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The unofficial subreddit for the discussion of No Man's Sky, a fantasy science-fiction game set in an infinite, procedurally-generated universe.
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A place for travelers in No Man's Sky to share and discuss in-game locations and have an awesome shared experience. The About tab has the sub rules, ship part guides and community event info.
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A subreddit dedicated to the infinite, procedurally generated, space exploration video game No Man's Sky.
2023.05.28 18:09 Pleasant-Respect-725 Lone Zebra Danio help plz
OKAY so, I’ve had a few aquariums over the years and long story short I have one single danio left. He also happens to be the terror, I’ve had him about three years and he eats and attacks all the fishes and snails and he even would play chicken with my crawfish. He now lives alone in his own lil world he’s conquered for himself.
My one question, IS HE LONELY? Do I need to get him a friend?
Any other fish is a no go because he will quite literally make it disappear in 10 seconds. To this day I have no idea how, he waits till I leave the room to make his move. But he always likes watching snails so I’m thinking maybe adding one.
His name is Mr Fish. 🫠
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2023.05.28 18:09 Gh0stDestr0y If She Can Love Him At His Worst
2023.05.28 18:09 Daktyl198 TL's combat seems to take heavy inspiration from RS3's Revolution system
I'm not sure how many people have noticed, but it seems that T&L's combat pulls very heavily from RuneScape's Revolution combat system, but with a slightly different interface. You have the option to choose which abilities fire off cooldown, and which you fire manually. And, of course, the attack *or* move mechanic.
This system is actually fairly interesting late game, as you pick and choose which abilities you want to time perfectly, and which you want to fire all the time. You can't just auto everything endgame or you're going to be wasting mana, damage, and time.
Obviously the auto-hunting is a separate discussion. I don't personally see an issue with it, but I'm a BDO player so I'm used to AFK grinding mechanics. But I recommend anybody questioning the TL combat system to look into the RS3 Revolution system and see what TL's system *could* be. Obviously, there's no guarantees and we won't know until it's out... but it's the closest thing I can think of.
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2023.05.28 18:08 SirCheeseAlot How could I turn my skills into something to make enough money to have a living wage?
I was abused and traumatized as a child. SO when I became an adult I just withdrew from society. I have always barely survived. Now I am over 40 and I have nothing, and my body has pain along with my mind. I have learned what is wrong with me mentally. I still need to work on it, but its a start.
I really dream of a simple life. Being able to have a quite safe place to live. Lots of plants around me. Maybe a few animals. A place to do arts and crafts. A green house and garden. A partner. I dont think Im asking for much, but it seems like I am asking for the moon.
I have actually developed a lot of skills, and Im decently intelligent, but fearful of people. Im good with computers. I can do 3d art and animation. I can use photoshop and lightroom. I enjoy stuff like obsidian, and rpgmaker. Im not great at coding. I do understand it a little.
Im good at design and building. I have made a lot of different stuff. I made the truck camper I am currently living in. I can fix things. I enjoy drawing and painting. I like crafts. I have created things in lots of mediums. I also spent a few years absolutely absorbed in photography.
I am decent at writing, and have studied psychology and philosophy. Mostly psychology. I ran a subreddit for over a year for people abused in childhood, and when I shut it down. Many people thanked me for making a difference in their life.
I guess I could keep going listing stuff for a while. My basic point is that I have useful skills, but how do I translate those into a living wage? How do I do this without being overwhelmed with socializing? How can I receive the healing help I need. When I am really struggling with my mental health and I live in a homemade camper all by myself?
It feels like I am so far from the starting line, and the clock is running out. It feels like if I could just have my basic needs met and a little safety and security, along with therapy. I could become a useful person to this world. Instead time just keeps slipping by and I dissociate to tolerate my existence.
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2023.05.28 18:08 ThrowRARAAHAHAHROMAR I (21F) am considering cutting contact with my parents (46F and 46M) following their response to my coming out. Am I being childish?
I know the title must make this seem very cut and dry, but I do have reasons for why I need advice on this.
The most important context around this that might affect any advice is as follows: I am the oldest of four siblings, with significant age gaps between myself and the other three. I am starting grad school in the fall and am hoping to move without telling them. I already live fairly far away. I am in a relationship with my girlfriend that they will never accept. The only thing I currently rely on them financially for is my phone plan.
Now the actual event--I came out to my parents as a homosexual with a girlfriend recently over videocall and they took it poorly to say the least. My mother started hurling all sorts of vitriol at me over the phone (how she was ashamed of me, I should be going to conversion therapy, I was retarded, I was nothing, she doesn't want me ever saying this to her children, it was a sin, I was diseased, basically every hurtful cliche in the book) while my father said nothing. Later, he sent a message basically saying they're family and family will never turn their back on me and I should never turn my back on family, but that he will never accept this and that I should find it in myself to change before God lest I have to account for this in the afterlife.
It has been five days. My father has repeatedly called me after I ignored his text, and when I finally responded only spoke about work or my upcoming move--absolutely no kind words or acknowledgement of every terrible thing they'd just said to me.
If it was just this, I think I could basically continue a relationship with them in the hopes they'd change, but this feels like a consistent pattern of my mother only approving of me when I fit her very specific ideals for a child, and lashing out with absolute hatred when I can't fit that mold. My father will always say nothing during the actual fit and then try to keep the peace later. I have never gotten an apology for anything from my mother in my life. When asked about this, she responded that she never has to apologise because she has never been wrong. I feel that my father's silence during these tirades is a form of acceptance of the contents, and can't see myself wanting to continue a relationship with him either under these circumstances.
However, considering my situation as the oldest of four, and general obligation to my parents, would it be overly harsh of me to cut off contact with them following this?
TL;DR: Came out to parents as a lesbian, mother was hateful, father messaged something along the lines of "hate the sin love the sinner" and asked me to change, later called and pretended nothing had happened at all. Is it childish of me to cut off contact under these circumstances?
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2023.05.28 18:08 Hi-No-Ishi-1998 The Brothers Karamazov - Fyodor Dostoevsky
Above all, do not lie to yourself. A man who lies to himself and listens to his own lie comes to a point where he does not discern any truth either in himself or anywhere around him, and thus falls into disrespect towards himself and others. Not respecting anyone, he ceases to love, and having no love, he gives himself up to passions and coarse pleasures in order to occupy and amuse himself, and in his vices reaches complete beastiality, and it all comes from lying continually to others and himself. A man who lies to himself is often the first to take offense. It sometimes feels very good to take offense, doesn't it? And surely he knows that no one has offended him, and that he himself has invented the offense and told lies just for the beauty of it, that he has exaggerated for the sake of effect, that he has picked up on a word and made a mountain out of a pea - he knows all of that, and still he is the first to take offense, he likes feeling offended, it gives him great pleasure, and thus he reaches the point of real hostility...
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2023.05.28 18:08 SvenMorrison Quick story
I work at a restaurant/cafe and a few days ago I took a call in order over the phone. The name he gave me was John with a normal breakfast sandwhich order. Usually after taking a call in, the system will print a ticket with the order and I’ll give it to the chef, but it was a rush, so I moved on to help make someone else’s food. I turn back around and the ticket is gone/didn’t print. Open the system to see what happened and there is no call in under the name John. Wondering if I deleted the order instead of saving it I double checked that the chef didn’t have a ticket, which he didn’t. After investigating for only like 15 seconds, an online order (looks noticeably different than a call in on the ticket) prints, under the name John, with the exact same order. No clue how it happened. For an online you need to pay up front, whereas for a call in the customer pays at the register when they pick up, and I don’t take payment over the phone. I have no idea how it happened and it’s been bugging me for days
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2023.05.28 18:08 bearvert222 AI Fear as an Outgrowth of Values
I think AI fear is so pernicious here not so much because of AI itself, but because rationalists among others hold implicit values that it targets. To use a pop culture example, serial killer films in the 70s are effective because of the increased value of individualism and self-empowerment then; people perceive the dark side of those values if unconsciously.
i can think of four values from hanging around this scene and reddit in general that it hits.
1. Human beings are or should be governed by impersonal or abstract forces. A common thing i see here is this. Rationalists tend to view solutions or causes on a force level; a man is made by his environment, and the wisdom of a crowd is better than that of a man. Rationalists approach the world through statistics, not literature.
2. Intelligence is a moral good and the best measure of an individual's potential. Hence the endless focus on IQ. I use an an analogy to height to show the difference.
Like height, intelligence is a quality that is biological to a point. But intelligence is held to an almost moral standard, whereas when people try to do so to height (i only date 6"0' and up!) we rebel against it as absurd. We dislike "tall people will have a better potential life than short people."
For some reason it has moved into a good in itself. To be short is just life; to not be smart is a failure.
3. The highest self-actualization is in high-status, meaningful work. i think as we become more atomized, work increasingly fills people's lives as the sole bestower of value. Even work-substitutes do; video games are popular more and more as comparative status and meaning; you are ranked and you grind in them as much as play and ppl hunt achievements and trophies.
4. An ideal man is machine-like in a sense. Objective, dispassionate, and standardized. What I mean is a man strives to produce photographs and not drawings; he should view the world according to natural laws or objective reality and strive to eliminate bias or personality. Things like abstract art are anathema; machines do not have a subjective life.
AI fear in particular hits these things hard.
- It is impersonal force embodied. Namely, how dependent we are on technology that we fear moves us, not is moved by us. It fuses a deity with an impersonality as if one day a God of evolution showed up.
- It is ten times "smarter" than us by the metrics we use, even though it isn't smart at all. It both upholds intelligence and destroys it. Think of a chess computer.
- It will destroy work as a source of meaning for many people leaving...what, exactly? Most everything else as source of meaning has been discredited or weakened.
- You can't outrun a car. People aim to be more rational than other beings. But what happens when you can't? Subjectivity as insurmountable and we become Kirk to a Spock.
i think a lot of ppl get hung up in trying to debate "can AI do X" but the answer is more to debunk the framework. its like one group of Christians debating Jesus is coming back in five years and the other says "no, no man knows the hour." The real fear is in "He finds me wanting/a failure."
anti-fear response:
- A man's destiny is in his own hands; statistics do not define us.
- Intelligence is just one aspect of humanity and needs to be unvirtued a bit. we've gone too far.
- Work cannot be a source of meaning long-term. Competition is making that untenable. New forms of meaning must be found.
- Subjectivity is important. A singular human viewpoint also has value. There is also a place for it.
Thoughts?
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2023.05.28 18:08 blackcatt42 My father passed away. How do I help my mother with financial literacy?
My father passed away while on long term disability from a job with the city, he and my mother are common law and bought the house sometime like 30 years ago, she believes they are both on the title/deed. It’s paid off. They do not have a car and I believe the only debt is CC debt for 6500 ish
He paid all the bills, did the shopping and my mother is essentially clueless on how to pay them, how much she makes from her job, and what their account balances are. He gets paper bills and paid by phone or in person. I believe she has a small TSFA, a RRSP and I think my dad had those and some kind of mutual find but the bank won’t give us any information even though their accounts were joint. I believe he has a pension through Omers and some kind of policy through Sunlife in which no beneficiary was listed so it goes to the estate (a problem?). Their mortgage is paid, they haven’t done their taxes for over 10 years but I believe their combined income was maybe 40k, so I’m not super worried about them owing. I just want to be able to grieve my dad but I’m so worried about my mom, who has no idea about anything and makes like 13k a year. Totaling up their monthly expenses she needs about 1100$ ish just to live which seems like a lot for just bills, I’m going to see if I can get their TV & internet and phone plans better rates as they’re about 225$ ish total which seems like a lot.
I just don’t know how to help her. I don’t know how much his policy is, if the pension pays out and I obviously do not want her to even begin to touch the very little money she thinks she has saved as obviously I don’t want to burn through it.
Can anyone, who has also lived through this absolute fucking nightmare please help me? I have no idea what to even ask the funeral home so we don’t get ripped off, we’re trying to keep the cost so minimal but burial is expensive and idk where to even start. I’ve organized all her bills, and we put a couple bucks on the things we think are due so they can see we’re trying to pay it. We haven’t “notified” anyone other than family of his passing, and the bank who we made an appointment with. “Do the funeral and then come talk to us” - HOW. We made an appointment anyway. His name is also on my account, as he opened it for me when I was like 8 so idk how that effects my account - I really don’t have any money but I moved what I need for my own rent out as idk if when you die can they just seize your accounts if you do owe?
Anyway sorry this is written with a lot of emotions but I really do need advice- badly. Thank you for reading 💖
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2023.05.28 18:08 Environmental_Low434 Battle Net Account Problems (Phone number requirement)
Im having some trouble with Battle Net. Im on a console (xbox) and decided to make a new account because i was locked out. And with a new account i wanted to make a new Battle Net account. I tried using my phone number I used for my old Battle Net account, and it said that I couldnt because its connected to another account. See, this isnt a problem just yet. So since I wish to use my phone number and I wont be using that old account I made the desicion to delete it. I just got the email that it was deleted 5 hours ago. I finish the rest of the process of fully setting up my Battle Net account, but it still says that my phone number is still connected to an account therefore it cant be used.
Im at a loss right now. I dont know what to do. Theres no way im getting another phone nunber just to play Overwatch 2. Has this happened to anyone else? Does anyone know how to fix it? Is it a glitch?
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2023.05.28 18:07 whoshotyaboy Can you please suggest a laptop? Too many options has paralyzed me!
LAPTOP QUESTIONNAIRE Thank you for your help!
- Total budget (in local currency) and country of purchase. Please do not use USD unless purchasing in the US: $500 to $800, country of purchase is US
- Are you open to refurbs/used? Yes
- How would you prioritize form factor (ultrabook, 2-in-1, etc.), build quality, performance, and battery life? Want something that will last 5 plus years, if possible. Main concerns are reliability and quality, ease of use for the keyboard (used to macbook keyboard).
- How important is weight and thinness to you? Not too important. I am a teacher so I mainly just use my laptop in bed at home.
- Do you have a preferred screen size? If indifferent, put N/A. 13 inches
- Are you doing any CAD/video editing/photo editing/gaming? List which programs/games you desire to run. No, I don't do anything like that. I mainly just use word, canvas, and our school apps.
- If you're gaming, do you have certain games you want to play? At what settings and FPS do you want? N/A
- Any specific requirements such as good keyboard, reliable build quality, touch-screen, finger-print reader, optical drive or good input devices (keyboard/touchpad)? Just something easy to use while lying in bed. Yes, I'm lazy. ha!
- Leave any finishing thoughts here that you may feel are necessary and beneficial to the discussion.
- I don't typically bring my laptop back and forth to school. I do surf the internet at night while lying in bed so I don't want something super big that would make that difficult. I currently have a 6 year old macbook that no longer holds a battery charge so I have to keep it plugged in all the time. I have always had macs, but now am starting to think that it is not worth the extra money. I would like to be able to easily transfer everything from my current computer to the new one so that is a consideration, too.
Thank you so much!
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2023.05.28 18:07 Okav333 Thoughts on mass effect 4
Looking at new games nowaday and what bioware was doing past years. I can say am pretty sure Mass Effect 4 will be so bad and so garbage that Mass Effect 3's Endings gonna be renamed as a damn "Masterpiece" of a story telling in whole game industry 🗿 even a mass effect Andromeda gonna look as a decent game compared to MS4. 😮💨
Even on mass effect legendary they add nothing new to story or something extra 🤷 nooo. . . They managed to lose an entire DLC 🫴 "Pinnacle station" (not the best dlc out there but for some people it was good.)
Mass effect Andromeda 🙄 do i really need to say something about this ? 🤐 Not enough words to describe my anger.
Am pretty pessimistic as you can see Mass effect 4 will be last game (disappointment) the one last cash grab attempt. And probably game will die or be frozen another 10 years for some 😐
As for the optimistic group over there name 1 thing that promises game will be well made and at last half good as any of old mass effect games. You can see yourself how nowadays games are being made and released this will be no exception.
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2023.05.28 18:07 Known-Salamander-821 Doing everything right and nothing is working
So just some background info, I had a baby 6 months ago . During my pregnancy I gained 112 pounds . None of the doctors seemed concerned about that. Pre pregnancy I was around 130-140 . At the end of my pregnancy I was 247.6 pounds . And I had my baby early… 3 weeks early so who knows how much bigger I would of gotten. I immediately lost about 23 pounds of that just from baby ,fluids, and placenta weight. Over the next three months I got down to 199.
Now to clarify it took a lot of changes just to get down to this weight. I was eating in a calorie deficit of about 1500-1700 calories depending on activity level . I cut out processed food completely. Just whole foods. I upped my water intake and I don’t exercise at the gym HOWEVER that’s because my job is very physically demanding I mean getting 10,000 or more steps in one shift lots of squatting and lifting . Every shift I work I am sweating for 8 hours straight . I work 30 hours a week. I also get plenty of sleep about 7 hours or more a night . I only have one baby and a very supportive helpful husband so getting sleep has been no issue.
I didn’t mind that it took me all of that to lose the little amount of weight I did in that three months . I’m patient and self discipline is not an issue for me.
BUT Fast forward it is another 3 months later and I’m still at 199. I’m doing all the same things I’ve been doing. Nothing is budging . I got to a point of so much desperation that I tried intermittent fasting . I did the 16:8 fast. At first this seemed to work I got down to 196 but my weight has gone up to 199 and it’s been days so doesn’t seem like a weight fluctuation. During my 8 hour window I focused on lots of protein and still staying in my calorie deficit . I ate things like chicken, salmon, nuts, eggs, yogurt, some fruit. And no I did not overeat.
I’m at a loss of what to do . I understand that postpartum weight loss takes time and that it can be slow, but I’m 6 months out now it’s been 3 months of nothing and this seems excessive. I’m just not sure what else I could do . I’m wondering if now would be a good time to seek a doctor for help but also concerned I won’t be taken seriously or they’ll just tell me to do one of the things I’ve already been doing.
Edit: I’d like to add that I’ve been taking measurements too not just using the scale to monitor progress and my lost in inches has also stalled.
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2023.05.28 18:07 Silent-Army-4687 Is it ok for my girlfriend (19F) to hold secrets from me (21M)
So I've just gotten out a relationship not to long ago. We had broke up because she found out I was texting other females. I know cheating is wrong in all ways but just hear me out. So me and my ex met in march 2021 and we were in love to the point I really truly thought this was it I found who I was looking for, but that wasn't the case. Me and her live in the same city so you'd expect your new girlfriend to be able to do things with you or be able to have you over or she could come over anytime she she wants but, every time I asked if we could do something she'd go around the question or say one thing then boom something pops up now she can't come. It was real difficult to deal with my family was feeling iffy bout her. I saw her a good handful of times but if I can give you a number on how many times I seen her I don't think that's good. I ended up wanting to take a break cause it was going on to long for me not seeing her and i understand people get busy and your not able to see them wen you want , but it wasn't like that. Me and her got back together cause I wasn't tryn give up on her she told me things were gonna be different so I believed that and it had me at ease at the time but things didn't change. I ended up thinking she was lying to me bout her age cause everyone was skeptical bout that, so it became the last straw with me. I ended up texting other girls based off the fact she was holding something from me I didn't like to feel like I was being played with and it was a void I was trying to fill, I never did anything outside of texting tho I never went to another girls house or anything. She wouldn't tell me why I couldn't see her she only said "it'll hurt you if I tell you". I feel as if that you know it'll hurt someone you must tell them then and there cause then it'll become deceit and then a lie. I under stand personal business but secrets aren't personal business especially if you know it'll hurt someone you love. When we broke up she ended up telling me that before me it was another dude she was with. Her family always seen her happy with dude and they wanted her to be with him and no one else, and they ended up messing with each other after we broke up cause they kept in contact while me and her was together she said he only checked on her tho, and that he was outta town pursuing his basketball dream lol. I wouldn't have gotten mad at the fact that there was another dude before me and she was close with him, cause i knew that I had her at that point and honestly I wouldn't have looked at it in the way she thought, but now I'm here feeling wrong for wat I did, like I said I know cheating is wrong but holding secrets is wrong too I feel, she said it was her business and that I should've respected that, wat do yall think?
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2023.05.28 18:07 journeytooz What was your sexiest experience with a “straight” friend?
You know the type. “Straight” but not actually straight.
Had to share a hotel room with two different straight co-workers (different times).
First guy came out of the shower in a towel and sounded out whether I’d fuck him. He didn’t want to make out or be touched though so I said he was kinda treating me like a sex toy and refused.
Second guy had an enormous cock. Like 14 inches, very thick. It was strangely out of proportion to his skinny body. I actually had to ask him how it worked when he got it out one day. I told him I hadn’t believed the rumours so he was like take a look. Anyway turned out he was bi and I jerked him off. It was like stroking a marshmallow.
Third guy was a friend. He was tall muscular and extremely attractive but had no confidence. So he would constantly ask me for reassurance that he wasn’t ugly because he thought girls thought he was. He asked me one day if his dick was small, got it out and jerked off so I could compare with it being hard. It was not small.
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2023.05.28 18:07 useyourpaws Best Friend's Intense Attachment to Child is Straining Friendship
My childhood best friend "D" and I have known each other since 4th grade. We have been very close from elementary school through high school, and even now into our early 30s. I dearly adore her friendship and my family considers her family. While we now live about an hour and a half from each other, we make an effort to keep in touch.
However, I noticed a change in her when she became a mother almost 2 years ago. Not just your normal motherhood changes that come with having your first child. She has shown signs that she might be too attached to her child. Here's some examples:
- Even though both she and her child (and husband) are fully vaccinated against Covid, she still refuses to eat indoors at restaurants. She and her child have no underlying immunocompromised issues (knowing her for the many years I have, I'm confident that she would have no problem sharing if there were issues like this.) She has made it clear that this is because of her fear of Covid and has complicated the activities we can do together as friends.
- During our friend's wedding where we were both bridesmaids, she had a meltdown because the bride asked if she could forego a mask for the indoor ceremony, but was fine with her wearing a mask for the reception. My friend was so upset because in her mind it meant a risk of giving her daughter covid, and thought she would have to isolate from her daugther for a few days before she could produce a negative covid test. It was such a mess that the bride went back on her ask, and my friend wore the mask. Also, the whole time we were getting our hair and makeup done for the wedding she kept looking at her phone for updates on her daughter.
- When I got married a year after my friend, as we were just finishing up the rehearsal and about to head to the rehearsal dinner, she pulled me aside and said "You can say 'no' to this, but I was wondering if during the ceremony if my mom could stand in the back with my daughter (now 14 mos)." I was dumbfounded because 1) I had a million other things on my mind the day before my wedding and this came out of left field 2) We had explicitly said on our invitations that this was a kid-free wedding 3) she never said WHY she wanted to do this 4) while I'm supposed to be having one of the most important moments of my life, you want to look at your daughter?! I tried asking a few clarifying questions because I was confused and taken aback, and she just shot back with "nevermind." I could tell she was upset, even as I handed her her bridesmaids gifts as we left for the rehearsal dinner (which of course she didn't attend as I've outlined above.)
- During my actual wedding day, she teared up when one of the make-up artists started talking about her own daughter and D said "I'm just thinking of my own daughter. It's going to be such a long day without her!"
- She brings her daughter places that in my mind don't make sense. She recently brought her to our friend's baby shower where of course she could only focus on her. I asked what her husband was up to that day (presuming he was busy and not able to watch their daughter (now 21 months), hence why she was at the shower.) She said "Oh I think he's just hanging around the house today." So you thought it would be a good idea to your kid to a mostly adult party instead of leaving her with her dad??
- Almost every topic of conversation is about her daughter, even if it has nothing to do with her.Me: "I'm so excited. We're getting a puppy in a month!"D: "[Daughter] is very good at being gentle with puppies."...OK very cool.
I'm not a mother (but hope to become one), so maybe I'm missing something here. This behavior is so obnoxious to me and it's causing me to have resentment toward her. I've never seen my other friends with kids act this way, so looking for some insight here.
Is this behavior normal? I don't even know how to approach this topic with her because she's such a sensitive person and would most likely see me bringing this up as an attack on her parenting. Or is it even worth bringing up?
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2023.05.28 18:07 SuperSonicAdventures This is fucking amazing
| Okay so this is a Short-Circuit for Mega Man Issue 22. Were the main focus is love. So Tempo ask Ice Man “What is Love?”. And he proceeds to tell her how wonderful it is and how it’s just a nice feeling. And then proceeds to tell her all the bad sad depressing things about it. This is fucking hilarious. 10/10. submitted by SuperSonicAdventures to Megaman [link] [comments] |
2023.05.28 18:06 Vermilion_Star Was my ex abusive?
We broke up four years ago. I'm now at a point where I don't want to talk to him, and I know i'm better off without him. But I'm still trying to accept that he treated me poorly.
The one thing that sticks in my head the most is his regular criticism of me. I have social anxiety. When I met his family, I didn't talk much. Usually, that improves when I get to know people, but with them it didn't. I never felt comfortable enough to be talkative. Something just didn't feel right, and I couldn't put my finger on it.
They didn't like that I was quiet. I know because they complained to him about it, and he told me what they said. I explained why. I also told him it bothered me when he told me that stuff and that it actually make things worse. He acted like he understood. Then he'd do it again.
Over and over, "my mom wants to know why you don't talk much." Ok, we had this conversation already. What else do you want me to say? I told him I've spent my whole life trying to be act outgoing, but that's not who I am. This is who I am.
Nothing I said made a difference. He complained about how I talked to his sister (not rude, just not interesting enough). I got along well with his niece, but he complained I don't pick her up enough. Nothing is good enough. I'm not good enough as I am.
There was other stuff, like him constantly pressuring me for sex after I'd said "no." He ignored the word no. He took off the condom one time when I wasn't looking and without my consent. He knew I didn't want to get pregnant. He apologized for that, but only because I caught him. That really upset me.
One time, I told him I didn't like something his mom said (criticism of me) and he yelled at me to fuck off.
He blamed me for things that were either both our faults or mostly his fault.
I told him it bothered me when he repeated his family's criticism of me. He kept telling me anyway. Over and over. By the end, I would be crying at him to stop, but he wouldn't.
I am prone to depression, and he knew that since the start of our relationship. That didn't stop him from criticizing me. I think that's what upsets me the most, is that he constantly put me down knowing full well that I struggle with depression.
One time we went out for a walk. I was having a depressive episode (gee I wonder why) and we ran into his sister. I didn't say much, due to feeling unwell. As we walked away, he complained about me not acting friendly enough. He did not ask me if I was ok. He cared more about how I made him look than about my wellbeing.
There are more examples I can give, but I'll stop there for now.
Was this abuse?
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2023.05.28 18:06 BlaueAnanas When to let a junior go?
I’m leading a marketing department of a super small start-up. We only had the money for a junior and student, but now that we’re growing a bit too quickly, I need to have the junior pick up a bit more work.
I have started asking her to take responsibility for social media posts since it’s 1-3 posts per day, and I write 80% of them and design 100% of them. That means she just needs to copy and paste.
Unfortunately, she continues to make mistakes while posting on social media, and I’m at a loss for what to do. Today, she posted a static image instead of a gif on 1 social channel, but did it correctly for the others.
The CEO is obsessed with social media, which is why I still post occasionally. Still; with the new contracts, I spoke to the junior who said she was ready to take the responsibility for posting.
I also feel like the job isn’t that hard. If the gif isn’t animated, then delete the post and try again at least, but she seems to commit to the mistake or not look at the post after it’s published.
This includes using different visuals than the ones in the task, so they’re the wrong size.
The CEO is a screamer, and I’m being yelled at constantly for these mistakes. We have a meeting Tuesday morning, and I will have to take the responsibility for social media back from the junior, but I don’t know what I can give her to do to free me up enough to handle contracts from clients.
When I was a junior, I had no struggle with social media or writing articles, but both seem to be way outside her realm of capabilities. During the task from the interview, it seemed fine, but now I wonder if she was the one who wrote it to begin with.
Additionally, I like her as a person, but we don’t have enough funds to keep her out of kindness. I also told her that it’s likely she isn’t a good fit for the role, and if she decides to look for jobs at bigger corporations where she has less responsibility, I would understand, and she didn’t seem to care. I think she is burned out from making small mistakes when everyone else is running around and quite busy.
The other student is still learning how to use social media, so I can only trust her on Instagram reels right now. She is also only working 10 hours per week, so she couldn’t post short-notice if needed, which is why I can’t use her to post or schedule posts.
I would love to hear what other people have done in similar situations.
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2023.05.28 18:06 Accomplished_Guess_7 I was scared this round
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This year’s French Open is all set to kick off on May 28, Sunday at the iconic Roland Garros Stadium in Paris. The clay court tournament will be played from May 28 to June 11, comprising singles, doubles and mixed doubles play. Junior and wheelchair tournaments are also scheduled during this time duration.
The French Open has arrived with the first round laid out before us and two weeks of glorious clay-court drama to come.
Carlos Alcaraz, Novak Djokovic and Iga Swiatek are all in the mix over the coming days, but the name currently on everyone's lips is a man who won't appear at Roland-Garros.
Rafael Nadal will not feature in the French Open for the first time since 2004 due to a hip issue. The 14-time Roland-Garros champion's tennis career will draw to a close after a farewell tour in 2024.
When is the French Open 2023?
The French Open 2023 runs from Monday 28nd May 2023 until Sunday 11th June 2023.
Qualifying takes place from Monday 28nd May to Friday 26th May.
French Open 2023 TV channel in the UK
The French Open will be shown across Eurosport platforms in the UK.
Eurosport 1 and 2 will boast wall-to-wall coverage of the tournament each day as the rounds progress.
Summary
Day one of the French Open at Roland Garros in Paris
10:00 BST: Second seed Aryna Sabalenka of Belarus v Ukraine's Marta Kostyuk
GB's Dan Evans faces Thanasi Kokkinakis in men's singles - approximately 11:30 BST
Stefanos Tsitsipas, Maria Sakkari, Jessica Pegula among seeds in first-round action
The defending champion in men’s singles and greatest of all time, Rafel Nadal withdrew ahead of the tournament due to an injury. This is the first time that 14-time champion Nadal has missed the tournament since his debut in 2005. Iga Swiatek is the defending champion in women’s singles.
French Open 2023: When will the tournament begin?
The 2023 French Open is fast upon us, and the tennis world is heading into the second Grand Slam of the year with several major shakeups after last year’s winner and major 2023 contender Rafael Nadal announced he would not compete in the upcoming tennis tournament. Nadal’s absence will mark the first time since 2004 that he has not dominated the clay court at Roland-Garros. It would also suggest that his rival, Novak Djokovic, has a greater shot at winning his 23rd Grand Slam this year. But Novak has yet to confirm whether he will actually compete in the 2023 French Open. Nick Kyrgios will also sit out this year’s tournament due to a foot injury sustained during a robbery.
French Open 2023 TV channel and live stream in the UK
Your complete guide to French Open 2023 TV channel information in the UK.
What does all this mean for the 2023 French Open? Currently, there is no obvious frontrunner to take the La Coupe des Mousquetaires, making for an even more interesting Grand Slam. Here’s how you can watch the French Open, including channels, schedule and livestream info.
How to watch French Open 2023
Best way to stream NBC and NBC Sports
Dates: May 28-June 11
Location: Roland Garros, Paris, France
Channel: NBC
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Where to watch French Open 2023
NBC is the official US broadcast network for the 2023 French Open, so for the majority of coverage at Roland Garros, if you can turn on your TV and tune into NBC, you should be covered. Later round coverage will air on NBC Sports and stream on Pea****. If you’re not sure how to watch the French Open on NBC and NBC Sports, our best recommendation is Pea****.
French Open dates
The 2023 French Open officially begins at Roland Garros on Sunday, May 28. However, qualifiers start this Monday, May 28, and the tournament drawing will take place on Thursday, May 25.
The 2023 French Open will run through Sunday June 11, concluding with the men's singles final.
All you need to know about the official broadcasters of the Roland-Garros 2023 tournament, which will be held from 28 May – 11 June!
In 2023, the Roland-Garros tournament will benefit from extensive TV coverage in France, courtesy of France Télévisions and Prime Video, as well as abroad, on more than 170 television channels in 280 countries.
We're less than two weeks out from the French Open 2023, as the annual Grand Slam tennis event begins on Sunday, May 28. These four-yearly tennis tournaments are big streaming draws for sports fans around the world, and we'll help you watch it wherever you are.
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US: Live TV streaming services, Pea****
UK: Discovery Plus
AU: Stan Sport
VPN: ExpressVPN
The French Open will bring us two weeks of tennis action, with matches wrapping up on Sunday, June 11. The Stade Roland Garros in Paris is hosting the tournament, making the 126th such event.
Defending champions Rafael Nadal and Iga Świątek will be playing in the French Open, as well as Novak Djokovic, Aryna Sabalenka, Caspar Ruud, Jessica Peluga and many more.
If you're a tennis fan, you'll be keen to know how to watch the French Open when it airs. This guide will help you do that.
The French Open has arrived and the pot has been given a vigorous stir ahead of the main draw following shock results and a major withdrawal.
First, the withdrawal. Rafael Nadal will not feature at Roland Garros for the first time since 2004 due to a hip issue that looks set to end his tennis career after a farewell tour in 2024.
The absence of the 14-time champion obviously opens up a power gulf with a host of contenders primed and ready to fill it, none more obviously so than World No.1 Carlos Alcaraz.
Alcaraz has been in stunning form with four ATP titles to his name in 2023, including two 1,000-point events, but was toppled by the World No.135 Fábián Marozsán at the Italian Open.
The women's game looks no less unpredictable as World No.1 Iga Świątek withdrew from Rome through injury, No.2 Aryna Sabalenka suffered an early exit and No.7 Elena Rybakina continued her rise with a terrific victory in the final.
RadioTimes.com brings you all the latest French Open 2023 TV channel details as the tournament begins at Roland Garros.
Daily Roland Garros Coverage May 28-June 11 across Tennis Channel, Tennis Channel Plus and T2 More French Open Telecasts on U.S. Free TV than Ever Before
2023 French Open. The decision comes following a stellar 20-year career which will be winding down in the months to come. The 37-year-old Nadal is expected to announce his retirement from professional tennis in 2024.
Three-time British champion Andy Murray has also withdrawn from this year's French Open and is reportedly skipping the Paris tournament for a better shot on his home turf at Wimbledon.
The second Grand slam and the only slam played on a clay court will begin on May 28. The event features a 128-player singles draw, 64-team doubles draw, and 32-team mixed double draw. The singles final will take place on Saturday, June 10. While the doubles final will be played on Sunday, June 11. Similarly, the mixed doubles final will take place on Thursday, June 8.
French Open 2023: Format
All singles, doubles, and mixed doubles will be played in a best-of-three tiebreak sets format. If the third set reaches 6-6, a 10-point tiebreak will be played.
French Open 2023: Schedule
First Round – 28 & 29 & 30 May 2023
Second Round – 31 May & 1st June 2023
Third Round – 2nd & 3rd June 2023
Fourth Round – 4th & 5th June 2023
Quarterfinals – 6th & 7th June 2023
Semifinals – 8th & 9th June 2023
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2023.05.28 18:06 Bright-Signature-441 25 yrs going for either B.E. IT in Jadavpur University or B.Tech CSE in University of Calcutta. Don't know what to do after so many gap years and being a very old student!
HELLO EVERYONE!
I passed high school in 2016 from West Bengal & I was trying to qualify NEET to get admission in a government medical college, but I didn't qualify for a government MBBS seat in all of my previous attempts. So, I also took WBJEE 2023 exam and recently they published the rank card and I got a rank under 110. So, after checking previous year ranks, I am sure I'll get into either Jadavpur University or University of Calcutta, but which one should I choose studying (educational_info: ) B.E. IT in Jadavpur University Or doing
B.Tech CSE from University of Calcutta?
Will it be difficult to get a good placement for me if I start my
B.tech now because I am too old and have so many gap years! I only went for college for a B.Sc. degree and spent 1 years in total in that college and during all the other years I kept on trying to crack NEET but I failed miserably. I have no option now other than studying engineering. So, which one should be best option for me?
I am already too old and during placement season if I can't even grab some good offers, I don't know what I'll do, my parents already know that I am a failure, relatives and all others always made fun of me because I failed and wasted so many years. I know that mass recruiters and few companies don't accept students with study gaps after high school, then what should I do?
Will I even get a good job offer if I worked hard during my time in either Jadavpur University or University of Calcutta? I don't know anyone who studied from these 2 universities, so I don't know much about them, I just know they are 2 of the best universities for engineering in my state. Will all companies always look down on me because I have so many gap years? What should I do? Ican't do
M.Tech because I am already an old man.
It feels like I am dying inside because of my pain and insecure future and literally everyone I know including myself hates me. I know I am an utter failure. Please tell me there's a way forward and please guide me on how to secure a good job. That's all I can ask. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR READING THIS. PLEASE HELP ME.
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