I got a camera ticket in the mail from Mayfield Village. I was just wondering what would happen if I just ignore it? Does anyone actually pay these, or will it go away with time?
Anyone have actual experience with these or Mayfield specifically? I've never had one before.

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Nintendo Switch
Skylanders Imaginators- $150
Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles: The Cowabunga Collection (Sealed)- $35
Killer Queen Black- $15
Indivisible- $20
Animal Crossing Nintendo Switch Console v2 (Brand new in box, box is heavily damaged, no joy cons)- $200
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3DS
Jake Hunter Detective Story Ghost of Dusk- $35
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Wii U
Lego Movie video game- $10
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Wii
Resident Evil 4- $15
Sin and punishment star successor (Sealed)- $50
Legend of Zelda Skyward Sword (Complete with bonus disc)- $30
Super Mario Galaxy Nintendo Selects (Some writing in the case)- $17
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Xbox One/Xbox Series X
Rare replay- $12
Nba2k playgrounds 2 (Sealed)- $8
Rainbow six siege- $6
Life is Strange- $12
Call of Duty Advance Warfare- $6
Assassins Creed Valhalla (sealed)- $15
Dead or Alive 5 last round- $6
Mlb the show 22 (Xbox One Version) - $10
Mlb the show 22 (Series X version)- $10
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Xbox 360
Nier (Sealed)- $55
Assassin Creed Revelations (No manual)- $6
Assassin Creed Rouge- $13
Dante Inferno- $15
Fairy Tale fights- $13
Tomb Raider underworld- $12
Dead Island- $6
Catherine (No manual)- $20
Dishonored goty edition- $10
Wet- $30
Shadows of the damned- $45
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Ps4/Ps5
Days Gone (red box sticker on disc)- $12
Prototype collection- $55
Warriors Orochi 3 Ultimate- $25
Need for Speed Hot Pursuit Remastered (ps4 version)- $10
Deadpool- $50
Akiba Trip Undead and Undressed- $30
Mad Max- $12
Syberia 3- $12
Uncharted 4- $12
Uncharted lost legacy- $12
Exist archive- $12
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Ps3
The Darkness- $10
Remember Me- $10
Killzone 2 (No manual and greatest hits) - $7
Killzone 3 - $10
Dead Island Escape- $8
Resistance (No manual and greatest hits)- $10
Resistance 2- $12
Metal Gear Solid The legacy collection- $55
Metal Gear Solid 4 (No manual)- $8
Demon Souls- $20
Heavy Rain (No manual)- $10
Beyond Two Souls (No manual)- $10
Valkyria chronicles- $10
Uncharted 1 (greatest hits)- $6
Uncharted 2 (greatest hits)- $6
Uncharted 3- $6
The Ico and Shadow of the Colossus Collection- $15
Hitman Hd trilogy- $25
Dragonball Z Battle of Z (No manual)- $25
South Park Stick of Truth (No manual)- $20
Call of Duty Black ops (large black sticker in corner on the front)- $10
Best of playstation network vol 1(No manual)- $50
Infamous Collection- $20
God of War Saga- $45
God of War Ascension- $32
Yaiba Ninja Gaiden Z- $12
Kingdoms of Amalur Reckoning (No manual)- $5
Disgaea 4- $14
Sly collection- $50
Sly Cooper Thieves in time (No manual)- $40
Jak and Daxter collection- $25
Ninja Gaiden Sigma (greatest hits)- $14
Ni No Kuni: Wrath of the White Witch (Greatest hits version)(No manual)- $6
Puppeteer (No manual)- $60
Tales of Xillia (No manual)- $14
Dragon Dogma Dark Arisn (No manual)- $14
Castlevania lords of shadow collection (No manual)- $50
Resonance of fate (No manual)- $20
Naruto Shippuden Ultimate Ninja Storm Generations- $16
Lego lord of the ring's combo packaging (No Blu-ray or insert)- $8
Eternal Sonata (Disc only)- $20
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Amiibo (All are opened, no packaging, good condition)
Splatoon blue boy inkling (From 3 pack)- $8
Splatoon orange girl inkling (From 3 pack)- $8
Meta Knight (Kirby)- $17
Waddle- $15
Zero Suit Samus- $15
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Video Game Statues
Half Life® 2: Headcrab Zombie Statue 1/4 scale made by Gaming Heads (Box is in rough shape, regular version) - $600
Tom Clancy's Ghost Recon Wildlands Santa Muerte Fallen Angel PVC Statue (Sealed In Box) - $50

I need to pay an amount into this pension for this tax year to get higher rate relief meaning all my income tax for the year will be at basic rate, but the provider isn’t replying to e mails.
I tried calling but was told to e mail. If I don’t get any response before the end of the tax year am I screwed? Can a payment be backdated?

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I don't know anything about refinancing, and i don't know who to talk to that'll give me solid, reliable info. I have had this car for just under 2 years, and i pay a little over 500$ a month. I pay my bill on time everytime. But i need to move out, again.
I was originally living in a town over, closer to my job, then the pandemic hit, i moved back into my parents, and bought a car with a loan from Westlake financial. When i got this loan, i only had a week of credit history.
An affordable (900$) place opened up with a good friend of mine, and another is opening up soon after (my previous roommate is moving into that one). I feel like i can afford it, i have constant work, and it pays well, but i would feel more comfortable if my car payment wasn't more than what half my rent is going to be.
How do I refinance my car without getting scammed? How do I know if i getting a good deal? I keep getting mail from different places about refinancing, but i feel like i don't understand what I'm looking at when i see all those number

My bf's mom passed away suddenly in December. She had moved to a small town in the mid US with her sister as they were having financial difficulties with securing housing. My bf lost his brother 3 years ago at 25 due to an infection from a tooth, so he was the only heir. His aunt, his mom's only sibling, was living in a small apartment with her. He got the call that she had been admitted to the hospital at 7am and by 4pm she had passed away. The sister has mental health and substance abuse issues and was lead by a friend to a funeral home the following day. We were unable to travel the 1,500 miles and we're informed that the funeral home had told her it would be $3,800 for a direct cremation. No service, no anything except the cremation. He grew up in an extremely dysfunctional home and they later ended up homeless but he felt compelled to stay with them bc was the "parent" figure for both his mom and aunt. He never even had a driver's license until he turned 30 last year. I spoke with the funeral home and I explained that I had recently been laid off (I made most of the money) and he was only working part time. We later discovered that she had a life insurance policy for $5,000. The sister got a ride to the funeral home and showed them the paperwork she found in his mom's belongings. His mom would have wanted him to have a car and start his life as an adult that had only recently broken his traumatic bond and was living as a functioning adult. The life insurance company ended up sending the $5,000 to our address and I knew immediately that he should have a car. I knew someone selling a Toyota Camry for $1500 that needed a little work but was a reliable starter car. I contacted the funeral home again and told them that I would send $3,200. I sent a cashier's check via 2 day priority mail and they received it on Friday. Today I called and a different guy answered the phone and said that there was a remaining balance. I explained that I had spoken to another person last week and again reiterated that her son had bought his first car and he was planning to go out to retrieve some of her belongings. The man said that he would look into it and send the remains after speaking with his colleague. I feel as though he was way overcharged for the service and by the time he had a chance to process what was happening, the funeral home had her cremated the day after she arrived from the hospital. I'm sorry for the long rant, I just feel like he was taken advantage of and God forbid there are any issues with the remains being sent out, (ie: you owe us $600) I just might explode. Her sister is on very heavy duty medications that are generally reserved for end of life care and I am quite certain that it didn't go unnoticed at the funeral home. She had no means of paying for a stamp, let alone $3,800. Any thoughts?

This is the unofficial 2LP release.
This is about as mint as a record can get.
I purchased this from an audiophile record curator that examines and grades every release for defects. They’re run through a ultrasonic cleaning process and placed in new archival sleeves. This copy was the most flawless copy he had.
Audio quality also sounds great on my high-end system.
Asking $200 + $7 media mail shipping. $10 w/ insurance. Open to offers or trades for other Coheed records.
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As the title says im on the lookout for an Artist who can sculpt me a 3D full body render of a character of mine. Prefer in a semi-realism style that suits the characters overall apperance.
Im wanting the file to eventually 3D print so i need certain aspects to take that into consideration (such as more Styalised thicker hair that wont just break off when removing supports) as well as to be able to scale the character realistically as she is 6'4" in real life so model will need to reflect this (as when i get shorter characters made theyll actually be accurate)
Im planning to print at a larger scale so id like a reasonable amount of detail (planning for something around 1/6th scale display peice)
I will be very picky but ill likely order more going forward if im happy with your work Budget is open as i know how complex 3D modelling work is (though i may have to pay in deposits)

Hello! My name is Roman, I'm a highly experienced GM in search of a stable group. Over the years I have come to value playing with a group of people who know each other. I currently have a game slot empty and would gladly work with people who know what they want and play well together. The group does not need to be experienced - as long as you know each other and have an idea for what you want, I have plenty of experience with new players.
I'm looking to ideally find a group of 3-5 players, it could be more or less. If you are a group of two and would like to expand, I have a number of stable players from other games that I could ask to join if needed or we could organize a normal LFG one the campaign idea is set.
Experience: I have about 11 years of active experience as a GM, 2 - 5 campaigns a week.
I prefer campaigns that focus on roleplaying, acting, and character development, but I have GMed a variety of campaigns - true sandboxes, kingdom building large scale campaigns, solo campaigns, prewritten campaigns and modules (though I tend to rewrite those heavily), even 80% combat-focused murder sprees. Regardless of what sort of campaign I run I tend to incorporate character's backstories and desires into the game. I don't mind GMing "Evil" campaigns, as long as characters are not evil just for the sake of being evil.
My campaigns tend to be R-rated, with sexual content being the only thing that I don't feature and much and if at all- pan away from it. Other "R" elements such as horror, gore, drug abuse, torture and similar can be excluded at Session 0 - I don't revel in them, but sometimes really awful things do happen in my games.
When it comes to combat and general difficulty my general rule is that I optimize only as much as my players, maintaining steady but fair difficulty. If you prefer making flavorful characters you can expect to face similarly built foes, if you like making optimized characters - you will still be challenged from time to time. I could adjust the campaign to be easier or tougher depending on player preference, of course.
Genre-wise I don't have a strong preference one way or another, but personally I prefer grittier settings (with a notable exception of Exalted).
I tend to write houserules for my games and you can expect to find custom geamagic items, have additional character options or even sub-systems written by me for specific campaign/setting. I'm generally flexible on 3rd party products as well.
Cost: 60$/per 4 hour session via PayPal total from the group is my standard rate for groups of 2-4. Total price would increase if you want to play for longer or have more players. Session 0 will be free.
Systems: I'm highly experienced with Pathfinder 1e, Warhammer 40k FFG titles, Shadowrun 5e, DnD5e, Exalted 3e, Star Wars FFG/Genesys, Cypher System. I know and have superficial experience with dozens of other systems and learn fast. I have a notable interest in Traveller 2e, Eclipse Phase, new World of Darkness, Cyberpunk RED. Would gladly learn a new system/setting - as long as it's not F.A.T.A.L.
Schedule: Weekly Saturdays, 6 pm GMT/2 pm EST, 4 hour sessions by default, maximum 6 hours long. My country does not use DST, so session time might change slightly over the year depending on where you live.
Platform: My platform of choice is Foundry VTT hosted over the Forge service.
If you are interested or have any questions - please contact via Discord, Rkobenia (Tesla)#1656

I currently have around 130 hours into last epoch, 60 hours of which since the big Multiplayer 0.9 Patch from March 9th (which was basically a fresh start as online and offline servers are separate). I was honestly pleasantly surprised, and as are many other people. I see a lot of potential on the level that I want to see in D4 as well, but then even better. Let is be clear that I don't mean D4 needs to 1:1 copy Last Epoch, but I want to show some good ways that Last Epoch has managed to stay FUN.

• As Asmon put it multiple times as well - I want Blizzard to 'steal' good ideas from other games, and make it better. It's completely okay that D4 is a simple game, but it needs to be FUN and STAY fun if Blizzards wants this to be a live service game. PoE fans will probably play D4 for 2 weeks and go back to PoE becaus of a lack of complexity & complain about it, but there's nothing to be done about that. It's impossible to make a perfect game both for the hardcore and casual player. But you can at least try to make it fun for both.
• Last Epoch supports an intuitive Loot Filter system which should be standard in all modern aRPGs. You don't have to use it if you don't want to, but it should be option. It's similar to PoE, but I guess you don't have to reinvent the wheel?
• You don't have to pay for stash tabs by the way. Stash tabs, together with some end game dungeons, are you biggest gold sink in this game. I think you can have over 50 tabs (no RMT), and color-code it like you can in PoE
• I'm not all too set on Last Epoch's "trade" system if you can call it that. You CAN transfer ANY item from friend to friend, but literally only when you were in the same area when the item dropped - after which you can "send gift" an item. Perfectly fine for co-op, but you cannot share items as all when one person is playing alone and found a good item for you. Would love to see some more "openness" on item trading like Asmon said.
• I really like how Last Epoch has simplified some of the systems that are present in PoE to a point where everyone actually understands what's going on without having put hundreds of hours into the game and needing to read a 69 page guide & spreadsheet. They do this while also offering a broad spectrum of things to do in the game - this is what D4 needs to be(come).
• It's cool that Class specializations (each of the 5 classes have 2 or 3 specializations) can spec into the passive tree of the OTHER specializations, but only up until the halfway point. This gives a lot more options for a variety of passives and choice to build your character in a certain way.
• Instead of a complex skill-gem system like PoE or a way too simplified Rune-system from D3, you can gradually choose which skills you can "specialize", unlocking a whole tree for just that skill, with a maximum of 20 skill points. These 'talents' can drastically change the whole skill, like this "Javelin Throw" skill from the Paladin which is normally a spammy-type skill that becomes a Battle Standard which buffs and heals your party, and becomes a combo-skill that you can dash towards
• You can do content that's higher level than you & enemies don't scaling with you was pretty huge for me. As to my understanding, higher level mobs greatly gain armor & resistance against you, but also grant you their full XP. If you just got a massive power-spike because of something, it can be very satisfying sweeping through higher level content to gain XP.
• Itemization and scaling is pretty much always clear how it works to the player. Legendary items are often not BiS, but CAN define builds - you can find weapons with abilities like "Cast earthquake when you leap slam", but it won't add 1000000% damage like in D3 - you have to build your character around it. You'll see however that most strong builds probably use 80% rare items. Asmon talked about how he liked "+X to skill" on gear because it enables breakpoints. It's even moreso in this game because getting "+X to skill" in Last Epoch literally means getting an extra talent point which can be huge.
• A very interesting addition to the game is something called "Legendary Potential". The lower level a legendary item is (thus generally the weaker), the higher chance it has to roll anywhere from 1 to 4 Legendary potential - 1 being relatively common (but getting increasingly rare the higher level the item is), and 4 being VERY rare. Hitting a high level item with 4 legendary potential would be like winning the lottery according to the devs. With legendary potential, you can literally add full affixes from an item to that legendary item by running a long end-game dungeon. Every legendary potential copies one random affix from your chosen item unto your legendary, destroying the other item in the process. For example a 2 Legendary Potential lvl 1 legendary with an interesting effect (but bad stats), can try to merge with an exalted item with +90% minion Damage, +300% minion health, +14% health, and +10% all resist. Forging the legendary, the exalted item gets destroyed, and you now have a level 1 legendary item that took 2 random affixes from it, let's say +300% minion health and +14% health. This can suddenly make mediocre low-level legendary something you can spend hours and hours farming for. Super interesting.
• Respeccing is done very well. Passives only cost gold to respec - like, you'll have 1,000,000 gold after playing 50 hours, and respeccing your whole tree would cost like 10k. Skill respeccing is a little bit more punishing, as you respeccing a point in specialized skill with bring it down a level. In the late-game, this goes back to 20 relatively fast (infinitely faster than getting a skill gem to 20 in PoE), but during leveling you can creep behind 2 levels on skills compared to your buddies who haven't respecced. Completely choosing a new specialized skill brings
• Crafting is not complex, but offers a wide variety of possibilities. Here's an example on how intuitive crafting works in Last Epoch (in my opinion): https://imgur.com/a/Ww5qXSI (There's a short explainer beneath each photo). There's no different recipes you have to follow, or ever being unclear on what you're trying to achieve.
• The combat of Diablo 4 definitely feels smoother & responsive (just like D3 still does)
• Instead of farming countless and swapping gear constantly to keep your resistances maxed, you can simply run the end-game content "empowered monoliths" to grind & kill the bosses to unlock boons which can in essence greatly increase your stats you're looking for. This games wants you have fun and not be miserable.

Hello! My name is Roman, I'm a highly experienced GM in search of a stable group. Over the years I have come to value playing with a group of people who know each other. I currently have a game slot empty and would gladly work with people who know what they want and play well together. The group does not need to be experienced - as long as you know each other and have an idea for what you want, I have plenty of experience with new players.
I'm looking to ideally find a group of 3-5 players, it could be more or less. If you are a group of two and would like to expand, I have a number of stable players from other games that I could ask to join if needed or we could organize a normal LFG one the campaign idea is set.
Experience: I have about 11 years of active experience as a GM, 2 - 5 campaigns a week.
I prefer campaigns that focus on roleplaying, acting, and character development, but I have GMed a variety of campaigns - true sandboxes, kingdom building large scale campaigns, solo campaigns, prewritten campaigns and modules (though I tend to rewrite those heavily), even 80% combat-focused murder sprees. Regardless of what sort of campaign I run I tend to incorporate character's backstories and desires into the game. I don't mind GMing "Evil" campaigns, as long as characters are not evil just for the sake of being evil.
My campaigns tend to be R-rated, with sexual content being the only thing that I don't feature and much and if at all- pan away from it. Other "R" elements such as horror, gore, drug abuse, torture and similar can be excluded at Session 0 - I don't revel in them, but sometimes really awful things do happen in my games.
When it comes to combat and general difficulty my general rule is that I optimize only as much as my players, maintaining steady but fair difficulty. If you prefer making flavorful characters you can expect to face similarly built foes, if you like making optimized characters - you will still be challenged from time to time. I could adjust the campaign to be easier or tougher depending on player preference, of course.
Genre-wise I don't have a strong preference one way or another, but personally I prefer grittier settings (with a notable exception of Exalted).
I tend to write houserules for my games and you can expect to find custom geamagic items, have additional character options or even sub-systems written by me for specific campaign/setting. I'm generally flexible on 3rd party products as well.
Cost: 60$/per 4 hour session via PayPal total from the group is my standard rate for groups of 2-4. Total price would increase if you want to play for longer or have more players. Session 0 will be free.
Systems: I'm highly experienced with Pathfinder 1e, Warhammer 40k FFG titles, Shadowrun 5e, DnD5e, Exalted 3e, Star Wars FFG/Genesys, Cypher System. I know and have superficial experience with dozens of other systems and learn fast. I have a notable interest in Traveller 2e, Eclipse Phase, new World of Darkness, Cyberpunk RED. Would gladly learn a new system/setting - as long as it's not F.A.T.A.L.
Schedule: Weekly Saturdays, 6 pm GMT/2 pm EST, 4 hour sessions by default, maximum 6 hours long. My country does not use DST, so session time might change slightly over the year depending on where you live.
Platform: My platform of choice is Foundry VTT hosted over the Forge service.
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If you are interested or have any questions - please contact via Discord, Rkobenia (Tesla)#1656

Hey guys I need help, I need something mailed to me in BC from winnipeg and I'm willing to pay $50 for roughly 30min - 1hr of work.
I recently moved from winnipeg but last week I recieved a $200 cheque from the government of Manitoba at my previous address in manitoba.(near freshco Pembina)
Task is to pick up the cheque from my old house and mail it to me.
I'll pay interac e transfer once you send me a picture of the envelope with my name, new adress and stamp.

I (21M) live in a house with 6 roommates. We all get along really well but we have had serious issues with one roommate lately. Let’s call him mike. We were told by our landlords if we had talked to Mike at all, because he owes the landlords several thousand dollars in rent. The landlords had been very lenient with collecting rent from mike because his father just recently passed away, and he was spending a lot of time away from the rented property and back home with his families. It has been clearly evident that mike has been struggling, and we have done everything we can in our power as his roommates and his friends to let him know we are there for him and he can talk to us about anything. We all actually even traveled several hours to his home town to be there for him during his fathers wake. Since his fathers passing, mike has been consistently abusing alcohol and cocaine, not going to his classes, and abusing the popular party scene at my school. We always invite him to hang out with us during the week but he spends most of his days sleeping and his weekend evenings abusing alcohol and cocaine. He constantly lies to us, and lied to us about paying his rent. Some of my roommates were so frustrated they took his door off his room and kicked him out of the house even though he claimed the check for the full rent payment was in the mail, but they did not believe him due to his repeated lying. The landlords claim since we are on a group lease, either we all will be taken to court or we will have to cover his rent ourselves. Is this true? I really don’t know what to do at this point. I’ve known mike for 4 years and I really can’t believe he would do something like this especially to all the people he called his friends and have had his back through the hardest times in his life.

What the hell? My husband started drinking over the spring last April w the secretary that’s 26, he hired her as a teen. He’s 47. He was staying out for work 9am till 2am every day of the week and away on business the weekends. The week our fifth child was born he came home and told me he’s a narc. My reality shattered. I said you check all the boxes, holy shit this is a real thing and he said yeah I know, there’s no cure and love me or leave me and of course I said I love him. Then I asked him if he’s cheating too and he said no but that bc I didn’t trust him he was leaving. I told him he couldn’t do this to us like he did his ex wife and what the hell we are having a baby, things are great except for his toxic behaviors and he sat there started off into the space laughed and said “I’m sure it’s crushing but I feel nothing” He abandoned us the week our 5th baby was born, barely made it but to show face to the doctors and nurses for the birth. He took off getting a million dollar condo which was strange bc he was citing financial difficulties as his reasoning for working so much. The kids were devastated, they were so high up and plummeted into hell. That was July. In august he was intermittent dosing and providing false hope, taking me down a bdsm rabbit hole. I hadn’t yet confirmed the affair. Sep he found out I was talking to attorneys and went and bought 162K Porsche, gave the secretary our family Range Rover personalizing the plates w her initials and concealed it all told me it was getting an oil change for a whole month. Denied an affair the entire time. Said he was suicidal and going to therapy, what a crock of shit. In Oct he took off to “visit daughters for their birthday in Vegas” but instead was in Europe the highest degree of luxury, I mean four seasons, Greece Paris, spain, and like 30K shopping direct w designers in one day. Asking the kids to lie to me, they’re so head fucked, still are. Nov, he went to Vegas w my step daughters and the secretary as they’ve always known her his new girlfriend, after just abandoning their family the week their baby brother was born, the same way he did to them as kids. Then later in the month Cabo w the mistress and my in laws too! WTF! The in laws he’s been mostly estranged from our entire 9 year marriage bc they raised him in a cult and now they’re all on vacation w the prostitute while he’s married and just abandoned his baby and children and wife. It’s so weird y’all. I served him early nov after he called in too sick to take the kids to school in the morning he was found at the bar at 2pm w the ho, he stayed and drank w her and used more of our money to book more exotic travel for themselves. He hates me, he’s making my life hell. He’s the cheater and I’m to blame?? He’s so damn abusive it’s insane. He’s trying to buy a million dollar house w the mistress while he and I are still married. He took one of our children and alienated us from him since thanksgiving, lovebombing w video games and clothing and my son won’t even talk to me, and we were soooo close, I guess he’s the new golden child. It’s nuts. Massive financial abuse leaves me w nothing, not a shred of mail, nothing I can access at all, moved my name off all accounts insidiously and businesses. Has taken like 10 super excessive and lavish vacations all around the world galavanting and to our Cabo where in April we were buying land to build a family home. Six thousand dollar dinners and like 12 of them, not to mention all the daily bars and other restaurants. Excess gluttony. He’s stalked me w an air tag and to retaliate for getting a police report he then hit me w a cease and desist against me for our business saying I’m the stalker bc I sent a text to our secretary last year and called her a whore when I found out the excess he had been spending on her. This doesn’t allow me to find out anything related to our income or businesses. Just further blocking my ability to acertaron what we have enough to divorce. He attempts to exhaust me by objecting to every move I make. 3M went into the accounts in cash and 3M out in 6 months, I didn’t even know we had that money bc he had told me we were broke. He calls everything a business expense bc she’s the secretary, we pay her and he screws her. Massive pathological lying, projection, triangulating, gaslighting, you know the works, huge Hiroshima bomb sized fireworks. The divorce is brutal, he’s fighting for the kids he completely abandoned for 7 months, leveraging them against the money - now all of a sudden playing house w the secretary as the kids have always known her their new step mom. She’s 12 years older than our 14 year old. This shit is so intense. He’s been on 10 vacations since June independent of places we have actual business investments and he’s left us w no money to buy groceries, threatens me ill get nothing and not even be able to afford filtered water. I’m in 100K for the divorce my side alone, I had to heloc the house bc the financial abuse is so bad, he hated that i did that but like how else could I defend myself. The projection is insane, he accuses me of being a psychopath. Massive financial abuse, isolation, tons of flying monkeys mostly others pwNPD or narcassist and everyone so charmed by him, a probable Ponzi scheme, I mean 10’s of millions, laundering through the secretary/mistress, the whole high life and the kids and I are just in the suburbs going WTF. Feels like I watched my husband lose his mind but did he ever have it?? A truly beautiful and devoted, top tier family and this shit makes no sense. My whole reality crushed, we were instagram Americana w all the kids so happy, a great life in between his years of random abuse. His self awareness is so far and few between and fleeting before the impulses kick back in. Like WTF??? I love him but realistically like um PD are real, I had no idea and I have to do the best by myself and the kids. His ex wife is no contact and he mistress from the first marriage suicided. God help us. Any words of advice from actual pwNPD??

Hello all It brings me the greatest of joy to introduce the awards for TheCitadel! It has been a long time coming, but thanks to feedback from some friends via discord it is now here. Read all the details below and prepare your nominations. Or if you would prefer you can click on this link and read all the details via a google document-google document with all the details regarding how the award competition will work.

The Categories

The following section are the various categories for the awards and what fics/authors qualify:
Best Chapter
Best Overall Fic
Best Ongoing Fic (last updated in at least January 2023)
Best New Fic (must have started in at least January 2023)
Best Author
Best Subreddit Contributor (must have posted/commented on the subreddit to qualify)
Best Discord Contributor (must be in the discord server to both nominate or vote)
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These categories must have been started between 2018-2022:
Best SI/ISOT
Best One-Shot
Best Dance era/HOTD Fic
Best OC Fic
Best Crossover
Best AU
Best Crackfic
Best Canon Divergent Fic
Best Canon Compliant Fic
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Rules and Guidelines

• You are allowed to nominate yourself.
• You can only nominate one fic per category.
• You can nominate the same fic for multiple categories.
• You must nominate as a reply to the specific comment on this post. If the nomination is elsewhere, it shall not count.
• You must include a link to the fic you are nominating within your comment. If it does not include a link, it shall not count.
• You cannot nominate mods of the subreddit for any category
• On the Google Docs voting form, you shall be asked to provide your Reddit username. The account provided must have been made pre-February 2023. More details in a different category.
• You are allowed to campaign on the subreddit but only under circumstances. More details in a different category.
• General subreddit rules apply for this competition.
• You cannot impersonate authors.
• You cannot nominate monetised work.
• If a fic wins in more than one category, the winner can choose which category they would wish to claim. In this scenario, the second placed fic shall win. In the scenario that the author cannot be contacted, their “winner” category will be chosen for them at random by the Mods.

Regarding how sockpuppeting and brigading is being handled
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• As stated above, when you are submitting your votes, you will be asked to include your Reddit username. This is so it can be confirmed at a later date whether you actually voted within the competition.
• Reddit accounts under 3 months of age will not be able to vote, if your cake day is in February 2023 or later, your votes shall be invalid.
• If you have made a Reddit account recently, but not with the purpose of manipulating votes, message me with proof and your votes may also be valid.

Campaigning
There is no denying that this is a rather big event that is bound to take up a lot of room. There’s no avoiding it but there are ways I can and will be mindful of the possibility of spam occurring. So this is how campaigning will work:

• There will be a post made for each category after this document goes live. There you will be able to fight your case as to why your nomination deserves to win. It’ll be your chance to explain why you loved the fic so much to put it forward for consideration.
• Discussion about the nominated fics is also allowed :)
• This is also the place for the self promotion of people who own fics have been put forward for consideration, by themselves or others.
• You are also allowed to self-promote new chapters of your fic on separate subreddit posts, as well as placing a small message underneath to encourage readers to vote.
• There will be a post for each category, which shall be all posted on one day and accessible from a megathread.
• You are not allowed to make separate “Vote for Me!” posts on the subreddit.
• How you campaign outside the subreddit is none of my business, but I am expecting everyone to be honest with the system, you will have unlimited votes for when we get to that stage, but I am asking you to show everyone respect by only voting for the stories you actually liked.
• Is there any way I can prove you did not read the story? No, but there was always bound to be a flaw.

Other Details
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• The plan is to hopefully make this a yearly event.
• The “Best Ongoing Fic” category shall be fics updated from January 2024 in next years’ competition. For the other dated awards, the time frame shall move up a year (since this years’ is 2018-2022, next years’ shall be 2019-2023)
• Once a fic wins in any category, it cannot win in any other category. Different fics by the same author can win, however.
• Since this is the first year, expect growing pains, we will evaluate once everything is done.
• If you have any concerns that someone may be breaking the rules, please send it to the mods with proof and we will discuss further.

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Timeline for the Competition

1. This post - The launch post that acts as the way to nominate fics. The nomination period will be open 7 days
2. Campaigning season- After the 7 days, I will launch the campaign post(s) see above for more details. The Campaigning season will last 7 days.
3. Voting season- When the campaigning season closes the voting season opens. This is the main event! Where all the hard work pays off. This is where people follow the link to google forms and vote for who they consider to be the best. The voting season will last 10 days.
4. The counting- The voting is now closed and it is now time for the mods to digest the votes. Presuming there is no rule breaking this should hopefully not take longer than a day or two.
5. Announcement of the winners- The finish line! This is where the winners are announced and the reward procedure starts. This is where we reflect on the project and see what went right and what can be done better the next time

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Rewards

• The bragging rights of winning this competition
• Your own personalised flair to show off on the subreddit for example “Best Crackfic winner:2023”. (again please take note of subreddit rule no.2, you may be asked for proof of authorship)
• The winners fics will be promoted in the announcement post once everything is done, this post will then be linked in the subreddit menu, on the sidebar and in the welcome mail post. It is the ultimate way of showing off that people consider you the best!

Well without further ado, go to the comment section- the appropriate comment and start nominating!

Hey everyone, longtime lurker, first time poster here.
My co-founder and I are in the process of starting a company and are currently seeking pre-seed funding. We have successfully started and sold a business in the past, but we did not borrow any investor money for that venture. We have several different investors interested (private, a Small VC firm, and an Angel Investor Firm) after initial discussions and are working on a pitch deck.
Our new company is in the same industry as our previous venture, which is still thriving under its current owner who was new to the industry. We developed systems and concepts that work and are scalable. Even though our industry isn't considered a tech field, we're pitching our startup as a tech company due to the tech solutions and approach we are taking.
We plan to ask for one million USD in funding and conservatively project one million gross within 12 months and three to five million gross within 36 months. We maintained a 21% net profit margin in our previous venture and are using this as a planning projection but we expect to exceed that by quite a bit with this new concept.
Currently, we have salaried jobs paying us $200k/year each and plan to use the funding to pay ourselves salaries of $155k each (this is a redline as we both have 5 person families), we plan to purchase a third founder's business (which cash flows with a comparable net profit margin but has not been scaled, it has a net profit of +/- 100k/yr), invest in equipment, tech solutions, advertising, hire 3 skilled professionals and 5 skilled labor employees, and maintain at least a 10% contingency reserve.
If anyone has experience with securing pre-seed funding or any tips or advice, we would greatly appreciate it.

I am 25 and just finished all my education and studies. Now I am looking for a job. Im not from the US. A family member of mine worked at a place she heavily recommended to me and there are two similar jobs pretty close to me as well.
I applied to all of them a little over 3 weeks ago. Only a couple of days later one responded, invited me and did everything to convince me to stay. (Not in a pushy way, it seems a good place really)
The other two, including the one I got recommend, only sent me an automated mail about my application being received, but nothing more.
The job that already responded had me for the interview today and offered to let me sign all papers in one week so I could potentially start right into the next month.
I told my friends, who were very proud, but the family member tried to get me to call them. They said maybe I can get an interview this week when I tell them I have a second option.
I do not think of this as a second option. They spend one whole work day showing me everything, answering all my questions, even openly discussed payments, vacations and how people deserve free time etc.
So now this is where I need advice. I think it would be cool to work somewhere I got recommended to, but I really dont feel like begging for them to have me over. Each of the 3 jobs pays roughly the same, 50 bucks more or less in the first year so its not like I'd lose a whole lot of cash. Hope I found the right sub for my concerns.

First off we will start with the most important thing that has really started to irritate me with this game, and is probably one of the biggest reasons as to why this game can't retain players (besides the aggressive monetization)
THE CUTSCENES.
How is this game 6+ years in and still doesn't have voice acting in the main storyline?
No money to hire a voice actor?
YOU HAVE A COMMUNITY WILLING TO SACRIFICE THEIR VOICE (for in-game rewards) THAT YOU CAN USE FOR FREEEEE.
You, yourself the developers can use YOUR OWN voice to give these silent movies some life. (Again IK they don't read this)
Playing the game and getting a cutscenes makes me cringe because I honestly don't care for the characters that have no personality other then (insert text) because honestly, I read the lines but just can't get into it since its supposed to be a cutscene...
Like why even put a cutscene? Just show the darn text after the quest ends its no different.
Smaller teams then yours get more done, like focus less on selling cosmetics and improve your game!
Its so disappointing.
Anyways, i finished the darkovia saga at long last pretty good for the most part.
The vampire gear is a bit lacking (I'm guessing there was a pay for shop at some point with better gear?) Same with the werewolf ones, the armor was nice in the werewolf zone but honestly i was expecting some big werewolf claws or gaint gloves with large claws that i could craft but nothing, just swords.
No cross style weapons either so thats a bit disappointing.
The area darkovia has honestly been really well designed, especially the werewolf garden zone its pretty.
Finally got my 5th rune mark on the teleport gate. Skipping over the 3rd and 4th no idea how.
I went to find the next area i needed to go and apparently i need to do the heartwood saga so i did it, not badly written just the whole game lacks sounds.
Like imagine watching the lord of the rings movies without the music and the background sound.
Not the same is it.
This game has really good animations considering how lacking it is in basically every other aspect, but its all ruined by the sound.
the lack of response from the monsters you fight is another thing.
You can hit them, but they are devoted monks with a vow of silence.
I honestly feel like im the villain in this game rather then the hero because the monsters are probably being mind controlled since they have absolutely no pain reactions.
A prisoners of their own bodies.
Scaled dungeons are annoying aswell im trying to figure out why a level 14 dungeon needs to be level scaled to my my level when the rewards (items) simply aren't worth it.
There are just so many design choices that constantly makes me think 'Are these people new to the video game industry?' but no.
Ah that reminds me.
Why are the corners of the screen black?
Like they have a fade on all corners of the screen. (Mobile)
Wtf.
It looks ugly. Simply ugly.
I'm not playing in first person why does this game use a feature thats used for first person point of view games?
Like in battleleon it's supposed to be brignt and cheerie but instead i get this stupied fadded out screen that just -ugh.
Anyway, I did some more pvp.
Rouge has improved its standing.
Still shit simply because it had no utility at all.
Sure it can 1v1, but every class can do that and better.
Ranger is probably the worst, next to mage but both have limited uses that barely keeps them afloat.
But over all ranger is the worst so far.
The quest chain (main storyline) just not being a quest chain even within the same area is starting to really push me away from the game.
Honestly, the game has the artstyle down already, it has a story line, and it has a very small but devoted playerbase, and it can even bring in thousands of items over from AQW into AQ3D thereby lowering the art work needed.
It just doesn't have proper dev priorities, and management.
It plays like a game that is simply being pushed by the fact the players will keep shelling out money for medicore content.
The players themselves don't criticize the game enough.
The very basics are missing in this game (sound, monster sounds, environmental sounds, proper music for each major zone)
We can't swim.
We can't casually walk.
And we are lacking the proper emote to use use the [Wait...] Sign weapon in front of us, or above us pointing foward.
We can't go up into the battleon walls to look at the scenery (lets be fair, it doesn't exist)
The more I play this game the lazier it looks.
I understand they are trying to have constant monthly or weekly updates but they need to stop because it does not work when your game is barely afloat.
At first I thought dam this game seems to lack here or there, but it just keeps pilling up.
They need a major sound update.
Will this save the game? No, but it will retain more players and attract more of them plus will make the games quality rise to a whole new level.
They need to improve the interface, the buttons are ridiculously close the edge lf the screen (the right side) and they are small with no way to make them bigger or spread them out.
Get rid of those weird shadows on the corners, so pointless. If you need certain maps to be darker just shade out the corners ONLY for that map.
Make the main questline a linked quest line my gosh this is such a basic requirement!
You don't need to worry about voice lines for all languages that comes with time, same with translations.
This game has such potential or had, but the developers are honestly either deaf, blind or simply refusing to admit that the game needs change.
Again, your playerbase is so small that anyone who defends the game as it is, is an idiot.
And so i conclude this reddit post with this:
Change or shutdown the game, because nothing comes from staying stagnant repeating the same loop year after year with only cosmetics releasing and another area with the same gameplay again and again.
The same players will keep paying for cosmetics, but you sure won't gain more.

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