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2015.10.22 08:07 True stories of cheating.

A sub for fessing up on your infidelity. Real stories only. It can be as little as kissing, or as big as a orgy.
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2023.06.05 02:43 numbersandletters12 What are your opinions on “copying” or reusing names?

My husband and I fell in love with the name Madelyn for our baby girl (due in a month) and have been using it between us for the past few months. We’ve told everyone the first letter for some fun guessing games, but its still a secret.
Unfortunately we just realized yesterday that my husband’s cousin’s daughter (about a year older than our baby will be) already has that name! We thought her name was Madison because most people use her nickname (Madi) and my MIL has apparently been calling her the wrong name for a while. We live in the same town and see his cousin’s family about two or three times a year, but are (obviously) not close.
Would we be rude/would it be too weird if we used the same first name for our baby girl? We are so attached and I’m heartbroken to give up what we thought was the perfect name!
If we were to try to keep the name, do I message the cousin and ask if she is okay with us using the name? Or do you have any name suggestions that start with M that have the same vibe as Madelyn? (We don’t like Madison half as much). Help!
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2023.06.05 02:42 Dependent_Act3001 AITBF for NOT telling my boss I felt she was pressuring me to take some of her responsibilities

So, I work in a small kitchen and my boss is not a stickler for the rules (ie we get paid lunch breaks which we are supposed to clock out for). She took a day off the other day and my coworker (I'll call her Stacy) who spends a lot of time with said boss, vented a few things about her. I took this opportunity to say, "yeah, and I feel pressure to keep track of the freezer inventory and orders and sometimes I just want to quit." (This is not apart of my current duties) Stacy had this look of simply, "oh okay." Nothing more was said, we went about our day.
The next morning, boss and Stacy are in the office as usual. I say hi as I walk by and boss starts grilling me about the food used on previous day and what's in the freezer. This is not something that usually happens in the morning. And she's asking, even more than usual, the type of inventory questions I feel are not my business.
I'm inclined to believe that Stacy told her about my complaint. My boss' passive aggressive behavior toward me is why I didn't want to say anything in the first place. I was angry with Stacy at first but now I wonder if AITBF for not having gone to my boss about it in the first place.
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2023.06.05 02:42 djmaglioli91 Broke off a 7 year friendship because I was feeling used.

As the title says, I was feeling like I was being taken advantage of. I had a friend from work whom I got very close to. We'll call them F. We became best friends and we did everything together. F didn't have a car or a driver's license. So I would drive them to work, it was no big deal it was on the way. As time went on and we became closer I would offer to take them to the store, or doctor and so on on my days off because of our job I didn't have much of a social life anyway. Fast forward to now both F and I have gotten a new job at the same place. I was begining to feel as though I was being taken advantage of. F hated having to stay home and always wanted to hang out on the weekends. Which hanging out on the weekends actually meant me driving them around doing chores like grocery shopping. F would get frustrated with me if I didn't talk to them as much as I did our other co workers. F is one of those people who always makes everything about themselves. I see this now.
I had brought up my feeling to F before which they would dismiss it and make the issue about themselves. As time went on I became less of a friend and felt more like a lifeline for F. Our times hanging out became less like two friends having a day out and more like therapy sessions for F juxtaposed with doing their chores. F is a bit of a mental case for lack of a better term. Always constantly complaining about how crappy their life is and how much they hate their job and why do I get treated better than they do and so on and so forth. It was a constant downer after a while.
Fast forward to today, I receive a call from F telling me they weren't mad at me. For context on this past Friday F left work in a hissy fit and failed to tell me that they were going to walk home. This left me sitting in the parking lot waiting for them when they were already gone. This was not the first time F had done this. So, we talk and F asks if we are going to do chores next weekend. I say no, and that I feel like F is too reliant on me, and that I don't really want to hang out as much anymore. F who I can tell is frustrated just says ok, we say our goodbyes and hang up. A few moments later I receive a text message from F that reads:
"thought about it and don't want to be your friend anymore. A true friend who would not turn their back on Someone in need. Don't sit with me at work. You are selfish and inconsiderate. You could have helped out with redacted and you chose not too Enjoy hanging out with your mommy and daddy What you are doing to me and redacted hurts me more than anything redacted could ever do. Redacted may play favorites but at least they didn't pretend."
This is after 7 years of helping this person out. All I've done to make their life a little easier driving them to and from work so they didn't have to walk, taking them to doctors appointments that they had no other way to get to, helping out every way I could. I did all this out of the goodness of my heart with nothing expected in return, and this is the response I got.
I can't help but be a little gutted but at the same time I feel as though a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. My life began to revolve around F and I finally feel free.
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2023.06.05 02:41 Wild_Somewhere_9760 2nd brisket attempt -- Nexgrill long smoke (15 hours)

2nd brisket attempt -- Nexgrill long smoke (15 hours)
Title says it all!
Pretty impressed with how this came out.. Also pretty friggen pickled. 10 beers went into this shift.
2nd attempt at a brisket, 6th time trying to smoke ever. ADDICTED.. First attempt I trimmed the point from the flat and smoked fat cap down halfway / then flipped. Also first attempt, I used a 2.5 lbs cut and this time near 8 lbs, much better cut and way better understanding of approach.
I'd say all in all, for my second attempt, absolutely bangin. the point melted in your mouth.. Only call out is I should have trimmed the middle of the brisket a bit more as it did not render as nicely as the point did being smoke facing.
Figured first time I posted there were question on fuel, so included a pic of that and a montage of the whole process.
0100 wake up, 0200 start. 17 total hours - 15 hour smoke, 2 hours rest at room temp.
..Breakdown below
7.5 lb Brisket..
Dusted in: Salt, pepper, brown sugar
Wrap at 13 hours, wrapped in butchers with 1.5 sticks of butter, brown sugar, coarse salt.. Smoked wrapped for another 2. Rested for 2 hours on the counter in the butchers paper.. No temps checked, just by feel and time of day as I definitely could feel a section was running long in the tooth.

Sides:

Baked beans
Not your average Mac N Cheese-

Penne par boiled
Secret god filler:
**In a blender or food processor add:
>mozzarella log
>Proscutto slices to taste
> half red onion
>fresh basil
> red pepper flake
> oregano
>evoo to desired consistence (mixing into the mac, so really preference on how loose you want it)

>Add secret filler to penne in pot
>Add salt to taste
>Add sheet load of shredded mozzarella
>Sharp ched in excess
>Top with gouda
>Top with shaker parm

*Bake in oven at 375 for 35

Serve...

Hope you enjoy!
5 hour mark
5 hour mark
10 hour mark 2
10 hour mark
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fat cap :))
flat 2
plated
pre slice
post rest pre slice
13 hour mark
sliced pile
point cut
juicy flat
fuel setup
wrapped up tight
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2023.06.05 02:40 Stable-Complex After school academics

My daughter just turned 4 and she is doing well in school. She is meeting milestones. She’ll be attending either an accelerated pre K called “junior KG” or K-1 which is half KG and half first grade curriculum. Some of her friends attend Kumon…any experience with Kumon? Recommend it? Any other after school options to push her like hooked on phonics? Workbooks? She jokes around a lot when home, which is fine, but I want to continue to push her because I feel like she knows and can do more.
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2023.06.05 02:40 Silly_Road_4946 AITAH because I moved on from my ex?

I (18F) had a 6-month relationship with my ex (19M), let's call him David (fake name). David tried to seduce me while I was in a long-distance relationship with my ex from another country. I had lost all my feelings for him, and David was there to convince me to break up with him because I deserved better.
To be honest, I was planning on doing it anyway, so I can't say I did it for David. But since I had only known him for a short time, it seemed a little excessive for him to show his feelings towards me. At first, I was skeptical and didn't know if I should give him a chance or not.
Eventually, we started having sex and I saw him more as a friend with benefits. I tried to be open with him about it, but he seemed too in love to care. After a month of convincing, I decided to give him a chance to see where it would go. The first few days seemed to be going well, even though we didn't speak the same language, we came from different countries, and English was our only way of communicating. I had gotten used to it, even though sometimes I couldn't express myself the way I wanted to. Then I found out how insecure he was. I don't have a problem with insecure people, but I tried to make him feel confident, but it wasn't working. It seemed a little weird to me when he would cry because he constantly asked me if my ex's penis was bigger or if he had bigger muscles and told him that it didn't really matter cause' I like him.
But after a while i started to find out more things that bothered me. For example, he lied to me about his girl best friend being a virgin, but I later found out that he had sex with her. He told me that she s his first priority, He kept in touch with a girl he had sex with, who was asking him to be her boyfriend. Apparently, according to him, she was ugly, and he had sex with her because she was upset, so he thought he would make her happy by having sex with her.
Apparently, the girl lied and said that he graped her because he didn't want to be with her, he didn't want to admit to me that he had sex with her. The police even got involved, and it was too much for me, so I broke up with him. I've had a tough life and been through a lot, so these teenage dramas were unnecessary stress for me.
Anyway, I tried to break up with him in the best way possible, despite the fact that he was apologizing and saying that he would lie to me again just to keep me from leaving. But I left. And now his friends are judging me and sending me messages saying that I wasn't fair cause he fell into depression and that it wasn't his fault that the girl lied about him graping her. I mean, I know that if a friend of mine is upset I buy them ice cream, I don't suck them to make them feel better, so it's his problem.
They also criticized the fact that I have a new relationship and that I shouldn't have gotten over David so easily. Well, the man I'm with now is a few years older, more mature, kind and confident, and I feel safe around him
We speak the same language, come from the same place, have the same mindset, and it's not like I got together with some random person after breaking up with David. I've liked this man I'm with since I was 11 and he was a teenager. He's very special to me, and I'm going to move in with him because he understands me, loves me, listens to me, and makes time for me and i m his first priority.. Unlike David, who told me he loved me but then days would go by without responding to my messages or would put his girl best friend before me while he was with other girls. I think i have all rights to move on too quickly but i wanna hear another opinions.
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2023.06.05 02:38 klockensteib Shame on me….

Arggghhh. I thought it would be different this time. I thought they changed. But alas, it’s the same ‘ol Comcast.
This sub seems to be place to express cathartic relief when you suffer comcast induced rage and frustration so that’s what I am going to do.
I signed up for tv service. I knew it wouldn’t go smoothly because let’s face it, the odds of something going smoothly with comcast are about the same as Han getting through the asteroid field unscathed. But, I decided to roll the dice anyway.
I called first to make sure I understood how the dvr service works. I was assured that I would receive 20 hours of cloud dvr for free and I would be able to record from the Comcast provided cable box I have. That sounded reasonable so I pulled the trigger.
Well after service was installed, dvr did not work. Went through 3 or maybe even 4 additional people telling me the facts as they understood them. Each of them seemed to tell me something different.
One rep told me that cloud dvr only works through the Stream app. The next one told me it works on the cable box I had, but the only way to get it to work was to upgrade for $10 a month. The last one told me the cloud dvr is definitely free….but it doesn’t work because I don’t have this other box…and….that box costs $10 a month.
Honestly, it would not surprise me all of the above are wrong. All I l know is that I could not use my FREE Dvr feature unless I paid $10 a month.
I canceled the order due to a measly $10 difference out of a combination of spite and frustration.
Don’t feel sorry for me, but don’t be me!
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2023.06.05 02:38 ilARed100205 (SPOILER ALERT!) Spider-Man Across the Spider-Verse Analysis: "When A Nobody Become the Heroes Greatest Nightmare"

I already saw Across the Spiderverse 3 days ago. I have to admit it was a fun experience to watch the movies.
And then, a few days after watching the movies, i started to remember something like this. "What if the person that you looked down upon might be your greatest nightmare?"
That's the thought i have regarding Spot's character in the movie. So here's my analysis for Spot's character.
BEWARE, THERE MIGHT BE A SPOILER BELOW.
According to TvTropes, "Nobody to Nightmares" is the trope where the characters is considered to not be a threat by anybody. But as the story progressed, that character started to be known as the most feared person that is ever known
In Across the Spider-Verse, Spot was once a scientist named Jonathan Ohnn who works for Kingpin to create Super-Collider technology in the first movie. After Spider-Man destroyed the Super-Collider, Jonathan got exposed by the explosion and mutated that caused his body to transform, his skin turning pure white, he no longer has face, and portal starts to appearing all over his body. After he was rejected by his family and his company was shut down, Jonathan decides to starts a life of crime with his mutated power.
At first, Spot was pretty incompetent as a supervillain when using his power. For example, he's unable to rob an ATM with his portal power at the supermarket. Even Miles as Spider-Man looked down on him, and called him The villain of the week. This comment also infuriate Spot.
After a fight with Spider-Man that caused him to lose a lot of his portal, Spot accidently trip into his own portal. And this the part where Spot finally able to tap his inner potential. With his portal, he's able to travel to different universe throughout the Multiverse. After that, he decided to travel the alternate universe to gain more power so he can finally beat Miles at his own game.
Spot's conflict with Miles starts to spark during the fight at Earth-50101, Mumbattan. So when Spot able to gain more power after absorbing dark energy from the Super-Collider, Spot finally gained more power and Miles just had a vision of a possible future where his dad, Jefferson Davis, who's promoted to be a police captain, died for saving a children from falling building because of Spot's doing. And then, Spot made a vow that he's gonna take everything from Miles like he already take everything from Spot. This event traumatized Miles that he started to worried about losing his father because of Spot. And that is how Spot progressed himself from incompetent supervillain into a cataclysmic multiversal threat.
This is one of a good example how to build a villain who starts as a nobody or an Incompetent character to become the most dangerous threat that the heroes must face, a living nightmare. Spot here starts to become my favorite "Nobody to Nightmare" character with the likes of Syndrome from the Incredibles and Big Jack Horner from Puss in Boots the Last Wish.
That is all the analysis that i write for Spot's development as a villain. So what do you think? And what's your opinion toward Spot's development as a villain?
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2023.06.05 02:38 TwoGinScentedTears "Is autism your thing of the week?"

Said to me by my husband.
I'm 31, my entire life I thought I had autism. I have two people in my family that are, on the same side, and my family always treated them like they were incapable. It made me afraid of autism. When my aunt told my mother I was autistic, my mother completely freaked out. I'll always remember thinking to myself to try and be better, because I didn't want her to think I was autistic.
Over the past few months I've done a lot of research. I've taken a lot of tests. My doctor tells me I have social anxiety and and adhd - but the medications aren't changing me. And I don't know if I want to change. I like who I am, I like my differences. Recently I met someone at work that is very open about being autistic, and we've gotten along seamlessly. We share so many of the same interests, and for the first time in my life I feel safe to stim. It feels like a bone that's been tight for 31 years as finally been cracked.
My entire life I had issues being social. I'd cry when I had to go to school, holidays, everything. now, as an adult, I have very little social life. My husbands family is very involved with each other. They do dinners every weekend, big holidays. I've become distant. I try to be like them, and I try to not have these panic attacks, but I can't help it. I'll make any excuse to not go. Today I talked to my husband about it after my father in law called me yelling at me because I haven't been around. I told him, through tears, that I've always been this way. That at times I wish it was easier, and that the anxiety I feel can make me feel physically uncomfortable. He screamed at me and told me I'll always want to be alone, that he just wants a normal wife. I told him I wasn't doing this on purpose, that I thought I had autism and I think it's affecting the way I interact with people. As I cried he told me "oh is that your think of the week, autism?"
I had 76 days of sobriety from alcohol. It's gone now. I can't stop crying. I feel like I'll never be able to truly find comfort. That my life is a never-ending mask. I can't see a future where I can be myself, I can't see a future where people accept me. I'll always be seen as cold, distant, unfriendly. It's been a very, very hard day.
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★ Karambit Freehand MW, B/O: $784

★ Karambit Bright Water MW, B/O: $759


★ M9 Bayonet Fade FN, B/O: $1801

★ M9 Bayonet Fade FN, B/O: $1801

★ M9 Bayonet Damascus Steel FN, B/O: $751


★ Nomad Knife Fade FN, B/O: $1156

★ Nomad Knife Slaughter MW, B/O: $544

★ Nomad Knife Blue Steel WW, B/O: $318


★ Flip Knife Marble Fade FN, B/O: $646

★ Flip Knife Doppler (Phase 4) FN, B/O: $574

★ Flip Knife Gamma Doppler (Phase 1) MW, B/O: $552

★ Flip Knife Case Hardened FT, B/O: $257

★ Flip Knife Freehand FT, B/O: $255

★ StatTrak™ Flip Knife Bright Water FN, B/O: $287


★ Huntsman Knife Lore FN, B/O: $461

★ Huntsman Knife Gamma Doppler (Phase 4) FN, B/O: $436

★ Huntsman Knife Doppler (Phase 3) FN, B/O: $353

★ Huntsman Knife Autotronic FT, B/O: $212

★ Huntsman Knife Bright Water FT, B/O: $129

★ Huntsman Knife Forest DDPAT MW, B/O: $129

★ Huntsman Knife Forest DDPAT BS, B/O: $123

★ StatTrak™ Huntsman Knife Rust Coat BS, B/O: $127


★ Bowie Knife Gamma Doppler (Phase 2) FN, B/O: $375

★ Bowie Knife Gamma Doppler (Phase 1) FN, B/O: $363

★ Bowie Knife Tiger Tooth FN, B/O: $269

★ Bowie Knife Crimson Web WW, B/O: $192

★ Bowie Knife Bright Water FN, B/O: $159

★ Bowie Knife Ultraviolet FT, B/O: $126


★ Stiletto Knife Slaughter FN, B/O: $616

★ Stiletto Knife Crimson Web FT, B/O: $412

★ StatTrak™ Stiletto Knife Night Stripe FT, B/O: $227


★ Falchion Knife Lore FT, B/O: $214

★ Falchion Knife Autotronic FT, B/O: $192

★ Falchion Knife Scorched WW, B/O: $105


★ Survival Knife Crimson Web BS, B/O: $216

★ Survival Knife Case Hardened FT, B/O: $198

★ Survival Knife Scorched FT, B/O: $111


★ Shadow Daggers Fade FN, B/O: $368

★ Shadow Daggers Doppler (Phase 3) FN, B/O: $228

★ Shadow Daggers, B/O: $201

★ Shadow Daggers Damascus Steel FT, B/O: $108

★ Shadow Daggers Ultraviolet FT, B/O: $105

★ Shadow Daggers Black Laminate FT, B/O: $99

★ Shadow Daggers Forest DDPAT FT, B/O: $85


★ Gut Knife Doppler (Sapphire) MW #1, B/O: $1700

★ Gut Knife Gamma Doppler (Phase 1) FN, B/O: $223

★ Gut Knife Marble Fade FN, B/O: $203

★ Gut Knife Doppler (Phase 2) FN, B/O: $191

★ Gut Knife Case Hardened BS, B/O: $127


★ Navaja Knife Doppler (Phase 4) FN, B/O: $199

★ Navaja Knife Doppler (Phase 4) FN, B/O: $199

★ Navaja Knife, B/O: $138

★ Navaja Knife Damascus Steel FN, B/O: $111


★ Classic Knife Urban Masked FT, B/O: $146

★ StatTrak™ Classic Knife Stained BS, B/O: $168


★ Ursus Knife Doppler (Phase 3) FN, B/O: $476

★ Ursus Knife, B/O: $375


★ Skeleton Knife, B/O: $1137

★ Talon Knife, B/O: $608

★ Paracord Knife, B/O: $305

★ Survival Knife Forest DDPAT FT, B/O: $97

GLOVES

★ Moto Gloves Transport MW, B/O: $204

★ Moto Gloves Polygon BS, B/O: $142

★ Moto Gloves Blood Pressure BS, B/O: $84

★ Moto Gloves Blood Pressure BS, B/O: $84

★ Moto Gloves 3rd Commando Company BS, B/O: $63

★ Moto Gloves 3rd Commando Company BS, B/O: $63


★ Specialist Gloves Crimson Kimono WW, B/O: $1215

★ Specialist Gloves Tiger Strike FT, B/O: $672

★ Specialist Gloves Lt. Commander FT, B/O: $305

★ Specialist Gloves Lt. Commander BS, B/O: $140

★ Specialist Gloves Crimson Web BS, B/O: $137

★ Specialist Gloves Buckshot FT, B/O: $75


★ Driver Gloves Crimson Weave FT, B/O: $359

★ Driver Gloves Imperial Plaid BS, B/O: $229

★ Driver Gloves Overtake BS, B/O: $77

★ Driver Gloves Racing Green FT, B/O: $48


★ Sport Gloves Omega FT, B/O: $739

★ Sport Gloves Amphibious BS #2, B/O: $733

★ Sport Gloves Arid BS, B/O: $292


★ Hand Wraps Giraffe MW, B/O: $212

★ Hand Wraps Leather FT, B/O: $160

★ Hand Wraps Desert Shamagh MW, B/O: $101


★ Broken Fang Gloves Yellow-banded MW, B/O: $185

★ Broken Fang Gloves Needle Point FT, B/O: $67

★ Broken Fang Gloves Needle Point WW, B/O: $59


★ Hydra Gloves Case Hardened BS, B/O: $65

★ Hydra Gloves Emerald FT, B/O: $65

★ Hydra Gloves Emerald BS, B/O: $62

WEAPONS

AK-47 Case Hardened BS, B/O: $130

AK-47 Bloodsport MW, B/O: $79

AK-47 Fuel Injector BS, B/O: $76

AK-47 Fuel Injector BS, B/O: $76

AK-47 Bloodsport FT, B/O: $70

AK-47 Neon Rider MW, B/O: $60

StatTrak™ AK-47 Aquamarine Revenge FT, B/O: $72


AWP Fade FN, B/O: $1039

AWP Asiimov FT, B/O: $139

AWP Asiimov FT, B/O: $139

AWP Wildfire MW, B/O: $95

AWP BOOM MW, B/O: $93

AWP BOOM MW, B/O: $93

AWP Duality FN, B/O: $81

AWP Asiimov BS, B/O: $79

AWP Asiimov BS, B/O: $79

AWP Chromatic Aberration FN, B/O: $60

StatTrak™ AWP Hyper Beast FT, B/O: $68

StatTrak™ AWP Hyper Beast FT, B/O: $68

StatTrak™ AWP Electric Hive FT, B/O: $55


Desert Eagle Blaze FN, B/O: $623

Desert Eagle Emerald Jörmungandr FN, B/O: $241

Desert Eagle Cobalt Disruption FN, B/O: $81

Desert Eagle Cobalt Disruption FN, B/O: $81

Desert Eagle Cobalt Disruption FN, B/O: $81

Desert Eagle Printstream FT, B/O: $54


M4A1-S Blue Phosphor FN, B/O: $434

StatTrak™ M4A1-S Bright Water MW, B/O: $55


M4A4 Poseidon FN, B/O: $1465

M4A4 Asiimov BS, B/O: $55

M4A4 Hellfire MW, B/O: $50


USP-S Kill Confirmed MW, B/O: $72

USP-S Printstream FT, B/O: $69

StatTrak™ USP-S Kill Confirmed FT, B/O: $139


AUG Flame Jörmungandr FN, B/O: $234

P90 Run and Hide FT, B/O: $147

Five-SeveN Candy Apple FN, B/O: $61

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2023.06.05 02:37 MailIndependent8163 Does it seem like he (m23) is looking for a serious relationship with me (f21)

When I (F21) was studying abroad I matched with this guy (M23) on hinge thinking it’d be a fun little fling. We ended up hitting it off and kept seeing each other exclusively the whole time I was there up until my visa ran out. Right before I left we had a talk agreeing that long distance is a bit too hard bc of how far away we live and the time difference. We left things off by saying that it might be too tricky to see each other again bc of how hard it was for us to say goodbye to each other the first time. Since I left we have talked every day whether it be text, call, etc. For his birthday he decided he wanted to come visit me. He stayed at my house for a bit and insisted on meeting my parents and going out to dinner with them even after I kept asking if he was sure that’s what he wanted to do. Afterwards he said it was important for him that my parents liked him. I’m going to be seeing him in a few days and he’s having me meet all of his friends and possibly family. He makes comments and jokes using the word girlfriend with me but we really haven’t talked about anything. The most confusing part to me is that he has updated a couple pictures on his hinge profile. I really don’t know what we are and what his plan is for us in the future and am just overall so confused any advice would be lovely. I know the easiest thing to do would be to talk to him about it I just don’t know if I’m making everything into more than it is. I can’t help but feel like I don’t have a right to expect anything more than what we’re currently doing bc of the original conversation we had when I was leaving.
TLDR: study abroad fling continued after I left after we decided no ldr. He came to stay with my family and I’m going out to see him soon. We’ve never labeled anything but he says gf sometimes. Idk when but I checked and he has updated a few of his hinge pics. Any advice?
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2023.06.05 02:37 highpriestessandall Help! ‘Bonded’ siblings fighting after adoption

Hi there, I’m sure some of this is first cat owner anxiety, but - we adopted two ‘bonded’ sister cats yesterday from our local shelter. They were obviously living in the same enclosure at the shelter, and they were very timid when we met them (they had only been there a week or so, were spayed while there, and before that, they were re-homed from owners that they lived with for the whole lives [they are 1.5 years old]). That said, obviously they’ve gone through a lot lately.
Z was the first to come out from under the bed and really let me pet her and sit on my lap. S has been much more reserved.
In the shelter, I saw S try to come closer to Z, who did this low growl and hiss/swatted at her. Since bringing them home yesterday, I’ve witnessed the same behavior several times - with Z being the ‘aggressor.’
I called the shelter, and they recommended Feliway, which I have and is plugged in… I guess I’m just super anxious that they really don’t like each other.
Their living situation is they are living in our guest room, separate from the rest of the house. It’s not a super small room, but they are in here together. They have two litter boxes, but their food dish is combined.
Please help :( or validate that this happens after a stressful event(s). I love them sm and want them to be happy and healthy
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2023.06.05 02:37 Fossil-Forest Had an idea for some Nen Abilities, need advice on how to improve them/make them more plausible

So I came up with two Nen abilities, One of which is the main Nen ability of the user, and the other is meant to kind of connect to it as some sort of Sub-ability, but idk if I should merge them together, or if they should just exist as two separate abilities.
The first ability I came up with is very similar to an existing Nen Ability: Knov's Hide And Seek ability:
The ability I came up with is called "Palace of the Moon King", where the user can create a sub dimensional space made out of Nen. It is roughly the size of a school gymnasium, and resembles a grand marble hall, kinda like a fancy throne room. The user can access this subspace in a way that I will mention soon, but the main intention behind it is to store things for easy access. However, in this sub space, time doesn't flow for anything that enters it, excluding the user. This means, that if the user stores something like an apple, it won't rot in that space because time won't flow there. This also applies for living beings, so if a person enters the user's sub dimension, they will be frozen still there because time doesn't move for anything or anyone except the user while in there. No matter what, any other creature or person other than the user who enters, is frozen in time once they fully enter the space.
Now, this is where I'll get into my second Nen Ability idea, which is meant to connect with the previous one. It would be a Transmutation type ability known as "Galaxy Skin". The user transmutes their aura into a substance that resembles the starry void of space, as if the very galaxy itself is on their body. Anything that touches these starry voids, will enter the Palace of the Moon King, with the transmutation ability acting as the door to allow entry into the user's subspace. Utilizing this skill, the user could sever things by allowing things to enter through the starry voids transmuted from their aura, and shrink them, closing off the portal voids and effectively severing things that enter said voids.
The limits for each ability are as follows:
"Palace Of The Moon King"
  1. Needs to know the parameters of the space, and visualize where they are storing something to store an object or living creature
  2. Is limited to a certain size in regards to what the user can bring into the space, that size being the max amount of aura they can transmute to create an opening to the subspace.
  3. Maximum storage space is limited to the size of a gymnasium.
  4. Objects or creatures only become frozen in time after fully entering the space.
"Galaxy Skin"
  1. Can only be used as a doorway to the Palace of the Moon King.
Let me know what you think about it, if anyone has any suggestions for improvements or ideas for these two abilities, and if I should just merge them or whatnot, let me know, I'd greatly appreciate it!
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2023.06.05 02:36 MailIndependent8163 Is he looking for a serious relationship or not

When I (F21) was studying abroad I matched with this guy (M23) on hinge thinking it’d be a fun little fling. We ended up hitting it off and kept seeing each other exclusively the whole time I was there up until my visa ran out. Right before I left we had a talk agreeing that long distance is a bit too hard bc of how far away we live and the time difference. We left things off by saying that it might be too tricky to see each other again bc of how hard it was for us to say goodbye to each other the first time. Since I left we have talked every day whether it be text, call, etc. For his birthday he decided he wanted to come visit me. He stayed at my house for a bit and insisted on meeting my parents and going out to dinner with them even after I kept asking if he was sure that’s what he wanted to do. Afterwards he said it was important for him that my parents liked him. I’m going to be seeing him in a few days and he’s having me meet all of his friends and possibly family. He makes comments and jokes using the word girlfriend with me but we really haven’t talked about anything. The most confusing part to me is that he has updated a couple pictures on his hinge profile. I really don’t know what we are and what his plan is for us in the future and am just overall so confused any advice would be lovely. I know the easiest thing to do would be to talk to him about it I just don’t know if I’m making everything into more than it is. I can’t help but feel like I don’t have a right to expect anything more than what we’re currently doing bc of the original conversation we had when I was leaving.
TLDR: study abroad fling continued after I left after we decided no ldr. He came to stay with my family and I’m going out to see him soon. We’ve never labeled anything but he says gf sometimes. Idk when but I checked and he has updated a few of his hinge pics. Any advice?
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2023.06.05 02:36 thephillykid609 I’m just going to say it. MTS23 is bad.

I played MTS22 religiously every single day last year.
I always like to check in on this subreddit to see what’s new and exciting. It’s kind of like my emotional support animal.
I think SDS dropped the ball this year. Diamond Dynasty is pretty much reduced to a team affinity mega grind. Even checking in on this subreddit, I can’t help but get a “meh” feeling. The #1 post today is someone telling people to avoid playing someone out of position at first base. The #4 post is a video of a guy hitting a walkoff homerun against the CPU playing MTS22!
I really feel for the content creators on YouTube who rely on this game for an income. You can tell they are grasping at straws to find something to post about. It’s just a shame … so many unforced errors.
The sets or seasons or whatever the f*ck you want to call it is a flat-out bad idea. Whoever came up with the idea should probably lose their job. “Hey guys, how about for MTS23 we reveal players that they can only use for two “seasons.” Someone actually said something like that at SDS. I’d say there is a 99.5% chance they abandon it in MTS24.
I’ve probably spent 30 hours playing with Future Stars and “Captains” that I will never touch again … just to move further along the team affinity program. It’s tedious and unnecessary.
Oh … and the “Captains” feature absolutely sucks. B+ for the idea. D- for execution.
The Negro League program was a nice touch. Very woke. It was relevant for about one (maybe two) weeks. About 100 RS games in and I have yet to face a Negro League pitcher. I actually can’t think of last time I saw someone using a NL player.
I know people like to defend SDS by pointing to how terrible Madden and NBA2K are. I don’t play those games. I play The Show and I think it sucks this year.
I am going to leave this post up regardless of how many downvotes it gets. Why? Because I have a feeling SDS has a strategy: “Let’s dump a metric ton of half-baked ideas into 23, ask for forgiveness, and completely overhaul 24.
TLDR: Don’t be lazy. Read the post.
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2023.06.05 02:36 Individual-Worker-73 Hit like a tonne of bricks

So I (26F) started seeing guy after we met on holiday, We got on very well and realised that we weren’t too far away from each other when we returned back home. Everything was seemingly very good he seemed to be understanding and made a point of communication being important to him. To preface this, i’ve not had the best luck in love so I’ve always been quite cautious with people that I meet and understand that what you see when you first meet them could change later down the line. So once we started communicating what we wanted and where we were he seem to be aligned with what I was looking for.
he would mention slightly that he was interested in having a girlfriend and what we would do together in the future. He even told his mum all about me and I even got the chance to meet some of his friends who he was excited to introduce me to. So you can imagine it came as a surprise when we were just relaxing after a really lovely date and I asked him just where his mind was at. There was no pressure for an exact answer even if he said let’s just take it slow, but unfortunately he dumped me.
Whilst it’s a shame, I’m so surprised at how hard I’m taking this. I’m not the kind of person who wears a heart on the sleeve, I’m not exactly openly trusting to start and with me my trust tends to need to be earned. As I said he spoke in a way that resonated with my standards, of my boundaries and what I was looking for. He always brought up how communication is so important otherwise any relationship will break down. It’s a shame that he didn’t actually use his own advice and his own opinions for his own behaviour.
What was a gorgeous night with him which felt very bright and wholesome turned into a mess. I call it a mess and I call out my surprise because we haven’t actually been seeing each other that long (c.1 and a half months).
When I tell you that I cried my eyes out, I do think it was an accumulation of other things that are going on in my life but this was really the straw that broke the donkeys back and I couldn’t believe that I was hearing him say this after the way he was acting with me the whole time. Treating me like he’s my boyfriend and he wants me to be his girlfriend, who is picking me up and dropping me home after a date regardless of what time, speaking to me at least a little bit every single day at least to say good morning and good evening. I don’t know if I just romanticised things in my mind and maybe keep up the pretence because I already said that I don’t do casual but alas, he made me cry and to be honest I feel quite heartbroken. I don’t really know what to do because I don’t wanna sound over the top with how upset and disappointed I am but I guess the shock really took over when he was telling me. From me crying he did actually start crying as well which confused me even more. I’ve dealt with idiots before and not once have they ever even shown a slight touch of emotion let alone crying in front of me.
For some extra background, he was in a seven year relationship and he made it seem like this relationship ended years ago but of course seven years is still a long time. Well it turns out, they’d only been broken up for about six months (I have a rule where I won’t date a guy that has got less than eight months since the break up with the ex sometimes even a year). So when I actually came to realise this when he was dumping me I realised that I had no chance anyway. All of this was him stringing me along and he acknowledged that. I’m so gutted and I feel so hurt and I don’t know how to shake this feeling in my chest. I’ve not been in many relationships in my life and usually they’re so mean to me it’s more easy to cut them off but this time I’m struggling.
I really can’t begin to think why if someone wasn’t interested in pursuing something serious with me, why he would spend so much time talking about me to his mum and his excitement about what we’re doing, allow me to know his friends, allow me to get to know his older brother. What do I do? It’s over and he says he needs to find himself on his own path but I don’t know if that’s just a cloak and dagger way of saying you want something completely different to me or there’s something wrong with me. If that’s the case why waste my time? I was very clear from our first date that I wasn’t looking for a fling and he said same as me 🙄
TLDR; love bombed by a guy who made it sound like he wanted the same thing as me which was a relationship and then suddenly dumps me saying he needs to find “his path”. No warning and this was after I admitted to him how much I liked him and weeks of him hinting about our future together.

heartbroken #relationship #dating #used #sad #confused #crying

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2023.06.05 02:36 liver9 Labral tear size/surgery timeline

Out of pure curiosity, what size was your Labral tear?
I have an MRA confirmed 2.5cm complex tear with a 1.4cm Cyst. The cyst formed due to the tear from what PT has told me. Do you think the tear size has anything to do with your recovery timeline?
This is my first experience with anything medical related and I have a referral to a surgeon in the works(waiting for the call). With that being said how long did it take to actually have your surgery?
I understand miles will vary, but curious of others experiences! Thank you!
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2023.06.05 02:35 Texas_burrito72 This is funny

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2023.06.05 02:35 Individual-Worker-73 Hit me like a tonne of bricks.

So I (26F) started seeing guy after we met on holiday, We got on very well and realised that we weren’t too far away from each other when we returned back home. Everything was seemingly very good he seemed to be understanding and made a point of communication being important to him. To preface this, i’ve not had the best luck in love so I’ve always been quite cautious with people that I meet and understand that what you see when you first meet them could change later down the line. So once we started communicating what we wanted and where we were he seem to be aligned with what I was looking for.
he would mention slightly that he was interested in having a girlfriend and what we would do together in the future. He even told his mum all about me and I even got the chance to meet some of his friends who he was excited to introduce me to. So you can imagine it came as a surprise when we were just relaxing after a really lovely date and I asked him just where his mind was at. There was no pressure for an exact answer even if he said let’s just take it slow, but unfortunately he dumped me.
Whilst it’s a shame, I’m so surprised at how hard I’m taking this. I’m not the kind of person who wears a heart on the sleeve, I’m not exactly openly trusting to start and with me my trust tends to need to be earned. As I said he spoke in a way that resonated with my standards, of my boundaries and what I was looking for. He always brought up how communication is so important otherwise any relationship will break down. It’s a shame that he didn’t actually use his own advice and his own opinions for his own behaviour.
What was a gorgeous night with him which felt very bright and wholesome turned into a mess. I call it a mess and I call out my surprise because we haven’t actually been seeing each other that long (c.1 and a half months).
When I tell you that I cried my eyes out, I do think it was an accumulation of other things that are going on in my life but this was really the straw that broke the donkeys back and I couldn’t believe that I was hearing him say this after the way he was acting with me the whole time. Treating me like he’s my boyfriend and he wants me to be his girlfriend, who is picking me up and dropping me home after a date regardless of what time, speaking to me at least a little bit every single day at least to say good morning and good evening. I don’t know if I just romanticised things in my mind and maybe keep up the pretence because I already said that I don’t do casual but alas, he made me cry and to be honest I feel quite heartbroken. I don’t really know what to do because I don’t wanna sound over the top with how upset and disappointed I am but I guess the shock really took over when he was telling me. From me crying he did actually start crying as well which confused me even more. I’ve dealt with idiots before and not once have they ever even shown a slight touch of emotion let alone crying in front of me.
For some extra background, he was in a seven year relationship and he made it seem like this relationship ended years ago but of course seven years is still a long time. Well it turns out, they’d only been broken up for about six months (I have a rule where I won’t date a guy that has got less than eight months since the break up with the ex sometimes even a year). So when I actually came to realise this when he was dumping me I realised that I had no chance anyway. All of this was him stringing me along and he acknowledged that. I’m so gutted and I feel so hurt and I don’t know how to shake this feeling in my chest. I’ve not been in many relationships in my life and usually they’re so mean to me it’s more easy to cut them off but this time I’m struggling.
I really can’t begin to think why if someone wasn’t interested in pursuing something serious with me, why he would spend so much time talking about me to his mum and his excitement about what we’re doing, allow me to know his friends, allow me to get to know his older brother. What do I do? It’s over and he says he needs to find himself on his own path but I don’t know if that’s just a cloak and dagger way of saying you want something completely different to me or there’s something wrong with me. If that’s the case why waste my time? I was very clear from our first date that I wasn’t looking for a fling and he said same as me 🙄
TLDR; love bombed by a guy who made it sound like he wanted the same thing as me which was a relationship and then suddenly dumps me saying he needs to find “his path”. No warning and this was after I admitted to him how much I liked him and weeks of him hinting about our future together.

heartbroken #relationship #dating #used #sad #confused #crying

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