I'm attending CC part time and getting an AA in three years instead of two. This way I can continue working ~40hrs a week, a factor that I can't change due to bills.
I'm striving to keep my GPA near 4.0, but everything I read says that colleges want someone with ECs. I don't currently have any due to my work schedule and the long commute time from house/job to campus (classes are online/sister campus for me). How can I work ECs into my schedule or, ideally, just make up for the lack thereof?
Note: I do have an instrument that I practice on when I have spare time. Would this work? I'm not a savant with it, nor do I plan on becoming a music major (as much as I'd love to).
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2023.06.08 06:20 marcia6412 I want to kill myself from stress
Before reading this is going to be a rant, if you don’t want to read an annoying depressing rant please don’t go further lol I genuinely apologize for posting something depressing on here, god I need to rant though.
22f, These last few weeks (technically years) for me have been HELL, like I haven’t slept in 3 nights (I’m not exaggerating) when I try to sleep I think about everything going on and my heart starts pounding and I’m wide awake, I have a long drive to work so this is horrible. My mom passed from breast cancer a few years ago, my dad got a new girlfriend who goes out of her way to torture me and try to ruin my relationship with my dad, my brother is doing drugs/drinking 24/7, my boyfriend cheated on me (while I was literally in the hospital) I finally got my dream job I worked for for 10 years so I’m on the road but I can’t enjoy a single second of it or even focus because I’m just being constantly bombarded with peoples problems for me to solve, which is difficult when I’m 4 hours away!? Everything is falling apart and some how everyone expects the 22 year old who has never gotten to live her life to deal with all of it; when my dads girlfriend is treating me like shit and swearing at me I have to be the bigger person because my dad will take her side.
My mom was also sick my entire life, I was the kid that slept at the hospital, packed her bags, sat in the hospital from age 7-17 having panic attacks, still having panic attacks. You know who ever cared about me?? Nobody!!! Even right after my mom died everyone only cared about my dad and my brother, always did things for them and then basically got mad at me for “isolating” myself. My brother crashed his car drinking after and my grandpa bought him a brand new jeep, and wait for it.. a whole house to “get back on his feet”, my dad bought his girlfriend a 60k car and takes her on vacations all over the world almost monthly- my family has money but you know helped me when I was in the hospital and needed a little help with rent?? Nobody!! I’m in credit debt now for the first time and because of how tight everything is it’s just getting worse.
I was in a terrible relationship for a reason, because no matter how badly my boyfriend treated me it didn’t compare to my life at home.
I’m at my breaking point, and there’s only 3 options. Leave and let everything fall apart and deal with the crazy guilt of it, stay here and waste the last of my young years dealing with it or 3. And this one is the only one on my mind, I kill myself and let everything fall apart with no guilt. Also I thought being on the road would help, it’s worse. I can’t take them blaming me for following my dreams. They literally act like I’m a bad person for not coming back and helping with dumb situations. Like my brother getting drunk and locking himself out, somehow was my fault? I got more than one angry text about not helping, I was 5 hours away!!!! And trying to have fun for once in my life and going on a date. Rant over, again I’m sorry but I had to get it out lol
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2023.06.08 06:19 Wildernesswildman How do you reconcile the guilt of what you learned about them after their death? Feel like I was sent a sign and I ignored it
Trigger warning csa, self harm
I lost my cousin at the start of the year. I am an only child and my father died when I was young so he was like a brother to me. He lived in my father's country where I spent the summers with him. I was really badly bullied for my background, early 2000s was not a good time to be the only brown kid in school. He talked to me every day after school on messenger to make sure I was okay. Every single day. He let me follow him around like a lost puppy when I was young. I didn't know he was protecting me. I wanted to be like him in every way. He could make anyone laugh.
The last couple of years his country has been getting more unstable and dangerous. My family owns a factory there and we were facing a lot of intimidation and threats from different groups. When he died everything else in my life had been really coming together. I was dating someone I had liked forever who didn't judge my family. I was promoted and had moved cities for work. I am not a spiritual person but I feel like the universe or God or wtv sent me a sign in my ex gf and I ignored it.
The two years before he died he was different. He would disappear for weeks at a time. He was getting these horrific headaches and had to stop working. Before we dated I told her how much she reminded me of him when she made me laugh. Yet when she told me to reach out to him over and over again I didn't listen. There was all these signs when I was kid I just didn't see. He hated being touched, he'd wake up gasping from nightmares. When id ask what he was dreaming about he'd make up something ridiculous to make me laugh. He would never take his clothes off or go swimming with us. He said he was allergic to the sun. When I was 8 I saw the cuts on his chest, the sheer number of scars. He made me promise to not tell and so I never did. A couple of months before he died I knocked over a pile of papers at her house and saw a discharge form following a suicide attempt. I knew she had been very ill and even had something nicknamed a suicide disease but this said from ptsd from stomach turning things like cp. Even after seeing that, after she explained away the scars on her legs that looked like his and hid like him, the way she she hated being touched, the way she woke up gasping and made up silly nightmares... I refused to listen to her. I remember the last time she tried to get me to reach out. He had messaged me some weird stuff apologizing. She told me to tell him not to think things that he would end up writting in his note to me. I swear she knew what was coming. I couldn't do it. I dont know why.
They found him 3 weeks later. The note he wrote me on his laptop was time stamped to the day she and I had that conversation about reaching out. He outlined all the abuse, the trafficking/cp he had endured, his failing health, and the drugs he used to cope with the pain. He was sure that everyone would be better off without him in their lives. I can't forgive myself for being wilfully blind by own ego thinking I knew better. I've been drinking a lot to cope.
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2023.06.08 06:18 Posting____At_Night Zone 7 plants for under an overhang that receives no sun or water?
There is a raised bed in the front of my house (south facing) that sits at least a couple feet back under an overhang. Due to it being raised, it gets effectively zero water other than humidity in the air, and the overhang puts it in shade 100% of the time. I'm in zone 7, hot humid summers and wet winters with the occasional freeze.
What's the lowest maintenance thing I can plant there? I am terrible about keeping a watering schedule so something that can survive some neglect would be perfect.
I am in West TN. Native plants would be nice, but I don't know of anything native that could tolerate this.
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2023.06.08 06:18 nacho_macho7 The Elaine hate train is way to old now
Y’all got to be the most Elaine haters for no damn reason. The only argument any of you use was that she was an asshole in the beginning like everyone else wasn’t a complete asshole as well god damn. This isn’t regular HS drama the people she wanted to be friends with are getting into terrorist level trouble in what fucking world is it a bad decision to back out of that. She’s never had the full picture either because all they ever wanted from her was her ability anyways. Any time she ever tried to be in the conversation Arlo would pretty much tell her “it’s not important” and shun her away. The most she ever said to John was just rude comments like Arlo didn’t manipulate him, and beat him in a deserted area. She made the right choice and this is extremely positive for her character. She’s also a Safe house supervisor!? Like isn’t that what everyone wanted from her? Being a better person towards low tiers.
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2023.06.08 06:18 NightSkyAra 3d printing resin fumes
I want to get into resin 3d printing for models, but my largest concern with it is the fumes that resin has because there are no rooms in my house that wont have people in them, is there any way around this?
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2023.06.08 06:18 jesmcrow Am I being too hard or are these red flags?
This is long and I'm sorry, it's more a rant and I feel I have my answer but I've received such support and insight from reading other's posts in this community. I'm curious of people's opinions on if I seem too hard or if you would reach a similar conclusion.
I (31 F) have been dating a wonderfully kind but naive man, 35. It is our second go at a relationship. I have been grappling with my own drinking problem, was sober for 11 months last year, am currently sober and am in AA/sobriety subreddits for my own stuff. Before I tried sobriety, our main past time was going out to bars and drinking heavily. He was bummed that our dynamic had changed but was pretty supportive despite not agreeing with me that I had a drinking problem. He started drinking heavier than usual during a stressful job. I was noticing red flags,
1) He got drunk before his beloved neice's 3rd birthday party, insisted on driving, (I'm ashamed I let him drive us in his state) and showed up over two hours late and then was so wreckless with her on a bounce house she got injured. She was in real pain, sobbing the rest of the party and it took hours for her to settle down. In response, he said, "she was crying for attention" and that, "she took it in stride" but she didn't, it ruined the party for her. I was frankly disgusted and have struggled to get over it, when looking through the lens of a potential father of my kids.
2) Less than a few weeks later, he called me saying he had been arrested for driving drunk. I had to drive 2 hours to pick him up at like 3AM and he was still pretty drunk when I got there. He said he hadn't had that much to drink but I've calculated based on the beers he said he drank (he often underreports) and his BAC would've likely been double the limit if he had taken the breathalyzer. He ultimately lost his license for a year.
Giving him the benefit of the doubt, I think he was in a state of shock but the next day he was going out to dinners and then left to go on a camping trip with hard partying friends that weekend (said he didn't drink). I had begged him to get a lawyer set up before going away because I know things can move fast. I tried to have compassion but I was again frustrated at what I perceived as immaturity given the gravity of the situation. His job involves daily driving to various locations.
He planned on taking time off anyway once his job finished, right around the time of his DUI. This turned into 9 months of unemployment. I was trying to be patient, because his line of work can be fickle and some jobs had fallen through but after the 7th or so month, I checked in like, what's the plan. He was very laid back about the whole thing and figured another job would come along. (one eventually did, but he'll likely still lose his health insurance for how long he was off).
He started drinking heavily again a month or two after his DUI and I communicated that although at first I though I could deal with it, it was starting to threaten my sobriety and made me anxious all the time. I found myself checking in, tallying when he'd drank and keeping an eye on his location, all new behaviors. He acknowledged he had a problem because it was effecting me but his behavior suggests that really see an issue with it. about two months later he was back at it drinking heavily again. I gave him an ultimatim.
I started to feel toxic, because sometimes I feel like I'd call him on my way home from work (I work late nights at a bar) and figure I could catch him drunk again. I have never been like this in a relationship before and had always trusted him.
I thought I could look past the DUI, and honestly think I could've, had it spurred some change. From all the posts i read, I think he would have to have some intrinsic motivation and based on our pattern, it will always come from me. He says he needs me and that he's willing to do anything I ask, but he doesn't see how the emotional weight of doing all the pulling in the relationship (especially given my work load and his almost no work this year) is exhausting and frankly, a huuge turn off.
What would you do in my shoes?
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2023.06.08 06:17 pitizenlyn Not my finest hour....but.....
So I was about 16 and working a crap job in the kitchen of a major chain seafood place. We got this new line cook that was a pretty big dick to everyone, but for some reason focused a bit more on me. Not sure what I ever did to him, but anytime he saw me there was a snide remark, or a shitty joke.
I finally got tired of it, and mentioned it to my bf and his friend who worked at a service station (remember those?)
While I was on shift and there was no doubt about where I was, they went out to our parking lot and removed the valve stems from all 4 of his tires. No permanent damage a but a HUGE inconvenience.
We were both off about the same time. I went out the front to wait for my ride, he went out the back door to the parking lot. Next thing I know he is storming out of the kitchen and into the lobby raging at me. Damn near got himself fired, it was a full house. I told him I've been here all day, I didn't know what the hell his problem was.
Now the best part. He took those tires to our friend's service station. The same guy that removed the valve stems put the new ones back in and told him to have a great day.
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2023.06.08 06:17 Stevies_Raven I need un bias help after the death of my mother.
My mom passed away in March of this year. Her and my step father where married when I was 13, Iam now almost 33. My mother had cancer. For 6 years she took that battle on. She took care of her brother who also died from cancer, her mother who died a couple years ago.. She took care of everyone.
Recently. Since her passing so much has happened. Im blinsided, but also seeing things I had been blind too in the past.
My mom and I where close, and in the end while working full time and being a full time nursing student anytime asked I dropped things to be there to sit with my mom when she was having a hard morning.
It's been almost 3 months since her passing. My step father has already has a woman over in the house my mom paid for with money from her late mother. He was telling me a month ago that he is only human and has not had sex in years and needs to not be alone or he will fall apart.
He has also not txted any of us kids since my moms passing. For awhile until he told me he needed a woman , I was checking in on him everyday. But its not recipracated.
I know my mother handled everything growing up. She worked hard and also came from some money from her parents, who also worked hard. My mom paid for everything. Now that she is gone.. He is being very distant. I get he may be hurting... But so am I... and my siblings...
I dont know how to handle this. How to approch my step dad about my mothers estate/will which he has not probated yet. I checked.
I know there are things.. like trusts my uncle left for my kid and my siblings kids to use for colllege. All of my grandparent things, my papps naval uniform, my great nanas pearls.. even some of my moms ashes, these are things my mom spoke to me about before she passed that would go to us kids..
the non bias help I need to urgent...
My mind is killing me.
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2023.06.08 06:17 LAMG1 2022 Ford Edge SEL AWD with 35K miles with for $27K?
2022 Ford Edge SEL AWD with 35k miles. Factory warranty will expire at 36K miles. The dealer is asking $27K.
I was able to locate information that dealer bought it for $26K at IAAI (insurance auction) for $26K from a rental car company back in late March. Since IAAI information is public, I was able to see why insurance company sell it. It has a damage (rental will not report damages) on the side fender in rear driver side, but dealer repaired it. If I add buying fee, transportation, and repairs, I think this dealer is losing money even at 27K.
Folks, should I do this one? Also, how hard could I lowball the dealer to get this one? Should I go like 22K/23K (include doc fees) plus TTL?
All recommendations or advice is appreciated!
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2023.06.08 06:17 MyOpinion54321 Am I wrong for the way that I responded to my mother overstepping in regards to my wedding?
I am getting married, and I have started wedding planning. A family friend that is within a year or two of my age has terminal cancer. She is really struggling with the milestones that she will miss. We have discussed it several times. I have listened to her feelings. I also told her as gently as possible that I wanted to include her but only as much as she felt comfortable. (I know how awkward that sounded, but there isn't really a great way to word that.) She said that she didn't want to miss anything and that even though she struggled with watching other people have these milestones, she still wanted to be included. She said that she appreciated me acknowledging everything, and that she would feel comfortable talking to me if things changed.
Anyway my mother is close friends with her mother. Yesterday night, we are at my parents' house for dinner (my parents, me, my fiancé, my brothers, one brother's wife). My mother tells us that family friend's mother was telling her about how sad family friend was that she would likely never have her own wedding. Apparently, one thing that she said was how sad she was that she would never get to watch her daughter's first dance and fathedaughter dance. She was just venting not asking for anything (important later).
My mother turns to me and said that after she got home she had a "really special idea." She said that I should share my first dance or let family friend have her own private dance after my private dance (my first dance and my fathedaughter dance).
I freaked out a little (based on my mom's well documented history of volunteering me without asking first. I raised my voice a little (over normal speaking volume but definitely not screaming). My fiancé said that I sounded panicked.
Me: "Mom! Tell me that you haven't already said something to anyone about this?!"
Mom: "I only mentioned it to Aunt ---- when we were talking on the phone earlier. Why are you freaking out?"
Me: "Because you just MASSIVELY overstepped --- AGAIN. Mother, I love family friend. I do. I am so so sorry about her situation. It's awful. But this is my wedding. I am not sharing my wedding. I'm only going to have one."
(At this point, I realize that I am getting really mad, so I take a short pause to calm down before continuing. I also decided what I wanted to say so what follows was a conscious choice not loosing my temper.)
Me: "You always do this, Mom. We're all adults, but you still try to coordinate things for us and get involved in things that are no longer your business. You can't offer people things that belong to other people. That isn't being generous. It's stealing."
Mom: "I have never and would never steal from anyone especially my children. I wanted to give you an idea that you might not have thought of. That's why I asked you before asking her or her mother."
Me: Mom, that's exactly it though. You talked to Aunt ------- before talking to me. You asked me in front of the entire table. Now if I say no, I'm the person who denied a girl with cancer their last chance for a first dance. Besides --- did it even occur to you that she might not want to confront her own morality in front of everyone? I know that I wouldn't."
Mom: "I just thought that you might want to talk about it. That's part of being a grown-up: not running away from conversations."
Me: "Mother, I am 27 years old. I am getting married. I have an adult job, and I completely support myself. I am an adult. That is a fact not something that you get to gate-keep and determine yourself. Additionally, being an adult means that you don't have to discuss your decisions with anyone other than yourself. It also means setting boundaries including not discussing or justifying your decisions to other people. And don't tell me that I'm not grown up enough. You can't say anything that you want to me."
Mom: "I'm your mother. I gave birth to you. I can say anything that I want to you."
Me: "You're half right. Anyone can say anything that they want to other people, but they don't have freedom from consequences. The simple fact is that no one has the right to tell other people what they should do with something that belongs to them. No one on this Earth has the right to tell someone else how much they should give away to other people. People should help each other, but it has to be voluntary --- from the heart --- not coerced. That's just another form of stealing. It's about wanting to look good but not have to earn whatever you are volunteering to someone yourself."
Mom: "You're attacking me and blowing this out of proportion. I'm your mother. I should be included in wedding planning. My mother helped me and her mother helped her."
(She starts crying.)
Me: "And it was your choice to permit that. It isn't my choice. Now, you need to go call Aunt -------, tell her that you overstepped and beg her not to mention your little idea to anyone, because if this gets out, you aren't coming to the wedding."
My fiancé: I agree with everything (me) said. You need to apologize to your daughter."
My mother runs out of the room crying. My brothers don't say anything other than general complaining about the dinner being ruined. My dad says that I am right but asks me not to disinvite her to the wedding. He also says not to be "hard on my mom." I said that I wasn't mean; I was setting boundaries and explaining my position. I said that I wasn't going after her because if I go pat her on the back and say sorry then that invalidates everything I said and teaches her that controlling behavior will be forgiven if she cries. I said that when she calms down I am happy to discuss but reasoning but I wasn't changing my mind or saying sorry. I also added that she wasn't disinvited nor would she be if she keep her mouth shut and didn't overstep in mine and my fiancé's business. Dad left it at that. He is big on not discussing things until everyone is calm. He did call me this afternoon to tell me that she was really upset and ask me to talk to her.
My sister-in-law reached out to me today too. She said that she was really impressed with how I handled that and asked if she could just hand her phone to me when my mom oversteps with her on pregnancy/baby stuff. (She's pregnant with her and my brother's first child.) We talked for a while.
My fiancé was literally a rock. We left as soon as we were done eating. We talked about it in the car. His position was basically "my mom, my call." He let me handle the confrontation and then immediately said he was 100% on my side. When my mom texted him this morning to ask about me being mad, he just replied that she should talk to her daughter. He also showed me the message and his reply immediately. He did not let her pull him in. He was perfect; I would marry him twice if I could.
So basically am I a jerk for not allowing this second first dance? I have a bad feeling that I might be because it is really likely that she will never have her own wedding. I just honestly don't want to share my wedding.
Also, am I wrong for everything that I said to my mom? I do not regret the message itself, but am I the asshole for the way that I said everything and then refusing to comfort her afterwards?
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2023.06.08 06:17 New_Foundation_2243 Am I trans
Hello, I think I'm a transgender girl. I know I should visit a gender therapist. But I can't. To summarize my life. I used to cross-dress with my neighborhood kids. They used to call me a girl because of it. It felt me . Then we moved to another house and I was transferred to a new school for boys only. I became depressed and anti-social, being preserved as a boy made me this way. In 2020 we moved to Toronto. I learned about the word transender and it related to me.
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2023.06.08 06:16 artisticromantic Home Inspection woes
Sooo.. hubbie and I are buying a house we're very excited for but the inspection came back as less than satisfying. The main issues were
- Plumbing is going to need to be replaced in the near future.. I bet that ain't cheap.
- All of the rooms had "3 prong ungrounded outlets" what is that?
- An improper p-trap in the kitchen sink.
- A water heater that will need to be replaced soon.
- Some minor (hopefully) cracks in the foundation.
- The inspector also wrote there was a safety concern that the "chimney flue/vent pipe has inadequate clearance to combustible materials. repair as needed"
This list sounds expensive. My realtor said our next step is to send the repairs to the seller. What exactly does that mean? She explained but im not fully understanding I don't think. I'm worried this will cost me an arm and a leg after paying quite a bit for the house :( It's a very lovely updated house but I guess it just has some minor (or maybe major, im not sure how major those things listed are) deficiencies, which im assuming is normal, but I'm also not sure. Thoughts? Is this part of buying a house or does this house have more problems than the average? Does anyone have an estimate on how much any of these issues would cost to fix?
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2023.06.08 06:15 Throwaway46034792 [TOMT] [MOVIE] [90's] Horror movie about a therapist who gets possesed by a plantation owner
My mom has been trying to find this movie for 30 years. Her dad rented it from a store called movies to go. The movie starts out with on a southern plantation the owner shoots one of the slaves and his wife tries to save one of them. Then it flashes to current day where a therapist moves into the same house with his girlfriend/ former patient and her son. The house is haunted. Flashbacks show the plantation owner murdered his wife and son by locking them in a trunk. The therapist becomes possessed by the plantation owner. He murders the babysitter and the detective thats investigating. The girlfriend stops him but goes crazy. She ends up in a mental institution. The family name of the ghost is masterson and thats the name of her new doctor. Then the movie ends.
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2023.06.08 06:15 Sufficient_Parsley19 Neighbor is upset about roots encroaching on her driveway
Hi everybody. I’m a first time homeowner. I’ve lived in my house for less than 2 years. Located in Washington State, USA.
There is a mature tree that is on my property, located maybe 20ft from the property line with my neighbor. Tonight my neighbor complained to me that the roots of this tree are coming up and damaging her driveway. I’m not sure what she wants me to do— she didn’t say. I looked at the driveway and I can see a small crack, and it seems feasible that could be caused by my trees roots, but not seeing anything definitive. I see roots generally growing in the direction of her driveway, but nothing clear, like an above ground root right at the edge of her driveway causing the crack.
I just paid for tree trimming, so I’m not in a position where I can immediately pay for a tree removal. With that said, I’m not opposed to removing the tree at some point. It is very close to my house and even though the arborist said it’d be ok, I’m concerned that some day it may crack the foundation.
So my questions are:
- Would I be liable for the cracks in her driveway, or is that her problem?
- is there any timeframe I’m obligated to act within, or could I do something about this next year after I have more time to save for a tree removal?
- more generally, what should I do about this? I know that’s less of a legal question but curious if anyone has any advice.
For reference this is the crack I think she’s talking about. Tree is about 20ft into my yard from the crack https://i.imgur.com/TP4WtY2.jpg
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