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2023.05.31 18:43 Unable_Secretary8953 Khabib Would Get Destroyed By Conor McGregor in a Boxing Match
Conor McGregor is one of the best strikers in the ufc no doubt, he went 10 rounds with the greatest boxer to ever live and landed more punches than other professional boxers.
On the other hand Khabib is one of the worst strikers in the ufc, if you don’t believe me go back and watch his first fights where he was missing shots like a bitch.
Boxing is the sport of striking if you don’t know how to at least strike well you will get mauled in seconds in a boxing fight, boxing without knowing how to strike is like playing football without knowing how to kick the ball.
It’s no doubt who would win in a boxing match, the dude that almost won the best boxer in the world and has one of the best strikings in the ufc, or the dude that can’t land a single punch in 5 rounds?
Sure Khabib has improved his striking since his old fights but its still not good enough, he still misses a lot of shots hasn’t made anyone bleed from his striking and it’s pretty average, it’s no where near as the legendary striking of McGregor.
Dustin Poirier (who fought both Khabib and McGregor) said it himself, out of every fighter he fought Conor was hitting the hardest of them all, Dustin doesn’t even like Conor there is no reason for him to say that except being objectively correct.
And yes Khabib’s wrestling and grappling is the best in lightweight division in ufc, but in boxing you can’t use those things, so thats why McGregor would destroy Khabib in a Boxing match.
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On the other hand Khabib is one of the worst strikers in the ufc, if you don’t believe me go back and watch his first fights where he was missing shots like a bitch.
Boxing is the sport of striking if you don’t know how to at least strike well you will get mauled in seconds in a boxing fight, boxing without knowing how to strike is like playing football without knowing how to kick the ball.
It’s no doubt who would win in a boxing match, the dude that almost won the best boxer in the world and has one of the best strikings in the ufc, or the dude that can’t land a single punch in 5 rounds?
Sure Khabib has improved his striking since his old fights but its still not good enough, he still misses a lot of shots hasn’t made anyone bleed from his striking and it’s pretty average, it’s no where near as the legendary striking of McGregor.
Dustin Poirier (who fought both Khabib and McGregor) said it himself, out of every fighter he fought Conor was hitting the hardest of them all, Dustin doesn’t even like Conor there is no reason for him to say that except being objectively correct.
And yes Khabib’s wrestling and grappling is the best in lightweight division in ufc, but in boxing you can’t use those things, so thats why McGregor would destroy Khabib in a Boxing match.
2023.05.31 18:42 Demon_Frost73 Am I The Jerk For Kicking This Entitled Karen Who Can't Swim Into The Pool.
I'm Harry a 17 year old male for a bit of a back story I have a 9 year old sister who is learning how to swim I used go too but I left a few months ago because of study and other stuff, but she got interested and joined a few weeks ago.
She knows how to float but while swimming cannot put her head in and out of the water to breathe and remember we to a public pool. I just wait outside the pool and watch over her as both parents have a job it's hard for them to manage. The pool is 5 feet deep and my sister is 4'8 so she needs to stand on her toes to walk in the pool. Now here comes the person who we refer to the entitled karen of the story. So the karen is looking over the pool not even swimming.
I go ask her and this is how the conversation goes Me: Hello ma'am aren't you swimming?
Karen: Umm... no I don't know how to swim.
Me: Ok
She looks at me while I'm telling my sister she is doing great at swimming and keep going. And some water goes in to my sister's nose and she panic's and try's to find the nearest edge she could grab onto. I tell her it's ok it had happens to everyone and it has happened to me too. She comes to me and says :
Karen : Oh, your sister can't swim how bad she is and she will never learn.
And oh she should not have said that because my sister starts crying on spot 'cause she got insulted by someone in front of like 50-60 people.
I say: your an adult shouldn't how to swim? Instead of insulting a nine year old who has just started to learn? That shuts her up for a while I tell my sister to ignore her and try her best. She ignores the karen's mean words and continuous to and actually breaks breaks her record to how far she swam in one go. I said "See you tried harder and did better." She gives my a joyful smile and try's to break that record again. After 30 minutes the sir call's everyone for a diving practice they do in the end everyone does 3-4 dives. When it's my sister's turn. She is getting into position and this karen come's and pushes her into the pool and instantly my sister's head hit's the wall and it starts bleeding I scream and get her out of the pool while the karen just sit's there and laugh while saying "that's what you get for insulting me!" I got total rage mode I kick her into the pool and also her phone with her and the phone hit's her on the head. I get very happy I rush to the nearest hospital and the doctor say "She going to get 14-15 stitches on the head she will be in the hospital for 2 days." I go back to the pool and see the shameless karen saying to every employ that i pushed my sister because I told her (karen) that I hate her which is a lie the biggest of all and says that I kicked her and threw her phone 'cause I acted like she was making a scene and the police had arrived and they put me in handcuffs I was so scared i looked around and saw the thing that saved my life. I said "If she is telling the truth check the cameras." The new manger and cop agreed karen turned pale more pale that a zombie. After a few minutes the new manger and police man come out and release me from the handcuffs and put karen in she screams that she will sue all of us and the new manger even told me that she was banned from the pool. But he didn't know 'cause he was new here. The karen get's 6 months of jail 'cause of breaking the law.
Later I found out that my sister had a crack so long story short karen got 1 year and 6months of jail time. I hope anyone won't be dealing with her soon and never does.
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She knows how to float but while swimming cannot put her head in and out of the water to breathe and remember we to a public pool. I just wait outside the pool and watch over her as both parents have a job it's hard for them to manage. The pool is 5 feet deep and my sister is 4'8 so she needs to stand on her toes to walk in the pool. Now here comes the person who we refer to the entitled karen of the story. So the karen is looking over the pool not even swimming.
I go ask her and this is how the conversation goes Me: Hello ma'am aren't you swimming?
Karen: Umm... no I don't know how to swim.
Me: Ok
She looks at me while I'm telling my sister she is doing great at swimming and keep going. And some water goes in to my sister's nose and she panic's and try's to find the nearest edge she could grab onto. I tell her it's ok it had happens to everyone and it has happened to me too. She comes to me and says :
Karen : Oh, your sister can't swim how bad she is and she will never learn.
And oh she should not have said that because my sister starts crying on spot 'cause she got insulted by someone in front of like 50-60 people.
I say: your an adult shouldn't how to swim? Instead of insulting a nine year old who has just started to learn? That shuts her up for a while I tell my sister to ignore her and try her best. She ignores the karen's mean words and continuous to and actually breaks breaks her record to how far she swam in one go. I said "See you tried harder and did better." She gives my a joyful smile and try's to break that record again. After 30 minutes the sir call's everyone for a diving practice they do in the end everyone does 3-4 dives. When it's my sister's turn. She is getting into position and this karen come's and pushes her into the pool and instantly my sister's head hit's the wall and it starts bleeding I scream and get her out of the pool while the karen just sit's there and laugh while saying "that's what you get for insulting me!" I got total rage mode I kick her into the pool and also her phone with her and the phone hit's her on the head. I get very happy I rush to the nearest hospital and the doctor say "She going to get 14-15 stitches on the head she will be in the hospital for 2 days." I go back to the pool and see the shameless karen saying to every employ that i pushed my sister because I told her (karen) that I hate her which is a lie the biggest of all and says that I kicked her and threw her phone 'cause I acted like she was making a scene and the police had arrived and they put me in handcuffs I was so scared i looked around and saw the thing that saved my life. I said "If she is telling the truth check the cameras." The new manger and cop agreed karen turned pale more pale that a zombie. After a few minutes the new manger and police man come out and release me from the handcuffs and put karen in she screams that she will sue all of us and the new manger even told me that she was banned from the pool. But he didn't know 'cause he was new here. The karen get's 6 months of jail 'cause of breaking the law.
Later I found out that my sister had a crack so long story short karen got 1 year and 6months of jail time. I hope anyone won't be dealing with her soon and never does.
2023.05.31 18:42 ExplorerRude7370 [Housing] 2 bedroom apartment recommendations??
My roommate and I are looking to move to Phoenix around the end of July! We're just 2 broke girls trying to live somewhere new for a change of pace! Our budget is $1400 if anyone knows good places that would have that! Or if you're a female looking for roommates, message me!
Edit: Also if you know of any jobs hiring or a job group, pls link!
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Edit: Also if you know of any jobs hiring or a job group, pls link!
2023.05.31 18:41 YarrowFields Advice needed on teaching an Entrepreneurial college course
So for some background, I(37F) have started and managed multiple small businesses (2 local farm businesses and a cafe) and I think I generally have that entrepreneurial spirit when it comes to any job/life (always thinking of the next thing I can start haha!).
Anyway, I was approached last year to teach a 1-credit university course on entrepreneurship. I said yes. It went great! Note, this is on top of my FT job. Now they are wanting me to teach a second entrepreneurship course. This time a 3-credit hour course on entrepreneurial consulting, which would be co-taught with another woman who works as a consultant; however I would be the main instructor and the one getting paid to teach it and to design the course this summer, as she doesn’t have a masters/phd to teach at the college level.
The thing is I don’t have any experience consulting or with starting e-commerce businesses and that’s what they want the majority focus of this course to be. I was honest with my co-instructor on this and she said that was fine and she’d guest lecture those classes. But my dilemma is I am still ultimately the one responsible for day-to-day teaching, setting up assignments, grading, etc, on a subject I have little knowledge on, but the university department really wants me to teach it.
Do you think I should risk it, go with the flow, and teach this class? It could actually be beneficial for my future career growth and maybe get me into consulting and out of my FT job which is what I want. Or do I admit to the school I’m not qualified to teach it and pass on this opportunity?
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Anyway, I was approached last year to teach a 1-credit university course on entrepreneurship. I said yes. It went great! Note, this is on top of my FT job. Now they are wanting me to teach a second entrepreneurship course. This time a 3-credit hour course on entrepreneurial consulting, which would be co-taught with another woman who works as a consultant; however I would be the main instructor and the one getting paid to teach it and to design the course this summer, as she doesn’t have a masters/phd to teach at the college level.
The thing is I don’t have any experience consulting or with starting e-commerce businesses and that’s what they want the majority focus of this course to be. I was honest with my co-instructor on this and she said that was fine and she’d guest lecture those classes. But my dilemma is I am still ultimately the one responsible for day-to-day teaching, setting up assignments, grading, etc, on a subject I have little knowledge on, but the university department really wants me to teach it.
Do you think I should risk it, go with the flow, and teach this class? It could actually be beneficial for my future career growth and maybe get me into consulting and out of my FT job which is what I want. Or do I admit to the school I’m not qualified to teach it and pass on this opportunity?
2023.05.31 18:41 le_KiKs Career advice for a 21y 3D/2D technician
Hello, Im 21 french boy and im half student/half working (in france it's called "alternance" you work 1 month, and study 1month during 1 year)
I'm currently working at Airbus helicopters and they offer me a job at the end of the year for 28k$ per year (with 8k$ of bonus per year) im 3D/2D modeler, i do blueprint and 3d object for mechanical purpose on CatiaV5, Fusion360 and Solidworks.
My goal is clearly to gain the most money I can during my 20s, i'm ready to move to another country. Do other countries pay more for this type of job or should I stay at aribus helicopers ?
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I'm currently working at Airbus helicopters and they offer me a job at the end of the year for 28k$ per year (with 8k$ of bonus per year) im 3D/2D modeler, i do blueprint and 3d object for mechanical purpose on CatiaV5, Fusion360 and Solidworks.
My goal is clearly to gain the most money I can during my 20s, i'm ready to move to another country. Do other countries pay more for this type of job or should I stay at aribus helicopers ?
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2023.05.31 18:41 Laika_Finger Cannot connect to my own terraria server
Hello,
Currently trying to host a terraria server on my linux machine.
When I start it, everything seems to be working in the console but when I try to connect in TMod nothing is working and I have "connecting" message. I tried a lot of things and nothing is working, changing ports, connecting from local network... The most weird thing is that it was working 2 days ago and not anymore.
I just would like to precise I am not hosting on the same machine as my game.
Could anyone help me ?
The only things I think that could be conflicting is that I changed my ipv4 a few days ago but I restart everything and still not working.
Thanks
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Currently trying to host a terraria server on my linux machine.
When I start it, everything seems to be working in the console but when I try to connect in TMod nothing is working and I have "connecting" message. I tried a lot of things and nothing is working, changing ports, connecting from local network... The most weird thing is that it was working 2 days ago and not anymore.
I just would like to precise I am not hosting on the same machine as my game.
Could anyone help me ?
The only things I think that could be conflicting is that I changed my ipv4 a few days ago but I restart everything and still not working.
Thanks
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2023.05.31 18:41 Svengoolie92 Seeking help upgrading PC (if possible/practical)
Around 9 years ago a friend of mine helped me build this PC for some gaming. Even at the time it wasn’t very impressive, but that’s besides the point.
I have been learning blender and have a few projects with a lot of particles, by my current setup simply can’t handle it. So, I am wondering if it makes sense to attempt to beef up this PC or simply start over.
I am admittedly not a computer person, but understand the basics. This is a screenshot of the newegg order from back then to give an idea of what I am working with https://imgur.com/a/dbtDnWQ
I am expecting to need to gut it, fan still works but old. Case dusty but does it’s job. Unsure of what most people would do here, mainly don’t want to try and replace a couple components just to find that there is some unexpected bottleneck.
If you have recommendations for what to upgrade with, the money isn’t really an issue any longer. I mainly didn’t want to throw out components if I didn’t need to.
Thank you!
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I have been learning blender and have a few projects with a lot of particles, by my current setup simply can’t handle it. So, I am wondering if it makes sense to attempt to beef up this PC or simply start over.
I am admittedly not a computer person, but understand the basics. This is a screenshot of the newegg order from back then to give an idea of what I am working with https://imgur.com/a/dbtDnWQ
I am expecting to need to gut it, fan still works but old. Case dusty but does it’s job. Unsure of what most people would do here, mainly don’t want to try and replace a couple components just to find that there is some unexpected bottleneck.
If you have recommendations for what to upgrade with, the money isn’t really an issue any longer. I mainly didn’t want to throw out components if I didn’t need to.
Thank you!
2023.05.31 18:40 throwaway18687587539 Should I ask whether or not there will be a drug test during an interview?
Will this hurt my chances of getting hired? I haven’t touched the stuff since May 11th. I used to do edibles about two or three times a week before that. I am a little worried about the drug test coming back positive. I am living with my parents right now and don’t need any calls to the house saying I failed a drug test. The job is a store associate position at a place near my house.
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2023.05.31 18:40 73marine What design and details books do you use the most?
I’ve been doing a few residential interior jobs lately and have a client with a special needs kid who wants to renovate their kitchen to make it accessible for them. Long story short, I found some information online and came across some good information in the NKBA books. It got me thinking, what books do you use the most in your field of design? Just curious and would love some ideas for my personal library.
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2023.05.31 18:40 politer_sunbeam_0w Is moving to Spain from UK a realistic possibility?
I’m a 35 year old F living in London. Since Covid I’ve not been in steady work and various health issues have led to me not holding a job for any significant time. I’be always liked the idea of living in Spain but always thought of it for people once retired etc. I am starting to seriously wonder if moving to Spain is something I could do? I’ve got no real ties here but obviously have some serious questions to consider , the main being employment and accommodation.
I currently own a flat in the Uk so if I did ever do this I would plan to rent this out, which would pay for the cost of renting out there.
Employment is my biggest concern - I don’t speak Spanish. What are the options for working in Spain? I’ve seen people on here mention jobs in Uk that are fully remote so could work fully online. Is this a realistic option? Does anyone have experience of this? Other than this is TEFL still a possibility?
I’m also interested in where people would recommend moving for non Spanish speakers? I’ve considered Murcia type regions but would welcome suggestions?
Thanks in advance
K
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I currently own a flat in the Uk so if I did ever do this I would plan to rent this out, which would pay for the cost of renting out there.
Employment is my biggest concern - I don’t speak Spanish. What are the options for working in Spain? I’ve seen people on here mention jobs in Uk that are fully remote so could work fully online. Is this a realistic option? Does anyone have experience of this? Other than this is TEFL still a possibility?
I’m also interested in where people would recommend moving for non Spanish speakers? I’ve considered Murcia type regions but would welcome suggestions?
Thanks in advance
K
2023.05.31 18:40 an_interesting_name Finally realised I'm not part of the family
15 years I worked at a small engineering firm, family run, spoke with he owner occasionaly, the only job I've ever worked, learned everything, trained people and was one of the remaining few that could work wherever they needed me on the shop floor and all I asked for was to be put on permanent earlies instead of alternating shifts, not more money or promotion, I even met his requirements of finding a replacement and proving that nobody had an issue with it and it would even benefit him in the day to day but apparently they couldn't make it work around their way of running things.
So now in my second job I'm on a single day shift, earning more money, learning new things and also not letting myself think that who I work for will be constructive when it comes to my life outside of work.
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So now in my second job I'm on a single day shift, earning more money, learning new things and also not letting myself think that who I work for will be constructive when it comes to my life outside of work.
2023.05.31 18:40 Major_Style2877 I just started my business in March 2023. I'm still in the R&D process and have made no money yet. Do I need to make estimated quarterly income tax payments if I've made no money?
Wondering how taxes work for businesses that have yet to make any sales. Do I still estimate based on last year's income when I was W2, or wait to adjust until I start making money? My business is beverage manufacturing / sales, and I'm still working on the formula for my drink.
Wife works a W2 job as an engineer. I recently separated from the military and want to be my own boss, eventually with the hopes of my wife going part-time. We file jointly and live in NC.
I have an appointment with a local tax pro soon, but I just wanted to post to get as much info as possible.
Any help would be much appreciated!
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Wife works a W2 job as an engineer. I recently separated from the military and want to be my own boss, eventually with the hopes of my wife going part-time. We file jointly and live in NC.
I have an appointment with a local tax pro soon, but I just wanted to post to get as much info as possible.
Any help would be much appreciated!
2023.05.31 18:40 Sensitive-Memory-17 Received a list of complaints
The other day, I received a phone call from my manager informing me of a list of complaints made against me. I’m typically on my home unit but for the past month, I’ve been working on a different unit to help fulfill their needs as they’ve been short on nurses.
My manager informed me that she received a list of complaints from the new unit’s manager. The list came mostly from the techs on the unit who said I’m always on my phone (which I never am), that I “tell them to do things because it’s not my job to do them”, or I won’t do something or help them when they are running behind. Among that, there was a complaint that I didn’t start an IV med during my shift but that “the start time was after shift change, so why wasn’t it started during your shift (??????)”, and that I scared a new nurse by telling her that the assignment was going to be a busy assignment and that it’s a hard one. The cherry on top was a complaint made against me saying that I printed an extra copy of the patient’s name card because I didn’t know it was already printed and that I didn’t know what it was used for.
This has been eating me alive. I know that the complaints the techs made against me never happened. I have had good experiences with the techs on the unit so it came as a total shock to me. At first, I was so confused and taken back because of the complaints. I seriously thought they were talking about someone else.
I don’t know what to do and how to go about it. My manager said to just leave it as is, learn from it, forget about it, or I can arrange to meet with her to talk about it. What do I do? I just want to call in sick for the rest of the week. 😩
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My manager informed me that she received a list of complaints from the new unit’s manager. The list came mostly from the techs on the unit who said I’m always on my phone (which I never am), that I “tell them to do things because it’s not my job to do them”, or I won’t do something or help them when they are running behind. Among that, there was a complaint that I didn’t start an IV med during my shift but that “the start time was after shift change, so why wasn’t it started during your shift (??????)”, and that I scared a new nurse by telling her that the assignment was going to be a busy assignment and that it’s a hard one. The cherry on top was a complaint made against me saying that I printed an extra copy of the patient’s name card because I didn’t know it was already printed and that I didn’t know what it was used for.
This has been eating me alive. I know that the complaints the techs made against me never happened. I have had good experiences with the techs on the unit so it came as a total shock to me. At first, I was so confused and taken back because of the complaints. I seriously thought they were talking about someone else.
I don’t know what to do and how to go about it. My manager said to just leave it as is, learn from it, forget about it, or I can arrange to meet with her to talk about it. What do I do? I just want to call in sick for the rest of the week. 😩
2023.05.31 18:40 Shola_93 Pre joining - medical information
Hi all, first post on this sub so, in the words of Adele, go easy on me. I recently applied for the RAF, and got turned down because of previous use of antidepressants. This was pretty gutting as it's something I've always wanted to do and came to a point in my life where it would have been viable, but I of course respect the decision.
I know people in the forces who started taking the same medicine whilst serving, and reading online it seems the american army prescribe the same. Is it a case of you cant join if you've taken them in the past, but if you start whilst serving, it's ok and you carry on with your job?
Thanks in advance for any answers
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I know people in the forces who started taking the same medicine whilst serving, and reading online it seems the american army prescribe the same. Is it a case of you cant join if you've taken them in the past, but if you start whilst serving, it's ok and you carry on with your job?
Thanks in advance for any answers
2023.05.31 18:39 megamanchu Bear Sighting at Greenway
Today while biking around noon on the Greenway close to Washington Park, near Orange Ave and Burell St, I saw a bear on the bike path.
The bear was sighted running from the field area near a gazebo, then it darted past me over the brown railing and into the wooded areas. This area is near some schools and parks, so it's a bit concerning. I certainly got an adrenaline rush from being about 15 feet away from this brown Winnie the Pooh.
I did call (855)571-9003 to report the matter. A quick Google search brought up wdbj7 online story with that phone number. I got a call back and was told it was a bear most likely rejected by mom, that this type of bear is often a wimp, and not a threat for attack. There's been a few calls about bear sightings.
Be on the lookout if you're on the Greenway near Washington Park. Time to fund a Bear Patrol.
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The bear was sighted running from the field area near a gazebo, then it darted past me over the brown railing and into the wooded areas. This area is near some schools and parks, so it's a bit concerning. I certainly got an adrenaline rush from being about 15 feet away from this brown Winnie the Pooh.
I did call (855)571-9003 to report the matter. A quick Google search brought up wdbj7 online story with that phone number. I got a call back and was told it was a bear most likely rejected by mom, that this type of bear is often a wimp, and not a threat for attack. There's been a few calls about bear sightings.
Be on the lookout if you're on the Greenway near Washington Park. Time to fund a Bear Patrol.
2023.05.31 18:39 2013WRXhatch Revenge got me a stepson…..sort of?
What comes around goes around. Was routinely the target of one particular bully in high school, never knew why. I minded my business and being middle class in a predominantly upper class school made me a target. Most of the time the fellow students backed off whenever I stood my ground physically. However, this particular gentleman specifically targeted vandalizing my vehicle, my house, locker, and anything he could to torment me while still having plausible deniability and preventing me from taking action against him.
Anyways, shocker… scumbag dropped out senior year and I didn’t see him again for a while.
Fast forward to sophomore year of college. I’m 6ft 2 inch, 200lbs, single, enlisted in the Army, and going to school at Florida State University.
There’s a specific bar in Tallahassee near the capitol building, this bar is home to and frequented by cougars who work in the capitol. Most of them divorced.
Well, some Army buddies and I decide to partake in the activities at this bar. Being just about the only men in attendance we were definitely preyed upon.
Halfway through the evening, I chat up a gorgeous, 43 year old(twice my age at the time) brunette who worked in the DA office. We hit it off and I go home with her.
She showed me a great time and I can confidently say that I’ve never hunted a mountain lion but I have choked a cougar.
Following morning, after some additional activities with a mature, experienced, and dominant woman. I head downstairs to leave when I lock eyes with the very high school bully who tormented me for the better part of 3 years when I was younger.
I could not resist but start laughing, as the fat, unemployed, and balding scumbag (who probably heard the morning activities taking place) sat there, with his jaw on the floor.
Through my laughter I could hear him asking what I’m doing here and telling me to get out.
Now I never feared this guy, and always begged for the chance at revenge since he always got away with his antics
I turn to him as I head to the front door and state “heading out for a pack of cigarettes boy, look after your mother”
Days later while out at the strip on Tennessee street I bump into him at bulls…..needless he was not pleased by me introducing him as my stepson to my buddies.
He attempted to got to blows and was swiftly swept up by the bouncer.
Revenge is sweet, just like his mothers….uh well you know.
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Anyways, shocker… scumbag dropped out senior year and I didn’t see him again for a while.
Fast forward to sophomore year of college. I’m 6ft 2 inch, 200lbs, single, enlisted in the Army, and going to school at Florida State University.
There’s a specific bar in Tallahassee near the capitol building, this bar is home to and frequented by cougars who work in the capitol. Most of them divorced.
Well, some Army buddies and I decide to partake in the activities at this bar. Being just about the only men in attendance we were definitely preyed upon.
Halfway through the evening, I chat up a gorgeous, 43 year old(twice my age at the time) brunette who worked in the DA office. We hit it off and I go home with her.
She showed me a great time and I can confidently say that I’ve never hunted a mountain lion but I have choked a cougar.
Following morning, after some additional activities with a mature, experienced, and dominant woman. I head downstairs to leave when I lock eyes with the very high school bully who tormented me for the better part of 3 years when I was younger.
I could not resist but start laughing, as the fat, unemployed, and balding scumbag (who probably heard the morning activities taking place) sat there, with his jaw on the floor.
Through my laughter I could hear him asking what I’m doing here and telling me to get out.
Now I never feared this guy, and always begged for the chance at revenge since he always got away with his antics
I turn to him as I head to the front door and state “heading out for a pack of cigarettes boy, look after your mother”
Days later while out at the strip on Tennessee street I bump into him at bulls…..needless he was not pleased by me introducing him as my stepson to my buddies.
He attempted to got to blows and was swiftly swept up by the bouncer.
Revenge is sweet, just like his mothers….uh well you know.
2023.05.31 18:39 mini4cozzi In house dental plans
I'm looking for a new dentist to do extensive work (currently don't have insurance) but I've seen some practices offer an "x" amount discount if I enroll in their plan. I plan on pursuing something like this until open season enrollment.
So I'm curious what is a good percentage to shop around for? One near me offers 30% discounts. Could I expect to find a better one elsewhere? And is there anything to watch out for? My initial thought is what if they end up referring me to a specialist etc.
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So I'm curious what is a good percentage to shop around for? One near me offers 30% discounts. Could I expect to find a better one elsewhere? And is there anything to watch out for? My initial thought is what if they end up referring me to a specialist etc.
2023.05.31 18:39 Mutants_4_nukes To the Recruiters out there, a point of fact.
When you send me an email saying both "URGENT" and "onsite from day one" none of us take you seriously. If it was so extremely urgent, they would allow remote. I immediately delete your email even if it is local to me.
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2023.05.31 18:39 DrunkRaven0 I am just so tired, and I do not know what to do.
I really don't know why I'm making this post, but the walls are closing in, I should see if there's advice out there that can help me. Throwaway account, no particular reason, I guess I just don't want too many serious personal subjects attachted to my main account.
I'll give some context for my life/current situation that'll make things a bit easier to understand, I'll attempt to be as brief as possible. I(21M) was born to teenage parents. My mother, who had long standing, unaddressed mental health issues, committed suicide when I was a few weeks old. My father wasn't in the picture until I reached out to him when I was sixteen or seventeen. I was raised by my mother's mother and my uncles. I do not remember most of my childhood, a few scant happy memories that I can't forget, but mostly this nihilisitc feeling of dread which was a shadow over my younger years, we lived below the poverty line. I didn't grow up celebrating very many holidays.
We were forced to move when I was twelve years old or so, housing authority removed us because one of my uncle's had three children who were all living with us in a two bedroom home, which wasn't allowed. My grandmother and I lived with my aunt for two years or so, but we were kicked out when I was fourteen when my grandmother was laid off. I was homeless for a few months or so, until my girlfriends family asked me to move in so I had some chance of finishing school. When you're young and suddenly have the responsibilites of taking care of yourself, begging, and finding a dry place to sleep, you tend not to give two shits about your education. I wasn't living day to day, I was living hour to hour. I managed to struggle through school and did finish high school, not long after, I was kicked out of my girlfriend's family's home a month or so after my 19th birthday after I discovered she'd been cheating on my with one of her friends. The whole world crumbled for me, all of the work I'd put in, that feeling of having some sort of family stability (even though they weren't my blood relatives), was all washed away in a few minutes. I attemtped suicide, obviously didn't work, got instituionalized for two weeks, which helped my address my SH issues, and I've been clean from that since. An old friend of my mother's who'd been around my whole life offered a place to stay while I was in there.
I lived there for a year. Got my driver's license, got a job that would open up a solid career path that I am on now, and things seemed much more stable, but it was a lot of weight on my shoulders. Twenty years old, not much real world expierence, and my entire future depended on me at what feels like an unfair young age, but who am I to tell anyone what is and isn't unfair. This is the deck of cards I was handed. A year or so into this, I was in another relationship and rent was getting higher and I was trying to buy a car, all while my hours got cut in half. I went from making $3000 a month to $1000 a month. Once again, my girlfriend's family asked me to move in with them to give me better prospects of achieving my goals. That all collapsed after about nine months or so, my girlfriend cheated on me and moved out, her family didn't want to ask me to move, but some things occured which forced me to. I did manage to buy a car in that time, though.
I slept on my friend's living room floor for a month, an hour away from work, and one day I called up my dad, explained what had happened (He never checked in on me or reached out unless I did first, even though we had finally been in touch for four years at this point) and he told me to move in with him. It was even further away from my job, so I quit my job, moved to the middle of nowhere almost a year ago, and this is where I live now. My father and my step mother were under the presumtion that I am a carbon copy of my mother, a woman who is alien to me and that I do not know, and do not want to know. They were disappointed to say the least, and they cannot stand me. If they knew I had a place to go (I don't) they'd kick me out the instant they knew, and really, I do not know why. I keep to myself, I keep my living space ordily and clean, even though they've put me into a half insulated garage, same place they put the trash, leave the doors wide open so the bugs get in, and where a half centry old smell of cleaning supplies and gasoline stays with me. A few months ago, my father would get drunk and harass or assault me.
I'm in a relationship that is far more healthy, stable, and balanced than any of my other shitty, toxic relationships that I had in the past. It's the only thing that can keep me motivated and sane right now. I have a great job in a field that I excel in, and I am loving it, but my car is unrepairable, I'm in an upside down loan on it, and I depend on my parents and coworkers to just get to work and get home after work. I feel lost and hopeless. I feel stuck. I don't know what to do, I feel like there isn't anyone that can help me anymore.If you read the whole thing, sorry I didn't keep it brief, I felt that all of this was necessary to explain the context of my situation. Thank you, if you read it all. I hope you're having a good week, and a good rest of your day. Sorry for any spelling or grammar errors. By the way, the folks that raised my are on good terms but are still homeless. I help them more than they could ever help me, they sorta depend on me right now.
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I'll give some context for my life/current situation that'll make things a bit easier to understand, I'll attempt to be as brief as possible. I(21M) was born to teenage parents. My mother, who had long standing, unaddressed mental health issues, committed suicide when I was a few weeks old. My father wasn't in the picture until I reached out to him when I was sixteen or seventeen. I was raised by my mother's mother and my uncles. I do not remember most of my childhood, a few scant happy memories that I can't forget, but mostly this nihilisitc feeling of dread which was a shadow over my younger years, we lived below the poverty line. I didn't grow up celebrating very many holidays.
We were forced to move when I was twelve years old or so, housing authority removed us because one of my uncle's had three children who were all living with us in a two bedroom home, which wasn't allowed. My grandmother and I lived with my aunt for two years or so, but we were kicked out when I was fourteen when my grandmother was laid off. I was homeless for a few months or so, until my girlfriends family asked me to move in so I had some chance of finishing school. When you're young and suddenly have the responsibilites of taking care of yourself, begging, and finding a dry place to sleep, you tend not to give two shits about your education. I wasn't living day to day, I was living hour to hour. I managed to struggle through school and did finish high school, not long after, I was kicked out of my girlfriend's family's home a month or so after my 19th birthday after I discovered she'd been cheating on my with one of her friends. The whole world crumbled for me, all of the work I'd put in, that feeling of having some sort of family stability (even though they weren't my blood relatives), was all washed away in a few minutes. I attemtped suicide, obviously didn't work, got instituionalized for two weeks, which helped my address my SH issues, and I've been clean from that since. An old friend of my mother's who'd been around my whole life offered a place to stay while I was in there.
I lived there for a year. Got my driver's license, got a job that would open up a solid career path that I am on now, and things seemed much more stable, but it was a lot of weight on my shoulders. Twenty years old, not much real world expierence, and my entire future depended on me at what feels like an unfair young age, but who am I to tell anyone what is and isn't unfair. This is the deck of cards I was handed. A year or so into this, I was in another relationship and rent was getting higher and I was trying to buy a car, all while my hours got cut in half. I went from making $3000 a month to $1000 a month. Once again, my girlfriend's family asked me to move in with them to give me better prospects of achieving my goals. That all collapsed after about nine months or so, my girlfriend cheated on me and moved out, her family didn't want to ask me to move, but some things occured which forced me to. I did manage to buy a car in that time, though.
I slept on my friend's living room floor for a month, an hour away from work, and one day I called up my dad, explained what had happened (He never checked in on me or reached out unless I did first, even though we had finally been in touch for four years at this point) and he told me to move in with him. It was even further away from my job, so I quit my job, moved to the middle of nowhere almost a year ago, and this is where I live now. My father and my step mother were under the presumtion that I am a carbon copy of my mother, a woman who is alien to me and that I do not know, and do not want to know. They were disappointed to say the least, and they cannot stand me. If they knew I had a place to go (I don't) they'd kick me out the instant they knew, and really, I do not know why. I keep to myself, I keep my living space ordily and clean, even though they've put me into a half insulated garage, same place they put the trash, leave the doors wide open so the bugs get in, and where a half centry old smell of cleaning supplies and gasoline stays with me. A few months ago, my father would get drunk and harass or assault me.
I'm in a relationship that is far more healthy, stable, and balanced than any of my other shitty, toxic relationships that I had in the past. It's the only thing that can keep me motivated and sane right now. I have a great job in a field that I excel in, and I am loving it, but my car is unrepairable, I'm in an upside down loan on it, and I depend on my parents and coworkers to just get to work and get home after work. I feel lost and hopeless. I feel stuck. I don't know what to do, I feel like there isn't anyone that can help me anymore.If you read the whole thing, sorry I didn't keep it brief, I felt that all of this was necessary to explain the context of my situation. Thank you, if you read it all. I hope you're having a good week, and a good rest of your day. Sorry for any spelling or grammar errors. By the way, the folks that raised my are on good terms but are still homeless. I help them more than they could ever help me, they sorta depend on me right now.